When talking to a Sagittarius woman, don’t beat around the bush. Although they’re good with flowery words (both giving and receiving) they like to get the facts about an issue straight. Especially if it’s an important one that needs to be resolved. Most women likes to talk but a lot of them would hold back and hesitate when sharing sensitive issues. Some may even think they’re doing it for the good of their partner or whoever they’re talking to. A Sag girl has always been straight forward and has the “hey here’s the deal, what do we do about it” attitude.

There’s really no problem communicating with a Sagittarius woman. She is very open and vocal about her ideas, her opinions and her feelings. She likes to be heard and would also listen intently if you need an audience. That being said, it’s confusing how they are often misinterpreted even by their partners. That’s because the problem lies on interpretation. Not only of her words but also her actions.

A Sag girl values her independence so, as much as possible, she would do what she wants and she will tell you that. This attitude makes her look selfish and leads one to think that the Sag won’t listen to your reasoning or suggestions. Keep in mind that they are not completely fickle. These independent, come-what-may individuals are the same philosophical and open-minded bunch that wouldn’t hesitate to put their feet in other people’s shoes in order to understand the current situation.

They just have a stubborn streak that makes them think what they’re doing is right or their idea is the right one. But really, who doesn’t? Just tell them outright that the matter is serious and needs to be talked about and thought about thoroughly and she will listen. Sag women are highly intelligent and understands the whole world doesn’t revolve around her.

Also, they don’t like feeling caged in so they don’t like being told what to do. Don’t make her feel that way. Make sure you give her the chance to contemplate on the issue and figure it out on her own. Don’t push your ideas on her. You can say “this is what I think about it” or “this is how i feel about it, what about you?” Value her opinions and feelings and make sure she knows that you do.  Trust that she knows what to do in times of crisis because most of the times, she would. Do not underestimate a Sagittarius’ capability to handle stress and problems. She has a clear mind and keeps a level head most of the time. A matured and developed Sag woman will surprise you with how she can think of a solution that is feasible.

Another thing that may be worthy of note when a guy has issues with his Sag partner. Most women would take offense on this no matter how you put it but for the Sagittarius woman, as long as you are within reason and puts it nicely and sincerely. Hear her out and she will hear you.

A Sagittarius woman when in love is very straightforward to the point of wearing their hearts on their sleeves. They are passionate lovers and very sincere to their partner. The happy-go-lucky persona won’t disappear completely but they get serious when they feel it’s the right time and they know they’re with the right person. Whatever guy the elusive Sagittarius lady falls for is in for a surprise. You may be showered with candle lit dinners with home-cooked gourmet food, little presents when you wake up in the morning or just a naked woman in your tub with a glass of wine and two tall stemmed glasses in her hands when you get home from a long day at work.

Now, all of these doesn’t come for free. Not that a Sagittarius girl can be bought. She’s one of the most independent souls in the world but as giving as she can be to the love of her life, she has her needs too. Now you, lucky guy that you are, wouldn’t want to ignore these and risk losing the treasure you’ve found. So what does a Sagittarius woman need from her partner?

A whole lotta lovin’. If she can give you that then she deserves to get it back. You might want to upgrade on sweetness because she’d want to have someone to be sweet with. She’d like the phone calls in the middle of the day to ask if she’s had lunch or the occasional showing-up-in-her-office-to-ask-her-to-lunch; flowers would give it a nice touch too. When we say lovin’ it also means you have to upgrade on your lovemaking skills. You’re going to have to think of ways to keep her on her toes and make her want you more. :p

Other activities. There’s no other way to put it. If you think you can use up all her energy in bed, you have a lot to learn about this girl’s stamina. Take her out for a hike, ride your bike, go swim or just do any outdoor sports with her. You get to hit about a dozen birds with one stone on this one like spend time with her, get to know her more, have fun with her or even get some physical activity for yourself as well.

Friendship. A Sagittarius woman likes to share. As much as she loves getting shagged at the end of the day, she’d also want someone to talk to about how her day went at the office, how someone cut her up the line at Starbucks or how her mother always tells her it’s about time to have kids when she doesn’t want one yet.

Me Time. It’s been said over and over that a Sagittarius has a tendency to be “claustrophobic” in a relationship. Don’t smother her with text messages asking where she is or who she’s with. Let her go out with her friends and other people you don’t hang out with. A Sagittarius woman values her independence and likes the idea of living a life outside of the relationship also keeps her on her toes. Trust her to have fun and never forget herself. And you of course.

In some ways, you can say these are things you can do to “keep” your Sagittarius partner but that just sounds selfish. The only way you can get things wrong is thinking that any of these is such a task. If you look at it closely, they’re really just normal stuff any other relationship needs so what have you got to lose?

