Once you learn the Sagittarius of your dreams is passionate, sensitive and likes the same things you like, it is important to still remain somewhat aloof. Just because it may seem he has a genuine interest in dating you, it’s also important to remember he is an expert when it comes to being a “player.” The one thing you want to avoid at all costs is thinking you have a match made in heaven just because your Sagittarius always does things to please you. This is the nature of Sagittarius—at least while he remains interested in you.

One thing you must always remember is the Archer can be predominantly a “player” and will always make it a point to remain the object of your affections. It is not strangely impossible that he may have researched your life in order to understand you better and know what makes you happy and makes you “tick.” While he may do things that interest you and make you happy because he really is interested in you, he will become bored and disinterested if you make the mistake of removing the mystery by confessing all your innermost hopes and dreams. The key to keeping a gay Sagittarius male interested is to maintain a certain level of mystery to keep him guessing. While this is a very easy mistake to make, it can be the death of any potential relationship you man have with the man of your dreams.

Sagittarius males whether gay or not like their lovers to have a certain element of mystery, and if you allow them to know too much about you, he will quickly lose interest. Why? Because once he feels he knows everything about you he will see you as boring and uninteresting and no longer exciting. On the bright side this doesn’t mean a Sagittarius is not a good lover just because he is quick to fall out of love—the elements of love and sex are completely separate to a gay Sagittarius male.

The key to holding onto a relationship with a Sagittarius lover is to make sure he never knows everything about you. You also don’t want to make be too easy of a “catch” because once the excitement of the chase is over; he is likely to lose interest quickly. They are excited by the chase rather than gaining the prize in the end, so the longer it takes him to learn all of your little secrets, the longer you will be guaranteed to retain
his interest. He may even enjoy a lover who is subject to mood swings, exhibits a diva attitude or has a fiery temper. Certainly these attitudes are not true of all gay Sagittarius males any more than the traits of other signs are predominant among all born under those signs, but you want to make sure you understand the possibilities and be ready to act upon them.

Keep in mind even if you are not interested in a long term relationship with a Sagittarius, you can be sure you will find one of the best lovers in the world. The Archer is extremely passionate, has no problem with experimenting, and his tendency to become bored easily makes him ready and willing to try many different sexual positions. In fact, his love of emotional variety contributes strongly to his ability to be a great lover.

So he’s fun, passionate, sensitive, and loves everything that you like. It seems like he is genuinely interested in you; but be careful. The Archer is a master of playing the field. If you find it odd that he wears the same perfume that you love, or that he cooks your scrambled eggs just right, every single time, don’t think that this is because you are “meant to be”.

The truth is, the Sagittarian will do everything in his power to seem attractive to you. It is not impossible that he has done some research about every facet of your life. The good news is your Sag lover may be doing this out of genuine interest. The bad news is he will stay interested just as long as you keep him guessing. Yes, mystery is a gay-Sag’s version of Viagra. The problem is, it is easy to let the gregarious Sag know everything about you because, let’s face it, once you fall in love, verbal diarrhea is in session and you feel the urge to divulge all your little secrets. Bad move.

Mystery is what keeps the archer going, and inspires him to actually get to know you more. Once he feels like he knows you like the back of his hand, get ready to be dumped like a gay hot potato. Once he knows everything about you, you seem uninteresting, unexciting, and soo not worth all the wooing. So does this mean that a Sag lover is a bad lover? Well, it’s not like he falls out of love intentionally. But then again, there are some unintentional mistakes that are still unforgivable. And yes, we are referring to Bret Michaels’ unintentionally sexual remarks at the latest Miss Universe pageant.

The truth is, he can’t help but fall out of love (or interest) for you once the excitement of the chase is gone. So if you really want a lasting relationship with a Sag, get ready to keep him guessing. Mood swings, a diva attitude, and an uncontrollable temper all seem attractive to the drama-thirsty Sagittarian.

However, you are in luck if you do not actually wish to have a long relationship with the Archer. Why? Because they make the best lovers in the world. They are strongly passionate, willing to experiment, and since they get bored quite easily, get ready for a thousand and one positions in the sack. Yes, the truth is, the Sagittarian’s worst trait (his love of variety) in the emotional arena is also his greatest trait in the sack.

So how do you attract an Archer? Be witty, be sarcastic, seem uninterested but remain interesting. Spend some time alone with each other, but do not actually call it a date. Once he feels comfortable with you, he would want to get to know you more. Be kind to him, as flattery seems to be the best way to his heart. Then, play him, as he would most likely do you. That will keep him guessing, and in your pocket (and your bed) for a longer time than most of his relationships last. And if you’re in luck your relationship might last a whole week.