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The Vital 3 Do’s and 3 Don’ts for Winning the Heart of a Sagittarius Woman

Sagittarius is the one that never settles down. Is she your girlfriend? Not so fast. She lives for the moment, and she decides when the moment begins or ends.
Everyone has a crush on her, but she never seems to have a boyfriend. The problem with this woman isn’t that she’s oblivious – though she certainly seems that way – but that she just doesn’t care about being paired up. If you want a woman who isn’t going to post a thousand pictures of the two of you on Instagram, you have a winner. If you want a woman who’s going to return your calls, then you have a bit of a challenge on your hands.

Do’s:

1) DO learn to appreciate honesty. Sagittarians are honest to a fault. They don’t have a filter between their mind and their mouth. If you have something between your teeth, she will tell you. If you have a bad haircut, she’ll let you know. She means no harm. After all, there’s no point in pretending that something doesn’t exist when everyone knows it does, and who doesn’t appreciate the truth? The truth, after all, will set you free. She’s perfectly willing to talk about things other women may keep private, so what’s the big deal? Everyone farts, so what’s the problem with owning up to it, at church, with your parents?

2 DO let her eat. Sags love to eat and drink. Abundance and novelty thrills them. Go for Korean, where you get 20 side dishes, or tapas, or something else that has a ton of spices and ingredients. She won’t order a salad, unless it contains octopus and chili peppers. Theoretically, she knows that overeating isn’t good for her, but it feels good right now. Yes, it will catch up with her later, but she thinks she’ll always be young. Take her out and order something delicious so she feels comfortable ordering what she wants. Oh, and let her to pick at your plate and have the olive in your martini.

3) DO give her space. Sagittarius needs to be free to come and free to go. She’s not good at keeping track of dates and times. She avoids routine. She’s also not keen on spending every waking moment with you. She doesn’t need to be physically with someone to reinforce the bond. She feels as she feels, and time and space doesn’t change it. Pouting about being without her tells her that maybe she’s better off without you, because you’re just too needy. If she wants to spend Saturday afternoon walking through the woods, that doesn’t mean she wants you to go with her. She needs space, unstructured time, and opportunity to worry about no one else. Absence makes the heart grow fonder, and the less she sees you, the more new you are.

Don’ts:

1) DON’T try to romance her the traditional way. This philosophical soul appreciates romance for the experience, but you’re not in just because you sent her roses. You could send flowers to a thousand women. You could take a thousand women out to dinner. While she’s perfectly content to talk the night away as the two of you bare your souls, she actually does that all the time. Talking is her thing, and just because you shared your dreams doesn’t mean you had a moment she wants to recreate. Take her out to a sports game or to a museum. She would rather spend a day at the Smithsonian or park than at the mall.

2) DON’T talk about commitments. A Sag woman wanders into commitment. She doesn’t seek it out. If your five-year plan is marriage, a mortgage, and regular promotions, don’t be surprised if her five-year plan is simply being five years older, and maybe a walkabout in the Outback. She doesn’t want to be an accessory to your grand plan. While she thinks it would be nice to have a big, cozy home, the idea of having to slave away at a job to pay the mortgage on that big house sends her into a panic. She needs the freedom to change her mind and the freedom to make up her mind.

3) DON’T try to feminize her. If you want a girl who takes 3 hours to get ready, you don’t want Sagittarius. She doesn’t want to be a Barbie doll. French tips and lifting weights don’t mix. Don’t get her lingerie for her birthday; she knows it’s really for you. Sag women aren’t interested in clothes shopping. Having stuff means having to take care of stuff. She has never been to a dry cleaner. She’s feminine on her own terms, in her own way, without all of the stifling trappings of conventional femininity. If it’s uncomfortable or limits her movement, she’s not wearing it, and you can’t convince her otherwise.

Interested in dating a sagittarius woman?

