So he’s fun, passionate, sensitive, and loves everything that you like. It seems like he is genuinely interested in you; but be careful. The Archer is a master of playing the field. If you find it odd that he wears the same perfume that you love, or that he cooks your scrambled eggs just right, every single time, don’t think that this is because you are “meant to be”.
The truth is, the Sagittarian will do everything in his power to seem attractive to you. It is not impossible that he has done some research about every facet of your life. The good news is your Sag lover may be doing this out of genuine interest. The bad news is he will stay interested just as long as you keep him guessing. Yes, mystery is a gay-Sag’s version of Viagra. The problem is, it is easy to let the gregarious Sag know everything about you because, let’s face it, once you fall in love, verbal diarrhea is in session and you feel the urge to divulge all your little secrets. Bad move.
Mystery is what keeps the archer going, and inspires him to actually get to know you more. Once he feels like he knows you like the back of his hand, get ready to be dumped like a gay hot potato. Once he knows everything about you, you seem uninteresting, unexciting, and soo not worth all the wooing. So does this mean that a Sag lover is a bad lover? Well, it’s not like he falls out of love intentionally. But then again, there are some unintentional mistakes that are still unforgivable. And yes, we are referring to Bret Michaels’ unintentionally sexual remarks at the latest Miss Universe pageant.
The truth is, he can’t help but fall out of love (or interest) for you once the excitement of the chase is gone. So if you really want a lasting relationship with a Sag, get ready to keep him guessing. Mood swings, a diva attitude, and an uncontrollable temper all seem attractive to the drama-thirsty Sagittarian.
However, you are in luck if you do not actually wish to have a long relationship with the Archer. Why? Because they make the best lovers in the world. They are strongly passionate, willing to experiment, and since they get bored quite easily, get ready for a thousand and one positions in the sack. Yes, the truth is, the Sagittarian’s worst trait (his love of variety) in the emotional arena is also his greatest trait in the sack.
So how do you attract an Archer? Be witty, be sarcastic, seem uninterested but remain interesting. Spend some time alone with each other, but do not actually call it a date. Once he feels comfortable with you, he would want to get to know you more. Be kind to him, as flattery seems to be the best way to his heart. Then, play him, as he would most likely do you. That will keep him guessing, and in your pocket (and your bed) for a longer time than most of his relationships last. And if you’re in luck your relationship might last a whole week.
Whoa did this article really piss me off. In this article, as a gay man and a proud sagittarius, why is it that generally accepted concepts, as it relates to any other sagittarius, when reaching an audience that is potentially either a heterosexual male or female the interpretation of what can be understood from the “common” behavior of a sagittarius – it is much more open? This article was obviously written by a very obnoxious, uncultured, and completely biased mediator.
Damn it, as soon as anything is related to “the gays” all of the sudden it’s generically stereotyped, and in fact, whatever original message being advocated that was once very insightful and perceptive, now instantly becomes tainted with a universal, low-class, narrow minded perspective.
Basically, this article concludes – you know the gays, they love drama and if you are really looking for the “queen” of it all then get with a sag. Apparently all sagittarius are all nothing but uncommitted, unattached game players who seemingly also apparently don’t really know what they want in a mate.
If you think I’m overreacting, read the other links to the “straight” sagittarius articles. Then come back and read this article again. Honestly speaking, it’s articles like this that is why married guys stay married and just have sex with other guys behind their friends and families backs. They don’t want to become labelled with the other “gays.”
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I aggree with the response to the article written above. It stereotypes Sag men and it could of used other words, like some Sagitarius men…..instead of clumping all sag men with the same behaviour. Disappointed .
As a gay sagittarian, some factors in this article are true but most are false. I do love to explore and get as much information as possible but I’ve always been committed to the one I’m with. If the guy I’m dating “plays me” then I do what everyone does(or at least should do), leave them.
I take my time is choosing someone I wanna spend with and yea I might get uninterested quickly but its because I don’t want a “typical” gay guy. I want someone with a good head on their shoulders.
I very much agree with the responses above and ‘the gay sag’ article written SUCKS!
IVE BEEN DATING A SAG MAN FOR A YR NOW..AND I HAVE MY SUSPCSIONS THAT HE IS BI SEXUAL.IVE ASKED HIM MANY TIMES AND HIS REPLY IS HE AINT GAY..BUT THERES THINGS HE DOES AND SAYS WHILE HAVING A LOVE SESSION THAT I BELIEVE A STRIGHT MAN WOULDNT DO OR SAY.. WHAT SHOULD I DO
Wow… That’s a slap in the face. I’m a proud Sag and this really irritated. I’m incredibly loyal. I dream of settling with one man for the rest of my life and know other Sag’s in the same boat. I’ve never been a player and never will be. This is a terrible review of a sag’s traits. My guess is the writer had his/her heart broken by a Sag and is feeling a wee bit bitter.
My partner is a Sag.
He is no player. There’s very little in this article that reflects his nature and our experience.
Very odd indeed
Yes I completely agree. This article is a lot of crap. We Sag men don’t settle. I’m not sure why that’s such a problem. When searching for a mate I feel its natural to want someone that meets your needs. I’m very passionate and loveing. I don’t go around breaking hearts or getting bored with ppl and throwing them away. I love deeply but I won’t stay in a bad relationship for the sake of being in one. I think this article is very one sided and inaccurate.
Yeah, it’s almost as if zodiac signs are a false science and just because someone is born during a certain span of time doesn’t mean they’re going to be like every single other person born during that time.
I think the general problem with this article is that it’s using a very flippant and often general stereotype of the SUN SIGN characteristics of Sagittarius male. Furthermore, this is a description of a un-evolved Sagittarius man, gay or straight. I am also a gay Sagittarius male, and even though some traits such as a sense of adventure and interest are part of central traits I look for, my Scorpio Ascendant, Capricorn Moon and Scorpio Venus out right DEMAND total commitment and loyalty to a relationship. In fact, playing “games” as mentioned before in the article, is a huge turnoff. I can probably speak on behalf of others here who find this article biased, that Sagittarius men, especially gay men, operate on expansion in a sense of growth and are teachers/students of romance. We are dedicated to offering ourselves to other men only if: 1. What we are offering is being received genuinely and with good taste and, 2. What we are offering is being reciprocated. Basically, if we both can’t grow and move forward in a dedicated relationship with each other, than like most normal people, we find someone else who does. But to reduce it down to basic playing games and seeking “mystery” is tacky, and furthermore perpetuates a false stereotype. I think this article needs to have a little more insight in it before publishing to the masses.
And Bret Michaels is a PISCES, not a Sag!!!
I totally disagree with this horoscope I am currently with a Sag it is hands down the best and longest relationship I’ve ever had …none of the above characteristics even come close to the type of person he is…Don’t believe what you read
People come on Sagittrius Gay or Straight are the Tramps of the Zodiac, rule by planet Jupiter, aka Zeus.
YOU ALL ARE UPSET. PROVING HIS POINT. You are players, you’re sweet too, but you cook lose interest quickly. You are amazing guys looking for the one but most of you have no issue with dropping a guy after showing so much interest to bed him. Not every Sag is the same. Is day 98%are similar though. Lol