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Sagittarius – Virgo Lesbian Relationship

It is said that this Fire and Earth sign has very little to no chances of working out but a Sagittarius – Virgo lesbian relationship can always work out although, of course, it all depends on how much the two individuals want it to. A Sagittarius likes a lot of fun and parties whereas a Virgo is more practical and reserved. They may find some things in common but it’s the differences they need to work on.

The centaur, which represents Sag, is half human – half horse. No, Sag lesbians may may not be hung like horses but they are in a lot of ways as alpha as any other male there is. They have balls, so to speak. Now even though they often shun away from responsibilities they like taking over in relationships. This may pose a problem for the Virgo also likes to take over in this department. The virgin would hold their ground to get what they want if they think what they want is the right thing but luckily for the fun loving Sag, Virgos also wouldn’t mind hearing the other side’s explanation to make things work out. They would settle if it works for both of them.

People with zodiacs ruled by the element Earth can be reserved but among all Earth signs the Virgo can be the sweetest. It is the only zodiac on the wheel that is represented by a female. They can be very much in touch with their feminine side but are tough and can go through . Virgo lesbians can weather any storm once they set their minds to it. Among the two zodiacs, Virgo thinks more long term. This will help the Sag partner walk on a straight line, no pun intended. The Sag is intelligent but can be easily distracted. Virgo will set Sag’s perspective straight.

Intellectually, these two are great together. Sexually, the Virgo might want to stop being virginal and loosen up a bit. Sag can be very experimental and it wouldn’t do you harm to try some things too.

The biggest difference between these two may be found in the commitment department. The ever grounded and practical Virgo may be reserved and calculating but they won’t be scared of committing when the time is right. The Sag on the other hand, can be skeptical even if they know they are in love and that this is what they want. This could be because of other factors around them. A Virgo knows what they want and aren’t scared of trying whatever measure to get it whereas a Sag would like to take the easiest way and if they can’t may just want to go to the next prospect. Case in point, a Sagittarius-Virgo lesbian couple friend of mine broke up because the Virgo’s family couldn’t accept the relationship and although she was willing to fight for it, Sag got scared and made excuses to get away from the stressful relationship even though, through her own admission, she was still very much in love with the Virgo. Bottom line, whether the relationship will work or not depends on how much these two want to stay together.

How Do Sagittarius Handle Exes?

A typical Sag is known to breeze through awkward and even stressful events. They are one of the most happy and fun loving people. They won’t sweat the small stuff because normally for them, it’s not worth it. Not that they don’t ever take things seriously. They do. But only when they feel it’s necessary. In relationships they don’t hold back. It may take a while before they commit but they go all out when trying to charm someone. It is said they can charm a stripes off a tiger. They can be very sweet and will know how to make you feel special and one of a kind. If you can keep a Sag then you’re one of the lucky ones. Not all relationships with the sweet Sag works out, though. How do Sagittarius handle exes? They don’t.

Your “relationship” after the relationship will depend on the reason you broke up. Most break ups with a Sagittarius is caused by their need for independence. They will want to spend time with you but they need their “me time” every once in a while. Not to be alone and think but to hang out with friends and meet new people. Once they feel fenced in they would be uncomfortable and may start thinking twice about the position they are in. Normally, in these situations, it will be the Sag who wants out. They like to talk, socialize and flirt in a harmless way so if you don’t like that you need to tell them, otherwise it will all build up inside you and before you know it you will be the one who wants out. There is little to no room for jealousy with a Sag. This can be suffocating for them. Again, once they feel cornered they look for the easiest way out. If the other party initiates the breakup the only thing a Sag will ask is an explanation. That is if they really don’t have a clue. Sometimes, as intellectual as a Sag is, he can be dense. He may not know his words are harsh. For the Sag, the things that comes out of their mouths are just opinions or facts. They may already be hurting you and they still don’t know it. If they understand the reason why you want to end up things then they can rest.

If you part with a Sagittarius in good terms there will be no problem staying friends with them. But most of the times, ending a relationship with a Sag means it’s really over. Don’t expect to hear from them or even see them. They will move on with their lives and choose to leave all the negative things behind.┬áIf your breakup is bad the Sag will just try to go forward so don’t expect to see them distraught or depressed. They will mostly party the bad experience away. In case you run across them they may acknowledge you as an acquaintance and nothing else. It may seem harsh but that is kind of the way for them to cope with it.

Getting a Sagittarius Man to Forgive You

If you’re wondering whether a Sagittarius can forgive, the straight up answer is yes. What you need to determine is the level of forgiveness the Sag is willing to give you. The question now becomes, there are levels of forgiveness? To which I answer, yes. The mighty archer is known to be very nonchalant and happy go lucky that most people thing they would just let things slide, whatever that is. But everyone has a boiling point.

I ran across a forum thread where this is a teenage girl’s dilemma. She tried to play games with a Sag guy she’s crushing on and although most people would find it off, the guy just laughed and said he found it funny and even cute. Her scheme worked because she got his attention and they even became friends. The second time she did this she turned the notch up that our Sag subject actually found it offensive but said “it’s ok, it’s done, let’s just forget about it” and they remained friends. The girl then, tried a prank again a third time, thinking it was okay but this time turned it up and tried to involve Sag guy’s new gf. He then got mad and started calling her out on her prank and asked her to leave him alone then eventually stopped talking to her or responding to her apologies.

