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15 fun facts about famous sagittarius people

1) The Sagittarius people are known to be happy-go-lucky, wild and sometimes even crazy. Guess that’s one way to describe crazy, sexy and hard partier mother of two and former teen star Britney Spears. She was born December 2, 1981.

2) Sagittarius people are pretty much carefree and nonchalant but they can be very responsible and involved too. Abbie Hoffman was a political and social activist from the 60’s and 70’s. He was born November 30, 1936.

3) Amos Bronson Alcott is a proof of how people born under the sign of the Archer are intellectual and innovative. He was a teacher, writer, philosopher and a reformer. He developed new ways of interacting and educating younger students. He was a friend of no less than the American poet Ralph Waldo Emerson and were both transcendentalists.

4) The apple doesn’t fall too far from the tree. Anna Freud may be more known as Sigmund Freud’s daughter but her works are as notable. She emphasized the importance of ego and its ability to be trained socially. She was born December 3. 1895.

5) A great sense of humor is one of the better qualities of a Sagittarius. And one of the funniest comedians of our time is Ben Stiller. He was born on November 30, 1965.

6) They’re not bad with the looks department too. The Hollywood A-Lister, a very much talented actor and the partner of Angelina Jolie, Brad Pitt’s zodiac is Sagittarius. He celebrates his birthday every December 18 since 1963.

7) A Sagittarius’ imagination runs as wild as he is. Or even more. The author of the famous book (which was made even more famous by the movie adaptation) The Chronicles of Narnia was born under the zodiac sign of the Archer. C.S. Lewis was born November 29, 1989.

8.) Another hot Hollywood actor under Sagittarius is Brendan Fraser. He was born December 3, 1968. He was famous for the three-part movie Mummy, George of The Jungle and Mrs. Winterbourne to name a few.

9) Another crazy, sexy pop star (though maybe not as crazy as Britney is portrayed) is Christina Aguilera. She celebrates her birthday every December 18 since 1980.

10) Often adventurous and highly athletic, the Sagittarius likes to get involved in a lot of physical activities. Dick Butkus, who played 9 seasons for the Chicago Bears was one of the “most feared and intimidating linebackers” of his time.

11) One of the coolest painting of all times was The Scream. It was a part of the a series where love, fear, death, melancholia and anxiety was explored and expressed by Sagittarius artist Edvard Munch. He was born December 12, 1863.

12) The Sagittarius has a taste for the good things in life. Italian fashion designer Gianni Versace is a Sagittarius born on December 2, 1946.

13) Another talented artist and performer who knows how to have and give a good time like a Sagittarius does is Frank Sinatra. He was born December 12, 1915.

14) Legendary artist and musician Jimi Hendrix was born November 27, 1942.

15) Another controversial Hollywood star known for the hit series 24 and being a hot head(reported head-butting fashion designer Jack McCollough).

Best Sagittarius Vacation Spots

When it comes to vacation spots, it’s important to consider what will make a Sagittarius the happiest. Keep in mind this sign is rather adventuresome, so just sitting along the beach or visiting relatives with no other activities in place are certainly not going to provide contentment for the Archer. Certainly this doesn’t mean you cannot take trips to the beach or other spots that are full of relaxation, but you have to include some
adventure into the trip as well. Remember, Sagittarius likes to keep moving and is not content to be confined to one spot.

If you’re going on vacation with a Sagittarius, you must remember they love adventure and exotic places. Don’t even think for a minute that you will satisfy this sign with just a relaxing time at home; the farther they are away from home, the happier they are. Not only are they lovers of exotic places, but they also enjoy going to places where they can learn about different cultures as well. This trait may be due partly because of their placement in the 9th House that is also known as the House of Long Distance Journeys. What this means is Sagittarians enjoy traveling not only because of the adventure it brings but also because of the learning experience.

Some of the places Sagittarians will enjoy include beaches, camping, hiking in the hills and fishing. While we previously mentioned the beach as something not likely to appeal to Sagittarius, it’s important to understand that the beach can be a place where you just lie out in the sound and do nothing—this will not appeal to Sagittarius—but if you use your trip to the beach as an adventurous activity such as engaging in water skiing, surfing, diving, swimming and other similar activities, it will give Sagittarius a chance to engage
in some adventure and even learn something new.

