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Perfect Sagittarian match


With an intensely attractive Sagittarian around, you might be curious to know if this centre-of-attraction of all the parties would make a good pair with you or not? For getting an answer closest to your query, let’s first dive into a Sagittarius personality, and then see what all sun-signs can make a great match with them. Basically, the general personality trait each sun-sign possesses has a great deal to do with the compatibility factor.


Making of a Sagittarian

Looking at the possibilities of making a match with a Sagittarius needs to first get you a fair idea about how these people are ideally. These titled social-animals are very good at entertaining the people around, and are very active in being responsive. Hence, they attract people easily due to the shine in their personalities and vibe in their speech. Adventure-loving, fun-seeking and energetic are some of the most common tags given to a Sagittarian. People appreciate them for being very interesting, rich in talking, for the optimism they carry, and for being very trustworthy friends.


But, while looking to make a match with a Sagittarius, there are some changes of getting some eyebrows raised. Ideally known to be quick-moving in terms of relationships, and not being able to match up with seriousness of any love matter, Sagittarius are often very picky to make match with. There are certain sun-signs that might be great matches to get along with Sags with a long term commitment


Which ones make a perfect match?

A Gemini shares greatly similar energy-level with a Sagittarius, because of their hunger for exploring new things. And, for that matter, both of these sun-signs gel-up really well initially, and with continuity of shared interests, they make long ways together. Apart from time, it needs patience and smartness to carry this type of relationship along, as boredom peeps in quick in both of these personalities.


Leo and Aries are also great prospects for being matches with Sagittarians, as they both understand the Sag-personality really well. Understanding the never-ending hunger for adventure, taste for freedom and need for personal space is what makes these two sun-signs go a long way with a Sagittarius.


Which ones is a perfect ‘No-No’?

Virgo, to start with, is typically full of pride and value their traditions and intellect. Sagittarians are too open personalities for someone like this. Cancer, being much into family values and love for tradition also doesn’t go well with a party-animal, Sagittarius. Taurus, with ideally possessive features, cannot stand long with Sags who ideally love mingling with new networks in parties and gatherings.


Capricorns are also not a great combination with a Sagittarius, due to their being a little on the pessimistic side. Sagittarians are high in optimism and any sun-sign that doesn’t like freedom, adventure and open conversation with others outside the love-match would not go a long way with a Sagittarius.

Are Sagittarians fickle

A kind of personality being fickle or predictable cannot be said in a straight sentence. There are times and punches that make certain personalities behave fickle, while others may not respond unpredictable to similar situations at all. Understanding a Sagittarius being fickle or not needs the first thing to know about them as – What kind of general traits they possess? And why do such traits have any chances to make them tagged as ‘fickle’?


Why tag them ‘fickle’?

First thing to know about Sagittarians is that, they are very optimistic people. They are joyous fellows, who are born with the art to make the surroundings bright with their happy moods. Their being straightforward keeps people in their association with them for long time. But, added to these aspects is their nature of being slightly carefree, which gives an impression to the others that Sagittarians are careless. They are ideally unintentional towards any such careless or rude behaviour, but due to their being straightforward and upfront in terms of expression, they might be taken as rough personalities by others. Here is what starts creating a demarcation between being fickle and looking to be fickle. Some situations really make their fickle-face come up, while there are times when it just looks like that, but isn’t really.


How about relationships?

Coming to the situations that take out the fickle-face of a Sagittarius are a rich topic to analyze. Sagittarians ideally never betray in friendship. They feel safe in friendship and that feeling of security and freedom gets them a long way with friends. But, in terms of relationship, also talking precisely about Sagittarius men, they are not very quick and strong in terms of commitment. Ideally, a Sagittarius is seen avoiding being in a serious sort of a relationship. Tough statement to make, but they are ideally towards breaking hearts most of the times in their relationships.


The reasons are many, but to understand the psyche behind such an action is to understand that a Sagittarian is a social being with a lot of networks, and so is freedom-appreciating person. Hence, staying committed to one relationship doesn’t suit them very much, unless it ensures their personal space and privacy without interference. Similar applies to the women under this sun-sign as well. They tend to be loyal in relationship, but only till the time they are in one. As they move on, they don’t find it difficult to find new date without deep emotional traumas.


Honest, yet blunt would be an apt caption for Sagittarians in general. It is unendurable for a Sagittarian to be caught in an unhappy marriage or a relationship. If they get unsure about one relationship and enter into another one, they have a tendency to seek the previous shelter as soon as they see something unfavourable happening in the new one. By understanding the situations that match up with their personalities can do a good job in reducing the unpredictability factor from Sagittarians to a great extent.