There’s no real need to look at the situation to understand where things went wrong. The girl already established a connection the first time she tried this approach so there was no need to do it a second time but let’s humor her. Yes, Sagittarius is known to love puzzles so a brain boggling prank (or mind games, if you must) might be very appealing to him. The second time the girl tried a prank on him is where the “letting things slide” trait of the Sag comes in. He did get offended but there was no harm done so he just shrugged it off. The third time, though, was obviously a whole different level because one, it includes someone aside from himself and two, the prank could be something that could ruin his relationship with another girl he started dating.

A Sag can be a nice person yes but, again, he has limits. In general, he will forgive as long as there is no lasting (negative) effect from the incident. If there is he will also forgive in time but maybe not because he wants to. The mighty archer can be a righteous person and he knows that the right thing to do is to forgive so he will grant this pardon but he will continue sitting on his high horse. He will not forget.

If you want to ask forgiveness from a Sagittarius you need to be ready to argue your point much like a defense attorney does in a courtroom in front of the jury. Choose your words carefully and make sure your arguments are valid. The Sag will use his intellect to prove his point so you should be able to do the same. Trying to appeal to his righteous side might help a lot. Make him feel (forgiving) it’s the right thing to do and he will grant you that. If all else fails walk away with this experience and learn from it.

The Kinky Sagittarius

Sags doesn’t have any problem saying what they want since they believe things should always be laid down on the table to be analyzed. They are often seen as callous and sometimes even insensitive because when it’s sex they want from you, they’ll say it plainly and clearly. This sign doesn’t have a problem trying to tell lust from love so one night stands and fuck buddies are common for them. As a matter of fact, they prefer it that way. A Sag will mainly look for people who think the way they do. Someone who doesn’t have issues separating sex from emotional attachments. This way things are less complicated.

Now, Scorpio may be the ruled by the house that makes them the most sexual sign among all zodiacs but Sagittarius usually ends up having more fun. Why? Because they know how to get the most of everything and that includes activities inside the bedroom (or wherever they feel like doing “it”). It may seem like Sags lives doesn’t have much direction because they like having fun more than anything but they always know what they want in bed. Each sign has some sort of kink; a fetish that is their own and makes them distinct. So what does a Sagittarius have that sorts them out from the others.

Actually, nothing in specific … because they want it all! They are impulsive and like to push their limits making them try almost anything. They don’t like labeling themselves either cause that limits them to a specific class and Sags hate being boxed in. If a Sagittarius guy says, “I’m an ass man” he could be saying that to flatter you. Not that he doesn’t mean it. He may really be biased to women with fine asses but they won’t focus on that alone. Surely, a nice bottom will always look better if paired with an equally nice bosom. Today they may be obsessed with cuffs and latex but tomorrow they might want to use delicate laces and petals on satin sheets. Sags like to explore the unexplored and enrich what they already have. There are times they will have a fixation about something specific but unlike other signs who are consistent with their “preferences,” it will fade away. They value spontaneity and adventure so they are also inclined to be in open relationships or have some sort of agreement that gives them the type of lifestyle (that is to say, sexual activity) that suits them. Many Sagittarius can also be classified as pansexual which means someone who does not go with the traditional sexual attractions. They can be attracted to both men and women and even gays and bisexuals.

If a spontaneous, adventurous and even impulsive lover is what you look for, you will be happy to meet a Sag counterpart but beware of letting things get cold after the long run. Even when the Archer is devoted to you, they may wander if they find their current situation boring so make sure you try to keep up with them.

What Happens When You Hurt A Sagittarius

Those under the Sagittarius sign are probably the easiest to get along with because they don’t like to pretend they’re somebody else to please the people around them. Yes they take pleasure at making people laugh (and who doesn’t) and sometimes they may go out of the way to accommodate friends but only if the favors doesn’t clash with their principles and, more importantly, their schedule.

First off, Sagittarius people are hard to piss off. They have a pretty good sense of humor which can be dry and sarcastic so they know how to handle a joke when it’s thrown at them. They can also be callous without intending to be and as intelligent as they are, they can be dense when it comes to other people’s feelings so you need to spell it out for them. A Sag is usually seen as a very happy-go-lucky and come-what-may person but they also know how to get serious in life. They just don’t like getting stressed all the time. All that said, it doesn’t mean they don’t know how to get angry or sad. It just takes a lot for them to get hurt because they’re not very sensitive like the water signs for example. They like to live life and doesn’t sweat the small stuff.

Now, you know what they say about what could happen when the other shoe drops? It’s not that true with most Sags. They are mutable signs and learn how to adapt easily. They get hurt but they have the sense not to dwell on the negative things that happen to them or around them. This is one of the strengths of the Archer. They learn to shun out the negative people and things in their lives and charge it to experience so, although they are seen as careless when they’re young, they mature to be strong and wise individuals. They are good at learning from experiences and they only use it to make their next actions better. Now, whether they forgive you or not depends on the level of the damage you made. Telling them their dress looks awful probably won’t affect them too much. She’ll ponder on it for a couple hours but will also either immediately try to think of a way to remedy the situation or think of a nice come back to make the conversation lighter and funny instead of insulting. However, it could take a Sag relatively longer to get over things if you cheat on them. They may even make a scene upon finding out but they will learn to let go eventually and even sooner than you would expect but don’t think they’d readily take you back. When Sags let go, they let go completely. They’re not the most patient person when it comes to fixing broken things. They’d much rather look for something new to replace the last one. It’s just too messy and too much trouble for them. Although they are very forgiving and probably let the things you do slide most of the times, they are still human and there will come a time they’re going to say enough is enough.