Sagittarians love any activities that take place outdoors, but they also enjoy traveling to exotic places including third world countries. To a Sagittarius all travel is an experience from which they can add to their knowledge base. However, you have to keep in mind that when you travel with a Sagittarius, it is important to choose places that are different from where he or she lives. Stay away from a hotel in the mountains or an island resort and plan something more exotic. In fact, this sign would prefer to just start traveling
and see where they end up instead of planning a vacation with reservations and daily itineraries of pre-planned activities.

They enjoy doing things on the spur of the moment, and would not only enjoy going to an unusual place but also to one of the usual places to just have fun without giving it any forethought. Your Sagittarius would enjoy going to the Rockies, Yellow Stone national Park or the Grand Canyon. These places are unlike the ordinary vacation spots that tend to attract most people because it gives you an opportunity to camp out or spend time with family and friends just having fun without planning an entire trip.

Sagittarius in the Workplace

Each person is faced with having to handle a variety of different people when they go to work. Sometimes the experience is positive and sometime barely acceptable. Even those who do not believe in the force of the stars for determining personality traits are likely to see the differences in the workplace. Each astrological sign has specific work-related traits, and Sagittarius is no different. For one thing Sagittarius is a traveler, and as such see every day as a new challenge. The cheerful and spontaneous nature of Sagittarius is one that will provide any workplace with a morale boost.

The Sagittarius has a great sense of humor and doesn’t possess even a single malicious bone in his or her body. On the down side you are likely to discover that this sign is more likely to provide a honest assessment of a situation when exercising a little bit of tact would have been a better solution to the problem. This can also cause some inner conflict with co-workers because the Sagittarius may walk away from the situation without giving a thought to the effect his negativity may have on others.

Friends and co-workers may not see the Sagittarius as being particularly deep, but in reality he is a deep thinking individual who gives a great deal of thought to the “big picture” including an analysis of why he or she is here and where he or she might be going from this point—this also includes the ability to frequently see the end results with a great deal of accuracy. The role of Sagittarians is to always seek more knowledge than they currently possess, so those born under this sign are more likely than not very well read in a variety of subjects and have a highly defined personal philosophy. Sagittarians will never lose their child-like qualities and will always see the glass as half-full rather than half-empty. They will also never be completely serious about their daily lives and always allow for a little bit of childish behavior.

Sagittarius is also very self-confident, positive, enthusiastic and easy-going. You’re likely to find this sign with a map on the wall and push pins indicating all the places he wishes to go in his lifetime. He is also likely to be way ahead of everyone else when it comes to the future of the company and its overall picture. The Archer will aim high at work, which will allow him to achieve high goals (or occasionally extreme failures).
Fortunately the success rate of the Sagittarius will outweigh any failures, so you can feel safe in relying on his hunches to increase company profitability.

Sagittarius will have no problems getting along with co-workers in spite of his tendencies to be very blunt and tactless. This is partly due to the fact he has a need to know everything and therefore becomes a fountain of information for others in the company. The Sagittarius may also seem frivolous at times, but when you need someone to jump in to pitch in, Sagittarius will be the first one to volunteer.

Avoiding Conflict in all Relationships with a Sagittarius

Conflict goes above and beyond just the dating stage. There are other occasions when you may be in a position that might cause conflict, especially within the workplace. It is important to know things about Sagittarius in order to know what to expect and how to avoid getting into an unnecessary confrontation. All relationships whether personal or business are likely to have some conflict, but the important thing is to know how to handle conflict in order to lessen the aftermath of the conflict. In the workplace it can create a great deal of tension and anxiety for others in the immediate area, so you want to learn how to avoid any conflict before it has a chance to begin.

Sagittarians are very inquisitive and curious, a trait that can be both good and bad. They also need to find out everything about life and how they individually fit into the scheme of life. They are not the type of people who will be content for someone else to tell them what is going on around them; they must find out the answers for themselves. Even if you take them away from civilization and put them on a desert island they will conduct research and maybe even try to find a way to get back to civilization. They prefer finding their own answers to problems instead of allowing someone else to give them the answers.

Sagittarians are highly intelligent and must always be thinking or doing something or they will become bored and unhappy. They will never be content to just side on sidelines and allow someone else to do all the work—they have to be busy doing something and actively seeking answers to any questions they have. In the workplace this can be both a positive and negative thing because they are likely to even attempt to find new ways to accomplish things thus undermining the thoughts of supervision.

