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What A Sagittarius Man Needs from A Partner

Sometimes a Sagittarius seem to possess a multi-layered personality that it’s hard to know how to act around them. He may have that come what may attitude but he can also be an intense and dedicated lover. He’ll constantly spring up with new ideas and activities that would keep you on your toes. He’ll surprise you with home cooked meals and small tokens for gifts when he feels like it. If you have a Sagittarius partner you will know that they are a romantic through and through. You will also know that they can sometimes do something different from what they say. Not that they’re fickle, they just act on impulse most of the times and rely on their instincts. So even if they planned to do something with you over the weekend it could still change depending on his mood.

This varying persona creates a confusion as to what the Archer expects or needs from a partner. But observing his different activities and moods will also give you an insight on how to interact with him and give him what he needs. It’s actually that simple.

For starters, you have to have a sharp brain. You’ll notice how he takes a liking to philosophical and intellectual movies, books, or any other type of media. He likes solving puzzles and won’t stop until he figures something out. In this case you should also stimulate your brain and smarten up to make sure you keep up with him. He’d like someone of the same intellectual capacity. He’d get bored if he can’t talk to you about the thing that interests him.

Sports and socializing. Odd combination? Not really. He’s a very physical guy with a lot of energy to spend so make sure he spends it the way that would benefit you both. It’s never too late to learn a sport. If he offers to take you with him or teach you how his sport go for it. If he doesn’t then ask if you can. If you’re not a sporty type of person just try. Who knows, you might actually like it. If you decide you don’t both of you can try a new sport. Something both of you may like. And if all else fails, you can always go to his game with his friends and cheer for him. You can meet his friends’ girlfriends too. As for socializing, this in itself is energy consuming. But there are also activities that will help you socialize. Dancing for example. Go out and party with him. It could be with your friends and his friends or just the two of you hitting the club making mew friends. He’d like that. He likes to meet new people so encouraging him to do so by going with him would make him love you more.

Sex. Not just lots of it. A variety of it. You may say he’s a guy and it’s a given. Although this is true, keep in mind that the Archer likes trying out new things. Keep him on his toes by surprising him with a sensual massage or a quickie in the club bathroom. If that’s too much for you try a lap dance at home. If you’re scared of upsetting him by going overboard you can always ask him what he wants. :p

Lots of trust and long patience. He needs these from you. He can be crass at times but remember that he doesn’t mean to hurt you. He can just be honest and would rather go straight to the point than beat around the bush. Also remember that it takes forever for a Sag guy to commit so if he’s with you … that means a lot.

What A Sagittarius Woman Needs From A Partner

A Sagittarius woman when in love is very straightforward to the point of wearing their hearts on their sleeves. They are passionate lovers and very sincere to their partner. The happy-go-lucky persona won’t disappear completely but they get serious when they feel it’s the right time and they know they’re with the right person. Whatever guy the elusive Sagittarius lady falls for is in for a surprise. You may be showered with candle lit dinners with home-cooked gourmet food, little presents when you wake up in the morning or just a naked woman in your tub with a glass of wine and two tall stemmed glasses in her hands when you get home from a long day at work.

Now, all of these doesn’t come for free. Not that a Sagittarius girl can be bought. She’s one of the most independent souls in the world but as giving as she can be to the love of her life, she has her needs too. Now you, lucky guy that you are, wouldn’t want to ignore these and risk losing the treasure you’ve found. So what does a Sagittarius woman need from her partner?

A whole lotta lovin’. If she can give you that then she deserves to get it back. You might want to upgrade on sweetness because she’d want to have someone to be sweet with. She’d like the phone calls in the middle of the day to ask if she’s had lunch or the occasional showing-up-in-her-office-to-ask-her-to-lunch; flowers would give it a nice touch too. When we say lovin’ it also means you have to upgrade on your lovemaking skills. You’re going to have to think of ways to keep her on her toes and make her want you more. :p

Other activities. There’s no other way to put it. If you think you can use up all her energy in bed, you have a lot to learn about this girl’s stamina. Take her out for a hike, ride your bike, go swim or just do any outdoor sports with her. You get to hit about a dozen birds with one stone on this one like spend time with her, get to know her more, have fun with her or even get some physical activity for yourself as well.

