We’ve read a lot of comments and had a lot of questions about how hard it is to communicate with a Sagittarius man. There are also questions about how to understand a male Sagittarius partner. Technically these two are different and if it’s just communicating per se, you shouldn’t have a problem doing so. Generally, men are hard to communicate with since they’re more quiet than women. You might have a bit more luck with a Sagittarius, though.

Just because the Archer don’t talk as much as any woman does, doesn’t mean he’s hard to communicate with. A male Sagittarius, mostly, has no problem talking about what they want or how they feel. In fact, they welcome this type of … activity. We’ve said it so many times before but we’ll say it again, the Archer prefers to lay his cards on the table. For them, it’s better to prevent awkward situations from happening by simply making sure him and his partner are at the same level of understanding regarding an issue.

The biggest reason why women say they find it hard to communicate with their Sagittarius male partner is because they find it hard to understand them. There is a difference between communicating and understanding. If you look at it this way, the solution, simply, is to level with them.

Try to step into their shoes. If you think you don’t understand them then do you think there maybe a chance that they can’t understand you too? It may be cliche but women do sometimes talk in riddles and some men can be very straightforward and literal. Try to do it their way and lay out everything on the table like they do. Break it down if you must and do it together. This way you know you’ll be on the same level and pace with regards to the issue at hand.

Be patient when doing so. There will be times you may lose each other when trying to analyze some things and may have to back track. Don’t lose your temper. We say things we don’t mean when were angry. Obviously, that won’t help.

Show him you trust him. You’ll be surprised how far trust can take your relationship. Don’t just tell him that, make him feel it too. Give him the benefit of the doubt. Don’t do or say anything harsh that you might regret in the end when it turns out he was telling the truth about something.

Sagittarius men are often misinterpreted. Even if they like to talk about situations and work issues out, their actions can lead another person to think the opposite of what they say. Try to understand that they don’t do this on purpose. Sags don’t mean to hurt anyone especially the one they are with. Their happy-go-luck persona, for example, may give you the notion that they don’t take things, or even you, seriously. But remember, it’s hard to get a Sag into a commitment so being in a relationship with him means something!

A Sagittarius woman when in love is very straightforward to the point of wearing their hearts on their sleeves. They are passionate lovers and very sincere to their partner. The happy-go-lucky persona won’t disappear completely but they get serious when they feel it’s the right time and they know they’re with the right person. Whatever guy the elusive Sagittarius lady falls for is in for a surprise. You may be showered with candle lit dinners with home-cooked gourmet food, little presents when you wake up in the morning or just a naked woman in your tub with a glass of wine and two tall stemmed glasses in her hands when you get home from a long day at work.

Now, all of these doesn’t come for free. Not that a Sagittarius girl can be bought. She’s one of the most independent souls in the world but as giving as she can be to the love of her life, she has her needs too. Now you, lucky guy that you are, wouldn’t want to ignore these and risk losing the treasure you’ve found. So what does a Sagittarius woman need from her partner?

A whole lotta lovin’. If she can give you that then she deserves to get it back. You might want to upgrade on sweetness because she’d want to have someone to be sweet with. She’d like the phone calls in the middle of the day to ask if she’s had lunch or the occasional showing-up-in-her-office-to-ask-her-to-lunch; flowers would give it a nice touch too. When we say lovin’ it also means you have to upgrade on your lovemaking skills. You’re going to have to think of ways to keep her on her toes and make her want you more. :p

Other activities. There’s no other way to put it. If you think you can use up all her energy in bed, you have a lot to learn about this girl’s stamina. Take her out for a hike, ride your bike, go swim or just do any outdoor sports with her. You get to hit about a dozen birds with one stone on this one like spend time with her, get to know her more, have fun with her or even get some physical activity for yourself as well.

Friendship. A Sagittarius woman likes to share. As much as she loves getting shagged at the end of the day, she’d also want someone to talk to about how her day went at the office, how someone cut her up the line at Starbucks or how her mother always tells her it’s about time to have kids when she doesn’t want one yet.

Me Time. It’s been said over and over that a Sagittarius has a tendency to be “claustrophobic” in a relationship. Don’t smother her with text messages asking where she is or who she’s with. Let her go out with her friends and other people you don’t hang out with. A Sagittarius woman values her independence and likes the idea of living a life outside of the relationship also keeps her on her toes. Trust her to have fun and never forget herself. And you of course.

In some ways, you can say these are things you can do to “keep” your Sagittarius partner but that just sounds selfish. The only way you can get things wrong is thinking that any of these is such a task. If you look at it closely, they’re really just normal stuff any other relationship needs so what have you got to lose?