Sagittarius will also not be happy with a job that offers no challenges such as sitting at a desk all day answering telephones without an opportunity to do something worthwhile. They are also not happy with a situation that allows them to remain idle, so any job that provides any kind of time without work to do (outside of lunch and other breaks) will not appeal to a Sagittarius.

In order to avoid conflict with a Sagittarius, it’s important to understand their individual personalities and what makes them tick. For starters, you cannot take things personally if they attempt to change the way you are doing things or look for more information on a topic than you gave them. These traits are both part of the nature of Sagittarians as seekers of information and should not offend you in any way. You should accept any help you can from your Sagittarius mate, friend or co-worker, knowing that he or she is just
attempting to find the easiest way to perform tasks or find answers to questions that is in his or her mind.

How to Guarantee a Successful Relationship with a Sagittarius

One of the first things to remember about Sagittarius is they do not like anything routine. They much prefer being involved in situations that allow them to change and exercise their need for knowledge. This doesn’t mean they can never settle into a routine if it becomes necessary, but it is not the type of situation they prefer. Unless they have the thrill of knowing there may be change in the future, a Sagittarius may become bored and feel trapped.

The Archer needs to be faced with new challenges and situations in order to remain content, especially when it comes to his or her careers. At the same time they are highly responsible individuals and will allow their reliable judgment capabilities to overrule their need to throw caution into the air and follow their own course of action.

You will also discover as you get to know a Sagittarius that they are also very clever individuals. This may be due in part to the fact that they are well read and highly educated. When you get into a conversation with this sign, you are likely to be talking for hours although it will only seem to be a few minutes.

Another thing to keep in mind about a Sagittarius is they love travel and a sense of freedom. This sign is not usually content to stay at home but prefers activities that will take him or her away from home. Sagittarians love to travel to new places in order to learn about the atmosphere and culture. You may even find them picking up the accent of the places where they travel and taking it with them to their next stop. This is not
something they do to disrespect the natives of those locations but rather as a means for them to enjoy life to the fullest.

When it comes to signs that are compatible with Sagittarius, you will find there are two signs that are the most compatible with Sagittarius. These two signs are compatible for both friendship and love. The first sign is Aries, and this is partly because both Aries and Sagittarius share a love of adventure. While one might think the natural leadership qualities would cause conflicts with Sagittarius, the reality is that the Archer doesn’t mind being a follower as long as the road leads somewhere and is not just a dead end.

While both sides find rules impulsive and enjoy freedom, Aries is rather impulsive and quick to anger. However, Sagittarius possesses the responsibility and sound judgment that can help keep this kind of relationship on an even level.

Leo is also a great match for Sagittarius because of Leo’s personality and his or her love of attention. The Lion is always enthusiastic and full of energy with a deep creative sense that helps make life interesting for even the activity-seeking Sagittarius. Both Sagittarius and Leos enjoy action, a trait that helps them pair very well with Sagittarians. Both Leo and Sagittarius love the sense of adventure in traveling and are enthusiastic about the arts.

Developing a Harmonious Relationship with a Gay Sagittarius Male

Once you learn the Sagittarius of your dreams is passionate, sensitive and likes the same things you like, it is important to still remain somewhat aloof. Just because it may seem he has a genuine interest in dating you, it’s also important to remember he is an expert when it comes to being a “player.” The one thing you want to avoid at all costs is thinking you have a match made in heaven just because your Sagittarius always does things to please you. This is the nature of Sagittarius—at least while he remains interested in you.

One thing you must always remember is the Archer can be predominantly a “player” and will always make it a point to remain the object of your affections. It is not strangely impossible that he may have researched your life in order to understand you better and know what makes you happy and makes you “tick.” While he may do things that interest you and make you happy because he really is interested in you, he will become bored and disinterested if you make the mistake of removing the mystery by confessing all your innermost hopes and dreams. The key to keeping a gay Sagittarius male interested is to maintain a certain level of mystery to keep him guessing. While this is a very easy mistake to make, it can be the death of any potential relationship you man have with the man of your dreams.

Sagittarius males whether gay or not like their lovers to have a certain element of mystery, and if you allow them to know too much about you, he will quickly lose interest. Why? Because once he feels he knows everything about you he will see you as boring and uninteresting and no longer exciting. On the bright side this doesn’t mean a Sagittarius is not a good lover just because he is quick to fall out of love—the elements of love and sex are completely separate to a gay Sagittarius male.