Friendship. A Sagittarius woman likes to share. As much as she loves getting shagged at the end of the day, she’d also want someone to talk to about how her day went at the office, how someone cut her up the line at Starbucks or how her mother always tells her it’s about time to have kids when she doesn’t want one yet.

Me Time. It’s been said over and over that a Sagittarius has a tendency to be “claustrophobic” in a relationship. Don’t smother her with text messages asking where she is or who she’s with. Let her go out with her friends and other people you don’t hang out with. A Sagittarius woman values her independence and likes the idea of living a life outside of the relationship also keeps her on her toes. Trust her to have fun and never forget herself. And you of course.

In some ways, you can say these are things you can do to “keep” your Sagittarius partner but that just sounds selfish. The only way you can get things wrong is thinking that any of these is such a task. If you look at it closely, they’re really just normal stuff any other relationship needs so what have you got to lose? :)

What Happens When You Hurt A Sagittarius

Those under the Sagittarius sign are probably the easiest to get along with because they don’t like to pretend they’re somebody else to please the people around them. Yes they take pleasure at making people laugh (and who doesn’t) and sometimes they may go out of the way to accommodate friends but only if the favors doesn’t clash with their principles and, more importantly, their schedule.

First off, Sagittarius people are hard to piss off. They have a pretty good sense of humor which can be dry and sarcastic so they know how to handle a joke when it’s thrown at them. They can also be callous without intending to be and as intelligent as they are, they can be dense when it comes to other people’s feelings so you need to spell it out for them. A Sag is usually seen as a very happy-go-lucky and come-what-may person but they also know how to get serious in life. They just don’t like getting stressed all the time. All that said, it doesn’t mean they don’t know how to get angry or sad. It just takes a lot for them to get hurt because they’re not very sensitive like the water signs for example. They like to live life and doesn’t sweat the small stuff.

Now, you know what they say about what could happen when the other shoe drops? It’s not that true with most Sags. They are mutable signs and learn how to adapt easily. They get hurt but they have the sense not to dwell on the negative things that happen to them or around them. This is one of the strengths of the Archer. They learn to shun out the negative people and things in their lives and charge it to experience so, although they are seen as careless when they’re young, they mature to be strong and wise individuals. They are good at learning from experiences and they only use it to make their next actions better. Now, whether they forgive you or not depends on the level of the damage you made. Telling them their dress looks awful probably won’t affect them too much. She’ll ponder on it for a couple hours but will also either immediately try to think of a way to remedy the situation or think of a nice come back to make the conversation lighter and funny instead of insulting. However, it could take a Sag relatively longer to get over things if you cheat on them. They may even make a scene upon finding out but they will learn to let go eventually and even sooner than you would expect but don’t think they’d readily take you back. When Sags let go, they let go completely. They’re not the most patient person when it comes to fixing broken things. They’d much rather look for something new to replace the last one. It’s just too messy and too much trouble for them. Although they are very forgiving and probably let the things you do slide most of the times, they are still human and there will come a time they’re going to say enough is enough.

Sagittarius-Pisces Compatibility: Ideal, Bad or Good Enough?

The fact that in the real sense water can put out flame makes this couple an interesting or even an unusual one. On the front, it might seem their differences are worlds apart because of their elements but the stars have proven to give a stronger pull that can make it work out. It’s true that they’re not like other couples that will have an instant attraction like fire to air but the thing that can make them a good couple is if they can see through the differences and work their way towards a good ending by using what similarities they have. For people who wants a fairy tale affair this is something they might call settling for the good enough, but is it really just that?

