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What to do if a Sagittarius doesnt return your calls or texts

Do’s and Don’t When Sagittarius Doesn’t Call or Text Back

Sagittarius is a love ’em and leave ’em sign, but this isn’t malicious. Sagittarius is romantic, in a sense, an idealistic one in which they may fall in love in the moment and feel that it’s real, and then fall out of love shortly after, and feel that that’s real, too. Sagittarius can create and be swept up in a romantic and erotic fervor that begins as quickly as it ends. It doesn’t want to commit. Yes, it eventually wants to meet that special someone, somehow, somewhere, but it takes a while.

Sagittarius is oblivious. It doesn’t know when someone likes them first or likes them back unless they’re explicitly told. Archers aren’t very good with maintaining lines of communication. They will write, call, or text back, but they may not reach out to you first.

If you want to reopen the lines of communication with Sagittarius, here are things you should and shouldn’t do:

DO:

Text or call to see how they’re doing. You may have been abandoned, but it’s also possible that something else came up and Sagittarius isn’t contacting you because they’re pressed for time and assume that if you haven’t reached out, the relationship may not be that important to you.

Of course, Sagittarius is gregarious, but Archers of both genders prefer to handle their problems alone and not reach out. They may have had trouble with being taken seriously by others when they reached out in the past. Thus, they may not be contacting you because they’re dealing with some hard stuff right now and could use a friend, but isn’t reaching for one.

Move on with your life. Sagittarius doesn’t need constant contact with someone to maintain feelings of love or friendship. They can meet an old childhood friend they haven’t spoken to in 20 years and pick right up as if nothing happened. A few days or weeks without contact doesn’t mean anything to Sagittarius. They may very well still feel the same and expect you to feel the same, too.

With that being said, if Sagittarius isn’t all over you trying to get your attention, then it’s safe to assume that you’re free to do as you please. You can date other people. You can go out with your friends. You can choose to be unavailable when and if they eventually call. However, keep in mind that Sagittarius doesn’t quite do or get passive-aggressive behavior that includes the silent treatment, so don’t expect them to get the hint right away.

Be positive when you see them again and don’t take it personally. There’s a good chance that the reason Sagittarius has been away has nothing to do with you. However, Sagittarius doesn’t need to be reminded of you to know that they like you. If they’re friendly as if nothing has happened, then understand that they actually don’t think anything happened, and now is as good a time as any to catch up and tell each other about the adventures you both had after you last spoke.

DON’T:

Have a meltdown and/or accuse them of abandoning you. One of the easiest ways to lose a Sagittarius is to become possessive. Whether it’s romance or friendship, Sagittarius must be free to come and free to go if you want them to stay. Trying to make them feel obligated for your wellbeing makes it less likely that they’ll contact you in the future. They may even shrug and block your number so you can’t contact them anymore.

The Archer isn’t really a fighter. They may discuss it, but they won’t argue with you about where they’ve been for the last two weeks, especially in a new relationship. Hell – did they demand to know where you’ve been all this time, have they?

Stalk them or send other people to intervene on your behalf. Again, the Archer doesn’t appreciate your efforts to pin them down, and you putting them in a position to explain themselves to you immediately, or to a third party will pretty much guarantee that you’ll be one of the few people who actually ends up on a Sagittarius’s shit list.

While Sagittarius isn’t an intensely private person, being compelled to treat someone they don’t even know as an authority is an affront to their sense of freedom. If they’re not legally obligated to send a smiley back when you text, then they shouldn’t have to explain that to someone else at a time inconvenient for them.

Create drama to induce them to call or text you. Sure, if they find out that your mom just went to the hospital, they will contact you to see if you’re okay. If they find out that your mom is at home and she just has a cold, you’ve basically lost Sagittarius. They want to trust you. They’re naturally trusting people. However, if you break that trust, then you’ll never get it again.

Also, on that note: don’t try to make them jealous. Sagittarius doesn’t really get jealous. If you get upset and send a picture of yourself with a different man or woman to get a rise out of them, Sagittarius is not going to call your bluff. They’ll just think that you’ve moved on, and there is no need to keep your phone number in their phone anymore. Or, they’ll think you’re petty, and they’ll pat themselves on the back for managing to avoid someone as unhinged as you.

How to win and lose a sagittarius woman.

