If you want to live peacefully with a Sagittarius, it is important to understand how they work and what they expect from you as a mate or dating partner. One of the first things to understand about a Sagittarius is they their minds have a wide range and could burst without you even expecting it. They also possess the gift of gab and can talk for hours without even taking into account any of your input in the conversation. At the same time you want to avoid allowing them to just overtake the conversation because at same point their need to converse combined with their overwhelming brilliance could cause you to appear witless, a trait that the Sagittarius would find rather boring.

No matter where you are with a Sagittarius, keep in mind they do not like being idle and want to spend every moment of their life doing SOMETHING. Even if you become stuck on a deserted island, the Sagittarius must be busy doing something, even if it means searching out everything on the island to attempt to come up with a way to get back to civilization. They have a keen sense of curiosity and will use it to find answers to all the questions that enter their restless minds. When you buy a gift for a Sagittarius, consider something that will allow them to challenge their minds such as a giant crossword puzzle. You might even find them interested in some bungee jumping—it challenges their mind as well as their sense of adventure. They will find the invitation even more attractive if you are fearful of heights and still make the offer.

You never want to attempt to keep a Sagittarius on a leash. They are not clingy and do not have the need to depend on anyone other than themselves. Their independent nature does not allow them to have any tolerance for restrictions. If you are in a relationship with a Sagittarius and attempt to dominate them, they will not hesitate to walk away from you and even tell other people the kind of person you were. What it really comes down to is that Sagittarians must be in control and will not be happy in any relationship where they feel they are losing control or when you attempt to control them.
You must accept a Sagittarius the way he or she is. Do not attempt to change them in any way or you will lose sight of the person and even the relationship. They are quick thinkers and very upbeat and happy sometimes with a tendency to brag subconsciously about how great they think they are. You can’t take this personally but must accept it as part of the personality of a Sagittarius. They will always want to dig deeper in order to find a logical reason for anything that comes into their minds. It’s important for you to understand their quest for knowledge and enthusiasm for life in general.

The Sagittarius is one that loves adventure and exotic places. They are not content to vacation at home and just hang around the house, and the farther they are from home the better they like it. Not only do they enjoy exotic places, but they also have a fondness for different cultures. This is due in part to the fact that Sagittarius is in the 9th house which is known as the House of Long Distance Journeys. This means in short they see traveling as not only an adventure but also as a way to learn things they will not encounter on their daily journey through life.

Some of the places Sagittarians enjoy going include beaches, camping, hiking in the hills and fishing. Their love is anything they are able to do outdoors, but they will not stop at these places and prefer to travel to exotic places and even third world countries. They see any kind of travel as an experience and adventure. The one thing to remember is while most people who plan for vacation reserve an island resort, a hotel in the mountains or a large city that is not very different from where they live, Sagittarius likes something out of the ordinary. Rather than seeing things completely planned out in advance, they like to do things on the spur of the moment—nothing would suit them better than going to an unusual place or even to one of the usual places and just have fun.

You are likely to find your Sagittarius mate would enjoy going to the Rockies, Yellow Stone Park or the Grand Canyon. Unlike the ordinary vacation spots that attract most people, Sagittarius enjoys these types of spots because they can camp out or stay with friends or family and just enjoy those things nature provides without any pressure to go sightseeing or do the things that people usually do when they go on vacation.

Sagittarians also enjoy third world countries to live or visit and would even enjoy traveling to Morocco, Cuba or the Philippines. While these countries do not appeal to everyone, Sagittarius sees them as adventures to be enjoyed. The have an extreme sense of curiosity and need to discover how all things work out in these places. Things such as how the people live, how far a hundred dollars will take them, and a look at the beaches and shopping arenas appeal to the Archer.

They also enjoy religious and historical places such as Egypt, Jordan, Israel and the like. There is no need to be on any kind of pilgrimage to visit these places nor do you need to be a religious person. They just have the need to see how it feels to visit the famous churches and other buildings and monuments that are part of the Bible. They might also enjoy swimming in the Dead Sea just to gain the feeling of floating without any effort. It is important for them to view old architecture and try to reconstruct in their minds how people used to live.

While compromise is a necessary part of any relationship, it is especially important for Sagittarius. This is true in part to the fact that the Sagittarius is quite capable of taking care of himself and doesn’t need someone in order to meet his daily needs. He is quite content to fend for himself and go about his daily business alone. In fact, it is very difficult for the Sagittarius to make a commitment to a long-term relationship or marriage, so if you are fortunate enough to get him to make the commitment, you will discover the necessity for compromising.