Pisces ruling planet is Neptune but Jupiter also plays a big part on their sign. This makes them share a lot of similarities with the Sag. They have the same goals in life although the approach may be different. Jupiter is perceived to be larger than life. Its influence makes the Sag want to get more of anything they put their hands on. They’re not the type to work on a project half heartedly. For them it’s all or nothing. Pisces goals are the same as the Archer’s but not necessarily in the same scale. They are a bit more practical and grounded than the fiery sign. Sag is much more optimistic and determined whereas the fish has some things that draw them back. The good thing about this is that as a couple, they could get what they need from each other. A Sag can tell the Pisces things that they need to hear to boost their confidence; the Fish can be a good and honest critique for whatever the Archer is working on. Unlike the fire element who just takes things head-on, water governed signs are a bit too sensitive so they must keep things in check especially if Sag is just trying to help by being honest. Jupiter is also associated with philosophy. Both Sag and Pisces are intellectual so they will have a lot of things to talk about. They may or may not agree with each other’s opinion but the exchange of ideas or even the debate itself will be very much enjoyed.

Sagittarius loves figuring out puzzles and they will enjoy getting to know the somewhat mysterious Pisces. The fish may not take the trophy for being the most mysterious sign but their water level have a certain depth of their own that is quite intriguing and that is something to begin with for the Sag. They are both romantic and loving but the Sagittarius might find Pisces a bit boring (don’t tell them that bluntly) when the initial attraction wears off. The Pisces, on the other hand, may find them too harsh or sort of unattached to be with in a long term relationship. Sagittarius wants never ending excitement in their lives. They look for adventure every day and most Pisces are content with just staying home and spending time with family or friends. They are quiet and keep to themselves. Sexually they can be very compatible as a Pisces usually has some tricks up their sleeves. However, there are more pressing matters to secure.

There is going to be a lot of adjustments if this couple want to make things work out. This is the make it or break it type. There are just things they need to let go if they want to stay together. This is not a bad relationship but it’s not for those who wants to stick to what is “ideal.” Rather, this is something for people who doesn’t mind working to get their happily ever after.

Keep Your Sagittarius Relationship Interesting

You finally got your ideal mate so the question now becomes: how do you keep your Sagittarius partner? It doesn’t stop at getting the Sagittarius person you’ve been targeting. You might have seduced them or got them to date you but what’s going to keep them with you? Among all the zodiacs people born under the Sagittarius sign are the easiest to get bored. It goes the same in relationships.

Sagittarians aren’t really players; they can be the most faithful partners. But they need to be constantly on the go. There has to be a variety in everything they do and everything they have. When in a relationship, Sagittarius tries their best to make it work out. So it’s just fair to do the same thing for them. Don’t be a lazy partner. In general, if you want something work on it. It’s a two way process so you have to remember to give as much as you take.

The horoscope said Sagittarius people are happy people. They are fun, are always full of laughter and very active. Start there and figure out fun things you can do together. Take a married couple for example. After a few months of being together they stop going out regularly and the honeymoon stage ends. They either concentrate on work or stay home during their free time to watch TV together. They start to build a secure family that they forget to work on their relationship as well. The “honeymoon stage” doesn’t really need to end. It was just a term that people made up. Try to go back to how you were before when you started dating. How does that feel? You get butterflies on your stomach? You feel excited every time you go on a date? That’s how it should always feel. Don’t stop doing the activities you used to do when you were just dating if both of you still enjoy doing that. Or try something new too. A Sagittarius partner will get bored if he or she comes home and all you have to talk about are the bills you need to pay or the roof you have to get fixed or what’s up in the latest reality TV show.  Now if you said you’ve signed up both of you in that reality TV show then that would get their attention.

Pay attention to the little things. When dating it’s natural to compliment your date about the clothes they wear. About the effort they went through just so they can come up with a romantic date. Once in a relationship people forget to notice these small things. It said in a song that: “it’s those little things that mean so much” and it’s true.

It all boils down to the fact of both of you keeping your relationship as hot and as exciting as when you were first dating. The flowers, small tokens, candle light dinners, out of town trips (jus the two of you) doesn’t have to end just because you’re married and already have kids or you already feel secure about the relationship.