A Sagittarius woman is full of life and possibilities. This fiery archer has a mind of her own and is an avid explorer. Every day with her can turn into an adventurous ride with her never ending thirst for venturing into something new. If you are dating a Sagittarian woman you should know that you are with an extremely sensitive person who has a unique way of looking into things. She is a palette of vibrant colours with which you can paint your own canvas. She would value an intellectual conversation more than anything else. So to woo her you need to be well aware of many topics and have an analytical mind that can pull off any conversation. She can surprise you any moment with her spark and vivacity. Her soul is calm and the exuberance that she portrays is to keep fuelling her soul with varied experiences. It’s definitely a very special feeling to date a Sagittarian woman as she can help you strive to see the best of life and stay motivated. Her radiance will attract you to her and she would want a partner who is equally fun to hand around with, who has a zeal for the knowing the unknown, who can stimulate her in an interesting way and most importantly who can keep the spark on. She is definitely not the one who can be tamed in a cage. She needs to fly high and keep exploring and she would want a partner who can like the wind help her flight. The chemistry with a Sagittarian woman can be both romantic and yet fiery at the same time. She can be as calm and as wild as the sea. Her idea of life is very vast and you can soak completely in her never ending romantic tales of life.

This archer is a very interesting company in any social gatherings and people can feel an instant connection with her. She can be the centre of attraction and the apple of the eye very easily. Each one of your date with a Sagittarian woman can be the best of roller coaster ride that you have ever come across. More the time you spend with her the more you will understand her philosophy and start loving her for reasons beyond her looks. She would want a deep passionate relationship with a person who has a mind of his own and is extremely loyal and faithful, because she values loyalty above all. As she cannot be tamed so giving her own space becomes very imperative, however you need not worry as she is very loyal and would never cheat. A Sagittarian’s favorite colour is mostly Turquoise and she can be a little materialistic, so be very careful in deciding a gift for her. A romantic holiday on an unexplored terrain might be an interesting gift to woo her than handing her some random flowers and chocolates.

She can gel well with person’s of any zodiac sign because of her spontaneous nature, however a fellow Sagittarian male or a Leo male are known to be the ideal match for this fiery archer.

A Day In The Life of a Sagittarius

Must be exciting, eh? A Sagittarius being one of the most social and fun zodiacs, one would surely expect adventure and parties left and right, day and night, and round the clock. Right? Wrong, actually.

Some Sags find adventure and enough risks at work. Particularly in the boardroom. They can be fierce in handling business deals the same way as they are in life. A lot of Sagittarius can be successful once they learned to sort out their priorities. Once they strip off their suits and ties then the better-known Sagittarius party begins. Sags like rewarding themselves for the hard work they do. I mean, who else would? Adults usually find self-gratification the best way to end the day. It could be a drink or two or an out of town trip over the weekend to sky dive with friends. You never know with these Sags. They can be workaholics but they would know how to have a good time.

Now, as cliches go, no two people are alike and there are always exceptions so don’t expect the same things from every Sagittarius you know. For one, Sags like being unique and strive for a certain … err … uniqueness. But although we know the mighty archer to be active in everything they do (especially those they really put their heart into), don’t be surprised if you meet one who spends the whole day sleeping. Or, okay, half of the day sleeping. It’s not for naught. There’s a story behind the lazy Sunday mornings. Or Saturday mornings. People who says Sagittarius won’t “waste” their day sleeping has, obviously, never partied with a Sagittarius. Since Sags are known party goers they probably spent the whole night clubbing or bar hopping with friends (or new found friends and strangers, really). They’d start drinking at 5 in the afternoon and won’t stop until they see the sun rising again … actually, scratch that. Some won’t stop until they run out of drinks or get thrown out of the bar. Therefore, they have a perfectly good excuse to stay in bed as long as they want (which is usually until they have to get up to party again the night after). Somewhere in between the sleeping and partying, the Sag would also make sure they do things if only to break the monotony. Of course there are errands to do down to the smallest item on their grocery list. This type of Sag would eat only when they get hungry. They’d much rather spend their time finishing off things on their regular to-do list so they can make sure they don’t have to worry about anything when they go meet friends that night.

There are a lot of day to day things that can separate a Sagittarius’ life from others’.  Sags are usually seen as people who never sits idle but that’s because they have a lot of interests and they try to keep up with everything. Again, no two people are the same so although Sags have the same characteristics, they may have different interests the like to pursue.