One of the first things you need to learn is you cannot control or dominate a Sagittarius. The Archer must always be in control of his own life and will not allow anyone else to attempt to have a hold over him. No matter how much he may love his partner, if she attempts to put him on a leash he will quickly walk away and not even think twice about looking back. It is very difficult for him to commit to a long-term relationship as it is, so anyone who attempts to control him will be left standing in the cold.

It is also important to allow the Sagittarius to explore his mind and those things that surround him. He is a very intelligent human being and has a deep need for not just adventure but for finding answers to everything that surrounds him. If you are not the adventurous type, you will have a very difficult time meeting the needs of your Sagittarius mate. On the other hand if you are willing to join him in the things he enjoys even if you don’t really enjoy it, you will find he greatly appreciates you and your company. Instead of refusing to join in those activities he enjoys, swallow your pride and join in—at least some of the time.

One thing the Sagittarius doesn’t like is people who are boring. Because their minds are so active they must always be doing things that provide challenges. You might make them very happy if you give them a gift of a large crossword puzzle or engage in a game that challenges them to think such as some type of trivia game. If you travel with them to a deserted island, they will still want to find out everything about their surroundings; they will not be content with just those things that are in their immediate view. They always need to know what, how and why for everything in life.
The Sagittarius is also a very upbeat personality and likes the people around him to be the same way. If you are sad being around a Sagittarius will quickly change your mood, and that is just the way he likes it. You also must accept him for what he is—never try to change the Archer into something other than what he is or you will displease him immensely.

One of the worst parts of any relationship is conflict, and when you are dating a Sagittarius it is important to learn how to avoid any type of confrontations. One of the first things you need to learn is that you cannot control a Sagittarius, and if you attempt to try, you will find yourself on the outside looking in; in other words, your relationship with a Sagittarius will be over! Even worse, you may find your Sagittarius will discuss the type of person you were during the relationship even after it is over.

Sagittarians are very inquisitive and curious people; they need to find out everything about life and how they fit into the scheme of things. Even if you put a Sagittarius on a deserted island, he or she will find a way to investigate the circumstances and maybe attempt to find a way back to civilization. They are very brilliant and intelligent people and must always be thinking or doing something in order to remain happy. They are not content to sit on the sidelines and allow someone else to think things out for them nor are they content unless they are busy doing something.

If you are the type of person who is content to sit around and do nothing, you will not be happy with a Sagittarius. The same holds true if you are content with the status quo because Sagittarians are always looking to learn new things and challenge their minds. They do not like being idle either physically or emotionally. While even a child might throw a big crossword puzzle book at you, a Sagittarius is likely to find this type of gift very challenging and may even see you as a best friend forever for your thoughtfulness.

You should never attempt to hold a Sagittarius on a leash—they are not clingy and can make out perfectly well on their own. They do not need a relationship or someone to depend upon in order to feel their lives are complete. This does not mean they are unable to care about other people but rather that they are extremely independent and can live with or without another person in their life. They must always feel they are in control of their lives and their own destinies and do not like those who would attempt to control them.

You must accept your Sagittarius mate for the person he or she is. There are specific traits that are common to Sagittarians, and you must understand the way these traits affect the personality of the Sagittarius you are dating. They may even project an unconscious message that shows they know they are extremely awesome, but you don’t want to take this personally—it’s just the way they are, and they may not even realize they are doing it. They always have the need to find a logical explanation for everything, and you must accept this in order to maintain a sense of peace within your relationship with a Sagittarius.

So he’s fun, passionate, sensitive, and loves everything that you like. It seems like he is genuinely interested in you; but be careful. The Archer is a master of playing the field. If you find it odd that he wears the same perfume that you love, or that he cooks your scrambled eggs just right, every single time, don’t think that this is because you are “meant to be”.

The truth is, the Sagittarian will do everything in his power to seem attractive to you. It is not impossible that he has done some research about every facet of your life. The good news is your Sag lover may be doing this out of genuine interest. The bad news is he will stay interested just as long as you keep him guessing. Yes, mystery is a gay-Sag’s version of Viagra. The problem is, it is easy to let the gregarious Sag know everything about you because, let’s face it, once you fall in love, verbal diarrhea is in session and you feel the urge to divulge all your little secrets. Bad move.