The Vital 3 Do’s and 3 Don’ts for Winning the Heart of a Sagittarius Woman

Sagittarius is the one that never settles down. Is she your girlfriend? Not so fast. She lives for the moment, and she decides when the moment begins or ends.
Everyone has a crush on her, but she never seems to have a boyfriend. The problem with this woman isn’t that she’s oblivious – though she certainly seems that way – but that she just doesn’t care about being paired up. If you want a woman who isn’t going to post a thousand pictures of the two of you on Instagram, you have a winner. If you want a woman who’s going to return your calls, then you have a bit of a challenge on your hands.

Do’s:

1) DO learn to appreciate honesty. Sagittarians are honest to a fault. They don’t have a filter between their mind and their mouth. If you have something between your teeth, she will tell you. If you have a bad haircut, she’ll let you know. She means no harm. After all, there’s no point in pretending that something doesn’t exist when everyone knows it does, and who doesn’t appreciate the truth? The truth, after all, will set you free. She’s perfectly willing to talk about things other women may keep private, so what’s the big deal? Everyone farts, so what’s the problem with owning up to it, at church, with your parents?

2 DO let her eat. Sags love to eat and drink. Abundance and novelty thrills them. Go for Korean, where you get 20 side dishes, or tapas, or something else that has a ton of spices and ingredients. She won’t order a salad, unless it contains octopus and chili peppers. Theoretically, she knows that overeating isn’t good for her, but it feels good right now. Yes, it will catch up with her later, but she thinks she’ll always be young. Take her out and order something delicious so she feels comfortable ordering what she wants. Oh, and let her to pick at your plate and have the olive in your martini.

3) DO give her space. Sagittarius needs to be free to come and free to go. She’s not good at keeping track of dates and times. She avoids routine. She’s also not keen on spending every waking moment with you. She doesn’t need to be physically with someone to reinforce the bond. She feels as she feels, and time and space doesn’t change it. Pouting about being without her tells her that maybe she’s better off without you, because you’re just too needy. If she wants to spend Saturday afternoon walking through the woods, that doesn’t mean she wants you to go with her. She needs space, unstructured time, and opportunity to worry about no one else. Absence makes the heart grow fonder, and the less she sees you, the more new you are.

Don’ts:

1) DON’T try to romance her the traditional way. This philosophical soul appreciates romance for the experience, but you’re not in just because you sent her roses. You could send flowers to a thousand women. You could take a thousand women out to dinner. While she’s perfectly content to talk the night away as the two of you bare your souls, she actually does that all the time. Talking is her thing, and just because you shared your dreams doesn’t mean you had a moment she wants to recreate. Take her out to a sports game or to a museum. She would rather spend a day at the Smithsonian or park than at the mall.

2) DON’T talk about commitments. A Sag woman wanders into commitment. She doesn’t seek it out. If your five-year plan is marriage, a mortgage, and regular promotions, don’t be surprised if her five-year plan is simply being five years older, and maybe a walkabout in the Outback. She doesn’t want to be an accessory to your grand plan. While she thinks it would be nice to have a big, cozy home, the idea of having to slave away at a job to pay the mortgage on that big house sends her into a panic. She needs the freedom to change her mind and the freedom to make up her mind.

3) DON’T try to feminize her. If you want a girl who takes 3 hours to get ready, you don’t want Sagittarius. She doesn’t want to be a Barbie doll. French tips and lifting weights don’t mix. Don’t get her lingerie for her birthday; she knows it’s really for you. Sag women aren’t interested in clothes shopping. Having stuff means having to take care of stuff. She has never been to a dry cleaner. She’s feminine on her own terms, in her own way, without all of the stifling trappings of conventional femininity. If it’s uncomfortable or limits her movement, she’s not wearing it, and you can’t convince her otherwise.

What Happens When You Hurt A Sagittarius

Those under the Sagittarius sign are probably the easiest to get along with because they don’t like to pretend they’re somebody else to please the people around them. Yes they take pleasure at making people laugh (and who doesn’t) and sometimes they may go out of the way to accommodate friends but only if the favors doesn’t clash with their principles and, more importantly, their schedule.