Intimacy with a Sagittarian

Before we delve in to the aspect of intimacy with a Sagittarian, let us understand the people born under this sign. A lot of their traits in love are determined by their zodiac. Sagittarians are people ruled by the ninth sign, that is, Jupiter. Since Jupiter’s traditional name is ‘Jove’, it goes without saying that Sagittarians are jovial people. Sagittarians are people born between 22nd November and 21st December. Their key traits are that they are magnanimous, honest, expansive, generous, reckless, extroverted, proud, larger than life, and independent.

We should garner from the above characteristics that a Sagittarius is eternally free and independent. They are also adventurous and love to travel. Boredom is not a word in their vocabulary and they seek the same amount of excitement when it comes to any kind of relationship with another. Therefore, in terms of intimacy as well, a Sagittarian will also seek a thrill. They might be a bit wary of intimacy as they feel that it takes away their independence. In that respect, intimacy which binds them will not work as they like being free. But, if a partner gives them ample amount of space, they will not feel weighed down and welcome it with open arms.

In those terms, they should be able to make their decisions in any intimate relationship. They will be forthcoming with what they feel as they are extroverted by nature and will not hide their feelings. The freedom to go out and do what they feel will only increase a Sagittarians intimacy with their partner. They are open and honest and therefore do not feel the need for complicated mind games. It’s either a yes or a no for them as they know what they want.

One should also remember that they are very creative people and love delving into intellectual thoughts. They are a fire sign and are excited by challenges.  Therefore, doing things out of the box is a sure fire way of getting a Sagittarian to open up deep down and bring in trust and respect in the relationship. Never be afraid to do things differently and ensure that a Sagittarians mind is always occupied.

Since they love to travel, intimacy with a Sagittarian can be increased by taking trips with them. They will pull out all stops if they are up for it and even small things can turn romantic and sensual. Fantasies which satiate their curiosity and their wild side will make a relationship hotter and more intimate. Still, one must remember that they do not burn with a sexual charge like that of a Scorpio and can settle into a platonic frame of mind and body over a long period of time. They are however good soul mates with their magnanimous nature.

They are friendly and kind and will never intentionally hurt another. That being said, they also usually never apologize for their actions as they believe in what they are doing and the rightness of it. In the end, one must never forget that Sagittarians are innately truthful and frankness and openness will work wonders when it comes to intimacy with a Sagittarian.

Casual Dating with a Sagittarian

Sagittarians are adventure loving people who like to seek the thrill in life. They are free in their heart and soul and like to be that way. When it comes to dating, Sagittarians are at first apprehensive. Paradoxically they also make great life partners but that only happens in the later stages of their life or after a very long term. At first, they are afraid of saying yes as they feel threatened to the loss of their freedom.  Independence to a Sagittarian is everything. They like living on their own terms and doing things their way. In that regard, they know what they want and go for it. Therefore, dating someone may seem like they are being bound into something, which will invariably make them run in the opposite direction.

That being said, casual dating is a great experience to be had with a Sagittarius sign. In any casual relationship, you get to have all the fun while keeping your own space and living life on your own terms. This idea might appeal to a Sagittarian. Also, the challenge and thrill is never gone from the relationship. Sagittarians are attracted to a challenge and will not think twice from jumping off the cliff as they are optimistic by nature. So, when one is not serious dating, Sagittarians feel a certain challenge in getting the other person and having them in their lives. This keeps them going.

As far as a thrill is concerned, casual dating offers the innately adventurous Sagittarian an outlet for the wild side. They can be spontaneous and the entire relationship is based on fun which suits a Sagittarian just fine. The adventure lies in exploring different sensual and sexual scenarios, giving a free hand to fantasies and generally doing things in a free and unapologetic manner. Sagittarians can just be themselves and have a great time. Since they have a gift of the gab and are extroverted, it is ensured that the partner will have a fabulous time in the casual relationship.

In a casual dating scenario, there are no long term commitments or responsibilities which will give ample space to a Sagittarian. It does not mean to say that Sagittarians are not responsible in relationships or incapable of a long term commitment, but just that they take time to settle in the groove. They are also very honest and forthcoming, and will be the same in a casual relationship. While one is worried about speaking their mind until they get to know the person really well, Sagittarians will surprise their partner with truthfulness. While many signs leaning towards emotions will be put off by this trait, and decide that casually dating a Sagittarian is not their cup of tea, others will love it and be attracted to them even more.

Lastly, Sagittarians have a vibrant personality and know how to exercise it. If there is one guarantee of casual dating with a Sagittarian, it is that no matter what, the partner will never ever be bored and solely for that, casually dating a Sagittarian is worth giving a try!

Mood swings in a Sagittarian

High-spirited, noble and gregarious are the first terms that flash in the mind while talking about ‘Sagittarius’ personalities. When such personalities are composed and content, what leads to mood swings in them is an interesting point creating curiosity. This could be initiated by firstly getting quickly introduced to the generic traits a Sagittarius possesses.