Mystery is what keeps the archer going, and inspires him to actually get to know you more. Once he feels like he knows you like the back of his hand, get ready to be dumped like a gay hot potato. Once he knows everything about you, you seem uninteresting, unexciting, and soo not worth all the wooing. So does this mean that a Sag lover is a bad lover? Well, it’s not like he falls out of love intentionally. But then again, there are some unintentional mistakes that are still unforgivable. And yes, we are referring to Bret Michaels’ unintentionally sexual remarks at the latest Miss Universe pageant.

The truth is, he can’t help but fall out of love (or interest) for you once the excitement of the chase is gone. So if you really want a lasting relationship with a Sag, get ready to keep him guessing. Mood swings, a diva attitude, and an uncontrollable temper all seem attractive to the drama-thirsty Sagittarian.

However, you are in luck if you do not actually wish to have a long relationship with the Archer. Why? Because they make the best lovers in the world. They are strongly passionate, willing to experiment, and since they get bored quite easily, get ready for a thousand and one positions in the sack. Yes, the truth is, the Sagittarian’s worst trait (his love of variety) in the emotional arena is also his greatest trait in the sack.

So how do you attract an Archer? Be witty, be sarcastic, seem uninterested but remain interesting. Spend some time alone with each other, but do not actually call it a date. Once he feels comfortable with you, he would want to get to know you more. Be kind to him, as flattery seems to be the best way to his heart. Then, play him, as he would most likely do you. That will keep him guessing, and in your pocket (and your bed) for a longer time than most of his relationships last. And if you’re in luck your relationship might last a whole week.

The parenting skills of those born under the sign of the Archer may be influenced by a slight reluctance to acknowledge fatherhood or motherhood at first. Their love of freedom, independence,and adventure might make them balk at the thought of being tied down by children and all their accompanying responsibilities.

But once the reality of parenting sets in, Sagittarius mommies and daddies can make quite good parents. Even better, their vast store of energy and sense of adventure can spell out enthusiastic rearing techniques, which means plenty of outdoor sessions with their beloved offspring. Camping, biking, sports meets, picnics at the park, dog-walking, etc., are just some of the expected childhood activities of those with Sagittarian parents.

A child’s stages of development can also prove to be a big adventure in itself for a Sagittarius mama or papa. Watching them grow up, start talking, walking, and developing psycho-motor skills at their own pace can cause great pride and anxiety. Their own sense of independence could be their yardstick for their kids’ achievements and aspirations. It’s understandable for a Sagittarius to want to get their kids involved in as many activities as is humanly possible, which is great. However, a Sagittarius mom or dad should take care not to push their children into doing physical activities they might not be ready for, or are enthusiastic about. Doing so could cause frustration and ill-will for both parent and child.

The key is not to make too many demands on the child, and always communicate on how they feel about doing certain things. As a rule, Sagittarius parents are generally permissive folks and do not feel the need to hem their children in with strict rules and regulations. In fact, they prize individuality in their kids in pretty much the same way they prize theirs. Knowing the value of learning from personal experience means having kids who end up making their own decisions and not being too sheltered or spoiled.

Travel is another thing that’s sure to be part and parcel of a Sagittarius parent’s method of child-rearing. Beyond acknowledging one’s wanderlust, travel means soaking up other cultures and learning beyond classroom walls. Whether it’s a new language, tradition, cuisine, or just about anything involving the customs of another group of people, a Sagittarian is sure to introduce their child to it by way of tours, trips, and journeys. Very young kids of Sagittarius mommies and daddies could already be exposed to books that speak of other cultures and exotic places, and eventually, maps, atlases and travel and guide books that could inspire in them a sense of adventure and exploration, as well.

Sagittarius people are highly capable of becoming great parents because it is a job they will not take half-heartedly. Just like the next great adventure, parenting is something they would want to thoroughly explore and learn from.

The Sagittarius man is notorious for not being able to commit. He’s just too independent and loves being on his own too much he doesn’t want to be tied up to a relationship because he feels it might be the end to a happy-go-lucky life he enjoys so much. This is a reason why it’s hard to feel secure with him. But all of doesn’t really mean he is incapable of committing.

A Sagittarius guy is one of the most honest people you can ever meet. This characteristic is probably the biggest factor why a Sagittarius is often perceived as callous and insensitive. It’s not like he goes just around playing with people’s feelings. He doesn’t say or do things just to be blunt he just wants to make sure things are clear from the very beginning. A Sag likes laying the cards on the table. If a Sag tells you he is in to you, you can take his word for it. He won’t say he loves you unless he really means it.

