The Sagittarius man is notorious for not being able to commit. He’s just too independent and loves being on his own too much he doesn’t want to be tied up to a relationship because he feels it might be the end to a happy-go-lucky life he enjoys so much. This is a reason why it’s hard to feel secure with him. But all of doesn’t really mean he is incapable of committing.
A Sagittarius guy is one of the most honest people you can ever meet. This characteristic is probably the biggest factor why a Sagittarius is often perceived as callous and insensitive. It’s not like he goes just around playing with people’s feelings. He doesn’t say or do things just to be blunt he just wants to make sure things are clear from the very beginning. A Sag likes laying the cards on the table. If a Sag tells you he is in to you, you can take his word for it. He won’t say he loves you unless he really means it.
The Sag can make some amazing, lasting friendships and if he can do that he can commit. For him, everything is about the chase. The sense of adventure he gets in chasing someone; the taste of victory
when he finally gets that yes. While it is true that he gets bored easy, when he finds true love he makes sure to work on it and at the same time enjoy it. He tries to make it as adventurous as he can and works with his partner so he won’t lose the adrenaline. And although he is not known to be the best at keeping commitments, a Sagittarius is believed to be one of the most loyal lovers there is. He is kind
and caring and will go a long way or even out of the way to fulfill the partner’s needs. A Sagittarius is not your garden variety, white picket fence type of guy. What he’s really looking for is not his better-
half. Not someone who will make him feel whole. Instead he’s looking for someone who will become his partner in a journey full of adventure; someone who won’t lose composure with a few bumps along the
When in love, he is very generous, showering his partner with lavish presents and he is very attentive. He is also a very passionate lover and a romantic. He can make his partner feel like she’s the most interesting woman there is. He would be very attentive, and very sweet. He’d drop everything to talk to her, put some music on, turn off the phone, do long cuddles in the sofa, stare at her and interrupt
everything she says for a long, sweet kiss.
Bottom line, is that no matter how notorious the Sagittarius is for being a flirt, when it comes down to it, he will do everything he can for the love of his life. So it’s only fair to meet him half way and give him what he needs because it’s not like he’s asking for the impossible. All he needs is a little understanding and a lot adventure.
This is soooooooo Very true, when a Sagi is in love, he is so sweet and caring and Very attentinve, My BF is a Sagi and he has all these traits. its hard for them to fall but when they do…OMG!! its the best man in the world <3
yah I am scorpio and i met this man his SAGITTARIUS and we went out foh a drink ..his very kind, sweet and loyal but i think his fallen inlove with me and i could tell he is now..i feel uncomfortable cuz were not compatible and i might get hurt him and myself too! so im confuse.
I’ve dated two Sag men. I’m a Cancer, so you know how that has gone. One thing rings true and constant about a Sag … (1) they love to flirt (2) they’re honest about most things (3) very attentive but get bored easily. They want exciting, spontaneous adventure. They may say looks don’t matter, but they want their woman to be the best dressed, most coifed pulled together Diva in the room. They love for other men to see their ‘prize’ and want every hair in place. Wild and adventurous in the BR — never a dull moment there.
Met a SAG guy recently. He is so damn intriguing but after reading this column, ya, I totally have to be careful. He does seem like the flirtatious type… I’m a PIC myself. I’m not looking for a relationship with him btw.
My hubby is SAG sometimes he act like flirtious im totally confused Im a virgo nd want everythin perfect in life nd im very serious abt life but sometimes i felt why he is so rude everytime he is fighting with me i feel he dont love me ! As i knw abt sag they r nt loyal nd honest they r liers bcz my husband is big lier ! datz all guyz !
I’m reading this and it is also very true. I know from real experience. So ladies if you’r e thimking of dating or being in a relationship wit a SAG please don’t ake this lightly. I am a Taurus , very humble , loving stablity, . My BF of two yrs is A SAG and we’re total opposites… We have a son together I think that’s why we lasted that long. Long story short, they crave adventure. Not same I’m not advnturoes bot he like s to tke trips alone a lot not concerned if I agree or not. Very flirtatious, however it may come, Facebook!!!. So I’d advise anybody plz tread carefulluy can it can ultimately and drastically cahnge your life trying to deal. For me, I can’t deal. I’m out!!!
