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The Sensual Sagittarius: Understanding Yourself

The Sagittarius might be the ultimate alpha male, being represented by the Centaur or Archer, but that doesn’t mean he wants to have everything his way. He’s always willing to try something new, especially in bed, meaning he can be the student anytime if promised a good time. You’re ultimate satisfaction shouldn’t rely only on your partner, though. A Sag must understand not just his partner but also himself to be able to satiate both their needs. It is a two-way process, anyway. As a Sag, you should know you are one of the more sensual sign on the zodiac wheel so live up to it! More importantly, use it to your own advantage.

You’re a head turner. It could be because your charisma is naturally strong and you exude confidence and positive aura wherever you go. You may not be very secretive or mysterious but you have that hypnotizing glance that you, at times, aren’t even aware of. You need to read body language and know if the opposite sex is already giving the come-on. This shouldn’t be a problem since, naturally, you like to read between the lines.

You are very passionate, enthusiastic and energetic. You give everything you have in any project you get associated with … until you get bored. Your enthusiasm is contagious. Everyone around you wants a piece of it so don’t be surprised if you get swarmed with admirers at a party or an event. Just make sure whoever you go home with

You like to go big. All pun unabashedly intended but let’s not stick to those details. You may be seen as callous at times or even indifferent but when you want to seduce someone you go all out. Candles, home cooked dinner (yes, even the male sags will do that, romantic huh?), massages and stolen kisses. You are also generous which is a big plus. Just don’t overdo it and before you know it, the lucky one you made dinner for would be eating (dessert?) out of your hands.

You don’t like to just “get by”. Meaning you don’t settle for just enough. You want it all! Even if you’re very generous you secretly want to dominate your partner and see how it feels to have total control. You’re not shy but you’re sometimes scared you might turn them off. Don’t be. You won’t know until you asked … well until they tell you first what they want. But be open and ask them what they want and don’t want. Don’t just do whatever it is that you already know. You love the attention so you’d want to end up playing with someone who doesn’t mind being submissive once in a while, anyway. Don’t waste your time trying to please people if you want to be the one to be pleased.

You enjoy being teased but like to tease too! You’re one of the most teasing individual of all signs that’s why you like those stolen kisses which leaves your partner wanting for more. If you’re in the mood to be dominated keep on doing that and your partner will not be able to hold on for long. He or she will be all over you in no time.

Weight Loss Tips For Sagittarius Women

Unlike Sagittarius men, the female archer are more vain and want to look their best all the time.  That doesn’t make them anymore committed than the men of their sign, though. Yes they go long ways to pick a dress and take time doing their make up. Physical appearance is a big deal for them so they make sure they are, at the very least, presentable. In return, they like their men and other people around them to be in shape. It’s the long term physical and emotional commitment to staying healthy can be boring for the ever adventurous Sag.

Counting calories is going to be hard mostly because Sags are party people. The lowest calorie you can get from one cocktail drink is 85 to 100 which is from a Bloody Mary. Margaritas have 180 to 200 calories per serving and you know pretty well it’s not fun to drink just one of those. Beer calories range from 90 up to 300 calories per bottle depending on the brand. Try to limit your alcohol intake not just for weight loss but also for health reasons. Your best bet would be wines which ranges from 80 to 200 calories a glass and having a couple should be enough.

The biggest problem a Sag female faces when they’re trying to loose weight is that they tend to take a lot of stuff at the same time that it’s hard to keep up with the schedule especially if it’s a strict weight loss program. Sagittarius, by nature, likes to do one thing after another to keep them entertained. They get bored easy so it’s only rational for them to think of things to do even if they’re not done with the first task yet. Being idle is not an option. If you’re a Sag female try to clear your schedule a little bit. Don’t start your dance lessons the same day you’re supposed to run errands or enroll on a weight loss program the day you’re starting a new job. It’s either you won’t know how tiring one thing can be or how much time one thing will take. play it safe and don’t hog all the activities. There is a right time for everything so organize, organize, organize!

In choosing activities you might want to steer clear from hardcore work out programs since, again, it might not go well with your hectic and social schedule. Sags also find routines boring so there’s a tendency you’ll get tired one day and just walk away from it completely. Pick a physical activity that interests you. Take dance lessons. Street dance and pole dancing are in fashion these days. They’re also sure to make you sweat and shape and tone your bodies in the right places. If you like the outdoors, swimming is a good sport to take. It helps exercise not just your arms and legs but also your lungs. Biking, tennis, golf and of course there’s good old jogging at the park.