The Sag can make some amazing, lasting friendships and if he can do that he can commit. For him, everything is about the chase. The sense of adventure he gets in chasing someone; the taste of victory
when he finally gets that yes. While it is true that he gets bored easy, when he finds true love he makes sure to work on it and at the same time enjoy it. He tries to make it as adventurous as he can and works with his partner so he won’t lose the adrenaline. And although he is not known to be the best at keeping commitments, a Sagittarius is believed to be one of the most loyal lovers there is. He is kind
and caring and will go a long way or even out of the way to fulfill the partner’s needs. A Sagittarius is not your garden variety, white picket fence type of guy. What he’s really looking for is not his better-
half. Not someone who will make him feel whole. Instead he’s looking for someone who will become his partner in a journey full of adventure; someone who won’t lose composure with a few bumps along the
way.

When in love, he is very generous, showering his partner with lavish presents and he is very attentive. He is also a very passionate lover and a romantic. He can make his partner feel like she’s the most interesting woman there is. He would be very attentive, and very sweet. He’d drop everything to talk to her, put some music on, turn off the phone, do long cuddles in the sofa, stare at her and interrupt
everything she says for a long, sweet kiss.

Bottom line, is that no matter how notorious the Sagittarius is for being a flirt, when it comes down to it, he will do everything he can for the love of his life. So it’s only fair to meet him half way and give him what he needs because it’s not like he’s asking for the impossible. All he needs is a little understanding and a lot adventure.

Your Sex Guide with a Sagittarius

We all know the sagittarius is from the element fire. But that’s not confuse that with their approach to sex. The need to be warmed up, they like to seduce and take their time. They are not all about a quick heatup. The sagittarius lover is often known as being a very generous, giving and skilled lover. They want to make their partner completely satisified and will never be called “selfish in the bedroom” If you are lucky enough to find a sagittarius partner, you will soon understand how attentive they can be.

Sagittarius and Sagittarius
– This is an exciting yet crazy combination, often identical signs are. Both of their lifestyles are so unpredictable that the sex often becomes very unpredictable as well. Sometimes amazing, sometimes flat and boring. The sexual relationship is often very inconsistent and this often brings out the worst in each other. These sexual relationships (even flings) do not last very long generally.

Sagittarius and Libra
-The naturally calming ability of the libra is just what the sagittarius needs in their sex life. Although the sagittarius is a highly sexual sign, they are often seen as “all over the place” and rarely focused in life or in love making. This asset the libra possesses will often bring out the best the sagittarius has to offer in the bedroom. Warning, we are talking fireworks here people.

Sagittarius and Leo
-This match is often exciting in the bedroom, when a sagittarius with it’s wild streaks meets up with a leo and their free spirt, good things happen. The leo will often hold the key to the sagittarius passion safe. Since both signs share a love for adventure, they are always coming up with new and exciting things to do in the bedroom and they often last together very long sexually.

Sagittarius and Virgo
– It truly is a match made in hell. The sagittarius’s constantly happy attitude begins to drive the virgo crazy by day 4. The sex life is not bad as both signs are creative but once the sex is over, they have to deal with each other for the next 23.5 hours. The virgo often prefers a simple and laid back life, not the kind of hectic life the sagittarius often enjoys.

Sagittarius and Cancer
– Cancer is on the opposite side of sagittarius and for good reasons too. Cancer is very sensitive and always plays it safe. The sagittarius always wants adventure and more. In the bedroom these two do not get along perfectly as cancer is often too reserved to try thing “crazy things” sagittarius wants. Sagittarius will soon get bored with the sexual relationship and move on as cancer tries to keep them caged up at all times. This sexual relationship is generally a better friendship than anything.

Sagittarius and Aries
– These two signs definitely create a ton of fireworks, that is in between all the arguing they both will be doing the rest of the day. Even though these signs are very compatible and support each others wacky bedroom ideas they soon can lose interest if they feel the sex becomes routine. The Sagittarius person also likes to receive the same level of attention that they give to the aries, and the aries who is naturally stubborn does not always give back what they receive and that drives the sagittarius crazy.

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You can fully expect your lesbian Sagittarius lover to be the life of any party, what with her infectious laughter, high level of energy, and fun-loving nature. While this could mean constant entertainment and a lively dating relationship for you, bear in mind that Sagittarians in general value their independence. So go easy on trying to rope her in a committed relationship after just a couple of dates. That could scare her off and make her disappear faster than a speeding bullet (or arrow, in her case)!