I recently met a Saggitarius guy, we have only been out together about 3 times and frankly -he already seems bored. I am a pisces by the way and from what I read these relationships can be difficult. At first he asked lots of questions and seemed really interested, we went out on the weekend and watched a movie, he brought me home and we havent really talked much since. Its kinda confusing because it seemed like he was putting himself out there and wanting more, and he was flirting and complementing me.. maybe I should give it more time but after reading this, I am a little discouraged. If I’m going to see where this goes I better be cautious and take baby steps so my feelings dont get hurt
Im currently in a relationship w/ a Sag and he is great!! When they fall for you, they FALL hArd!! He is attentive, affectionate and very giving. Here’s the dealbreaker tho…..he never really had Alot of friends growing up and he’s never had the best luck w/ women >> He was teased in school and called a nerd. We spent 5 days together straight once and he told me he loved me….He isnt like the typical Sag at all. He’s clingy, and when we were parring ways after the 5 days…he started crying because I was going home…….I was Soo shocked and amazed….I expected him to be more independent and nonchalant…..but he seems to be an exception to the zodiac charts…. *shrugs* I’ve been playing it cool and haven’t told him I love him……the more mysterious and spontaneous I am w/ him…the more attached he seems to become lol…its baffling but Im enjoying it while it lasts!! I love being w/ him > He makes me feel like a queen >> Im a virgo female
If you can get out; get out quickly! If he says he is a Sag when you 1st meet just make a run for it. Pass Go. Do not collect $200 dollars. keep it moving. Sag men are crazy. one minute hot. next minute cold. One day you are beautiful next day your too fat. One second happy; next 2 seconds upset about something!! Saggittarius men where born for men. they dont belong in a male to female relationship. Ever!
Well im In a relationship with A Sag. We Been Together For A Year Fen To Be Two i Love Him Alot! His great.. Im a Gemini Tho. And its True When they Fall In Love They Show You So Much Love. Sag Will Treat You Like A Queen They Are Caring And Giving And they Will Go out they way for you i Love Him Soo Much but yeah when Sag Get Mad they Act So Mean Lol But Im A Gemnin And I can Get mean To But sag And Gemini Cant Keep A Groudge
I agree w chelsea.but at The same time i still feel like i should deal from a distance. – Team Gemini.
I am in a relationship with a Sag for almost 2 yrs. (on and off) its all so true. one minute he is hot, the next minute he is cold. Very difficult to read, but he is a constant delight. he is so caring, loving, but when he is doing something, he’ll forget everything. and He come short of his promises. Im a Aries.
So I’m dating a Sagittarius. I’m A Gemini woman. This guy is so intriguing, affectionate, and gentle with me. When he is mad true what they say, “he becomes someone else.” We don’t have any problems. This is a GOOD MATCH. I can’t even imagine life without him. I love everything about him.
The biggest mistake I ever maid I’m called engaged these people are 4fun when Your board they don’t have hearts careing only about their feelings and will drain every bit of energy out of you and when you have no more ideals to still their out which is called boredom in language you are to be on your p,s and Q,s at all time’s only they can make mistakes you must understand and in the end you get birthing that’s coldblooed after receiving all the info they want from you all of the making you l like you’re the only woman in the world for go’s as he does this actually hurts is a act of seflshness I’ve invested 9 years I was totally fooded which is hard to lady’s stay away predators up side to this is a GEMINI AWAYS HAVE THE LAST WORD
I have been talking to A Sag in yes they ae very cold in one minute hot, you can not figure them out at all. Mines told me that im not hes type because im a plus size woman, but he sent me this long text saying that he love me in dont leave him. My thing if im not your type why talk too me at all. Yes he sweet,kind,generous, loving yes all the way. When we together its all about me in my kids too. I just cant get him somtimes. He says he have a hard time expressing his feelings because of being hurt so much. Ughhhhhh crazt Sag men
I heard that they love independent women, in every sense, i.e. they want you to do everything by yourself while they give you some “great” fast food-type love and attention, I just find this disguting…
I am a Taurus women. In a relationship with a Sagittarius man. I love him, yes his ups and downs are usually drastic. He’s either very happy or very down. I am very calm and careing but when he is at his best I feel a little drawn back because of his huge personality but I’ve learned that when a man is at his best is when you must love him more so they’re attention is fixed on you. That way they don’t go off looking for what they don’t need. I guess the key is to look through that big personality and realize that he just wants to be given all the attention and love because he wants to feel free to love you and conquer the world for you because a Sagittarius man is not afraid to give you the world as long as your love holds him down.