How do someone ask for forgiveness from a Sagittarius? First off, if you’re asking forgiveness from a Sag, you must have done something REALLY bad. Sagittarius are fun loving people and are somewhat nonchalant that they let most things slide. This is not to say they do not care or worse, push overs. It’s just that these philosophical people understands at a young age that keeping a grudge only does more harm to them than anyone else. They do not hold on to the bad memories and events. They let these experiences hone them as a person and put it in good use. If there is one thing a Sagittarius hates more than anything, it is resentment and hate itself. So you might not have to worry about pissing them off because of trivial things. Now, if you really must ask for a Sagittarius’ forgiveness, here are a few things to consider.

Make sure it’s from the bottom of your heart. Sounds cheesy, yes, but a heartfelt apology is always appreciated. Look them in the eye when you ask for their forgiveness. If you feel the need to explain yourself then do so. Sagittarius people are very good listeners and they will not only humor you but even put themselves in your shoes. They are somewhat righteous in a way that they ask themselves “how would I feel if I were in his position” all the time. Just say your piece and let it all out but be careful about the words that you use as well especially if the two of you disagreed about something. Sagittarius can be very passionate about their beliefs so explain yourself in a way that would make him feel that you understand where he is coming from. If they feel you are sincere about saying sorry and making amends, they will forgive you from the bottom of their hearts too.

Generally, people under the Sagittarius zodiac are very forgiving. Extraordinarily forgiving, actually. And it’s not just about the small things. Sagittarius people wear their hearts on their sleeves and most of the time you can tell how they really feel about the situation. These party goers are also hopeless romantics. If you are lovers and had a disagreement, don’t let pride get in the way.Don’t be afraid of getting rejected or being asked to walk away. A Sagittarius prefers to know both sides of the story and he will not mind hearing you out. In fact, he prefers this because any other option makes him feel left in the dark.

If you have wronged a Sagittarius person, he may have forgiven you before you even ask for it. If it’s not a major issue, a Sagittarius will probably initiate the conversation too. He will try to sort things out and figure out where things went wrong and he would prefer that the two of you work it out together. It is very hard to make a Sagittarius person angry but keep in mind not to take advantage of them. Don’t wait for that time when you have to run after them just to say those two words.

People always talk about Mercury retrograde but other planets go that way too and apparently, the planet Venus is going on Retrograde by the middle of this month until late June. Although Venus is not Sagittarius’ ruling planet, it can still affect the archer’s day-to-day scene. First, what is retrograde? Retrograde motion is the movement towards the opposite direction of how things should go. Simply put, in astrology, retrograde is when harmonious things go haywire. So how does Venus going on retrograde affect a Sagittarius?

Generally, Venus represents love and beauty so expect problems surrounding that area. This is the time when everything imaginable that can test your relationships seems to be hurled your way. Make sure communication is open at all times. This is one of the key factors to a successful relationship. If you sense something troubling your partner, ask them right away what the problem is or wait when you think it is safe to ask. Do not wait too long or ignore it. You’re the one who knows your partner best so trust your intuition. In the middle of heated arguments, try to breathe and count to ten. It does not help to shout at each other and say things in a whim. Have the sense to back down and keep in mind that keeping your cool will help you think better. This isn’t only true about romantic partnerships, relationships with friends, family members and even co-workers could also be in line. Again, communication is key. Hear them out especially if they are trying to get a message across and do not just block them because you think differently. Try to understand where the other party is coming from and you may see sense in things. They may have a point and you may only realize this if you try to clear your head and not let your emotions get in the way. Try to be logical. Be cautious during this time because even your closest relationships can be at stake.

It’s hard to please everyone and give them what they want so know how to compromise. Think of a way that will work for both of you. This will help set things back to the right rhythm. Don’t try to have everything at once. You may need to sacrifice something to be able to get in a state that you need to be in. This is not the time to make big decisions too. Things are rocky at this time and whatever final decisions you make will affect everything that comes in the future.

Other than communication, the biggest thing that will get you through this phase is patience. Venus retrograde will be over by the end of June so things should get back to normal if you don’t let hot heads lead and decide for you. There will be plenty of time to catch up and by the end of this troubling time you will just find yourselves laughing at that problem. Clear your head, keep cool and think ahead.

It is said that this Fire and Earth sign has very little to no chances of working out but a Sagittarius – Virgo lesbian relationship can always work out although, of course, it all depends on how much the two individuals want it to. A Sagittarius likes a lot of fun and parties whereas a Virgo is more practical and reserved. They may find some things in common but it’s the differences they need to work on.