Sagittarius Career Advice (Part 2)

A lot of people have been leaving comments discussing what career a Sagittarius should pick on the blog Best and Worst Careers for A Sagittarius. Despite numerous advice and a long time of analyzing and contemplating, Sags still have a hard time deciding what career is best for them. If you are one of those Sags that are still looking for THE career you may want to regroup and look at things in a different light.

Landing your ideal career doesn’t always mean you’re going to end up happy doing it. There are various factors to consider when deciding what is ideal. For some it could be something that suits their personality, something that challenges them, and something they love. For others, however, it could just be something that pays good. Of course the best type is still a job that gives you all of the above. In the real world, people mostly pick something with a competitive pay and benefits, even if it makes them miserable. There are ways to avoid this from happening, though. The miserable part, I mean.

The answer? When choosing a career, always pick two. A career doesn’t have to be a job. It could be a hobby that you make a career out of. Again, there are different factors in this. If you already have a job that classifies you as a desk jock and you hate being a desk jock (you’re a Sag for crying out loud!) then pick a hobby you can do on your spare time. Don’t even start to say you don’t have spare time, make some! Again, you’re a Sag, you are known for your ingenuity. If you want to do it, you’ll find a way. Even very busy CEOs find time to sail their boats and go on family trips.

A former co worker who is  a Sag loves to surf and goes to a surf resort not far from the city, he eventually came up with the idea of organizing weekend retreats to the surf resort and offers  a package which includes transportation, accommodations, meals, a tour of the area and a couple hours surf lessons or surf board rental for enthusiasts.

It doesn’t have to be a grand idea. You may start small. It’s all up to you. You like making your own accessories? Make some more and sell it online. You can even sell it to your co workers. Your fellow desk jocks. Alone, this might not make as much as you make working an 8-hour shift but it’s a diversion. You work as a technical writer but finds it boring? Write freelance blogs or try for a novel on your spare time. Who knows? It could be the next NY Times best seller.

Bear in mind that not everyone lands their career of choice. We all have ideal jobs but sometimes it’s a matter of how you look into it. Make your own career. If there’s something a Sag is proud of, it’s grabbing life and knowing how to make the most of it.

Places For A Sagittarius To Travel To In 2013

If there’s one thing that Sags love to do, it’s traveling. You might notice how a lot of Sagittarius people are cultured and wise. These traits are normally attributed to their sign being ruled by the planet Jupiter which is associated with philosophy and the search for truth. But Jupiter is also the planet of freedom and exploration. Traveling gives a person the opportunity to experience different traditions, meet new people of different backgrounds, learn of other’s cultures and, yes, soul-search in the process. Travel helps a Sag develop and mature.

Now, the new year has come and it’s time to make new travel plans but which part of the map will the Archer thrust its arrow? Here’s a list of places we’d recommend you to consider visiting this year … or whenever you’re free, really.

Croatia. Irish playwright George Bernard Shaw once wrote: Those who seek paradise on Earth must come to Dubrovnik. This is a city within Croatia’s Dalmatia region. It is famous for the wall that runs around that city which is almost 2 kilometers and was made to protect the city. Centuries of heritage has given this beautiful city a character of its own. From the rule of the Eastern Roman Empire, to becoming the Republic of Ragusa, to surrendering to the Napoleonic Army and eventually being part of the Nazi’s Independent State of Croatia, Dubrovnik is now nicknamed “The Pearl of the Adriatic”. But if you’re not the type to dwell on history and fancy names, you can just always hang out at the beach and enjoy the weather, food and view that they have to offer. It might be a good idea to go there during its famous Dubrovnik Annual Summer festival that lasts for 45 days and is filled with music, food, concerts and other fun activities, not only for the locals but the tourists as well.  It is held every year between the 10th of July and the 25th of August.

Barbados. Other than the fact that Rihanna is once again the ambassador for tourism for her home country Barbados, it’s really a nice place to visit. It’s mostly famous for the beach resorts but the country also has a number of parks, museums and underground pools and caves that are worth seeing.

Rio de Janeiro, Brazil. In case you want to beat the tourist rush for the 2014 FIFA World Cup and the 2016 Summer Olympics and Paralympics. Make this year the year you visit the famous city.