First off, Sagittarius people are hard to piss off. They have a pretty good sense of humor which can be dry and sarcastic so they know how to handle a joke when it’s thrown at them. They can also be callous without intending to be and as intelligent as they are, they can be dense when it comes to other people’s feelings so you need to spell it out for them. A Sag is usually seen as a very happy-go-lucky and come-what-may person but they also know how to get serious in life. They just don’t like getting stressed all the time. All that said, it doesn’t mean they don’t know how to get angry or sad. It just takes a lot for them to get hurt because they’re not very sensitive like the water signs for example. They like to live life and doesn’t sweat the small stuff.

Now, you know what they say about what could happen when the other shoe drops? It’s not that true with most Sags. They are mutable signs and learn how to adapt easily. They get hurt but they have the sense not to dwell on the negative things that happen to them or around them. This is one of the strengths of the Archer. They learn to shun out the negative people and things in their lives and charge it to experience so, although they are seen as careless when they’re young, they mature to be strong and wise individuals. They are good at learning from experiences and they only use it to make their next actions better. Now, whether they forgive you or not depends on the level of the damage you made. Telling them their dress looks awful probably won’t affect them too much. She’ll ponder on it for a couple hours but will also either immediately try to think of a way to remedy the situation or think of a nice come back to make the conversation lighter and funny instead of insulting. However, it could take a Sag relatively longer to get over things if you cheat on them. They may even make a scene upon finding out but they will learn to let go eventually and even sooner than you would expect but don’t think they’d readily take you back. When Sags let go, they let go completely. They’re not the most patient person when it comes to fixing broken things. They’d much rather look for something new to replace the last one. It’s just too messy and too much trouble for them. Although they are very forgiving and probably let the things you do slide most of the times, they are still human and there will come a time they’re going to say enough is enough.

Weight Loss Tips For Sagittarius Women

Unlike Sagittarius men, the female archer are more vain and want to look their best all the time.  That doesn’t make them anymore committed than the men of their sign, though. Yes they go long ways to pick a dress and take time doing their make up. Physical appearance is a big deal for them so they make sure they are, at the very least, presentable. In return, they like their men and other people around them to be in shape. It’s the long term physical and emotional commitment to staying healthy can be boring for the ever adventurous Sag.

Counting calories is going to be hard mostly because Sags are party people. The lowest calorie you can get from one cocktail drink is 85 to 100 which is from a Bloody Mary. Margaritas have 180 to 200 calories per serving and you know pretty well it’s not fun to drink just one of those. Beer calories range from 90 up to 300 calories per bottle depending on the brand. Try to limit your alcohol intake not just for weight loss but also for health reasons. Your best bet would be wines which ranges from 80 to 200 calories a glass and having a couple should be enough.

The biggest problem a Sag female faces when they’re trying to loose weight is that they tend to take a lot of stuff at the same time that it’s hard to keep up with the schedule especially if it’s a strict weight loss program. Sagittarius, by nature, likes to do one thing after another to keep them entertained. They get bored easy so it’s only rational for them to think of things to do even if they’re not done with the first task yet. Being idle is not an option. If you’re a Sag female try to clear your schedule a little bit. Don’t start your dance lessons the same day you’re supposed to run errands or enroll on a weight loss program the day you’re starting a new job. It’s either you won’t know how tiring one thing can be or how much time one thing will take. play it safe and don’t hog all the activities. There is a right time for everything so organize, organize, organize!

In choosing activities you might want to steer clear from hardcore work out programs since, again, it might not go well with your hectic and social schedule. Sags also find routines boring so there’s a tendency you’ll get tired one day and just walk away from it completely. Pick a physical activity that interests you. Take dance lessons. Street dance and pole dancing are in fashion these days. They’re also sure to make you sweat and shape and tone your bodies in the right places. If you like the outdoors, swimming is a good sport to take. It helps exercise not just your arms and legs but also your lungs. Biking, tennis, golf and of course there’s good old jogging at the park.

The good thing about Sagittarius women is that they are very enthusiastic and are positive thinkers and when they tell themselves they want to achieve something, they go for it. There’s tons of fun physical activities to choose from. All you need to do is be creative about it and make it suit your moods.