If you are looking to date a Sagittarius, the first thing you want to remember is the Sagittarius woman is very active and adventurous. If you want to turn your attraction for a Sagittarius into something more you will have to be on her level. You will have to learn what to say and be willing to do the things she likes to do. You will attract her with surprise get aways or other things that are out of the conventional scheme of things.

If you want to meet a Sagittarius woman you will need to attend activities that are likely to attract her. Keeping in mind that she is a very active person, you will not likely meet her by taking a walk in the park On the other hand you might find her at a as a participant in various sporting events or even working out at the health club or at the pool. Of course the activities will vary according to the woman, but you can be sure the more active you are, the better your chances are of being able to date a Sagittarius.

In order to make and keep the attention of a Sagittarius woman you cannot be a couch potato. You must be active and willing to go the extra miles to do things that will keep her attention. She will not be wiling to sit in front of the television very often, so don’t expect her to be a homebody. If you’re looking for someone who is content with dinner and a movie, the Sagittarius woman is not for you. On the other hand if you enjoy dinner and dancing you might have good luck being able to date a Sagittarius.

The place you meet a Sagittarius is the best way to gain her attention. If you go to those places she enjoys you will automatically gain her attention. You might meet her in a club if the club has dancing but she is not likely to be comfortable just sitting around and having a conversation with her friends. You are more likely to find her participating in sports activities rather than watching them.

Don’t be surprised if you meet a Sagittarius woman who enjoys playing football or baseball because these activities help keep her conditioned and help her remain active. The faster the pace the more she will enjoy it—tennis, volleyball, skating, bicycling and swimming are all activities she will enjoy. Are you a hiker or mountain climber? You just may be headed in the right direction for knowing what to say to this type of woman.

If your attraction to a Sagittarius woman is making you wonder what you should do and say, show up where she is and participate in some activity in which you see her participating. She needs a partner who can keep up with her, and you can only find out if you are up to the task by diving right in to it.

Normally a Sagittarius woman is the one who seduces a man. That’s because she likes the challenge. Sagittarians are full of ideas and are always positive about them so expect some pretty irresistible tricks from her. However, if you have been with Sagittarius women I’m sure you wouldn’t want to wait until she notices and seduces you. You have to take action as these fun-filled, lovers of life will not stay single forever. First things first, get to know her different sides; what she likes and not and try to work on it.

The Intellectual Sagittarian. Your main task would be to keep her mind stimulated. She is definitely not a dumb babe so don’t treat her like one! Sagittarians are the intellectual type and you might be surprised to realize you’re the one trying to keep up with how her brain works. She can talk about anything from politics, gas prices, law, traveling, traditions and exchange rate to the latest celebrity gossip, best salons and the price of a lemon. Not only that, she gets bored easily so you need to constantly think of new things to talk about or discuss or her eyes and ears would end up slipping somewhere else. Use your wit and intellect in seducing her. Be humorous and crack jokes. If you can make her laugh then keep going because you’re on the right track.

The Materialistic Sagittarian. At times a Sagittarius female will seem high maintenance. And she could be. Sagittarians love fun and adventure, traveling and sports. One way to seduce this side of her is to take her to trips and cruises away from her usual scenery. Go to a deserted island resort or book a few days stay on a luxury ship. This will blow her mind away. She knows how to appreciate the good things in life. Luxurious hotels, exotic restaurants and high end night clubs will be every appealing to her. Little tokens to show her how you appreciate her or a bouquet of flowers delivered in her office for everyone to see will surely get more than her attention.

The Simple Sagittarian and Sporty. Although she can be materialistic, the Sagittarius woman also values simple things. A Sagittarian when in love is very romantic. Camping out is a good activity to do with her. It’s something that will challenge her and make her sweat at the same time feel romantic because it’s just the two of you in the woods for the night. Bring a double sleeping bag because a Sagittarian is naughty and likes the idea of making love in the great outdoors. On a regular weekend, try staying in to cook for her and watch a DVD. Surprise her by planning a pillow fight but make it look spontaneous for added fun. Or chase her around the bedroom and make sure you end up in bed (or the kitchen counter if you must).

Now for a few DON’Ts. A Sagittarian values independence. Yes she’s a woman but don’t try to stop her for paying the bill at the restaurant. There’s no reason why she can’t do so. This does not mean you should let her pay all the time though. It’s just a way for her to feel you are equal. Also refrain from being to showy in public. Yes a Sagittarian is game for some quick fun in the men’s room but that is different from being mushy and clingy.

A Sagittarius woman will be easy to persuade as long as she’s in to you. Keep that in mind by the time you get into the actual seducing you might find you don’t need to do it anymore.