The good thing about Sagittarius women is that they are very enthusiastic and are positive thinkers and when they tell themselves they want to achieve something, they go for it. There’s tons of fun physical activities to choose from. All you need to do is be creative about it and make it suit your moods.

A Healthy Lifestyle For The Sagittarius Male

Sagittarius men aren’t the most vain people on the zodiac wheel but they often come attractive because of the x-factor they posses. They are very intellectual and oozing with self confidence and we all know girls just love an alpha male. These men work hard but party harder. They can drink all night and all weekend without a care in the world. Alcohol and cigarettes are part of their daily diet. It might be safe to say they have the most unhealthy lifestyle among other zodiacs so some might wonder how most of them stay oh so irresistible. Some can be lucky to posses slim bodies and don’t gain weight easy but that doesn’t mean they’re healthy. An unhealthy diet will take its toll sooner or later so if you want to stay a head turner you might want to sort out your priorities a little bit and start living a little healthier.

Since Sags are very physical and usually always on the go, a nice start to a healthy routine is good exercise. You don’t have to plan a 5-hour daily work out program and get bored inside the gym (unless there’s a hot number you like to watch in there while working out). The problem with a Sag is that they lack commitment, not just in relationships. If it’s a regular work out program then 8 out of 10 times, a Sag will miss their  session. Sagittarius male likes going with the flow. They fail to follow routines either because they forget it or just too stubborn to be part of a system. They like to feel free, that they can do whatever they want, whenever and wherever they want so keeping them tied up to a plan won’t work. Like everything else, a Sagittarius guy likes to have fun while working out so the solution here is to make his work out fun. Sags like exploring and going out so jogging in the morning or late afternoon can be a good alternative. It beats a treadmill anytime. Taking a walk or hiking on weekends can also be fun but if you’re after something that you want to enjoy to the fullest then pick a sport you’re really into. It could be golf or tennis but if you believe in what they say that more is merrier then go look for basketball or baseball buddies. I’m sure it won’t be hard because Sags have a ton of acquaintances if not friends. They are very approachable and fun loving that people just love being with them. Extreme sports are on the list too. Mountain or rock climbing is something a Sag will try if only for the adrenaline.

Same goes with their diet. Don’t make them try to loose weight or stay fit by making them count calories or measure the portion of food they take. It just won’t work out that way. Try giving them new food to try instead. Consult a nutritionist and ask for interesting dishes to include in the diet. Something good for the liver since Sags have a tendency to drink a lot.

A good thing about Sags is that they are very determined people and if they set their minds on to something they actually achieve it. They are positive thinkers so it only takes a bit of encouragement and challenging (since they love to take risks) and they’d be back on track to a healthy lifestyle.

The Sagittarius Bride

Who wouldn’t want to see this funny, adventurous and sophisticated woman walk through the aisle towards him in a beautiful gown on their wedding day? The Sagittarius becoming a bride is a dream come true for a lot of men so if you get this chance you might want to give it your best because you know she deserves it.

Weddings need a lot of work and exerted effort but for the Sagittarius bride, it should be the same as the rest of her life … sophisticated, fashionable and, as much as possible, with a hint of adventure. If you’re a Sag and wants your whole persona to show on your wedding day or if you’re planning a wedding for a Sag, you have to consider a few simple things about her character.

Sags are friendly so, naturally, they have a lot of acquaintances. The Sag is very accommodating and like being friends with people from different walks of life. On the wedding day, they might not have a long guest list but be sure to expect a variety of people. You need to think of a concept that will be suitable for everyone. Maybe something that will break the ice so people who just met that day can have something to start talking about other than the bride and groom.

In picking a motif, think of bright colors like sapphire or gold or a shade of amber. Something lively but not too shocking that it would hurt the eyes. Bright colors will bring out the energy and enthusiasm the Sag bride posses. Pick something buoyant and sophisticated. A Sag is well educated and classy and that should show on her wedding motif.