I am a Aries woman but my man is a Sag and well, aries and sag are suppose to be soulmates! I believe so! But anyway I been with my sag for 3 years and they are very flirtatious! Very blunt and they really don’t mean to be blunt people, that’s just who they are! They like their space, they aren’t clingy at all and it truly does take them time to actually be inlove… They need their SPACE! Any woman who wants to be with a sag man needs to understand they gone do what they want to do!!! You can’t and won’t stop them. They don’t have time for a clingy ass woman either. They love them a independent woman and they also want a woman who can stick around for the bumps and curves in a relationship. Trust me you will be going for a ride and if you can stick it out with them than you can stick it out with anyone cause trust and believe with a sag man your relationship will be tested!!! When done had our share of roller coasters and inknow we got many more bumpy rides! I know how to handle a sag man and Im riding strong with mine!!!
aries trying to pick between two sag men.. they are both out of their minds chasing me.. both in love, but reading about their sign it seems to me the intensity of their feelings is because they are both competing for me (they know each other).. i adore them both and can’t see my life going on without either of them.. makes me wonder if i should just friendzone them both because i don’t think i can live without the two.. the problem is that these sag men are more than what most men are, both are alphas, they are very unusual men.. spiritually they are in perfect sync with me, and I understand their core, who they are, what they want.. I would protect them both with my life.. i can’t accurately describe their love, it’s strength, depth, insight, kindness, compassion, friendship, and it’s honest.. it is true blue love all the way down to the roots, I wish I met them at different times in my life. I haven’t physically touched either of them yet.. what they provide is so fulfilling, they both leave everything at my feet like an offering.. or a prayer.. and the phone sex.. it’s like you can feel the earth moving under you.. i’ve never felt this way about any men before, and dated a virgo, an aries and a cancer… if i could get past my own selfish reasons for loving them both, i could and would accept marriage and hopefully it would be the most satisfying thing in the world to the one.. if not it will blow up in my face and they will both leave me alone in this cold dark world never to love any man this way again.. maybe i’m being dramatic, but i’ve never loved a man (let alone two) this much.
Im in love with a Sagittarius man.Im not sure if he loves me when we get close he tends to pull away from me. Im confused I wondering if he loves me
I been living with a sag male for almost two years. And I have fallen in love with him but he found another and fell hard for her !!!! I’m living a nightmare everyday I stay …smh I’m a libra 28yr old woman and hr is a 35yr old man. He always said he doesn’t want a relationship but you cnt control how the heart feels. And know his heart feels for her likr mine is still feeling for him !!@
CANCER here.It sounds like a lot of women scorned. I just started “seeing” a sag guy n he’s great. Fun n affectionate but gives me space to do my own thing…bc he’s doing his too. I’m a cancer but I’m extremely adventurous n he is too. Taking it all lightly, letting him be the man. Just continuing my life the same as always. It sounds as though some of the above comments may have taken things far too seriously before it was time. Just having fun for now and fun is…FUN!
I’m with a 40 yr old sag and I’m a 34 yr old pisces . Known him since I was 19 then he went away for 10 yrs without wanting to if u know what I mean. When he got out we officially got together now we have 2 kids together and his other kid from a previous relationship and my other to kids from a previous relationship. 5 in total. He says he’s not jealous but doesn’t want me working. He says he wants me home with the kids . Yes I still have income and help out a lot in d house. One minute we are fine and out of no where he starts a stupid fight and leaves to his friends. This has happened around 5 times in 3 years. At times he can be caring but a total asshole at others. When we fight he tells me that he don’t love me and a lot of hurtful things. It gets to the point I’m hurt but if he says he don’t love me he can go. I don’t talk much to him for a few days. Remind you we live together and he’ll be home watching tv in one room and me in the other room. Then he gets over it don’t apologize and starts hugging me in bed and we have good sex. He has told me that he loves me maybe a hand full of times in 3 yrs. when he have a few beers outside the house trying to relax he tells me of coarse he loves me cuz if he didn’t he wouldn’t be here. I’m so confused. He has his good and bad . He is the love of my love but I would like for him to be a little more time for me. I know it’s hard with 5 kids and low in money cuz he don’t want me working or even going out cuz if I do I’m up to no good. I’ve gotten my cards read and she told me to relax and he loves me. If this don’t last I’ll never be in a realationship again!!!!!!!
