How do someone ask for forgiveness from a Sagittarius? First off, if you’re asking forgiveness from a Sag, you must have done something REALLY bad. Sagittarius are fun loving people and are somewhat nonchalant that they let most things slide. This is not to say they do not care or worse, push overs. It’s just that these philosophical people understands at a young age that keeping a grudge only does more harm to them than anyone else. They do not hold on to the bad memories and events. They let these experiences hone them as a person and put it in good use. If there is one thing a Sagittarius hates more than anything, it is resentment and hate itself. So you might not have to worry about pissing them off because of trivial things. Now, if you really must ask for a Sagittarius’ forgiveness, here are a few things to consider.
Make sure it’s from the bottom of your heart. Sounds cheesy, yes, but a heartfelt apology is always appreciated. Look them in the eye when you ask for their forgiveness. If you feel the need to explain yourself then do so. Sagittarius people are very good listeners and they will not only humor you but even put themselves in your shoes. They are somewhat righteous in a way that they ask themselves “how would I feel if I were in his position” all the time. Just say your piece and let it all out but be careful about the words that you use as well especially if the two of you disagreed about something. Sagittarius can be very passionate about their beliefs so explain yourself in a way that would make him feel that you understand where he is coming from. If they feel you are sincere about saying sorry and making amends, they will forgive you from the bottom of their hearts too.
Generally, people under the Sagittarius zodiac are very forgiving. Extraordinarily forgiving, actually. And it’s not just about the small things. Sagittarius people wear their hearts on their sleeves and most of the time you can tell how they really feel about the situation. These party goers are also hopeless romantics. If you are lovers and had a disagreement, don’t let pride get in the way.Don’t be afraid of getting rejected or being asked to walk away. A Sagittarius prefers to know both sides of the story and he will not mind hearing you out. In fact, he prefers this because any other option makes him feel left in the dark.
If you have wronged a Sagittarius person, he may have forgiven you before you even ask for it. If it’s not a major issue, a Sagittarius will probably initiate the conversation too. He will try to sort things out and figure out where things went wrong and he would prefer that the two of you work it out together. It is very hard to make a Sagittarius person angry but keep in mind not to take advantage of them. Don’t wait for that time when you have to run after them just to say those two words.
I am a Sagittaruis born Dec 20,1965. I am a generous person and very kindhearted but don’t take advantage of me. Because than u will lose my friendship 4ever so b careful with a Woman Sagittaruis. Peace!!
im a sag dec 4 and this is all so very true…we are very kind hearted forgiving people…appreciate any Sag Woman…
I am a sag. honesr generous and generous, but if u r taking advantage and hurting me deliberately, dont waste ur apolgies on me, if i figure it out its too late.
being a saggitarius. I totally agree with these responses to the question. As it ended. If you allow a saggie to “have enough” of you or a situation and they walk, they walk for good. Atleast, this is my experience
Im A sag 12/19/ 87 how ever. I fined two things hard…forgive one self. And forgiving absolute betrail. I currently have a situation where I wad betraied. My heart tells me forgive. My subconscious tells me leave it as is.
Hello guys I am sag was born 12-06-77 am 35yrs here on pl
Adrian ima sag born december 17 1979. i just recently experienced somthn similar. i have forgiven too many times because once im done im done for good but this last time is enough. you can forgive and let go too.
Hello…am a sag.honest generous and forgives easily,but I hate been cheated or been taken stupid because of my simplicity.
My name is linda.. Am sag, Born 1987 6. Evry detailz it really true.
Yep Iam agree with those statements. And Iam totally agree with u all guys. Actually Iam okay and no problem to forgive others but when they take advantages from that and bully me as much as they want just because I always forgive… Well forget about my kind hearted character coz u make me ill feel…
Ha Ha Ha Ha wait for my revenge….
I was born 11/27/77, all is mainly true for December Sag. November Sag dont play that. Oh we will forgive but we will never let it go, deep down inside. We believe that yes we wear our feelings ohn our sleeves, basically a how to guide! If u can’t figure us out just by one convo then u dont even deserve to be around.Sooooo F..k ur appology lol!!!!
