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Breaking up with a Sagittarius

Any kind of breakup can be traumatic, but when it involves a breakup with a Sagittarius it can be more difficult. One of the reasons for this is because the Sagittarius is a very dramatic sign, and a breakup will hurt his ego. He will not let it go and will tell everyone he knows how badly you treated him and will talk about every single mistake you ever made during the time you were with him. He will try to undo his own hurt over the breakup by telling all of his family and friends how you abused, used, loved and left him. Do not expect him to focus on any of the positive points in your relationship.

In an effort to use the hurt of breaking up with a Sagittarius, all Sagittarius women can follow some important steps. It may not work with every man but it may help most of them get over the break up and be able to move on with their lives. One important thing to remember is after you finalize the break up you need to remain single for a while. If you become involved in another relationship too soon and your ex finds out he will put more blame on you and think you broke up with him to begin seeing someone else.

There are several things you can do before you break up with him to prepare him for the breakup. By following these steps you will reach the point where he will be more accepting of the breakup and even welcome it.

• Tell your partner you are unable to keep up with their sexual or physical needs any longer. Since he will want someone who is able to remain on his level he will understand your method of reasoning.

• If you act bored by slowing down and becoming a homebody, the breakup will be much easier. The Sagittarius man likes to be very active and will not want to stay with someone who is boring.

• The Sagittarius is a very confident person, so if you begin to act paranoid or insecure you will drive him out of your life without even trying.

• Start acting very possessive and jealous by questioning his every move. Sagittarians hate being with this type of person and will quickly walk away from the relationship.

• If you tell him you have lost all interest in sex and want to stay celibate for a specific period of time he will not want to stay in the relationship.

By following these steps you will be able to break up with your Sagittarius man without trying to do so. This will eliminate hurt and a tarnished ego. The key is to let the relationship wane rather than actually just breaking it off and causing hurt feelings and maybe facing the potential for him to put all of the blame on you for the end of the relationship.

5 ways to attract a sagittarius guy

So you’ve figured out from your horoscope that the perfect match for you is a Sagittarius male. The next step of course is to meet them. Pretty easy, just hang out in places where they might like to hang out. Where? Being happy and free spirited, this guy likes to party and have a lot of fun. Try a packed bar or a club. There will be a lot of guys with raging testosterones in there.  Some of them will be Sagittarians.

A Sagittarius male in some ways is just like any other male. Say it with me … testosterone filled. So first, just think about the usual ways you’d do to attract a regular hot blooded man. (No sweetie, don’t walk in the bar naked). Then incorporate it with the Archer’s characteristics. Here are five ways that will help you attract a Sagittarian male:

1) Be Mysterious and Aloof. Sure you’ve gone out on 3 or 4 dates already. But that doesn’t mean you have to tell him you can recite the multiplication table backwards. When you were five. While you were sleeping. The Zodiac Sagittarius is ruled by the planet Jupiter. They are philosophical people and like puzzles. Don’t get us wrong here. You’re not supposed to act all weird and zoned out but being aloof should do the trick. Tip: Mysterious is NOT the same as weird. If he, for example asks a question that you don’t like to answer like … “How many boyfriends have you had in the last 2 weeks” just smile and say “Why would you want to know?” That way you’ve avoided answering his question in a polite BUT playful manner and at the same time leaving him with a little puzzle to figure out.

2) Be Fun and Playful. We all know Sagittarians are happy people. No Sagittarians would want to hang out with a gloomy chick. So if you’re all “Emo” and determined to cry the next time a chalk breaks you might want to change your priorities a little bit because Sagittarius and suicidal (yes they both start with the same letter, but still) does not go together. You have to be little miss sunshine. Smile. Laugh at his jokes. Try to engage him in a light conversation. And no matter what happens, refrain from talking about how, every now and then; you almost always want to follow your dead cat to the other side.

3) Flirt. If you’re in a bar and you want to come over and talk to him and get his number? Go ahead. Make the first move. There’s no law that would stop you from doing so. They like meeting new people so it won’t hurt. They will love the attention. It might overwhelm him a little bit but in this case, an overwhelmed Sagittarian is a good thing. Again, laugh at his jokes. Tap his arm or thigh lightly if you must. Bear in mind, Sagittarians like to flirt.

4) Be Unpredictable. So assuming you are already in a relationship with a Sagittarian male, this does not mean you’re going to stop from getting his attention. You still have to work on it because the Archers get bored easily. And once they do, expect him to head out of the door and look for some fun and excitement. So be unpredictable. Should be easy enough as women are known to be like that anyway. It’s not the same as being fickle minded, though. For example, plan on a weekend trip to the beach. Sagittarians love to travel so going out to a new place would excite him. If you’re used to planned vacations, try back packing for once. Just get on a bus, don’t book for hotel rooms or a car service. Head out the door with a few cash and even less clothes and no plan at all. This will make the adventurous part of him very happy.

5) Be confident and always look your best. Confidence takes people a long way. Sounds pretty generic. But physical appearance is very important to any guy. Especially to a Sagittarian. Of course it’s never a good idea to just rely on looks but it definitely helps. Be clean and hygienic. Dress sexy. Smell fresh. You don’t have to be crowned Miss Universe but if you don’t look after yourself, Sagittarius men (or any men for that matter) may just not make that second glance.

There are a lot more ways to attract the Sagittarius male.  Various “techniques” will come along the way. For now, bearing these simple tips in mind is a start and will come in handy.