The Sag is a stickler for breaking rules. They like to push things to the limit starting with small things so while the bridal gown should be as beautiful and regal as she is, you might want to add a bit more spice to it. White gowns are classic but you could throw in a hint of whatever her motif is. Maybe a ribbon / belt around her waist or a floral head dress. If you want an all white gown you can make a contrast with a colorful bouquet instead. Try sunflowers or bright colored Gerbera rather than the usual roses and tulips. Gerbera comes in so many colors you’ll have a hard time picking and the sunflower just looks fun and may even shock the people attending.

Of course the wedding doesn’t stop at the church (or wherever you want it done) or the reception. Probably the most sought after part of that occasion is the beginning of the honeymoon. Sags are wanderlust people. An exotic place would be the best to take the Sag bride for a honeymoon. Jordan, Marrakech and Egypt are good if you want places with a rich culture. Asia is very exotic and fun. Head to Europe if you’re after the history of the place. Of course Maldives, Bahamas and Hawaii are always great destinations if you want to soak in the sun.

Sagittarius Sexual Compatibility

In love, career, finances and practicality, the perfect partner for a Sagittarius are the signs that are compatible with theirs. So that narrows it down to either an Aries or a Leo. But hey, the archers are a spontaneous bunch and won’t judge a book by its cover (if you know what I mean). Besides a Sag is not the type to be boxed in and they like bending rules anyway so they won’t really take that too seriously.

Speaking of rules, a Sag might not just bend some in bed but even break it. They will push to see what their (and their partner’s) limit is. They don’t like routine so they improvise and experiment. He is likely to participate in things considered as taboo like bondage or voyeurism, among other things. If he’s not into it he’d try it out just for the heck of it. They get bored easy so in a relationship, it is advisable for their partner to consider role playing, swinging or at least use sex toys. Those will definitely spice up the sex life. They want adventure and change and it’s no different in bed. If you’re not ready to do this then you are risking the chance of losing your Sag partner. Then again the archer doesn’t really need any sort of serious relationship just to jump in bed with you. All you have to do is to seduce him / her and you’ll find yourself sharing their pillow (for further details read the other tips on seducing a Sag, lol). Here’s a general overview of what each signs sexual relationship with a Sag can be.

SO, an Aries can be a perfect partner, mostly because Aries are the go-with-the-flow type. Although, generally, they can be shy in bed, they won’t mind trying out things that the Sag suggests.

A Taurus might be too serious for a Sag but they are also sensual. They are attracted to a Sag’s independence and intelligence. They might clash in a few things but a roll on the hay is definitely worth a try.

Gemini, another air sign, will know where to blow (pun not intended, maybe just a little). They will love Sag as they both like spontaneity and doesn’t like being caged in. The sexual attraction between these two social butterflies will be inevitable and it may even turn into something a bit more serious.

Cancer is a bit too moody for a Sag and this water sign tends to put out the fire. They might have a passionate one night stand or a short affair, at best. If a Cancer can’t understand the archer’s need for a fun, drama free companion form time to time there is little to no chance they can continue the affair.

Leo and Sagittarius? Three words … Get A Room! Both fire signs, these two will burn the house down (in a good way) when they meet. It’s only a matter of mutual understanding for this relationship to go beyond sexual. A Leo is very open to one night stands which is okay for a Sag but the latter might want more than just one night without he lion.

Virgos play around a lot but they are sexual and romantic the Sag might want to keep them. Virgos are a keeper. They, normally, already know what they want and they will tell you but it won’t stop them from experimenting either. Just for the heck of it.

Libras are as flirtatious and social as a Sag. They are as sexual too. A one night stand could easily turn into a an affair and even more.

A Scorpio is one of the most sexual signs so it will be an adventure for the Sag. They can be sex partners but the Scorpio usually wants more than that so if these two are friends they might want avoid going there. One night stands between them will be explosive though.

Sagittarius and Sagittarius? Need I say more?

Capricorns might look prude or too boxed in on the outside but they can be the best sex partners a Sag can have. Capricorns are willing to learn but most of the times they already know what there is. Although emotionally they are not compatible, a Capricorn knows how to rock Sags world.

Aquarius and Sagittarius are an exciting pair. They both love having fun in and out of the bedroom and they don’t like rushing into things. This love affair (or sexual affair if you must) can last a long time and eventually lead into something more serious.

Like Cancer, a Pisces might be too emotional for a Sag. Sexually Pisces can be erotic and very sensual. They will have fun with the Sag but not for long. The problem is that they won’t tolerate a Sag’s flirty nature.