I was born 12/10/71 and in my experience people have always tried to take my kindness for a weakness. I have learned to walk away and never look back at these types of folkes whether in family, friendships or romantic relationships. I have learned that once the right people come along in all three of these catagories, they will accept you for who you are, appreciate those possitive qualities in you and never try to take advantage of these good qualities. It has actually been happening for me. However, you always will have those who still try you, tell them to keep it moving!!! LOL
I’m a Female Sag 12/2/….An I hate the word sorry! Yep u sorry alright smh!
i hate this word tooo proud to be a sag
Absolutely myself
I have a question. I was born 14 12 1986. I have been ripped apart by a man I once called dad. My siblings hate me. And my mom turned her back on me so many times I have lost count. Sometimes I just wish I could hate or just turn my back on my family. I just don’t know HOW. I know they will suffer if I walk and they will have nothing. And my son will have no extra family even if they are mean back stabbing ppl. But I can’t get my life started or going further if I keep taking care of them. I don’t like the part of me that always forgives them. And I feel as if my mom is hiding a big secret from me of my past of what she has done to me. Any ideas. Please help
Hi I’m sagg born 12/21/86.
My fiancĂ© dumped me 3 weeks befor our wedding and broke my heart. She is cancer & love her family very much. She broke up with me cuz her family ( dad) don’t like my parents even thou he has no problem with me personally ( we don’t know each other physically).
I hate my ex for real for the first 2 months and tried a lot to get over it. I was hurted a lot and after 2 months I notice some progress. I never though if a second to accept her back cuz she ripped me off. But now ( after 3 months), I start missing her. I follow no contact rule, no contact!
Now I decided to forgive her if she comes with her sincer apology and I will start living with her until I get over the trauma she left in my mind.
But my heart tells me to dump her and break her hurt after sometime. Yes, I will take my revenge.
I will forgive her for my plan to get my revenge. I wanna see her gone psychic. But I wish she didn’t do that to me cuz I loved her!
17 of 62 here. Lying is the worst thing a person could do to me as a Sag. Once that kinda trust is broken, it can never be regained for me, no matter how hard I try. I just see those people very differently. Not only that, but I seem to have this keen sense (intuition, if you will) when someone is lying to me. I’ve learned to trust that.
Jessica…there are times we must take care of ourselves. I understand the need for family, but have often taken “time outs” from mine for many months at a time and even years from some. It is not your lot in life to continuously subject yourself to pain, due to a sense of responsibility. Your child needs you to be well emotionally and children ALWAYS come first. If it affects you, trust that it affects him.
We can’t choose our family, but we can choose who we allow in our lives once we reach a certain age. You say you don’t know how to stop? I say you do. It’s actually rather easy. Just stop! Don’t respond in any manner to all these negative influences that are suppressing your positive nature. Take time to heal and teach your son that you can stand up for yourself. Enough is enough already!
Post once again right on the mark. This post is so real. Thank you. You are all right on. But sags’ are the true victors! We are Great people. Thank’s for reading. Dec. 5th 1964.
12/21/60 Sagicorn metal rat
Never paid attention to astrology before, but I’ve never been so at a loss about what to do/how to understand myself & other people before, & it exactly describes every member of my family and our interactions, explains how I got my heart broken by a Taurus wood rabbit this summer- but I learned too late to help
He was honest, sweet, the most sensuous man I ever met, & I have met a few We both had other commitments but needed more, so I decided to try something casual with this amazing guy who approached me. Maybe its the Capricorn cusp, but my Sag spirit wants the adventure of knowing & loving another soul completely, risking everything to make a total body mind soul connection that LASTS. For which I have no time or place in my life unless I break family obligations. Which I feel are strangling me. Though my partner gives me nearly total freedom. While he usurps everyone’s time and energy near him to pursue endless projects in which I have no interest.
So I began to fall in love with this sexually omnivorous man who shared his amazing sex life stories with me, but nothing else. He tried to keep it casual that way. I know cuz I asked him So when he told me he loved me I was blindsided, struck by lightning, delighted, terrified: when I say I love I mean I will do Anything for that person, anything to be with them. Could I? I don’t lie. I had so little to go on with him- mostly text, only occasional brief opportunities to be together & he’d been so careful not to reveal himself, though he told me things that made him very vulnerable if I was remotely judgemental. I needed to see & hear him say those thing & feel his sincerity, & afraid of what I would do if he was… So I was skittish. Sweet, sincere, loving, but noncommittal, and he never mentioned soul mates or his deeper feelings again
Because of work obligations we only ever had an hour or 2. There was One Day we would have together before he had to go. One whole day to live a whole love life together. Maybe I saw him the night before for an hour stolen from a day full of critical family obligations I was so frustrated to have to do instead of staying with him that I said nothing to explain why I had to go, knowing I couldn’t explain without negativity, and not wanting that in our time together. The first time we weren’t hundreds of miles apart since he declared himself by text 10 days ealier. He seemed odd, it wasn’t quite right, but I was so happy about the next day I thought: we’ll get it right then.