The key to holding onto a relationship with a Sagittarius lover is to make sure he never knows everything about you. You also don’t want to make be too easy of a “catch” because once the excitement of the chase is over; he is likely to lose interest quickly. They are excited by the chase rather than gaining the prize in the end, so the longer it takes him to learn all of your little secrets, the longer you will be guaranteed to retain
his interest. He may even enjoy a lover who is subject to mood swings, exhibits a diva attitude or has a fiery temper. Certainly these attitudes are not true of all gay Sagittarius males any more than the traits of other signs are predominant among all born under those signs, but you want to make sure you understand the possibilities and be ready to act upon them.

Keep in mind even if you are not interested in a long term relationship with a Sagittarius, you can be sure you will find one of the best lovers in the world. The Archer is extremely passionate, has no problem with experimenting, and his tendency to become bored easily makes him ready and willing to try many different sexual positions. In fact, his love of emotional variety contributes strongly to his ability to be a great lover.

Sagittarius in the Business World

When it comes to their careers Sagittarians are very driven individuals even to the point of neglecting their friends and family. While this certainly is an attractive trait for managers and supervisors it can be frustrating to friends and family who may plan events only to find they must reschedule due to work commitments. Sagittarians will always put their careers before everything else including their spouses and children, something that can cause somewhat of a conflict on the home front. However, this is not a trait that anyone is going to change in a Sagittarius—it comes along with their need for knowledge and their quest to always be doing something.

With the gifts Sagittarians possess, they are great as teachers and philosophers. This relates partly to their ability and talent to fully explain the moral principles and laws that surround the universe in which we live. They are not able to fully explain these principles, but they find great pleasure in researching the information in order to satisfy their very active minds. Sagittarians must always be increasing their knowledge of the world and its surroundings. Their very active minds demand to be filled with new knowledge all the time. They need to learn and expand their knowledge in order to maintain a sense of balance in their over-active minds.

The gift Sagittarians possess also makes them naturals in the clergy as well as scientists. On the one hand they are good talkers, an essential quality for those working in the clergy whether as ministers, bishops or other important positions. They must be able to speak not only to large crowds of people in the church and other locations, but they must also be able to speak to people on an individual basis, sometimes in a counseling capacity. This natural ability to talk to people—or the gift of gab—is one that will help Sagittarius in many ways within the realm of various types of church and other charitable work.

Why would they be good as scientists? The fact that they are so eager for knowledge and must answer any questions that come into their very active minds makes them great choices as scientists. This position will put them in their realm of glory because they will be able to research, hypothesize and formulate the answers to many different questions. Being able to conduct all the preliminary research will allow them to choose which questions they wish to answer based on those that enter their minds at any given moment.

Sagittarians will also be great in law, politics, public service, social administration, public relations and advertising. These roles are also ones that are possible because of the Sagittarians gift of gab. The fact that they also like to be in control can be very helpful in these roles as well, especially when it pertains to law, politics and public service. There is a definite need in those positions for someone to be in control of the situation and know what to do at just the right time. Sagittarius with their ability to talk incessantly can certainly fit perfectly into any of these roles.

right thing for them. Some of the different possibilities include working on cruise ships, pilots, flight attendants, bus drivers, train conductors, professional athletes, professional dancers, and many more. If the job opportunities are limited in these areas, other possibilities are joining the armed forces or working as a traveling salesman. In fact many people join the military specifically for the traveling, especially the Navy where they can travel many places while onboard a ship.

Sagittarians are well-suited to many different occupations, especially if they involve a combination of travel and exploration. If they can use their brilliance in order to resolve those questions that come into their minds while also being able to keep their restless bodies on the move, they are in the perfect position. That doesn’t mean they will not fit well into other positions as well, but these situations allow them more control over their own lives which is what Sagittarians like the most.

One thing is for sure: Sagittarians would not be happy working in an office where they have to sit all day long and perform the same tasks. They need to challenge their minds which eliminate positions such as data entry, collections and customer service where they would be sitting all day doing the exact same job. They might be suited to a job as an accountant or financial analyst because it would challenge them to figure out the right solution. There is no doubt, however, that whatever position they obtain they will do well because they are very driven individuals that have a tendency to put their careers in front of their family and friends.

