Sometimes a Sagittarius seem to possess a multi-layered personality that it’s hard to know how to act around them. He may have that come what may attitude but he can also be an intense and dedicated lover. He’ll constantly spring up with new ideas and activities that would keep you on your toes. He’ll surprise you with home cooked meals and small tokens for gifts when he feels like it. If you have a Sagittarius partner you will know that they are a romantic through and through. You will also know that they can sometimes do something different from what they say. Not that they’re fickle, they just act on impulse most of the times and rely on their instincts. So even if they planned to do something with you over the weekend it could still change depending on his mood.

This varying persona creates a confusion as to what the Archer expects or needs from a partner. But observing his different activities and moods will also give you an insight on how to interact with him and give him what he needs. It’s actually that simple.

For starters, you have to have a sharp brain. You’ll notice how he takes a liking to philosophical and intellectual movies, books, or any other type of media. He likes solving puzzles and won’t stop until he figures something out. In this case you should also stimulate your brain and smarten up to make sure you keep up with him. He’d like someone of the same intellectual capacity. He’d get bored if he can’t talk to you about the thing that interests him.

Sports and socializing. Odd combination? Not really. He’s a very physical guy with a lot of energy to spend so make sure he spends it the way that would benefit you both. It’s never too late to learn a sport. If he offers to take you with him or teach you how his sport go for it. If he doesn’t then ask if you can. If you’re not a sporty type of person just try. Who knows, you might actually like it. If you decide you don’t both of you can try a new sport. Something both of you may like. And if all else fails, you can always go to his game with his friends and cheer for him. You can meet his friends’ girlfriends too. As for socializing, this in itself is energy consuming. But there are also activities that will help you socialize. Dancing for example. Go out and party with him. It could be with your friends and his friends or just the two of you hitting the club making mew friends. He’d like that. He likes to meet new people so encouraging him to do so by going with him would make him love you more.

Sex. Not just lots of it. A variety of it. You may say he’s a guy and it’s a given. Although this is true, keep in mind that the Archer likes trying out new things. Keep him on his toes by surprising him with a sensual massage or a quickie in the club bathroom. If that’s too much for you try a lap dance at home. If you’re scared of upsetting him by going overboard you can always ask him what he wants. :p

Lots of trust and long patience. He needs these from you. He can be crass at times but remember that he doesn’t mean to hurt you. He can just be honest and would rather go straight to the point than beat around the bush. Also remember that it takes forever for a Sag guy to commit so if he’s with you … that means a lot.

Well the straight up answer is, YES, he will. Most people decide to get married and settle down eventually. A Sagittarius male just tends to do so later than most people. For him, the term “marriage” alone is alarming. It can make him sweat more than when he’s inside the sauna. They like to flirt a lot and tying the knot will put and end to that. At least with other woman other than the bride.

One reason why they don’t marry at the usual “marrying age” is because most Sagittarius needs to find themselves first. They know how to have fun and how to give a good time but that doesn’t mean they know how to stay happy and fun the whole time. They know that parties and events only last a few hours so they need to look for something else to stimulate them and keep going on being happy after that. Just waiting until the next party starts is not acceptable.

They need to feel they’re on their toes constantly. It’s a sure way for them to feel they’re living their lives. The Sagittarius man likes to get the best out of life so they do while they still can. If that means being nonchalant and carefree then so be it. They don’t care much for who people will think about them. They are a bunch of rule breakers but they do know how and when to draw the line. They have a certain standard that they know they should keep up with and as long as they’re abiding by it then things should go smoothly for them.

When it comes to fidelity they aren’t really the most trusted one but it’s mainly because they love to flirt with the opposite sex. One thing you should appreciate though is when a Sagittarius goes home to you at the end of the day. Commitment itself is a huge deal for the archer so give him a little credit.

An important characteristic a Sag’s partner needs to have is patience. A whole lot of it. He is a lot to handle so if you’re not up to the task you better think twice before things get nasty. If you really want him though, all you need is a but more understanding and patience than average Jane Doe.

Don’t force him into it. A Sagittarius does not want to be cornered in any way and he sure won’t appreciate the subject of marriage suffocating him. You can open the subject lightly and see how he reacts to it. If he doesn’t sound so uptight about it then it’s a good sign. If he does get jumpy then back off and think of another way and another day to discuss it.