Vietnam and Thailand. You can either stay in one of their more expensive resorts or backpack and travel from one country to the other by train. Unlike Hong Kong (which is mostly a huge mall) and Singapore (which is mostly a huge theme park), Vietnam and Thailand has some of the most historical and culture-rich sites and friendliest locals to make your stay even better. If you’re adventurous enough you can also try their famous cheap street eats.

Trujillo, Peru or the Dominican Republic. If you’ve read the book “The Brief and Wondrous Life of Oscar Wao” you’d know about these places’ political history. But their heritage is full of even more amazing finds. In Peru they hold the Trujillo Marinera Festival during January so you might want to pack your bags soon. They also have those Moche and Inca ruins that would be great for landscape photography. As for the Dominican Republic, they have great beaches and resorts if you’re tired of Mexico and Cuba. :)

No matter where you decide to go this year, just make sure you try to experience whatever place you go to in the real sense of the word. Don’t just stay within the confines of the hotel or the resort. Go out and meet the people. Eat what the locals eat, where the locals eat. Live their lives (at least as much as you can). This way you don’t only get a relaxing vacation or an unforgettable adventure. You also get to keep memories that staying indoors won’t give you.

New Year’s Resolution a Sagittarius might want to Consider for 2013

It is now December 29, 2012. The world didn’t end as the rabidly fanatics said. The Mayan’s didn’t predict the end of the world. They either simply ran out of material to write on, got lazy to update their calendar, or some other reason that doesn’t have anything to do with the end of the world. Now another year is about to end. This is the season when people mentally writes a list of things they won’t do, or at least avoid to do, in the up and coming new year. Have you made your New Year’s resolution yet? Specifically, you’re the only one who can pinpoint the exact things you need to change (or alter a bit) about yourself but if you need help, here’s what we have to say.

Lay off on the booze. Okay – okay, you don’t have to lay off ’em completely. It’s nice to have a drink or two especially when catching up with friends or just hanging out with co-workers after a long week of hard to beat deadlines in the office. But it’s easy to say “I won’t drink too much tonight” at the beginning of the party than when you’re in the middle of a nice conversation or the dance floor. Sagittarius are big on parties and parties are usually equipped with alcohol. Give yourself a limit of how much you’ll drink at a party. Also, make sure you go on detox once a month. This is important for the younger party goers who drink almost every night. Health studies show that detoxing for a few days once a month is better than doing it in longer periods like laying off the alcohol two months in a row every year.

Pick up on your exercise routine. You may be active and always on the go but all the food and alcohol in the parties you go to will catch up on you eventually. Make sure you hit the gym or do a healthy physical activity at least once a week. Run, take up dance classes, yoga or anything that might interest you. If you’re too busy you can try walk and walk and walk. Also, use the stairs rather than the elevator if you’re only going two or three flights of stairs. Walk, instead of driving if the place you’re going to is only three or four blocks from where you are. It’s good cardio and will help burn calories.

Bring extra tact with you. We’re not saying Sags are tactless but they are known to be blunt and sarcastic and they have the tendency to tell the truth outright. While this is a trait that might help in a lot of circumstances, you might want to consider a person’s feelings and attitude first before you blurt things out. Especially if you don’t know the person that much. You like meeting new people and having friends, right? Well, you can’t keep them if you’re not careful.

There’s always room for a little improvement for the next year but it doesn’t have to be anything drastic. We’re not saying you should change yourself because that’s who you are. Just make sure that whatever you do, you have to try to have fun with it and make sure no one gets hurt in the process. Happy New Year! :)

Your Sagittarius Friend

You’ll find yourself lucky if you land yourself a Sagittarius friend. More than being fun people to hang out with, they have a lot of positive traits that anyone can ever wish for in a friend and a companion.

For one, they are very honest so you can count on them to tell you the truth and not say things just to make you feel better. Most Sags believe that it’s better to bite the bullet now. They will expect the same from you, of course. If they think the dress is ugly or the chick your dating is way out of your league they will say so not to bring you down but to make sure you don’t bad or make a fool out of yourself. You can always prove them wrong and they won’t feel bad about it. They will even feel happy for you and laugh at the fact that they were proven wrong.

They are also great conversationalist so watch out because they may be able to talk you into doing something really naughty just for the heck of it. They like doing fun, spontaneous and crazy things and they like doing these with fun, spontaneous and crazy people.