What Type Of Sagittarius Are You?

The Sagittarius typecast is that they are often extroverted and crazy party goers. They like to have fun above everything else and are not very big on commitment. Not all Sagittarius are the same, though. Some Sags can be the opposite of what they are known for so, naturally, they can also be introverted and shy. That can make things a bit more complicated if you want a shot a specific Sag and are trying to figure out how to act around them by consulting the stars. If people can only be defined by their zodiacs the world would be a better place. Heh. Of course we can always try to do something about it. The easiest explanation is the day or week the person is born. So let’s look at each of those.

A bit of info first, Sagittarius people are those born from November 22 to December 21. There is the thing called a cusp, though. This is the first and last few days of the zodiac that they share with the other 2 zodiacs before and after them. So in this case, Scorpio (before Sag) and Capricorn (after Sag). People born anytime during November 19 to 24 are a Scorpio – Sagittarius cusp so they characteristics of both signs and those born on December 19 to 25 are Sagittarius – Capricorn cusp. Moving on …

The first week (November 19-24) is the week of Revolution. This is sort of the turn around time. It is when?things are developing into something else. Again, people born on these dates share some Scorpio and some Sagittarius characteristics. The strengths or most outstanding characteristics of people born on these dates are their loyalty (so yes, Sagittarius people can commit too!), gutsy (their love for taking risks) and the way they are usually ecstatic and full of energy. These are the more quiet type of Sagittarius.

The second week pertains to the week of Independence. These are people born on November 25 – December 2. They are the more responsible type of Sagittarius. Honor is a big thing for them and they are the type that tries everything to prove themselves. They take care of themselves and do not depend on anyone to look after them and although Sagittarius are usually seen as selfish, they can be intuitive too and sensitive to others feelings. They are very much capable of taking care of their loved ones.

Week three is the week of the Originator. These are the talented and creative type of Sagittarius. They can come off as unusual but that is the ingenious that is in them. They posses a passion for arts and every beautiful things around them and can come up with great ideas no matter if it’s for work or just something they want to do for fun. This week is from December 3 to 10.

The week of the Titan is the fourth week so think big! The most common characteristics of people born on December 11 to 18 is their confident nature. They know confidence can make them get better results in things they do. They have ambitions and they try to reach for it. At the same time they try not to forget people that have helped them along they way. They also have a big heart and try to help other people who are trying to reach their own goals.

The last week which is also a cusp is the cusp of prophecy. From December 19 to 25 these people can be quiet like the Scorpio – Sag cusp but they are more of observers and psychics. They are very intuitive and try to understand things but people finds it hard to do the same to them. They are inscrutable and are somewhat mysterious.

So there you have it, a little more insight into the Sagittarius people.

Sagittarius male and marriage, will he ever settle down?

Well the straight up answer is, YES, he will. Most people decide to get married and settle down eventually. A Sagittarius male just tends to do so later than most people. For him, the term “marriage” alone is alarming. It can make him sweat more than when he’s inside the sauna. They like to flirt a lot and tying the knot will put and end to that. At least with other woman other than the bride.

One reason why they don’t marry at the usual “marrying age” is because most Sagittarius needs to find themselves first. They know how to have fun and how to give a good time but that doesn’t mean they know how to stay happy and fun the whole time. They know that parties and events only last a few hours so they need to look for something else to stimulate them and keep going on being happy after that. Just waiting until the next party starts is not acceptable.

They need to feel they’re on their toes constantly. It’s a sure way for them to feel they’re living their lives. The Sagittarius man likes to get the best out of life so they do while they still can. If that means being nonchalant and carefree then so be it. They don’t care much for who people will think about them. They are a bunch of rule breakers but they do know how and when to draw the line. They have a certain standard that they know they should keep up with and as long as they’re abiding by it then things should go smoothly for them.

When it comes to fidelity they aren’t really the most trusted one but it’s mainly because they love to flirt with the opposite sex. One thing you should appreciate though is when a Sagittarius goes home to you at the end of the day. Commitment itself is a huge deal for the archer so give him a little credit.

An important characteristic a Sag’s partner needs to have is patience. A whole lot of it. He is a lot to handle so if you’re not up to the task you better think twice before things get nasty. If you really want him though, all you need is a but more understanding and patience than average Jane Doe.

