We’ve read a lot of comments and had a lot of questions about how hard it is to communicate with a Sagittarius man. There are also questions about how to understand a male Sagittarius partner. Technically these two are different and if it’s just communicating per se, you shouldn’t have a problem doing so. Generally, men are hard to communicate with since they’re more quiet than women. You might have a bit more luck with a Sagittarius, though.
Just because the Archer don’t talk as much as any woman does, doesn’t mean he’s hard to communicate with. A male Sagittarius, mostly, has no problem talking about what they want or how they feel. In fact, they welcome this type of … activity. We’ve said it so many times before but we’ll say it again, the Archer prefers to lay his cards on the table. For them, it’s better to prevent awkward situations from happening by simply making sure him and his partner are at the same level of understanding regarding an issue.
The biggest reason why women say they find it hard to communicate with their Sagittarius male partner is because they find it hard to understand them. There is a difference between communicating and understanding. If you look at it this way, the solution, simply, is to level with them.
Try to step into their shoes. If you think you don’t understand them then do you think there maybe a chance that they can’t understand you too? It may be cliche but women do sometimes talk in riddles and some men can be very straightforward and literal. Try to do it their way and lay out everything on the table like they do. Break it down if you must and do it together. This way you know you’ll be on the same level and pace with regards to the issue at hand.
Be patient when doing so. There will be times you may lose each other when trying to analyze some things and may have to back track. Don’t lose your temper. We say things we don’t mean when were angry. Obviously, that won’t help.
Show him you trust him. You’ll be surprised how far trust can take your relationship. Don’t just tell him that, make him feel it too. Give him the benefit of the doubt. Don’t do or say anything harsh that you might regret in the end when it turns out he was telling the truth about something.
Sagittarius men are often misinterpreted. Even if they like to talk about situations and work issues out, their actions can lead another person to think the opposite of what they say. Try to understand that they don’t do this on purpose. Sags don’t mean to hurt anyone especially the one they are with. Their happy-go-luck persona, for example, may give you the notion that they don’t take things, or even you, seriously. But remember, it’s hard to get a Sag into a commitment so being in a relationship with him means something!
So true
Very helpful. He seems so aloof, and I often get frustrated that I don’t know where I stand with him, but I am starting to realize he’s a breed all his own and he reaches out on his terms, and not to gett mad in between contact because when I am with him, he is very direct and clearly communicates his feelings, and does it well.
This is true right now it’s hard for me to carry on a conversation with him well to keep one going I must admit he is different for me and I just want to know what I should do to make it better and keep the relationship at interest because at times I feel like we are not vibing and the relationship is not going to work.
Ok! I am a libra and I have been in an off and on relationships with a sag since 2009 ….in 2012 we took a big break and we both moved on and into other relationships however…it seems he never lets me go…so we hooked up on march of 2014 and agin this year…and now we are still see each other and stay in contact and are sleeping with each other…my issues is we seem to can’t get each other out of our systems…we really don’t talk about it…either we see each other or put the blue he will text me…he doesn’t like to talk about relationships things as much as I do..and the reason he said we didn’t go far is because I’m irrational…so my question is how does he really feel about me and should I continue to leave the door open…it’s obvious I love him but not sure if it healthy at this point
I agree it is hard to communicate with a sagitarrius because I feel like he doesn’t understand my point of view. As much as I try to understand him I feel like I always have to be the one to understand him…and it can’t always be like that and then when I tell him how I feel he gets upset and frustrated easily and gives me an attitude…sometimes I don’t know what to do with him anymore… sometimes I just want to end the relationship…I know he loves me and he is committed to me but how can I be with someone who only sees his point of view all the time…and doesn’t put the same effort as I do…as much as I want the relationship to work…I’m not quite sure how to handle him sometimes I don’t even wanna open up to him on how I feel because he might just take it the wrong way or get angry quickly because he feels he isn’t doing anything wrong.
Every single comment is so true right now. I’m currently stuck in the very same situation as Myrna. He only feels as though he’s the only person that’s right in everything and not even considering hearing me out. If I give him a response, he interprets and analyses things in a totally different manner.
Ugh i am stuck in love with The most amazing sag man. We’ve been going through some issues so I’m finally so frustraed I want to Call it quits but I cant just give up my heart won’t. EVERY COMMENT I READ ABOVE MINE,IS EXACTLY MY BIGGEST ISSUES!
He’s so absolutely amazing for me but flips so quick into such a different and selfish man just makes my stomach knot up cause I’m so torn as to wether I should save myself heartache, or just give it benefit of the doubt n continue to feel just a little less of a person when he’s being his “dark sag” I Call it. The one u all speak of in your comments.
Thanks for sharing your thoughts n stories. Hope your getting it all figured out and living happily together!!
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Angel, I am totally in the same boat. I am a Cancer. Sensitive, social, friendly, funny and like enjoying my life. My Sag always thinks hes right, over annylizes, thinks I have alterior motives and promiscuous. We are always having misunderstandings, his jokes seem personal. I love him, but can’t stand hi for his jokes and seemingly negative approach to issues. I want to give him a chance because I can see he loves me. I don’t understand how he could love me, if he can’t understand me??
I just wanted to give my comment im a libra and my husband soon to be ex is a saggitarian. As libras we’re too diplomatic and try to be as fair as possible but with him he never hears me out even if he pretens he is. And even getting out from a relationship with him in good terms seems impossible at this point because of his short tempered personality as much as i want to remain friends. It was good to hear all your comments that helped in knowing im not the only one facing dificulties in saggitarian’s discussions.