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How to Communicate With A Sagittarius Woman

When talking to a Sagittarius woman, don’t beat around the bush. Although they’re good with flowery words (both giving and receiving) they like to get the facts about an issue straight. Especially if it’s an important one that needs to be resolved. Most women likes to talk but a lot of them would hold back and hesitate when sharing sensitive issues. Some may even think they’re doing it for the good of their partner or whoever they’re talking to. A Sag girl has always been straight forward and has the “hey here’s the deal, what do we do about it” attitude.

There’s really no problem communicating with a Sagittarius woman. She is very open and vocal about her ideas, her opinions and her feelings. She likes to be heard and would also listen intently if you need an audience. That being said, it’s confusing how they are often misinterpreted even by their partners. That’s because the problem lies on interpretation. Not only of her words but also her actions.

A Sag girl values her independence so, as much as possible, she would do what she wants and she will tell you that. This attitude makes her look selfish and leads one to think that the Sag won’t listen to your reasoning or suggestions. Keep in mind that they are not completely fickle. These independent, come-what-may individuals are the same philosophical and open-minded bunch that wouldn’t hesitate to put their feet in other people’s shoes in order to understand the current situation.

They just have a stubborn streak that makes them think what they’re doing is right or their idea is the right one. But really, who doesn’t? Just tell them outright that the matter is serious and needs to be talked about and thought about thoroughly and she will listen. Sag women are highly intelligent and understands the whole world doesn’t revolve around her.

Also, they don’t like feeling caged in so they don’t like being told what to do. Don’t make her feel that way. Make sure you give her the chance to contemplate on the issue and figure it out on her own. Don’t push your ideas on her. You can say “this is what I think about it” or “this is how i feel about it, what about you?” Value her opinions and feelings and make sure she knows that you do.  Trust that she knows what to do in times of crisis because most of the times, she would. Do not underestimate a Sagittarius’ capability to handle stress and problems. She has a clear mind and keeps a level head most of the time. A matured and developed Sag woman will surprise you with how she can think of a solution that is feasible.

Another thing that may be worthy of note when a guy has issues with his Sag partner. Most women would take offense on this no matter how you put it but for the Sagittarius woman, as long as you are within reason and puts it nicely and sincerely. Hear her out and she will hear you.

 

What A Sagittarius Woman Needs From A Partner

A Sagittarius woman when in love is very straightforward to the point of wearing their hearts on their sleeves. They are passionate lovers and very sincere to their partner. The happy-go-lucky persona won’t disappear completely but they get serious when they feel it’s the right time and they know they’re with the right person. Whatever guy the elusive Sagittarius lady falls for is in for a surprise. You may be showered with candle lit dinners with home-cooked gourmet food, little presents when you wake up in the morning or just a naked woman in your tub with a glass of wine and two tall stemmed glasses in her hands when you get home from a long day at work.

Now, all of these doesn’t come for free. Not that a Sagittarius girl can be bought. She’s one of the most independent souls in the world but as giving as she can be to the love of her life, she has her needs too. Now you, lucky guy that you are, wouldn’t want to ignore these and risk losing the treasure you’ve found. So what does a Sagittarius woman need from her partner?

A whole lotta lovin’. If she can give you that then she deserves to get it back. You might want to upgrade on sweetness because she’d want to have someone to be sweet with. She’d like the phone calls in the middle of the day to ask if she’s had lunch or the occasional showing-up-in-her-office-to-ask-her-to-lunch; flowers would give it a nice touch too. When we say lovin’ it also means you have to upgrade on your lovemaking skills. You’re going to have to think of ways to keep her on her toes and make her want you more. :p

Other activities. There’s no other way to put it. If you think you can use up all her energy in bed, you have a lot to learn about this girl’s stamina. Take her out for a hike, ride your bike, go swim or just do any outdoor sports with her. You get to hit about a dozen birds with one stone on this one like spend time with her, get to know her more, have fun with her or even get some physical activity for yourself as well.

Friendship. A Sagittarius woman likes to share. As much as she loves getting shagged at the end of the day, she’d also want someone to talk to about how her day went at the office, how someone cut her up the line at Starbucks or how her mother always tells her it’s about time to have kids when she doesn’t want one yet.

Me Time. It’s been said over and over that a Sagittarius has a tendency to be “claustrophobic” in a relationship. Don’t smother her with text messages asking where she is or who she’s with. Let her go out with her friends and other people you don’t hang out with. A Sagittarius woman values her independence and likes the idea of living a life outside of the relationship also keeps her on her toes. Trust her to have fun and never forget herself. And you of course.