Don’t force him into it. A Sagittarius does not want to be cornered in any way and he sure won’t appreciate the subject of marriage suffocating him. You can open the subject lightly and see how he reacts to it. If he doesn’t sound so uptight about it then it’s a good sign. If he does get jumpy then back off and think of another way and another day to discuss it.

It seems hard to get this guy to walk down the isle but those who are patient and wise enough to wait and plan for the right day has the chance to see him waiting for you at the altar on your wedding processional.

The Weak Points Of A Sagittarius

The Centaur. The mighty Archer. Two symbols that represent the Sagittarius zodiac. Both signifies strength, power and wisdom. This zodiac is suitable for alpha males; people who are born leaders or posses high ranking positions. Socially, the Sagittarius carries him/herself well. They are what you call the life of the party. People like to be around them. Clever and witty, they also normally excel in their chosen field or at least perform very well at the things they do. The level of their confidence takes them a long way. They have varied interests that takes them around the world. On the front, a Sagittarius seem to be perfect. The ideal person everyone is looking for. But there are a few weak points that one needs to know before they decide if they want to be with an Archer.

It’s not always going to be parties and good times. There will be a few bumps in the road before one can finally say you think you may love happily ever after and whether they are big or small depends on the person who’s dealing with it.

The Sag is a traveler. He is active and has varied interests. This is considered a good attribute but in the long run may be a problem. The Sagittarius tend to be restless. They like going from one place to another because their feet just itches to go out and explore. It’s unlikely for them to stay put at one place for a long time. They don’t like staying home much because Sagittarius gets bored easily. If they live in the city they will constantly go out to meet people to have fun with. In the outskirts they may just decide to go back packing one day and see how far up the trail on the hill goes. A person with a Sagittarius should not expect to have him stay indoors for too long. Go on vacation maybe twice a year or make sure regular night outs are on the calendar to keep them entertained.

A carefree attitude can be cute but the Sag tends to overdo it. That characteristic can easily turn to being irresponsible and reckless. A developed Sagittarius knows when to take things seriously but the inexperienced ones just don’t know when to stop. Good thing they are mutable so they can be steered to the right direction. One must make sure they’re up to guiding a these devil-may-care bunch if they want to get to their destination.

One of the biggest Sagittarius trait that may cause them problems is their flirtatious nature. They are very aggressive (whether male or female) in bars and would approach the first person that would catch their attention and they won’t stop there. A Sag is a visual person and their eyes will roam around. They don’t have a problem dating 2 (or more) people at the same time and that can get messy.

The Sag lacks commitment. A person with the Sag should make sure things are clear and in black and white. They are highly intellectual people but relationships and commitments are not their forte.

Things To Do When The Sun Is In Sagittarius

Literally, the sun brings light, heat and energy to the planets that revolve around it. It’s a very essential thing that provides life. In Astrology, it is that and so much more. The sun over Sagittarius means a lot of things that are mostly positive. This means one should take advantage of that.

Take note, this is not only for people with the Sagittarius zodiac sign. The sun affects all zodiacs but how it does so depends on which sign. Here are few things you should be aware of next time you hear the sun is hovering over the Archer this month.

1) Take A Risk. We all know the Sagittarius is a natural risk taker. He likes the thrill it brings especially if he thinks he might bag the prize. So if there’s a better time to “Go For It”, it’s when astrologers say the sun is in Sagittarius. If you’ve been contemplating about a new business venture or an idea that might improve work then do it. Trust serendipity to bring you something pleasant but unexpected. Audition for a community play and you might just get the lead spot! It can be anything, really. Just something that would add up a bit of spice to your usual grind.

2) Take On A New Adventure. Again, another thing to bring excitement to your daily routine. Take a hike, ride a bike, try bungee jumping or jumping off a plane. That may sound extreme but you get the drift. It’s all about trying things you’ve never done or haven’t even thought of. Travel and learn. Go somewhere you’ve never been before. Experience different cultures and traditions, first hand. Get out of the house and have fun!

3) Explore Your Creative Side. This in itself can be a new adventure for anyone. The Sagittarius is known to value freedom and not only in relationships. Freedom is a way of thinking so expressing ideas is, in a way, freeing yourself. Either through business or personal matters, there is a way to exercise this. You pick something you’re really good at like, drawing or writing and practice with it. You can share your ideas with others and make them think too. This way you can have someone to explore with and think of other great things to meddle with.