She also loves travelling, so be prepared to be physically away from her every now and then. When this happens, it’s okay to call, email, or send her text messages…once in a while. It is NOT okay to bombard her with cutesy “I miss you” messages bordering on despair every time you feel the urge. She will not like that at all.

When in bed with her, you can look forward to your Sagittarius Sapphic sweetheart using philosophy as pillow talk, mixed with a bit of sexuality and romance. Hers is a highly evolved mind borne out of reading plenty of books and always wanting to explore new horizons. However, this doesn’t mean that she’s an absolute bore in bed. Remember that vast store of energy we mentioned in the first paragraph? That can translate quite well on the bedroom front. Just remember that Sagittarius girls’ erogenous zones are located on their hips and thighs, be experimental and creative with foreplay, and you’re good to go (or come).

As for communicating with her, be prepared for moments when your Sagittarius can get blunt as a spoon. She’s pretty upfront about things, and is sometimes too-ready to give a piece of her mind when needed. Tact isn’t one of her best traits. So if you’re one to fish for compliments and beat around the bush, forget it. To a Sagittarian, you have to be deserving of a compliment to get one.

Lastly, if you’d rather sit at home and watch television, don’t expect that attractive Sagittarius lesbian to fall head over heels for you. They dislike being inactive. In fact, even when you’re relatively athletic-minded, you might find that you need to step up the game when you’re dating a Sagittarius. Always remember that theirs is one of the most physical signs in the Zodiac. If you move too slowly, lead a sedentary lifestyle, don’t have a gym membership, or only own shoes with thin stiletto heels, chances are you won’t rate too high on the Sagittarius date-o-meter.

Those being said, don’t feel too intimidated with these traits. While a lesbian Sagittarian may embody the lone huntress in accordance with her sign of The Archer, it’s still highly possible for her to fall hard for someone. She just puts a high premium on independence, and prizes it even on the women she dates. So keep those in mind once you set your sights on a particular Sagittarius lesbian. Be attractive, be interesting, be energetic, and be self-supporting, and she’ll have a hard time resisting you!

Ever wondered how your favourite celebrity handles a badly burnt toast, a spilt wine on their posh carpet, or how they deal with unwanted friend requests on Facebook? Well, they are all just humans like you and me, which means they could flare up and kill (pun intended) easily to situations like these too. Yes, despite the friendly façade you see on your tubes or whenever you watch their movies. Ok, maybe they can be as nature-loving or warm-hearted as the characters they play onscreen but do keep in mind that there are always two sides to a coin. So, flipping 1 over now, let me introduce to you the other side of these famous people’s dime by extracting their supposedly innate characters through their Sagittarius Zodiac.

Looky here (and lucky you!), we got quite a lineup of actors who were born under this sign: Brad Pitt (December 18), Lucy Liu (December 02), Katie Holmes (December 18), and Brendan Fraser (December 03) just to name a few. They are four different persons but the one dominant thing they have in common is the fact that they all possess the characteristics of a Sagittarius. You may have seen them smile and laugh or get angry, whether it’s on film or TV show or when they are tied down on a hot seat, getting interviewed by whoever. Then again that merely says much about them. Let’s take a look at what makes them “unique” to everyone else.

A Sagittarius person, whether they are simple beings with simple careers or they are paparazzi-ridden creatures, will almost always have the same effect on other people and on themselves, plainly because they possess the same characteristics. But since we’re talking about four different personalities, let’s take a peek at at least two of them and check out what really their astrological charts say about them.

Brad Pitt’s moon is in Capricorn, meaning, he is an ambitious person who wanted to be taken seriously. He’s practical as well, and this says a lot about him with regards to choosing his partner. Given the wide array of gorgeous women he’s had relationship with, he ended up with one of the sexiest and most sought-after mother slash ambassadress, Angelina Jolie, while adding to her already full-to-the-brim gene pool. Brad, as we all know, is famous not just for his great acting skills but we also love him for being that hot sexual icon. Since Mars is often associated with sexual energy, it is actually one of the strong points in his chart (go figure!).

Another celebrity who most girls with an ugly-duckling-turned-beautiful-swan story would most likely be a fan of is Katie Holmes. She is best described as an independent and high-spirited Sagittarius. She’s got a whole lot of fire in her, with both Neptune and Jupiter surrounding her moon, Leo. This explains why Tom Cruise won her heart, since Tom is also a Leo and has got a lot of charm and straightforwardness to burn. With Sagittarius Katie, who is ever a mature damsel in this relationship, she will remain with a responsible attitude towards life in general if only she could avoid going overboard with expectations at times.