The centaur, which represents Sag, is half human – half horse. No, Sag lesbians may may not be hung like horses but they are in a lot of ways as alpha as any other male there is. They have balls, so to speak. Now even though they often shun away from responsibilities they like taking over in relationships. This may pose a problem for the Virgo also likes to take over in this department. The virgin would hold their ground to get what they want if they think what they want is the right thing but luckily for the fun loving Sag, Virgos also wouldn’t mind hearing the other side’s explanation to make things work out. They would settle if it works for both of them.

People with zodiacs ruled by the element Earth can be reserved but among all Earth signs the Virgo can be the sweetest. It is the only zodiac on the wheel that is represented by a female. They can be very much in touch with their feminine side but are tough and can go through . Virgo lesbians can weather any storm once they set their minds to it. Among the two zodiacs, Virgo thinks more long term. This will help the Sag partner walk on a straight line, no pun intended. The Sag is intelligent but can be easily distracted. Virgo will set Sag’s perspective straight.

Intellectually, these two are great together. Sexually, the Virgo might want to stop being virginal and loosen up a bit. Sag can be very experimental and it wouldn’t do you harm to try some things too.

The biggest difference between these two may be found in the commitment department. The ever grounded and practical Virgo may be reserved and calculating but they won’t be scared of committing when the time is right. The Sag on the other hand, can be skeptical even if they know they are in love and that this is what they want. This could be because of other factors around them. A Virgo knows what they want and aren’t scared of trying whatever measure to get it whereas a Sag would like to take the easiest way and if they can’t may just want to go to the next prospect. Case in point, a Sagittarius-Virgo lesbian couple friend of mine broke up because the Virgo’s family couldn’t accept the relationship and although she was willing to fight for it, Sag got scared and made excuses to get away from the stressful relationship even though, through her own admission, she was still very much in love with the Virgo. Bottom line, whether the relationship will work or not depends on how much these two want to stay together.

A typical Sag is known to breeze through awkward and even stressful events. They are one of the most happy and fun loving people. They won’t sweat the small stuff because normally for them, it’s not worth it. Not that they don’t ever take things seriously. They do. But only when they feel it’s necessary. In relationships they don’t hold back. It may take a while before they commit but they go all out when trying to charm someone. It is said they can charm a stripes off a tiger. They can be very sweet and will know how to make you feel special and one of a kind. If you can keep a Sag then you’re one of the lucky ones. Not all relationships with the sweet Sag works out, though. How do Sagittarius handle exes? They don’t.

Your “relationship” after the relationship will depend on the reason you broke up. Most break ups with a Sagittarius is caused by their need for independence. They will want to spend time with you but they need their “me time” every once in a while. Not to be alone and think but to hang out with friends and meet new people. Once they feel fenced in they would be uncomfortable and may start thinking twice about the position they are in. Normally, in these situations, it will be the Sag who wants out. They like to talk, socialize and flirt in a harmless way so if you don’t like that you need to tell them, otherwise it will all build up inside you and before you know it you will be the one who wants out. There is little to no room for jealousy with a Sag. This can be suffocating for them. Again, once they feel cornered they look for the easiest way out. If the other party initiates the breakup the only thing a Sag will ask is an explanation. That is if they really don’t have a clue. Sometimes, as intellectual as a Sag is, he can be dense. He may not know his words are harsh. For the Sag, the things that comes out of their mouths are just opinions or facts. They may already be hurting you and they still don’t know it. If they understand the reason why you want to end up things then they can rest.

If you part with a Sagittarius in good terms there will be no problem staying friends with them. But most of the times, ending a relationship with a Sag means it’s really over. Don’t expect to hear from them or even see them. They will move on with their lives and choose to leave all the negative things behind. If your breakup is bad the Sag will just try to go forward so don’t expect to see them distraught or depressed. They will mostly party the bad experience away. In case you run across them they may acknowledge you as an acquaintance and nothing else. It may seem harsh but that is kind of the way for them to cope with it.

Those under the Sagittarius sign are probably the easiest to get along with because they don’t like to pretend they’re somebody else to please the people around them. Yes they take pleasure at making people laugh (and who doesn’t) and sometimes they may go out of the way to accommodate friends but only if the favors doesn’t clash with their principles and, more importantly, their schedule.

First off, Sagittarius people are hard to piss off. They have a pretty good sense of humor which can be dry and sarcastic so they know how to handle a joke when it’s thrown at them. They can also be callous without intending to be and as intelligent as they are, they can be dense when it comes to other people’s feelings so you need to spell it out for them. A Sag is usually seen as a very happy-go-lucky and come-what-may person but they also know how to get serious in life. They just don’t like getting stressed all the time. All that said, it doesn’t mean they don’t know how to get angry or sad. It just takes a lot for them to get hurt because they’re not very sensitive like the water signs for example. They like to live life and doesn’t sweat the small stuff.