Unique situation….i am a Taurus/Gemini and my mate is also a cusp kid Sagittarius/Capricorn. We are grounded enough to be stable and faithful and crazy adventurous enough to keep it interesting. Friends..even roommates a few times for years…helped each other through breakups…finally while we were crying on each others shoulder he said “how stupid are we…why arent WE together?!
We laughed and laughed. 2 years later…ridiculously happy.
Im a leo woman in a relationship with a saggitarius man. We havent been together too terribly long but i feel like ive known him forever! Weve been together for about 6 months. Ive dated other men in life BUT ive never felt the way i do because of him. We COMPLETELY hit it off from the very first time we met. Its weird cause everyone thinks “oh sagg takes forever to commit and fall in love”, its funny because its like he fell inlove with me instantly, within a coupoe days lmao. I didnt know what i wanted to do at that time. I was really on the fence about dating him because some other issues with some guy before him. Just didnt know what i wanted. So after a few days to a week, i fell inlove with him. He seemed so dead set on being with me. He was/is so adorable lol. Dont get me wrong there is some things that you definitely have to clarify when you get into a relationship with this one. They LOVEEE their freedom. I know its intimidating for some. But seriously dont worry. Their freedom is usually harmless. It usually consists of *me time*. Like hobbies and stuff. When youre with this man, you HAVE to make it clwar from the get go of what you want if your talking about commitment. He was still talking to his ex when i got with him, he told me the truth about it, and i said i didnt like that. but some time later down the road i got to asking him again if he still was and he said yea and even lied about the times he was talking to her. But he said he had absolutely no feelings for her. We litterally got into it BIG that day. I guess you can say i put my guard up ever since that day..i trusted him but didnt at the same time after that. I did wrong and stressed myself out everyday checking on him and seeing if he still was talking to her. I always thought he was lying after that and one day we got into another argument and i basically left him for a week without no contact. His pride is really big and so is mine so no one messaged each other lol. But through that week of no talking i decided to just say f it and get my man back. And he was very depressed over this time.we love each other so deeply (btw try not to do that because it could be very risky depending who your with) i had thought it out and realized how irrational i was being. To have a relationship you have to have trust. Btw at this point im already pregnant. Im 20 and he is 21. He is at a good start for maturity at his age. Already talking about marriage and everything and he treats me like a queen. I love him so much. I came to realize, i dont care who flirts with my man, because atleast he comin home to me every day, workin hard for his baby thats on the way and his future wife. Let him have his little ego boosts every now and again. If hes commited to you, he will always be For you. Because he says he doesnt talk to her ever since that day we got into it. He said it hurt him really bad when he hurt me. Im just choosing to let go of that. But he knows i mean serious buisness when i say leave them past hoes in the past. Im not a jealous girl but hella possessive. I told him i dont care if a woman wanna talk and just be friends but i dont like that going behind my back BS. Like if there aint nothing to hide dont hide it!! lol. He loves my dramatic ass. At the end of the day if he was/ is lying, God aint gonna let that slide. It will be known one day, but im not gonna sit here like a crazy person trying to find shit. That stress is so unnecessary especially when he chose YOU. Dont stress until you got something to worry about, until then sit back and enjoy the adventure. Oh and the sex is AMAZINGGGGGGG. Tmi sorry yall lmao. Just had to let it out there. Dueces.stay happy yall????
All true.. Very true.. lol I am so in love with my Sagi.. He’s the sweetest most positive and attentive lover I’ve had. He’s a definite keeper. We haven’t always been this close. Granted we’ve always been “friends” even as friends. I knew he was “the one” we were friends for 2yrs before he finally!!!!! Admitted he was in love with me.. and he still didn’t say, hey I’m in love with you.” He said it like.. “Girl you must’ve put period blood in my speghetti.” Per the saying to get a man to fall in love do some nasty crap like put period blood in his food”. And that was his way of telling me that he’s in love with me. He went from hanging every now and then. To always being together.. Along with unexpected surprise gifts..and trips and foot rubs to full body massages. He’s so super protective and gets crazy in protective mode.. but the shit is so sexy to me. Bottom line is, if you’re willing to explore them as friends and love them for who they are. They’ll show you an everlasting love. Oh and btw my Sag is very loyal. He literally tells me that I’m the only woman he has eyes for. He showed this with his actions. Sagi’s aren’t too good at expressing emotions.. They are doers. So just because he doesn’t say it.. He will definitely show it. But I’m an Aries and we’re compatible in every way..