Once you learn the Sagittarius of your dreams is passionate, sensitive and likes the same things you like, it is important to still remain somewhat aloof. Just because it may seem he has a genuine interest in dating you, it’s also important to remember he is an expert when it comes to being a “player.” The one thing you want to avoid at all costs is thinking you have a match made in heaven just because your Sagittarius always does things to please you. This is the nature of Sagittarius—at least while he remains interested in you.
One thing you must always remember is the Archer can be predominantly a “player” and will always make it a point to remain the object of your affections. It is not strangely impossible that he may have researched your life in order to understand you better and know what makes you happy and makes you “tick.” While he may do things that interest you and make you happy because he really is interested in you, he will become bored and disinterested if you make the mistake of removing the mystery by confessing all your innermost hopes and dreams. The key to keeping a gay Sagittarius male interested is to maintain a certain level of mystery to keep him guessing. While this is a very easy mistake to make, it can be the death of any potential relationship you man have with the man of your dreams.
Sagittarius males whether gay or not like their lovers to have a certain element of mystery, and if you allow them to know too much about you, he will quickly lose interest. Why? Because once he feels he knows everything about you he will see you as boring and uninteresting and no longer exciting. On the bright side this doesn’t mean a Sagittarius is not a good lover just because he is quick to fall out of love—the elements of love and sex are completely separate to a gay Sagittarius male.
The key to holding onto a relationship with a Sagittarius lover is to make sure he never knows everything about you. You also don’t want to make be too easy of a “catch” because once the excitement of the chase is over; he is likely to lose interest quickly. They are excited by the chase rather than gaining the prize in the end, so the longer it takes him to learn all of your little secrets, the longer you will be guaranteed to retain
his interest. He may even enjoy a lover who is subject to mood swings, exhibits a diva attitude or has a fiery temper. Certainly these attitudes are not true of all gay Sagittarius males any more than the traits of other signs are predominant among all born under those signs, but you want to make sure you understand the possibilities and be ready to act upon them.
Keep in mind even if you are not interested in a long term relationship with a Sagittarius, you can be sure you will find one of the best lovers in the world. The Archer is extremely passionate, has no problem with experimenting, and his tendency to become bored easily makes him ready and willing to try many different sexual positions. In fact, his love of emotional variety contributes strongly to his ability to be a great lover.