Now, you know what they say about what could happen when the other shoe drops? It’s not that true with most Sags. They are mutable signs and learn how to adapt easily. They get hurt but they have the sense not to dwell on the negative things that happen to them or around them. This is one of the strengths of the Archer. They learn to shun out the negative people and things in their lives and charge it to experience so, although they are seen as careless when they’re young, they mature to be strong and wise individuals. They are good at learning from experiences and they only use it to make their next actions better. Now, whether they forgive you or not depends on the level of the damage you made. Telling them their dress looks awful probably won’t affect them too much. She’ll ponder on it for a couple hours but will also either immediately try to think of a way to remedy the situation or think of a nice come back to make the conversation lighter and funny instead of insulting. However, it could take a Sag relatively longer to get over things if you cheat on them. They may even make a scene upon finding out but they will learn to let go eventually and even sooner than you would expect but don’t think they’d readily take you back. When Sags let go, they let go completely. They’re not the most patient person when it comes to fixing broken things. They’d much rather look for something new to replace the last one. It’s just too messy and too much trouble for them. Although they are very forgiving and probably let the things you do slide most of the times, they are still human and there will come a time they’re going to say enough is enough.

The fact that in the real sense water can put out flame makes this couple an interesting or even an unusual one. On the front, it might seem their differences are worlds apart because of their elements but the stars have proven to give a stronger pull that can make it work out. It’s true that they’re not like other couples that will have an instant attraction like fire to air but the thing that can make them a good couple is if they can see through the differences and work their way towards a good ending by using what similarities they have. For people who wants a fairy tale affair this is something they might call settling for the good enough, but is it really just that?

Pisces ruling planet is Neptune but Jupiter also plays a big part on their sign. This makes them share a lot of similarities with the Sag. They have the same goals in life although the approach may be different. Jupiter is perceived to be larger than life. Its influence makes the Sag want to get more of anything they put their hands on. They’re not the type to work on a project half heartedly. For them it’s all or nothing. Pisces goals are the same as the Archer’s but not necessarily in the same scale. They are a bit more practical and grounded than the fiery sign. Sag is much more optimistic and determined whereas the fish has some things that draw them back. The good thing about this is that as a couple, they could get what they need from each other. A Sag can tell the Pisces things that they need to hear to boost their confidence; the Fish can be a good and honest critique for whatever the Archer is working on. Unlike the fire element who just takes things head-on, water governed signs are a bit too sensitive so they must keep things in check especially if Sag is just trying to help by being honest. Jupiter is also associated with philosophy. Both Sag and Pisces are intellectual so they will have a lot of things to talk about. They may or may not agree with each other’s opinion but the exchange of ideas or even the debate itself will be very much enjoyed.

Sagittarius loves figuring out puzzles and they will enjoy getting to know the somewhat mysterious Pisces. The fish may not take the trophy for being the most mysterious sign but their water level have a certain depth of their own that is quite intriguing and that is something to begin with for the Sag. They are both romantic and loving but the Sagittarius might find Pisces a bit boring (don’t tell them that bluntly) when the initial attraction wears off. The Pisces, on the other hand, may find them too harsh or sort of unattached to be with in a long term relationship. Sagittarius wants never ending excitement in their lives. They look for adventure every day and most Pisces are content with just staying home and spending time with family or friends. They are quiet and keep to themselves. Sexually they can be very compatible as a Pisces usually has some tricks up their sleeves. However, there are more pressing matters to secure.

There is going to be a lot of adjustments if this couple want to make things work out. This is the make it or break it type. There are just things they need to let go if they want to stay together. This is not a bad relationship but it’s not for those who wants to stick to what is “ideal.” Rather, this is something for people who doesn’t mind working to get their happily ever after.

In love, career, finances and practicality, the perfect partner for a Sagittarius are the signs that are compatible with theirs. So that narrows it down to either an Aries or a Leo. But hey, the archers are a spontaneous bunch and won’t judge a book by its cover (if you know what I mean). Besides a Sag is not the type to be boxed in and they like bending rules anyway so they won’t really take that too seriously.

Speaking of rules, a Sag might not just bend some in bed but even break it. They will push to see what their (and their partner’s) limit is. They don’t like routine so they improvise and experiment. He is likely to participate in things considered as taboo like bondage or voyeurism, among other things. If he’s not into it he’d try it out just for the heck of it. They get bored easy so in a relationship, it is advisable for their partner to consider role playing, swinging or at least use sex toys. Those will definitely spice up the sex life. They want adventure and change and it’s no different in bed. If you’re not ready to do this then you are risking the chance of losing your Sag partner. Then again the archer doesn’t really need any sort of serious relationship just to jump in bed with you. All you have to do is to seduce him / her and you’ll find yourself sharing their pillow (for further details read the other tips on seducing a Sag, lol). Here’s a general overview of what each signs sexual relationship with a Sag can be.

