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The Gay Sagittarius

So he’s fun, passionate, sensitive, and loves everything that you like. It seems like he is genuinely interested in you; but be careful. The Archer is a master of playing the field. If you find it odd that he wears the same perfume that you love, or that he cooks your scrambled eggs just right, every single time, don’t think that this is because you are “meant to be”.

The truth is, the Sagittarian will do everything in his power to seem attractive to you. It is not impossible that he has done some research about every facet of your life. The good news is your Sag lover may be doing this out of genuine interest. The bad news is he will stay interested just as long as you keep him guessing. Yes, mystery is a gay-Sag’s version of Viagra. The problem is, it is easy to let the gregarious Sag know everything about you because, let’s face it, once you fall in love, verbal diarrhea is in session and you feel the urge to divulge all your little secrets. Bad move.

Mystery is what keeps the archer going, and inspires him to actually get to know you more. Once he feels like he knows you like the back of his hand, get ready to be dumped like a gay hot potato. Once he knows everything about you, you seem uninteresting, unexciting, and soo not worth all the wooing. So does this mean that a Sag lover is a bad lover? Well, it’s not like he falls out of love intentionally. But then again, there are some unintentional mistakes that are still unforgivable. And yes, we are referring to Bret Michaels’ unintentionally sexual remarks at the latest Miss Universe pageant.

The truth is, he can’t help but fall out of love (or interest) for you once the excitement of the chase is gone. So if you really want a lasting relationship with a Sag, get ready to keep him guessing. Mood swings, a diva attitude, and an uncontrollable temper all seem attractive to the drama-thirsty Sagittarian.

However, you are in luck if you do not actually wish to have a long relationship with the Archer. Why? Because they make the best lovers in the world. They are strongly passionate, willing to experiment, and since they get bored quite easily, get ready for a thousand and one positions in the sack. Yes, the truth is, the Sagittarian’s worst trait (his love of variety) in the emotional arena is also his greatest trait in the sack.

So how do you attract an Archer? Be witty, be sarcastic, seem uninterested but remain interesting. Spend some time alone with each other, but do not actually call it a date. Once he feels comfortable with you, he would want to get to know you more. Be kind to him, as flattery seems to be the best way to his heart. Then, play him, as he would most likely do you. That will keep him guessing, and in your pocket (and your bed) for a longer time than most of his relationships last. And if you’re in luck your relationship might last a whole week.

5 Ways To Attract A Sagittarius Female

A woman born under the Sagittarius sign is full of life, independent, idealistic, and a lover of traveling and knowledge. With these characteristics it’s not impossible that men would go out of the way to woo her. It might seem easy at first. Besides, these female Archers (or Centaurs) love meeting people. They are known to be flirtatious and playful; perhaps, too flirtatious and playful. Keeping a female interested is the problem they have to overcome. Sagittarius females get bored easily. They tend to look for new things to try or new people to connect with. Here are some tips to bear in mind when trying to attract Sagittarius women.

1)      Dress Up. It might seem shallow, but women (in general) give high regards to a well dressed guy. When going out, make sure you dress better than your friends. Don’t overdo it though. Dress up for the occasion. Don’t wear a suit if it’s not a formal gathering and don’t wear jeans in a formal party. Some of the things to check out are shoes and fingernails. Seriously, if you can’t keep those clean (they’re in plain sight) then women won’t want to know about things they can’t see. Accessories are good too. Usually a wrist watch or a bracelet is enough. Again, don’t over accessorize.

2)      Keep Her Amused. It’s not all about the looks. Sagittarians are highly intellectual and philosophical people. On the other hand she also loves fun and laughter. So engage her in a light but stimulating conversation. Talk about business but don’t be too technical (unless she asks). Talk about her latest trip or your travel plans in the next few months. Or an exotic restaurant you want to try out.

3)      Be Hot And Cold. Now for a more devious trick … be unpredictable. Nothing drives a female Sagittarian crazy than an enigmatic guy. In flirting with them, the push and pull theory totally works! Be sweet with them and then keep your distance the next time you see each other. Going on and off will keep them wondering what’s up and keep them interested. It provides an air of mystery that messes up with their senses.