It seems hard to get this guy to walk down the isle but those who are patient and wise enough to wait and plan for the right day has the chance to see him waiting for you at the altar on your wedding processional.

Do you know why most men – not just Sagittarius men but this really applies to them – stray? Because they are bored. They get tired of the monotony of doing the same thing day in and day out. Eating the same food, hanging out with the same couples, eating at the same restaurants – it will drive anyone nuts eventually. Women do not express their boredom in the same way but a man? He is going to go looking for something more exciting.

So, the key to keeping a Centaur man is to not leave room for boredom. And if you are boring he’ll get bored. Many couples fall into a lifestyle and sometimes that is mistake for having a life. It’s not the same thing. In fact, having a lifestyle can be pretty boring. A lifestyle is based on existing and getting through the days but a life…that’s another matter. If you are life is filled with yacht cruises and parties and impressive people and it is that way ALL THE TIME it is going to get boring. That’s when you need to start thinking outside the box. Break out of your lifestyle and start having a life.

The Archer will always be a sucker for a woman that has a great life filled with challenges. He loves and adores a woman that is learning new things and ready for some adventure. But do not wait for him to initiate it all the time. Even after you are a couple you should have your own life – not his life. You should be able to go off on your own and have a good time. If he asks to join you then welcome him but the chances are he’ll be thrilled because that means he can have his own life as well.

Having his own life is important to a Sagittarius. When people start to think of the two of you as “them” and not as individuals, he starts to feel caged. So make sure that he has the time he needs to do things on his own or with his buddies. He has friends that are just his friends and you should, too. Do not just have couple friends. Have single friends and do things with them. Belong to organizations and club and do activities with your girlfriends. Not only will this prevent him from feeling caged but knowing that you have a life – not just a lifestyle – will make you so much more attractive to him. You know how couples fall into this routine where they come home, have dinner, watch television, and never seem to have things to talk about? Well, that won’t happen to you if you have a life because you’ll be doing different things, on your own, and you’ll always have new things to talk about and experiences to share. One of the worst things you can do with a Sag man is become one of those couples who knows all of each others’ stories because you’ve heard them all before and you have no new stories since you became a couple. Create new stories and you’ll always have things to talk about and he won’t be bored by you.

Like the Sagittarius woman the Sagittarius man is very active and needs a partner who can keep up with him. You can meet him at any place where there is activity but do not expect to find him lazing around the pool soaking up the sun. You may find him swimming a few laps in the pool but are more likely to find him playing tennis, football, baseball or any other activity that allows him to stay active.

To gain the attraction of a Sagittarius man you will need to show him you can keep up with his active pace. If you’re content to just stay at home or go shopping you will quickly become boring to the Sagittarius man. He enjoys being on the go and would enjoy whisking you off to some exotic place to enjoy some fun filled activity. Jet setting is something he enjoys and if his finances allow he may do that frequently.

He may not enjoy camping but he will enjoy a camping trip that includes hiking, nature walks and other types of activities. Amusement parks may grab his attention and he may be a demon for fast rides like the roller coaster. Can you keep up with his fast pace? You will need to be able to do that if you want to date a Sagittarius man and keep the relationship alive. If your idea of the perfect date is a candle light dinner at home you will find your attraction to a Sagittarius man will be very short lived because you will quickly become boring to him causing him to lose interest.

How do you know what to say to attract the attention of a Sagittarius? If you are active as well as intelligent you will have no problem coming up with stimulating conversation. You can begin by talking about some of the activities you both enjoy. Certainly a Sagittarius woman is the perfect date for the Sagittarius man but as long as you are as active as he is you will have no problem having a stimulating relationship. He may enjoy one or two activities that stimulate his body or he may participate in a variety of different ones. You will need to find some common ground if you expect to develop a lasting relationship with this sign.

The key factors in meeting a Sagittarius man and getting his attention lie in being able to keep up with his active lifestyle. He is not able to sit still and will not be content to sit at home and relax by the fireplace unless he is very tired. That doesn’t mean he cannot be romantic or that he will never enjoy just staying home and relaxing. However do not expect him to be content to lead a relaxed lifestyle on a regular basis. He may even be a little bit of a risk take at times because that is what stimulates his body and mind.