He cancelled. He felt guilty. Is that all, or did I kill the unicorn that was about to lay its head in my lap?
He texted after 2 months, 2 words. I cried every day for 3. Cant guilt him, so I didn’t tell him. Need answers, but I think to him it was simple: we couldn’t be together, he felt conflict, so he left. I dont understand love that could be real one minute and discarded the next. One of the last things he said, at the height of passion was: Is it Safe? No, its never safe, thats the point, what do you mean? Ah, he means is it safe for him, can he be free of obligation no matter what? Yes. Damn.
So now he texts me 2 1/2 hrs and shares his sex adventures since he’s been home. Huh? I told him guilt was toxic & how to overcome it. Maybe that worked? Maybe he’ll shred his gf’s heart now too. Cant spin the lighthearted erotic tales I told him before when my heart trusted him for no good reason. Told him before that I’d like any relationship rather than none, but I find I cant fall out of love any more than I can do casual. I’m fucked: prodded by Sagittarius, inhibited by Capricorn, in love alone, surrounded by loved ones & craving to be 1000’s of miles away with someone who just wants to fuck. And what kills me is thats all we had time for the last time, maybe he misunderstood my heart because I was so excited & then had to go. Maybe he thought I didn’t care enough & that chased him off. Cant ask. Cant stand not knowing…
Don’t do guilt, it’s poison. Think why you have it & take action one way or other-accept yourself and others as they are- there is no right or wrong way to be human, just what works for you & what doesn’t. No one else is obligated to conform to your ideals & you are not bound to theirs.
Don’t do vengeance. What you do to another you do to your spirit. Stealing makes you a thief even if no one else ever knows it, you will. Hurting others makes you cruel. Don’t let other’s actions dictate your response.You choose who you are. Who do you want to be? Be true to that.
So I need deep lasting passionate connection, absolute freedom & adventure. Woof. Thought I might have found someone, but my Sag gift for miscommunication and the cruel timing life dealt this summer killed new love borning. And he’s Taurus. I so want the strength I felt there, but I cannot love a wall, I kept falling down his slick sides and hurting myself. Why cant I stop? I still want to climb that tower of strength and love whats inside. And then, could I get in and out, or would I just be a new flavor of miserable? It would be easier if I could be angrier, but love is too strong to let hate in, and I would never trade one for the other. I’d rather break my heart a thousand times than close myself safely away. Be strong. Love:)
So true. I’m a sag 11/25/89.don’t lie to me or betray me.I will cut you off & be done with you forever.someone stole from me and I cut them off at the snap of a finger.we are generous as hell!! I forgive so easily but it’s a virtue. I just hate when people take kindness as you being a push over.once we’re done, the other person realizes that we aren’t. Ha their loss!
I’m a virgo and I have been dishonest with my Sagittarius, I’ve been with her for 6 years and have 3 kids with her (2 are from a previous marriage of hers but I count as mine as I have brought them up) I had real issues throughout the relationship of opening up to her, I would keep things to myself and if she found out from another source she would go mad, but always made up quickly however last summer I broke her heart by hurting her trust in me, I didn’t cheat on her but my actions affected her family. We split up but in November she asked me back to try again, it was great she was sending me lovely messages of fresh starts etc but never went as far as saying she loved me except a ditto when I said it to her, then February this year she said she needed space from me and asked me to move out, a week later she ended it saying she can’t forgive me as it’s too big. Since then she said she doesn’t want the kids to know about us and doesn’t want to introduce another man in to their lives ever, I took this as a positive, so we pretend I’m still living there and she is great in regards to letting me be there with the kids, a few weeks ago she text me saying she missed me and missed sex with me, she then apologised in the evening for leading me on, I have found out now that she is seeing someone else, if I don’t see her or speak to her for more than a day she texts me to ask if I’m ok, is she still hoping for reconciliation or is she using me? I’ve read the way Sagittarius can shut off all feelings but my ex seems to be keeping me around, sometimes I catch her looking at me and it’s the old look of love and intensity we once had, our relationship was outstanding in every aspect and I ruined it, I’m holding on to hope that I will be part of this family again, just want some advice I’m 08-09-77 she is 25-11-77 thanks
a VERY important thing to be in mind is that a Sagittarius may forgive you even if you don’t apologize. but if you hurt their sensitive spot, even if you apologize with a house of chocolate, they will not want even your friendship anymore. they have their passion and sometimes there is something that passion is targeted in something of their personal (like a pet, a book, a place or something they keep near them or at their room) and if that special something is hurt or offended by you, all the repentance in the world won’t be enough to gain them back, they forgave, forgot and moved on.