In some ways, you can say these are things you can do to “keep” your Sagittarius partner but that just sounds selfish. The only way you can get things wrong is thinking that any of these is such a task. If you look at it closely, they’re really just normal stuff any other relationship needs so what have you got to lose? :)

Avoiding Conflict in all Relationships with a Sagittarius

Conflict goes above and beyond just the dating stage. There are other occasions when you may be in a position that might cause conflict, especially within the workplace. It is important to know things about Sagittarius in order to know what to expect and how to avoid getting into an unnecessary confrontation. All relationships whether personal or business are likely to have some conflict, but the important thing is to know how to handle conflict in order to lessen the aftermath of the conflict. In the workplace it can create a great deal of tension and anxiety for others in the immediate area, so you want to learn how to avoid any conflict before it has a chance to begin.

Sagittarians are very inquisitive and curious, a trait that can be both good and bad. They also need to find out everything about life and how they individually fit into the scheme of life. They are not the type of people who will be content for someone else to tell them what is going on around them; they must find out the answers for themselves. Even if you take them away from civilization and put them on a desert island they will conduct research and maybe even try to find a way to get back to civilization. They prefer finding their own answers to problems instead of allowing someone else to give them the answers.

Sagittarians are highly intelligent and must always be thinking or doing something or they will become bored and unhappy. They will never be content to just side on sidelines and allow someone else to do all the work—they have to be busy doing something and actively seeking answers to any questions they have. In the workplace this can be both a positive and negative thing because they are likely to even attempt to find new ways to accomplish things thus undermining the thoughts of supervision.

Sagittarius will also not be happy with a job that offers no challenges such as sitting at a desk all day answering telephones without an opportunity to do something worthwhile. They are also not happy with a situation that allows them to remain idle, so any job that provides any kind of time without work to do (outside of lunch and other breaks) will not appeal to a Sagittarius.

In order to avoid conflict with a Sagittarius, it’s important to understand their individual personalities and what makes them tick. For starters, you cannot take things personally if they attempt to change the way you are doing things or look for more information on a topic than you gave them. These traits are both part of the nature of Sagittarians as seekers of information and should not offend you in any way. You should accept any help you can from your Sagittarius mate, friend or co-worker, knowing that he or she is just
attempting to find the easiest way to perform tasks or find answers to questions that is in his or her mind.

The Do’s and Donts when with a Sagittarius

Do’s and Don’t’s when with a Sagittarius

While we are fully aware that each species born bear a different Zodiac attached to his/her fate, we couldn’t deny the fact that to accept the bad points of someone will still be quite difficult. We do, after all, have both positive and negative characteristics, which are sometimes uniquely ours. If you know someone who’s a Sagittarius, and you find it hard to deal with them, you might want to read on to understand why they behave the way they do and how you should “play” along. But if you’re a Sagittarius yourself, well, there’s no need to be all defensive if you find some strange facts about who you really are because we will plainly lay down these cards for you to ponder on.

What we have here are guidelines for a harmonious relationship with a Sagittarius. These are the simple Do’s and Dont’s that we have to remember when faced with a Sagittarius’ company:

DON’T be boring. Sagittarius people have wide ranging minds that could burst without warning. They are great conversationalists and they could talk for hours — without any of your input in the conversation –and still go on without batting a lash. You really don’t want to just stay still and hear them chitchat away because at some point, their overwhelming brilliance could render you witless.

DO think extremes. When you’re stuck in an island with a Sagittarius, not that that happens often, don’t expect him/her to sulk in a corner. They dislike being idle and all they could ever think of is how on Earth they could spend every single second of their lives using their curiosity to answer all the questions that they may happen to have in their restless minds. Gift a Sagittarius a gigantic crossword puzzle, don’t be surprised if they would jump for joy like some kid rather than roll it up and hit you on the face with it. Or maybe even if you’re totally scared of heights, invite him/her for some hardcore bungee jumping (on a cliff maybe). Just prepare yourself if he/she would suddenly consider you their instant BFF when you pass your own test.

DON’T hold them on a leash. Sagittarians are everything but clingy. They tend to live quite peacefully, going about their own business even without someone they’d depend on. Sagittarius people are very independent and would not tolerate restriction. In a relationship, if you just try to dominate them in any
way, they would easily let go of you and worse, will not think twice about broadcasting to other people the kind of person you were when you’re still together. Imagine restraining a mutt struggling to get to a hot and juicy bone. You will get dragged along but a Sagittarius won’t really care as long as they are in control.

DO accept Sagittarius people the way they are. Yes, they’re mighty upbeat and quick thinkers and all that jazz. They’d even “unconsciously brag” how awesome they are but you must not take it all too personal. Besides, all Sagittarians always dig much deeper in search for logical (not necessarily sane)
explanation to almost everything that stirs up their gray matter. The ultimate lesson here is to ride their wagon with ease and enjoy their endless enthusiasm for life!