Sagittarians are also very loyal as friends, mates and employees. Their loyalty is one of their very endearing qualities and tends to override their tendency to fly off the handle at small things. Of course, they also know when it is appropriate to show anger and when it is appropriate to act professionally. Since they are interested in getting ahead and they put their all into their work, they are not likely to jeopardize all of that and become upset without cause or show their anger inappropriately.

One word of caution: even in the workplace Sagittarians need to be in control which is why they are better suited to some positions than others. It is essential to avoid being confrontational with Sagittarians or to challenge them in the workplace, especially if you are on the same level as they are. They can respect authority but will not be controlled by someone who is on the exact same level as they are in the work environment.

How Sagittarius Relates to Home and Family

While it is natural to assume that because Sagittarians are so difficult to live with they might avoid marriage and relationships, but this is far from the case. It is surely difficult to live with a Sagittarius, but those who are willing to compromise in order to avoid extensive conflicts within the home will discover they are very loyal and devoted to their spouses and children. The key to making a marriage or any other relationship with a Sagittarius work is learning to expect the unexpected, especially when it comes to their moods which can often change from being happy and upbeat one minute to angry outbursts the next. These angry outbursts often come with no
provocation and certainly have no warning.

Another thing many people will find difficult with Sagittarians is they have a tendency to place their careers before their family and friends. This can be very difficult, especially for those who do not share this trait. It can also be very frustrating for the spouse who makes plans and then has to cancel because the Sagittarius spouse suddenly decides there are things at work he or she must handle that cannot wait. This tendency to place work before the children can be very disappointing, especially if it causes the parent to be unable to attend functions that are of great importance to the children. While a spouse is likely to express frustration, these things can be
very traumatizing for the children, especially young children, who are unable to understand why they must take a backseat to the career of their parent.

On the other hand Sagittarians are very indulgent parents who often need the spouse to lay down ground rules for the children. While the children are not likely to mind the lack of parental control, it is not a healthy situation for growing up. One of the parents has to assume the role of disciplinarian in order for the children to grow up healthy, happy and able to handle all of the things life will hand them once they are on their own. The Sagittarius parent doesn’t always understand this concept, so it is important for the other parent to assume this role and make sure the children follow their lead and direction.

Sagittarians are also very adventurous individuals who find it difficult to stay in one place. This doesn’t mean they have the need to move from place to place like nomads but rather that they always have to be busy doing something active. You won’t usually find a Sagittarius spending time sitting around watching television in his or her leisure time although this may occasionally happen at the very end of the night. Sagittarians needs to be busy whether it is playing sports, working in the garden, doing necessary home repairs, camping/hiking, or doing something that is intellectually stimulating. The important thing to remember is never attempt to confine a
Sagittarius—this sign requires freedom of movement in order to be happy.

Although Sagittarians are capable of living on their own, they can also live happily in a committed relationship or marriage provided they find someone who is strong enough to tame who is a very loyal and faithful spouse or partner. If you want to keep a Sagittarius happy and interested you will need to find things that will allow them to stimulate their minds and engage in activities that will allow them to exercise their adventurous nature. Even in a relationship they do not like to feel confined or smothered—they need to have the freedom to move and do things they find interesting and stimulating. Some see this need for freedom as a type of restlessness,
but it is something on which a couple can compromise in order to build a good relationship with both the spouse and children.

Since Sagittarians are very adventurous by nature you can expect to take vacations that involve exotic locations or a great deal of activities. Camping and hiking are two activities that will certainly keep Sagittarius happy while at the same time giving him or her the outlet for quality family time. This is especially true when they spend time in the mountains where there is the likelihood for many other activities including hunting, fishing, water skiing, hiking, and various types of active sports activities. While it is certainly helpful for two adventurous types to develop a relationship, it is also possible to build a relationship as long as the non-adventurous one is willing to share in some of the activities the Sagittarius enjoys and allow him or her the freedom to participate in other activities alone or with other friends.

Being in a relationship of any kind with a Sagittarius requires a great deal of compromise. This is not just because of their adventurous natures but also the fact they are quick to explode over the least little thing and devote so much time to their careers. This means there is a great deal of compromise required of the family in order for them to accommodate the needs of this sign. It is clearly not the Sagittarius that is going to make the sacrifice or compromise because he or she will not feel it is necessary nor will they feel there is anything wrong with the way they are handling their family issues.