Sagittarius friends are very supportive of a person’s dreams, projects or any random ideas. If they see you have the passion for it (and Sags can be very passionate people), they will push you and even help you achieve your goal. They are enthusiastic and will plan each step with you. Their lively spirit and enthusiasm can be very infectious and you will need that from a friend when trying to achieve something. They will not stop your plans as they are not jealous people and won’t stop you just so you don’t leave them behind. The way the Archer lifts you up can take you a long way. When you’re feeling down, the Sag will go out of their ways to cheer you up. They’ll bring you to parties, introduce you to people and even do a little retail therapy with you.

For all of these, a Sag doesn’t expect anything in return. They are idealistic people and just like living in a better environment with a better atmosphere. They avoid pressure as much as possible so they try to have fun as much as possible and they can’t do that if the people around them are problematic and gloomy. That and they just generally like to help. They love the feeling of making people smile and helping people. It’s a good feeling that can lift a person up.

In a way, they can be overbearing too. There are Sags who doesn’t just like to listen and cheer you up, there are also those who tend to want to fix it all. Some Sags would take matters in their own hands. If you’re a Sag, keep in mind that not everyone wants this. Sometimes, all you need is a patient ear who listens and a shoulder to cry on. Understand that although this does not solve a problem, there are just problems that aren’t yours to solve and that sometimes, letting a person talk and rant and pour out all their emotions can help them ease their mind and hearts.

How To Communicate With A Sagittarius Man

We’ve read a lot of comments and had a lot of questions about how hard it is to communicate with a Sagittarius man. There are also questions about how to understand a male Sagittarius partner. Technically these two are different and if it’s just communicating per se, you shouldn’t have a problem doing so. Generally, men are hard to communicate with since they’re more quiet than women. You might have a bit more luck with a Sagittarius, though.

Just because the Archer don’t talk as much as any woman does, doesn’t mean he’s hard to communicate with. A male Sagittarius, mostly, has no problem talking about what they want or how they feel. In fact, they welcome this type of … activity. We’ve said it so many times before but we’ll say it again, the Archer prefers to lay his cards on the table. For them, it’s better to prevent awkward situations from happening by simply making sure him and his partner are at the same level of understanding regarding an issue.

The biggest reason why women say they find it hard to communicate with their Sagittarius male partner is because they find it hard to understand them. There is a difference between communicating and understanding. If you look at it this way, the solution, simply, is to level with them.

Try to step into their shoes. If you think you don’t understand them then do you think there maybe a chance that they can’t understand you too? It may be cliche but women do sometimes talk in riddles and some men can be very straightforward and literal. Try to do it their way and lay out everything on the table like they do. Break it down if you must and do it together. This way you know you’ll be on the same level and pace with regards to the issue at hand.

Be patient when doing so. There will be times you may lose each other when trying to analyze some things and may have to back track. Don’t lose your temper. We say things we don’t mean when were angry. Obviously, that won’t help.

Show him you trust him. You’ll be surprised how far trust can take your relationship. Don’t just tell him that, make him feel it too. Give him the benefit of the doubt. Don’t do or say anything harsh that you might regret in the end when it turns out he was telling the truth about something.

Sagittarius men are often misinterpreted. Even if they like to talk about situations and work issues out, their actions can lead another person to think the opposite of what they say. Try to understand that they don’t do this on purpose. Sags don’t mean to hurt anyone especially the one they are with. Their happy-go-luck persona, for example, may give you the notion that they don’t take things, or even you, seriously. But remember, it’s hard to get a Sag into a commitment so being in a relationship with him means something!

 

What A Sagittarius Woman Needs From A Partner

A Sagittarius woman when in love is very straightforward to the point of wearing their hearts on their sleeves. They are passionate lovers and very sincere to their partner. The happy-go-lucky persona won’t disappear completely but they get serious when they feel it’s the right time and they know they’re with the right person. Whatever guy the elusive Sagittarius lady falls for is in for a surprise. You may be showered with candle lit dinners with home-cooked gourmet food, little presents when you wake up in the morning or just a naked woman in your tub with a glass of wine and two tall stemmed glasses in her hands when you get home from a long day at work.