Dating the Sagittarius Lesbian

You can fully expect your lesbian Sagittarius lover to be the life of any party, what with her infectious laughter, high level of energy, and fun-loving nature. While this could mean constant entertainment and a lively dating relationship for you, bear in mind that Sagittarians in general value their independence. So go easy on trying to rope her in a committed relationship after just a couple of dates. That could scare her off and make her disappear faster than a speeding bullet (or arrow, in her case)!

She also loves travelling, so be prepared to be physically away from her every now and then. When this happens, it’s okay to call, email, or send her text messages…once in a while. It is NOT okay to bombard her with cutesy “I miss you” messages bordering on despair every time you feel the urge. She will not like that at all.

When in bed with her, you can look forward to your Sagittarius Sapphic sweetheart using philosophy as pillow talk, mixed with a bit of sexuality and romance. Hers is a highly evolved mind borne out of reading plenty of books and always wanting to explore new horizons. However, this doesn’t mean that she’s an absolute bore in bed. Remember that vast store of energy we mentioned in the first paragraph? That can translate quite well on the bedroom front. Just remember that Sagittarius girls’ erogenous zones are located on their hips and thighs, be experimental and creative with foreplay, and you’re good to go (or come).

As for communicating with her, be prepared for moments when your Sagittarius can get blunt as a spoon. She’s pretty upfront about things, and is sometimes too-ready to give a piece of her mind when needed. Tact isn’t one of her best traits. So if you’re one to fish for compliments and beat around the bush, forget it. To a Sagittarian, you have to be deserving of a compliment to get one.

Lastly, if you’d rather sit at home and watch television, don’t expect that attractive Sagittarius lesbian to fall head over heels for you. They dislike being inactive. In fact, even when you’re relatively athletic-minded, you might find that you need to step up the game when you’re dating a Sagittarius. Always remember that theirs is one of the most physical signs in the Zodiac. If you move too slowly, lead a sedentary lifestyle, don’t have a gym membership, or only own shoes with thin stiletto heels, chances are you won’t rate too high on the Sagittarius date-o-meter.

Those being said, don’t feel too intimidated with these traits. While a lesbian Sagittarian may embody the lone huntress in accordance with her sign of The Archer, it’s still highly possible for her to fall hard for someone. She just puts a high premium on independence, and prizes it even on the women she dates. So keep those in mind once you set your sights on a particular Sagittarius lesbian. Be attractive, be interesting, be energetic, and be self-supporting, and she’ll have a hard time resisting you!

Where can I meet a Sagittarius woman?

If you are looking to date a Sagittarius, the first thing you want to remember is the Sagittarius woman is very active and adventurous. If you want to turn your attraction for a Sagittarius into something more you will have to be on her level. You will have to learn what to say and be willing to do the things she likes to do. You will attract her with surprise get aways or other things that are out of the conventional scheme of things.

If you want to meet a Sagittarius woman you will need to attend activities that are likely to attract her. Keeping in mind that she is a very active person, you will not likely meet her by taking a walk in the park On the other hand you might find her at a as a participant in various sporting events or even working out at the health club or at the pool. Of course the activities will vary according to the woman, but you can be sure the more active you are, the better your chances are of being able to date a Sagittarius.

In order to make and keep the attention of a Sagittarius woman you cannot be a couch potato. You must be active and willing to go the extra miles to do things that will keep her attention. She will not be wiling to sit in front of the television very often, so don’t expect her to be a homebody. If you’re looking for someone who is content with dinner and a movie, the Sagittarius woman is not for you. On the other hand if you enjoy dinner and dancing you might have good luck being able to date a Sagittarius.

The place you meet a Sagittarius is the best way to gain her attention. If you go to those places she enjoys you will automatically gain her attention. You might meet her in a club if the club has dancing but she is not likely to be comfortable just sitting around and having a conversation with her friends. You are more likely to find her participating in sports activities rather than watching them.

Don’t be surprised if you meet a Sagittarius woman who enjoys playing football or baseball because these activities help keep her conditioned and help her remain active. The faster the pace the more she will enjoy it—tennis, volleyball, skating, bicycling and swimming are all activities she will enjoy. Are you a hiker or mountain climber? You just may be headed in the right direction for knowing what to say to this type of woman.

If your attraction to a Sagittarius woman is making you wonder what you should do and say, show up where she is and participate in some activity in which you see her participating. She needs a partner who can keep up with her, and you can only find out if you are up to the task by diving right in to it.