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How to Live Peacefully with a Sagittarius

If you want to live peacefully with a Sagittarius, it is important to understand how they work and what they expect from you as a mate or dating partner. One of the first things to understand about a Sagittarius is they their minds have a wide range and could burst without you even expecting it. They also possess the gift of gab and can talk for hours without even taking into account any of your input in the conversation. At the same time you want to avoid allowing them to just overtake the conversation because at same point their need to converse combined with their overwhelming brilliance could cause you to appear witless, a trait that the Sagittarius would find rather boring.

No matter where you are with a Sagittarius, keep in mind they do not like being idle and want to spend every moment of their life doing SOMETHING. Even if you become stuck on a deserted island, the Sagittarius must be busy doing something, even if it means searching out everything on the island to attempt to come up with a way to get back to civilization. They have a keen sense of curiosity and will use it to find answers to all the questions that enter their restless minds. When you buy a gift for a Sagittarius, consider something that will allow them to challenge their minds such as a giant crossword puzzle. You might even find them interested in some bungee jumping—it challenges their mind as well as their sense of adventure. They will find the invitation even more attractive if you are fearful of heights and still make the offer.

You never want to attempt to keep a Sagittarius on a leash. They are not clingy and do not have the need to depend on anyone other than themselves. Their independent nature does not allow them to have any tolerance for restrictions. If you are in a relationship with a Sagittarius and attempt to dominate them, they will not hesitate to walk away from you and even tell other people the kind of person you were. What it really comes down to is that Sagittarians must be in control and will not be happy in any relationship where they feel they are losing control or when you attempt to control them.
You must accept a Sagittarius the way he or she is. Do not attempt to change them in any way or you will lose sight of the person and even the relationship. They are quick thinkers and very upbeat and happy sometimes with a tendency to brag subconsciously about how great they think they are. You can’t take this personally but must accept it as part of the personality of a Sagittarius. They will always want to dig deeper in order to find a logical reason for anything that comes into their minds. It’s important for you to understand their quest for knowledge and enthusiasm for life in general.

Living with a Sagittarius

Living with a Sagittarius: How to Ensure Peace and Tranquility

Living with a Sagittarius is probably one of the most difficult things you will have to face. With their strong personality and hard driven career goals, you can expect to assume the majority of the work involved in raising the family. A Sagittarius often puts his career above his family in his or her struggle to succeed, and if you attempt to interfere with these goals and efforts you will lose the sense of peace and tranquility that exists in your home. There are many sacrifices you will expect to make in order to assure the longevity of the relationship or marriage, and you must be willing to make those sacrifices.

The adventurous nature of a Sagittarian will prevent him or her from being content to sit home and relax. He always needs something to do and will likely become involved in a great many sports activities. Your vacation time will be spent in spots where there are many activities: swimming, hiking, skiing, golf, horseback riding and the like. You will not interest a Sagittarian in sitting along the beach and soaking up the sun though swimming, surfing or waterskiing may be quite appealing.

What if you are not an active person by nature? Your relationship will go downhill quickly unless you learn to participate in some activities with your active partner. You cannot always spend time doing only those things that appeal to you without putting a strain on the relationship. There is a great deal of compromise involved in holding any relationship together, and this is especially true when you have two personalities so different. It can become any more difficult if there are incompatible signs involved—that leaves more obstacles a couple must overcome in order to make the relationship work.

Since the Sagittarius has such a strong and well-defined personality, you must be willing to accept him or her at face value. When you are dating do not expect things will change if you marry—this is untrue in any situation even with signs that are fully compatible. Be willing to assume the responsibility in any areas in which the Sagittarius fails or neglects to do his or her part. Remember although there will be deep love and commitment to spouse and children there is also the Type A personality that will also “marry” the career and spend time away from spouse and children to do so.

Maintaining peace and tranquility living with a Sagittarius means being willing to overlook the things he or she neglects and being content with the time you do spend together. Do not attempt to change your Sagittarian and allow him or her to pursue those activities that make him happy while participating in as many as you possibly can as a compromise. If you compromise instead of trying to force your partner to do so you will find life will run much smoother and both of you will be happier and more at ease with each other.