Hey guys I’m the Aquarius. I just recently ended my relationship with my sag gf of 5 years. We were driving eachothr crazy the last couple months. Sometimes I feel like she didn’t care about my feelings and we wanted to get married. I kept dragging my feet because I wasn’t feeling 100%. There were days where we were so I love and other days we hated eachother. But basically what ended up happening was she told me I had to respect her time after I got home from a funeral and that hurt me a lot. It allways felt like it was all about her and didn’t want to do anything I wanted. So I told her I was unhappy for 2 years and when she asked me if I loved her I said I cared. I regret saying those things because they were not true. Now I’m trying to get her back. She’s angry at me and I don’t want her moving on because I want her I want to fix this. But I feel the hurt I’ve cause her is running deep I thing she feels betrayed and lyed to. She also thinks i took her for granted because i said it took me loosing her to realize what I had. Is that a death sentence Ima relationship for a sag? I messed up so bad I love her with every bone in my body but she told me she needs space so I’m giving it to her. But in the mean time I’m going crazy about what she’s thinking idk what to do please help in loosing my future wife! Any sag females out there want to share some insight especially if you have the dec 12 birthday thanks you I’m so heartbroken…….
I’m a sag too, deep inside we do care its just our nature
I’m having a problem with my friend and she a sag but I’m trying to ask her forgiveness. The teacher forced me too say who was talking and I told the teacher and now she’s mad at me and I don’t know what to do I feel so bad I’m a Aquarius so I feel really bad for her.
I’m a saggittarius girl (nov. 24) and I do forgive easily but I will let you know when I first meet you if I don’t like you. The only time I don’t forgive is if your being an Insensitive jerk. I am very sensitive but I usually don’t show how I feel, I’m good at concealing, and lying….. lol. If you really screw up then I can hold a grudge and feel resentment but I always feel guilty for feeling that way. A tip if your asking forgiveness, be kind and sincere but don’t be insensitive. For me, if your toying around with romantic feelings than you got on my bad side, this can be different for all Sagittarius but usually we don’t like having our feelings toyed, insensitive people, unreasonable people…. so on. If you toyed with her feelings and the being a selfish jerk after they try to fix things then forget it, you better put that white flag up cuz we get revenge and we sure are rebellious at times.
Hey guys I’m a Libra who was recently dating a sag who I fell in love with. While dating I read a lot about sag women and learned that you all like ur freedom and hate clingy ppl but you also fall in love with friends ship. That’s how we fell we were best friends and everything was perfect or so it seemed. She had a boyfriend who didn’t pay her enough attention and she ended leaving him for me. Things have recently turned for the worse for me and her now and no matter rather she’s wrong or I’m wrong I always end up apologizing. Do sags ever feel bad for what they do? But also I told the wrong associate at work about our situation and today they got into an argument and he put her on blast! This asshole says to her ” you talking about me but you a thot you left your bf and fucked an associate!” Needles to say I was pissed ???? because she knows he found out through me and she cried,and when I apologize d she looked at me with tears in her eyes and told me to never talk to her again. Is it possible she will ever forgive me? I love this girl from the bottom of my heart, the friendship and chemistry was amazing and I don’t want to lose her ???? but I need to know the truth is it too late? Will I ever get her back? I’d prefer someone with a Dec 2 birthday to answer as I feel u guys may think the but anything is acceptable. I also apologize for the long story I know u guys hate reading these things lol