SO, an Aries can be a perfect partner, mostly because Aries are the go-with-the-flow type. Although, generally, they can be shy in bed, they won’t mind trying out things that the Sag suggests.

A Taurus might be too serious for a Sag but they are also sensual. They are attracted to a Sag’s independence and intelligence. They might clash in a few things but a roll on the hay is definitely worth a try.

Gemini, another air sign, will know where to blow (pun not intended, maybe just a little). They will love Sag as they both like spontaneity and doesn’t like being caged in. The sexual attraction between these two social butterflies will be inevitable and it may even turn into something a bit more serious.

Cancer is a bit too moody for a Sag and this water sign tends to put out the fire. They might have a passionate one night stand or a short affair, at best. If a Cancer can’t understand the archer’s need for a fun, drama free companion form time to time there is little to no chance they can continue the affair.

Leo and Sagittarius? Three words … Get A Room! Both fire signs, these two will burn the house down (in a good way) when they meet. It’s only a matter of mutual understanding for this relationship to go beyond sexual. A Leo is very open to one night stands which is okay for a Sag but the latter might want more than just one night without he lion.

Virgos play around a lot but they are sexual and romantic the Sag might want to keep them. Virgos are a keeper. They, normally, already know what they want and they will tell you but it won’t stop them from experimenting either. Just for the heck of it.

Libras are as flirtatious and social as a Sag. They are as sexual too. A one night stand could easily turn into a an affair and even more.

A Scorpio is one of the most sexual signs so it will be an adventure for the Sag. They can be sex partners but the Scorpio usually wants more than that so if these two are friends they might want avoid going there. One night stands between them will be explosive though.

Sagittarius and Sagittarius? Need I say more?

Capricorns might look prude or too boxed in on the outside but they can be the best sex partners a Sag can have. Capricorns are willing to learn but most of the times they already know what there is. Although emotionally they are not compatible, a Capricorn knows how to rock Sags world.

Aquarius and Sagittarius are an exciting pair. They both love having fun in and out of the bedroom and they don’t like rushing into things. This love affair (or sexual affair if you must) can last a long time and eventually lead into something more serious.

Like Cancer, a Pisces might be too emotional for a Sag. Sexually Pisces can be erotic and very sensual. They will have fun with the Sag but not for long. The problem is that they won’t tolerate a Sag’s flirty nature.

It is a difficult task at best to succeed in capturing the heart of a Sagittarius and getting him to commit to a one on one relationship. However, if you are fortunate enough to accomplish that, you also want to be very careful not to do anything to doom the relationship. There are five things you can do that would doom your relationship with a Sagittarius.

1.Try to control your Sagittarius.
Sagittarians do not like to be controlled. They are content to go about their own business and do not need anyone in their lives. They must always be in control, and if you attempt to take control, you will lose.

2.Be boring
Sagittarius has a very active mind and cannot tolerate people who are boring. He needs to have challenges, things that will allow him to use his superior intelligence to explain and understand the things in his life. It doesn’t matter whether it is things that happen every day or in an exotic location. The Sagittarius would be happy visiting a third world country and during his travels would need to discover why the people don’t have enough money and food to support their families.

3.Fail to accept him as he is
It is important to accept your Sagittarius as he is. There are specific traits that are common to the Sagittarius including his refusal to be controlled, and you have to be willing to accept these things or your relationship will not work out. You cannot try to change him into the person you want him to be or think he should be.

4.Try to keep him on a leash
The Sagittarius is not a homebody, he enjoys adventure. If you attempt to keep him in one place he will walk away. That doesn’t mean he will never want to stay home if you get him to commit to a relationship, but he will always have the need for adventure even if it is close to home. He would much rather go on a camping trip or the beach than spending his vacation sitting and talking with relatives you see only once a year.

5.Try to make him do something he isn’t ready to do
While this holds true of many things, it is especially true of commitment. It is very difficult for a Sagittarius to make a commitment, and the more you pressure him, the less likely he will be of giving in. Even if he falls in love with you it will be very difficult for him to make a permanent commitment, so you need to let him go along at his own pace. When he is ready for something long-term he will let you know. Just because he loves you does not mean he is ready to give up his freedom. In fact, many Sagittarians believe it is their goal in life to be with several women rather than committing to just one.