If meeting a person spreads an aura of free-mindedness, optimism, leadership, trustworthy friendship, creativity and energetic-adventure, it’s surely a Sagittarius around. Popular for their high-spirits, this sun-sign with a half-horse-half-archer with an arrow aimed at the sky, symbolizes power and hunger for knowledge. Such personalities are light-focused and hence like getting involved into outdoor activities more. Interest in adventure, plus, energy in the spirit they posses, makes them a high-zoned personality, and such individuals are often sensitive to take dives of moods with introduction to small but specific triggers.

Sagittarius Mood Swings – Generic Reasons

A light push to the emotions, mental or physical peace, ends up boosting a Sagittarian’s performance efficiency. A minimal positive deviation shows great outcome in terms of performance of a Sagittarius-traited.

Presence of any insecurity around, fear of uncalculated or unpredictable event nearby causes loss of control on moods and leads to a sudden hitch to the energy level.

Boredom is a high-tension element here. It’s strictly a ‘No’ to boredom or monotone in order to keep a Sagittarius’ mood intact. And, a hurt Sagittarius is seen keeping himself/herself alone and distant.

Triggers to Mood Swings

If days look predictable and the schedule looks monotonous and flat, it’s a signal that a Sagittarius around is going to be seen in a bad and irked mood. Addition to a single different activity does help bring the mood in place.

There free-bird personalities are likely to stay in joyous and lively mood, until no limitations peep in. Any outbreak of unnecessary suggestive gestures, bars or constraints lead to steep plunge in a Sagittarius mood. The next action following to this trigger of mood swing is – running away. Fights, shouts and anger aren’t the initial reactions a Sagittarius shows in such circumstances.

Emotional distress is yet another factor very commonly making a Sagittarius mood take a dip. Keeping oneself away and not involving into spontaneous talks is the common result of followed by this behaviour. Another important aspect affecting the mood of a Sagittarian is the presence of other sun-signs. The energy that reflects from other directions and the atmosphere created due to contradictory conversations and actions lead to high fluctuation in mood of a Sagittarius personality.

It is not very tricky to get a bell rang, when a Sagittarius is likely to encounter mood swings. All one needs to do is keep an eye open, avoiding overlooking details and not taking hurried actions in return.

Does a Sagittarian accept suggestions

The perception about the general traits of a Sagittarius stands as the key idea to figure out how well a Sagittarius keeps his/her ears open to the suggestions coming in. Not to misunderstand the high-spirited nature of a Sagittarius with low level of maturity, as Sagittarians receive their personality richness through experiences, and they have a willingness to keep looking for new horizons.


An accepting Sagittarian and advices are two things that have a critical relationship with the suggestion-giver’s personality. The person suggesting something also belongs to a planet or sun-sign, with his/her individual set of traits, having a direct impact on whether or not the ‘archer’ Sagittarius would accept the suggestion, and if yes, to what extent. For example, with an artistic-angled, content and stable Virgo, Sagittarius might do meticulously odd while taking suggestions. With a Libra, personalities gel-up really well and hence the likeliness of being heard by a Sagittarius is high. Two Sagittarians exchanging suggestions surely are one of the few most compatible matches, due to the understanding – ‘what works with me works with the other as well.’ With an Aquarius and Pisces personality, the opposite traited Sagittarians still do pretty well in listening, which has a direct relation with being heard.


Due to the hunger of thrill and enchantment in life, the personality of a Sagittarius should be understood correctly in order to place an advice effectively. Not to mistake and forget, Sagittarians are freedom-loving people and hence, suggesting is a tricky and careful job. The piece of suggestion should go in line with the enthusiastic, lively and spontaneous ‘archer’, by preventing it from being tagged as a sermon or a preaching.


Sagittarius listens to suggestions? What circumstances?

A Sagittarius doesn’t appreciate monotone, and therefore, advices being passed in the form of useful and meaningful opportunities have a great chance of keeping a Sagittarius interested in listening to the advice been passed, without putting the mind-shutters down.


The art of mixing the experiences with suggestions in a way that it looks like an episode of mutual sharing rather than a suggestion being passed through, works magically. The more flexible other sun-sign is, better is the likeliness of being taken seriously and doing great with a Sagittarius.


Sagittarians do value the freedom and space of other sun-signs, hence they would not be majorly seen suggesting heavily, and so passing on the suggestion should be like a gift-wrap, that shines, catches attention, looks harmless, amuses and is finally taken up.