If you want to spend more time with your Sagittarius spouse or parent you will need to learn to participate in some of the things they find important and exciting. That doesn’t mean you have to like all of the same things they like, but if you overlook your distaste for some of those activities, you will be able to spend more time with your spouse or parent. For instance, go hiking sometimes just for the outdoor adventure and quality time instead of complaining you never have time together.

What the Sagittarius Expects in a Mate

While all of the astrological signs have specific traits that set them apart from others, Sagittarius has some that can be rather difficult to handle for many people. This is especially true when the Sagittarius links up with either another Sagittarius or another sign that has similar personality traits to some of those that encompass Sagittarius. Even though another person may not possess all of the same traits as the Sagittarius, there may be conflicts handling actions that occur with those traits that are similar. It’s important to understand what Sagittarius expects in a mate before you allow yourself to become actively involved with this sign.

One of the first things Sagittarius expects from a mate is acceptance for what they are. Do not attempt to make Sagittarius in someone else or attempt to change them in any way. Instead of trying to execute change, you must be willing to compromise with them in order to prevent them from feeling confined. The Sagittarius mate will quickly become frustrated if he feels he is being constrained in the relationship and may even begin to entertain thoughts about finding other ways to express his naturally adventurous nature. You will immensely please your Sagittarius mate if you make the effort to engage in some of the adventures he enjoys. Certainly you are not going to enjoy everything, and he will not expect you to follow him everywhere he goes, but if you can compromise with him on some things and allow him to go about alone on others you will be well on the way to making him a much happier person to be around.

If you want to make your Sagittarius happy it is important for you to develop an understanding of how they work and what they expect from you in return. It’s important to understand the way the mind of a Sagittarius works. A couple of things you also need to know is their minds have a wide range of emotions inside that can cause the Sagittarius to fly on the handle with no warning whatsoever. You must learn not to take these outbursts personally because if you have done nothing to provoke them, you can be sure it is nothing you did. The problem is the Sagittarius has such an active mind that he may actually be thinking of something in his past that he feels he
could have done a different way and will actually become angry at himself for not knowing that at the time.

The Sagittarius is also a big talker and can keep talking for hours without even thinking about asking for your input. You want to avoid allowing them to continue in this manner no matter how interested you may be in what they are saying. Not only is the Sagittarius a wonderful conversationalist, they are also extremely brilliant and intellectual, but if you allow them to monopolize the conversation they may see you as witless and unintelligent both traits they would fine extremely boring. Sagittarius needs a mate that is on their level intellectually and with whom they can hold an intelligent conversation. They want your input and need to know that you have
something interesting and intelligent to add to the conversation.

and be idle. It’s important for them to be doing something, and if you want to be able to spend time with your mate, you must learn to accommodate that need. Even if you take a trip into the mountains and there is no one else around, it will be necessary for the Sagittarius to find something to do whether it means finding a way to make the cabin cozier or researching the surroundings to find out how others may have lived—he may even be tempted to research and think about what may have caused someone to build the cabin in which you are staying and why they chose the specific indoor and outdoor design.

Sagittarians are very curious individuals and have a need to find answers to every single question that enters their minds. When you buy a gift for your Sagittarius mate, stay away from simple every day gifts such as jewelry, clothing or music CDs. Instead choose gifts that will allow them to challenge their minds. A giant crossword puzzle or a book on a topic that interests them will be one they appreciate. Sagittarians need to stimulate their minds at all times, so you need to use that to your advantage when you choose gifts for a Sagittarius.

When you are with a Sagittarius mate you do not want to make any attempt to keep him on a leash. Sagittarians are not clingy individuals and do not find it necessary to depend on other people. Because they are so fiercely independent they will not tolerate restrictions very well at all. The Sagittarius must always be in control, so you must avoid attempting to dominate them. This action will cause them to walk away from the relationship—even if you are married. They will not hesitate to tell other people about the kind of person you were which could have a negative affect on any future relationships you might attempt to develop.

The most important thing to remember is Sagittarians expect you to accept them just the way you are without making any attempts to change them. Any attempt to try to change a Sagittarius will cause you to lose sight of not only your mate but also the relationship. These quick thinkers are always quite upbeat and happy and prefer to be around others who are the same way. Unfortunately they also can come across as rather conceited though not in an outward way. They tend to subconsciously brag to themselves about how great they are, thoughts that can sometimes project themselves into actions. You also must understand their need to dig deeper to find logical reasons for various thoughts that come into their minds while at the same time understand their obsessive quest for knowledge and love of life in general.