Now, all of these doesn’t come for free. Not that a Sagittarius girl can be bought. She’s one of the most independent souls in the world but as giving as she can be to the love of her life, she has her needs too. Now you, lucky guy that you are, wouldn’t want to ignore these and risk losing the treasure you’ve found. So what does a Sagittarius woman need from her partner?

A whole lotta lovin’. If she can give you that then she deserves to get it back. You might want to upgrade on sweetness because she’d want to have someone to be sweet with. She’d like the phone calls in the middle of the day to ask if she’s had lunch or the occasional showing-up-in-her-office-to-ask-her-to-lunch; flowers would give it a nice touch too. When we say lovin’ it also means you have to upgrade on your lovemaking skills. You’re going to have to think of ways to keep her on her toes and make her want you more. :p

Other activities. There’s no other way to put it. If you think you can use up all her energy in bed, you have a lot to learn about this girl’s stamina. Take her out for a hike, ride your bike, go swim or just do any outdoor sports with her. You get to hit about a dozen birds with one stone on this one like spend time with her, get to know her more, have fun with her or even get some physical activity for yourself as well.

Friendship. A Sagittarius woman likes to share. As much as she loves getting shagged at the end of the day, she’d also want someone to talk to about how her day went at the office, how someone cut her up the line at Starbucks or how her mother always tells her it’s about time to have kids when she doesn’t want one yet.

Me Time. It’s been said over and over that a Sagittarius has a tendency to be “claustrophobic” in a relationship. Don’t smother her with text messages asking where she is or who she’s with. Let her go out with her friends and other people you don’t hang out with. A Sagittarius woman values her independence and likes the idea of living a life outside of the relationship also keeps her on her toes. Trust her to have fun and never forget herself. And you of course.

In some ways, you can say these are things you can do to “keep” your Sagittarius partner but that just sounds selfish. The only way you can get things wrong is thinking that any of these is such a task. If you look at it closely, they’re really just normal stuff any other relationship needs so what have you got to lose? :)

How Sagittarius Attract People

Wherever there’s a crowd, expect a Sagittarius (or a bunch of ’em) hanging around. Sagittarius people like being in the loop and up to date with whatever’s happening, yes, but most of the times, they ARE what’s happening. People actually like being with those ruled by the sign of the archer. They can have more friends imaginable (sometimes even more than they can handle). It’s normal to get envious of so much attention so some may want to take a leaf off the Sagittarius’ book and figure out how they’re so popular. So how do Sagittarius attract people?

Obviously, by attract we don’t just mean a date or towards the opposite sex. Now, if you ask a Sag they probably can’t give you a straight answer. Most of the times they’re not even aware they’re being such crowd magnets. But that may be one of the biggest reasons they’re so successful at doing it.

If anything, a Sagittarius is always true to himself. They never put on a mask for one crowd, a different one for the other and then take them all off when they get home. They’re generally comfortable in their own skins that even though they aim to please anyone, they still don’t have to put on a show. Of course they expect no less from the people around them. They’re never afraid to say what they think and feel and they like to know how others do. It’s easier to gain other’s trust when you are trustworthy too.  People, in general, tend to admire those that are truthful and like to stick to them.

The archers also have a very positive, the-glass-is-half-full attitude and it’s human nature for positive to attract positive. Other positive people wouldn’t want the negative ones to rain on their parade. Not that they never bother about problems and downsides. They may have the happy-go-lucky brand but Sagittarius works through any obstacle they come across. They can be hard workers especially when working towards something they really want.

Now, with positive thinking also comes open mindedness. There are things and situations that will come your way that aren’t black or white but in various shades of grey. If you’re a Sag (or you want to be like a Sag) you’ll know that you need to analyze these things and accept it the way it is or work a way to make it acceptable by your standards. Sagittarius people can be firm in what they believe in but they are also acquainted with the word compromise. You can’t get everything you want in life is a popular phrase and that popular phrase is true. It doesn’t mean, however, that you’re going to stop there. There are other things in life that, you may not realize now, are way better than what you have dreamed of.

It may all sound so simple and easy to say (and it is) but some of these things are actually hard to do. It’s not always easy to attract people you can connect with but don’t let that stop you and bring you down. A real Sagittarius won’t.