4) Shape Up. The sun plays a vital role in your health when it’s in Sagittarius. Go and ride the not only physical and mental vigor of the Archer. This is the time to either sign up for health classes or just go out of the house and job around the neighborhood to avoid being stagnant. If you’re already in a program you may feel the need to take it up a notch. Athletes for example can go up on a more hardcore training to increase endurance. Mentally, you can attend work shops and go on retreats to achieve inner peace and relax. The sun is usually associated with the heart, circulatory system and the immune system so you would want to be careful with those. If you are a hardcore partier you might want to change your lifestyle a bit to save yourself from further health problems.

5) Socialize. The Archer is known to be friendly and light hearted. They can get along and be friends with almost anybody so go out and meet friends. Get a hold of your old friends and renew your bond, do the things you used to do together and try some new ones. Also, meet new friends either through the old ones or from whatever social gathering you attend. Say hi to the person sitting on the table beside yours at the coffee shop. Or the next person you stand beside with at the veggie section at the grocery. You might have the same things in common that can be a start of something special.

There are endless possibilities that open up to a person everyday. The key is to know when to do something about it. The sun in Sagittarius just might be the time.

Trials and Tribulations of a sagittarius male and capricorn female relationship

Much is said about the possible success of a Sag-Aries or a Sag-Leo relationship. They have the same interests and attitude towards life that makes them inseparable or that can make things work out, at the least. The Capricorn, however, is very different from a Sagittarius that their relationship, if they even get to that point, is bound to fall to pieces. This is a case where opposites do not attract.

On First Impressions. First impressions are important for a Capricorn. They hold on to it and it’s really the thing that draws them to a Sagittarius. When she meets a Sag, for instance, they tend to be open and lay all their cards on the table. Honesty, as we know, is very important for the Goat so for her, the Archer’s straightforwardness means he can be trusted.

The first thing a Sagittarius notice on a Capricorn is the quiet (to the point of being mysterious) demeanor and if there’s one thing that gets the Archer’s brain worked up it’s figuring out the puzzle that is the human behavior. He likes to figure things out and finds it exciting to tear down layers and layers of walls that a Capricorn surrounds herself.

If for some reason, a Sagittarius puts a crack on the trust that the Capricorn holds on too so dearly, or if the Capricorn even thinks there is a small chance he is lying, the walls will come right back up and this time, even more solid. The Archer will try to mend things and go on trying to get to her but usually gets tired eventually if she keeps being stubborn. When he gives up is usually the end of it.

On Communication. The Sagittarius male is very open; even to a fault. He sometimes even thinks out loud whereas a Capricorn female is so reserved she chooses her words very carefully before she spits it out. That is if she even talks at all. On misunderstandings, she would choose to keep quiet than argue her point. When it comes to the level when things are about to blow it’s usually too messy to fix things.

A Capricorn is also known to walk out of a relationship with no explanation at all. She is patient when it comes to the man she loves but when she gets a hold of hard facts to prove she has been wronged, she has a tendency to feel she doesn’t owe anyone an explanation and will just up and leave regardless of what the situation is.

Then comes the little stuff. The Capricorn is a very serious person, a Sagittarius only gets serious when he feels like he needs to be. They have different ways of having fun. There may be no problems when it comes to bed because a Capricorn, though cold and calculating in public, can be the hottest thing in bed a Sagittarius can ever have. And a Sagittarius would want that hot thing on his bed. But other than that, there really isn’t much to hold on to. They even have different tastes in people they like to hang out with. A Sagittarius likes huge crowds and loud people to hang out with. He accommodates everyone. A Capricorn, on the other hand, is friendly enough but prefer to hang out with small, intimate crowds and only with people she considers her friends. If there are only two of them, then so be it.

On Working Things Out. Different cases calls for different solutions. In general, a Capricorn should try to be more patient, more affectionate and communicate more. A Sagittarius on the other hand should not try to do anything that may break her trust. A Capricorn also might want to learn to drop the small things if she wants things to work out. And the Sagittarius might want to take things a but more seriously. If the two really wants to work things out it will take A LOT of effort and sacrifices on both sides. Meeting halfway would be a good start.