Ways a Sagittarius can influence lives

People born under the Sagittarius zodiac sign are known as “The Archers” as their symbol is a centaur aiming a bow. This says a lot about the Sagittarius people whose zodiac motto is ‘I expand’. They think big and aim for the stars. They are magnanimous, and kind and no amount of pessimism may weigh them down. Their intellectuality and pursuit of creativity is well known and this combined with their never say die attitude is bound to win over admirers. They are ruled by the planet Jupiter and the traditional name of Jupiter is ‘Jove’. Therefore, its goes without saying that Sagittarians are jovial people. Someone with as much of optimism in himself is a beacon of hope for those who are lost or unfocussed. The ways in which a Sagittarius can influence lives is either by leading them by example from their own life process or by touching someone’s life with their inherent kindness and optimism and altering their life course.

Astrologically speaking, due to the effects of the stars, a person under the influence of a Sagittarius tends to focus more. Their negativity turns into positivity. They also show a desire for popularity and friendship. All in all, just like a typical Sagittarius trait, the subject too starts believing that all evil can turn to good and there is nothing wrong in dreaming and trying to reach for the highest goal. They will never back down and start considering every event as a life lesson and a process of experimentation from wherein one can grow, learn and develop.

A Sagittarius always wants to be free and independent. The centaur of the Sagittarius expresses a conflict between mind and body. The purpose of a Sagittarius is to overcome this conflict. Once they have done so, they may guide others into overcoming their own hindrances and taking the step forward towards what makes them happy and makes them feel free. Their philosophy of life, idealism, love of adventure and travel is well known. These energies and exuberances when guided towards a specific source ensure that a person comes out of his/her own self and explores their inner diva. They may take decisions which they were scared to take before. Remember, a Sagittarius can envision the future irrespective of the present situation as is natural with their level of optimism. Similarly, a Sagittarius may use this beautiful life force of seeing the glass half full and instil the zeal of open minded actions and aspirations, and pursuit of adventure in a person they seek to influence or a person who is already under the vivacious spell of a Sagittarius.

Every zodiac sign has characteristics that can influence others, either directly or indirectly. It has been said that Sagittarius people are insanely optimistic, incredibly happy-go-lucky, exuberant and vibrant, disarmingly happy, enthusiastic and see the best in people. These were some traits that go a long way in building bridges, crossing hurdles and facing every difficulty with a smile. These characteristics can help people through when they really need someone and a Sagittarius is the right person to infuse the right amount of joviality in someone’s life. A Sagittarius also never holds grudges. Can we imagine how peaceful life would be if everyone else did the same. These are life lessons one can incorporate in life. Following or being influenced by a Sagittarius is a route to happiness and no one should part with that.

Sagittarius – Adventurer or Escapist

It is hard to find a way to categorise a Sagittarian into being exclusively amongst the adventurists or the escapists. To put it in simple words, on one hand Sagittarians live, love, seek and breath adventure and would never escape from an adventurous escapade and on the other hand Sagittarians might not be that adventurous when it comes to bearing the risks of work, inconsistent as they are, an escape route will most definitely be a preferred choice for all Sagittarians. So to say Sagittarians are adventurists as well as escapists. But more often it is the adventurists in them that come to precedence in their life events while the escapist often takes a back seat or at sometimes is nowhere to be seen.

Analysing the common traits of Sagittarians is an easy way to foretell how they would go about in their lives. Their positive and negative traits often find a sound balance and as such there is no abundance of anything in a Sagittarian. Sagittarians are optimistic, fun loving, straightforward, honest, intellectual, generous and above all adventurous. Their negative traits- inconsistent, careless, tactless, restless, superficial and overconfident- are benign but often can be detrimental if not handled properly.

As people who would literally go to the world’s end seeking adventure no shipwreck or no pirates can thwart a Sagittarian once he has set sail for adventure. Fun is what they associate most with adventure and fun lovers as they are, engaging in heights of adrenaline rush is a thrilling event for them.  They are fearless in the face of calamity and remain level minded when faced with risk situation so when they head out for their adventure trip it is in full preparation for whatever obstacle may lie on their course. Though it may seem like a brazen fearlessness, the Sagittarians are actually prepared and adventure for them is their life’s religion. It is quite likely that a Sagittarian will feel incomplete if he is devoid of adventures.  One reason Sagittarians want themselves to be in the realm of adventure is because mundane realities and dull events can inject boredom to the core, making them feel lifeless and deprived of fun. Given a chance to choose between adventure and anything else, the Sagittarian would already imagining travel plans and packing his or her bag mentally. With regard to adventure Sagittarians are never the escapist and you can find them leading the way of the adventurists.

How much ever an adventure freak a Sagittarian might be, this attribute of theirs is never reflected in their work sphere. Their levels of determination and enthusiasm will be not as high when it comes to completing some assigned tasks. At work them can be finicky and shifty and as a result will be in a constant state of confusion as to what to do. They keep changing their decision and it is difficult to rely on them to get some work done. If this is to be seen as shirking away responsibilities, then Sagittarians are escapists when it comes to fulfilling work demands or responsibilities.