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How to Guarantee a Successful Relationship with a Sagittarius

One of the first things to remember about Sagittarius is they do not like anything routine. They much prefer being involved in situations that allow them to change and exercise their need for knowledge. This doesn’t mean they can never settle into a routine if it becomes necessary, but it is not the type of situation they prefer. Unless they have the thrill of knowing there may be change in the future, a Sagittarius may become bored and feel trapped.

The Archer needs to be faced with new challenges and situations in order to remain content, especially when it comes to his or her careers. At the same time they are highly responsible individuals and will allow their reliable judgment capabilities to overrule their need to throw caution into the air and follow their own course of action.

You will also discover as you get to know a Sagittarius that they are also very clever individuals. This may be due in part to the fact that they are well read and highly educated. When you get into a conversation with this sign, you are likely to be talking for hours although it will only seem to be a few minutes.

Another thing to keep in mind about a Sagittarius is they love travel and a sense of freedom. This sign is not usually content to stay at home but prefers activities that will take him or her away from home. Sagittarians love to travel to new places in order to learn about the atmosphere and culture. You may even find them picking up the accent of the places where they travel and taking it with them to their next stop. This is not
something they do to disrespect the natives of those locations but rather as a means for them to enjoy life to the fullest.

When it comes to signs that are compatible with Sagittarius, you will find there are two signs that are the most compatible with Sagittarius. These two signs are compatible for both friendship and love. The first sign is Aries, and this is partly because both Aries and Sagittarius share a love of adventure. While one might think the natural leadership qualities would cause conflicts with Sagittarius, the reality is that the Archer doesn’t mind being a follower as long as the road leads somewhere and is not just a dead end.

While both sides find rules impulsive and enjoy freedom, Aries is rather impulsive and quick to anger. However, Sagittarius possesses the responsibility and sound judgment that can help keep this kind of relationship on an even level.

Leo is also a great match for Sagittarius because of Leo’s personality and his or her love of attention. The Lion is always enthusiastic and full of energy with a deep creative sense that helps make life interesting for even the activity-seeking Sagittarius. Both Sagittarius and Leos enjoy action, a trait that helps them pair very well with Sagittarians. Both Leo and Sagittarius love the sense of adventure in traveling and are enthusiastic about the arts.

Developing a Harmonious Relationship with a Gay Sagittarius Male

Once you learn the Sagittarius of your dreams is passionate, sensitive and likes the same things you like, it is important to still remain somewhat aloof. Just because it may seem he has a genuine interest in dating you, it’s also important to remember he is an expert when it comes to being a “player.” The one thing you want to avoid at all costs is thinking you have a match made in heaven just because your Sagittarius always does things to please you. This is the nature of Sagittarius—at least while he remains interested in you.

One thing you must always remember is the Archer can be predominantly a “player” and will always make it a point to remain the object of your affections. It is not strangely impossible that he may have researched your life in order to understand you better and know what makes you happy and makes you “tick.” While he may do things that interest you and make you happy because he really is interested in you, he will become bored and disinterested if you make the mistake of removing the mystery by confessing all your innermost hopes and dreams. The key to keeping a gay Sagittarius male interested is to maintain a certain level of mystery to keep him guessing. While this is a very easy mistake to make, it can be the death of any potential relationship you man have with the man of your dreams.

Sagittarius males whether gay or not like their lovers to have a certain element of mystery, and if you allow them to know too much about you, he will quickly lose interest. Why? Because once he feels he knows everything about you he will see you as boring and uninteresting and no longer exciting. On the bright side this doesn’t mean a Sagittarius is not a good lover just because he is quick to fall out of love—the elements of love and sex are completely separate to a gay Sagittarius male.

The key to holding onto a relationship with a Sagittarius lover is to make sure he never knows everything about you. You also don’t want to make be too easy of a “catch” because once the excitement of the chase is over; he is likely to lose interest quickly. They are excited by the chase rather than gaining the prize in the end, so the longer it takes him to learn all of your little secrets, the longer you will be guaranteed to retain
his interest. He may even enjoy a lover who is subject to mood swings, exhibits a diva attitude or has a fiery temper. Certainly these attitudes are not true of all gay Sagittarius males any more than the traits of other signs are predominant among all born under those signs, but you want to make sure you understand the possibilities and be ready to act upon them.

Keep in mind even if you are not interested in a long term relationship with a Sagittarius, you can be sure you will find one of the best lovers in the world. The Archer is extremely passionate, has no problem with experimenting, and his tendency to become bored easily makes him ready and willing to try many different sexual positions. In fact, his love of emotional variety contributes strongly to his ability to be a great lover.