When talking to a Sagittarius woman, don’t beat around the bush. Although they’re good with flowery words (both giving and receiving) they like to get the facts about an issue straight. Especially if it’s an important one that needs to be resolved. Most women likes to talk but a lot of them would hold back and hesitate when sharing sensitive issues. Some may even think they’re doing it for the good of their partner or whoever they’re talking to. A Sag girl has always been straight forward and has the “hey here’s the deal, what do we do about it” attitude.
There’s really no problem communicating with a Sagittarius woman. She is very open and vocal about her ideas, her opinions and her feelings. She likes to be heard and would also listen intently if you need an audience. That being said, it’s confusing how they are often misinterpreted even by their partners. That’s because the problem lies on interpretation. Not only of her words but also her actions.
A Sag girl values her independence so, as much as possible, she would do what she wants and she will tell you that. This attitude makes her look selfish and leads one to think that the Sag won’t listen to your reasoning or suggestions. Keep in mind that they are not completely fickle. These independent, come-what-may individuals are the same philosophical and open-minded bunch that wouldn’t hesitate to put their feet in other people’s shoes in order to understand the current situation.
They just have a stubborn streak that makes them think what they’re doing is right or their idea is the right one. But really, who doesn’t? Just tell them outright that the matter is serious and needs to be talked about and thought about thoroughly and she will listen. Sag women are highly intelligent and understands the whole world doesn’t revolve around her.
Also, they don’t like feeling caged in so they don’t like being told what to do. Don’t make her feel that way. Make sure you give her the chance to contemplate on the issue and figure it out on her own. Don’t push your ideas on her. You can say “this is what I think about it” or “this is how i feel about it, what about you?” Value her opinions and feelings and make sure she knows that you do. Trust that she knows what to do in times of crisis because most of the times, she would. Do not underestimate a Sagittarius’ capability to handle stress and problems. She has a clear mind and keeps a level head most of the time. A matured and developed Sag woman will surprise you with how she can think of a solution that is feasible.
Another thing that may be worthy of note when a guy has issues with his Sag partner. Most women would take offense on this no matter how you put it but for the Sagittarius woman, as long as you are within reason and puts it nicely and sincerely. Hear her out and she will hear you.