Building a Harmonious Relationship with a Sagittarius

Sagittarius is possibly one of the most difficult of all the astrological signs when it comes to living harmoniously. While they are certainly very loyal and devoted as both friends and lovers, they are also prone to sudden outbursts of anger and frustration. While this is not something you should take personally, it may indeed be something you have difficulty understanding and tolerating. After all, not everyone can continue a relationship of any kind with someone who has the tendency to fly off the handle, sometimes for no apparent reason. In order to maintain any kind of relationship with a Sagittarius—friend or lover—you need to be prepared for these sudden angry outbursts and understand it is during these times you are better off to just sit and be quiet or walk away until the anger subsides.

Another problem many people have when it comes to having any kind of a relationship with a Sagittarius is their tendency to place their careers above everything else. This means there may be times when you make plans to go out, and something at work comes up preventing you from going through with your plans. It may be something that appears unimportant to you, but to the Sagittarius anything that involves his or her career is more important than anything else. They are very driven individuals by nature, a trait than is very difficult for those who are not committed to their careers to the same intensity to understand and tolerate. This can cause a great deal of disappointment and even animosity when both individuals are headstrong and unwilling to compromise.

Sagittarians are also adventurous individuals who find it almost impossible to stay still. They must also be doing something, and if you tempt to confine them you will make them unhappy. They need to have freedom to do the things they enjoy doing, and if you are unable or unwilling to join them in their quests for adventure, you must allow them to pursue those adventures on their own or with another friend. While it is easy to believe these traits might make the Sagittarius an unsuitable—or unwilling—partner for marriage that is certainly not the case. However, it does mean the person who is fortunate enough to get Sagittarius to commit to marriage will also need to have a great deal of strength and endurance to handle this adventurous individual.

Because of the adventurous nature of the Sagittarius, it is essential to keep him or her interested. Remember, they do not like to feel confined or tied down even if they are in a romantic relationship or marriage. Some people may see this need for freedom as a sign of restlessness, and while that may be partly true, this does not mean that the Sagittarius is unable to achieve a lasting relationship that includes marriage and devotion to family. One of the things you want to do if you are involved with a Sagittarius either as a friend or partner is take the time to engage in some of the activities he or she enjoys. While someone who has the same adventurous nature is the perfect match for a Sagittarius, you can build a good relationship by sharing some of the activities that are important to your friend or partner. Of course, if you have a total aversion to some of those activities (for instance, you won’t go hunting because you don’t believe in killing animals for sport or you won’t skydive because you have a fear of heights), you can still get around the problem by allowing your friend or mate to engage in those activities alone or with a friend who enjoys the same activities.

In terms of family life there are two problems that are likely to create a less than harmonious situation unless the couple is willing to work together and develop a compromise. One of the first problems is their tendency to be very indulgent parents. In order to overcome this problem there is a need for the other parent in the home to be responsible for setting down the ground rules for the children. Another problem that may occur in the home of Sagittarius is their need to invest heavily into their careers. This can cause both their spouses and children to feel neglected. It often appears they are married to their careers rather than their spouses, and this can cause friction within the household if you are not careful.

You never want to attempt to change a Sagittarius in order to fit your mold. You must accept them for what they are and work diligently at compromise in order to prevent them from feeling confined or restrained in the relationship. They have the need to feed their adventurous natures and they will resent any attempt by anyone to restrain them from expressing this part of their personalities. If your Sagittarius mate thinks for a moment you are attempting to restrain him or prevent him from engaging in those activities that are part of his adventurous nature, he is likely to become very frustrated and may even look for other ways to engage in some adventure.

It’s important to remember that in spite of some of the faults Sagittarius may seem to have, you cannot find a more loyal friend or devoted spouse or partner. While they are adventurous and unable to sit still, it is difficult to find anyone who would be more on your side and willing to stay with you through thick and thin. While they are high achievers and very driven individuals, they also believe in carrying their own weight. You won’t find a Sagittarius who is willing to sit back and let someone else take care of him or her—he needs to be active and being active also means he must be actively pursuing his career and working to get ahead. His ambitions will help
him find ways to pursue his love of adventure.