4)      Be The Prize. Don’t show them attention the whole time. Be the one who is worthy of attention! Make yourself the cath. Or at least make yourself seem like the most eligible bachelor in the room. Sagittarians love challenges. She’d be thinking of ways to win a “prize” and she would want the one with the highest value.

5)      Respect Her Freedom. A Sagittarian can very well take care of herself. She’s independent and she loves it that way. You have to respect that. She doesn’t want to be tied up. Don’t ask for a commitment after 2 weeks of going out with her. Do not give her an ultimatum and refrain from being too clingy (yes men can be that way too). Give her space to grow.

More importantly, be sure to explore new things with her. This is the best way to connect and keep up to date with what it takes to keep her interested.

5 ways to attract a sagittarius guy

So you’ve figured out from your horoscope that the perfect match for you is a Sagittarius male. The next step of course is to meet them. Pretty easy, just hang out in places where they might like to hang out. Where? Being happy and free spirited, this guy likes to party and have a lot of fun. Try a packed bar or a club. There will be a lot of guys with raging testosterones in there.  Some of them will be Sagittarians.

A Sagittarius male in some ways is just like any other male. Say it with me … testosterone filled. So first, just think about the usual ways you’d do to attract a regular hot blooded man. (No sweetie, don’t walk in the bar naked). Then incorporate it with the Archer’s characteristics. Here are five ways that will help you attract a Sagittarian male:

1) Be Mysterious and Aloof. Sure you’ve gone out on 3 or 4 dates already. But that doesn’t mean you have to tell him you can recite the multiplication table backwards. When you were five. While you were sleeping. The Zodiac Sagittarius is ruled by the planet Jupiter. They are philosophical people and like puzzles. Don’t get us wrong here. You’re not supposed to act all weird and zoned out but being aloof should do the trick. Tip: Mysterious is NOT the same as weird. If he, for example asks a question that you don’t like to answer like … “How many boyfriends have you had in the last 2 weeks” just smile and say “Why would you want to know?” That way you’ve avoided answering his question in a polite BUT playful manner and at the same time leaving him with a little puzzle to figure out.

2) Be Fun and Playful. We all know Sagittarians are happy people. No Sagittarians would want to hang out with a gloomy chick. So if you’re all “Emo” and determined to cry the next time a chalk breaks you might want to change your priorities a little bit because Sagittarius and suicidal (yes they both start with the same letter, but still) does not go together. You have to be little miss sunshine. Smile. Laugh at his jokes. Try to engage him in a light conversation. And no matter what happens, refrain from talking about how, every now and then; you almost always want to follow your dead cat to the other side.

3) Flirt. If you’re in a bar and you want to come over and talk to him and get his number? Go ahead. Make the first move. There’s no law that would stop you from doing so. They like meeting new people so it won’t hurt. They will love the attention. It might overwhelm him a little bit but in this case, an overwhelmed Sagittarian is a good thing. Again, laugh at his jokes. Tap his arm or thigh lightly if you must. Bear in mind, Sagittarians like to flirt.

4) Be Unpredictable. So assuming you are already in a relationship with a Sagittarian male, this does not mean you’re going to stop from getting his attention. You still have to work on it because the Archers get bored easily. And once they do, expect him to head out of the door and look for some fun and excitement. So be unpredictable. Should be easy enough as women are known to be like that anyway. It’s not the same as being fickle minded, though. For example, plan on a weekend trip to the beach. Sagittarians love to travel so going out to a new place would excite him. If you’re used to planned vacations, try back packing for once. Just get on a bus, don’t book for hotel rooms or a car service. Head out the door with a few cash and even less clothes and no plan at all. This will make the adventurous part of him very happy.

5) Be confident and always look your best. Confidence takes people a long way. Sounds pretty generic. But physical appearance is very important to any guy. Especially to a Sagittarian. Of course it’s never a good idea to just rely on looks but it definitely helps. Be clean and hygienic. Dress sexy. Smell fresh. You don’t have to be crowned Miss Universe but if you don’t look after yourself, Sagittarius men (or any men for that matter) may just not make that second glance.

There are a lot more ways to attract the Sagittarius male.  Various “techniques” will come along the way. For now, bearing these simple tips in mind is a start and will come in handy.