While compromise is a necessary part of any relationship, it is especially important for Sagittarius. This is true in part to the fact that the Sagittarius is quite capable of taking care of himself and doesn’t need someone in order to meet his daily needs. He is quite content to fend for himself and go about his daily business alone. In fact, it is very difficult for the Sagittarius to make a commitment to a long-term relationship or marriage, so if you are fortunate enough to get him to make the commitment, you will discover the necessity for compromising.

One of the first things you need to learn is you cannot control or dominate a Sagittarius. The Archer must always be in control of his own life and will not allow anyone else to attempt to have a hold over him. No matter how much he may love his partner, if she attempts to put him on a leash he will quickly walk away and not even think twice about looking back. It is very difficult for him to commit to a long-term relationship as it is, so anyone who attempts to control him will be left standing in the cold.

It is also important to allow the Sagittarius to explore his mind and those things that surround him. He is a very intelligent human being and has a deep need for not just adventure but for finding answers to everything that surrounds him. If you are not the adventurous type, you will have a very difficult time meeting the needs of your Sagittarius mate. On the other hand if you are willing to join him in the things he enjoys even if you don’t really enjoy it, you will find he greatly appreciates you and your company. Instead of refusing to join in those activities he enjoys, swallow your pride and join in—at least some of the time.

One thing the Sagittarius doesn’t like is people who are boring. Because their minds are so active they must always be doing things that provide challenges. You might make them very happy if you give them a gift of a large crossword puzzle or engage in a game that challenges them to think such as some type of trivia game. If you travel with them to a deserted island, they will still want to find out everything about their surroundings; they will not be content with just those things that are in their immediate view. They always need to know what, how and why for everything in life.
The Sagittarius is also a very upbeat personality and likes the people around him to be the same way. If you are sad being around a Sagittarius will quickly change your mood, and that is just the way he likes it. You also must accept him for what he is—never try to change the Archer into something other than what he is or you will displease him immensely.

How to Make a Relationship Work with a Sagittarius

For the most part Sagittarians do not like to be died down domestically but that doesn’t mean you will never find one you can marry or even with whom you can form a permanent relationship. The key is to not make them feel tied down and allow them the freedom to pursue those things they enjoy. If you happen to enjoy the same things you will find yourself spending more time as a couple. Sagittarians are adventurous and will not be content to stay home and sit in front of the television nor are they likely to enjoy something as simple as just going shopping. You have to allow them the freedom to do those things they enjoy doing—hunting, fishing, hiking and sports are several areas in which they excel.

Because of their adventurous nature you have to either participate with them or allow them the freedom to go alone without you. This takes a great deal of skill and even self-control because failing to give in to their adventurous nature can mean the end of your relationship. Learn to be compromising or develop a love for the things the Sagittarius enjoys and you will find your relationship blossoming. They are very loyal and faithful to those they love, so you do not need to be concerned that allowing them freedom will create the need for additional male/female interaction. The choices you make will determine the longevity with a male or female Sagittarian.

Should you learn to participate in the activities your partner enjoys just to keep peace in the family? It would be in your best interest to learn to enjoy some of the activities your Sagittarian does if you expect to spend any time together. For instance, you are more likely to vacation in places where there are a great deal of activities rather than renting a condo at the beach and hanging out at the pool for the duration. That doesn’t mean a Sagittarian doesn’t enjoy swimming as an activity, but he or she will not be content to lie on the side of the pool and sunbathe. They may also enjoy sports such as horseback riding, skiing, bicycling and other strenuous activities.

If you have a successful marriage with a Sagittarian he or she will be committed and devoted but may also tend to drive hard into his career. Even women who lack a career can become overzealous to the point of lacking ability to be affectionate and perhaps earn the title of frigid. It can be very difficult for anyone to live with another Sagittarius, and almost impossible for two Sagittarians to form a successful relationship. It’s important to understand the importance of understanding your Sagittarian partner in order to make the relationship work. They are highly prone to anger and you have to learn to expect and accept this phase of their personality. Work with them rather than against them while at the same time accepting the deep love they have to give to the right person.

Can You Make Your Relationship with a Sagittarius Work if Your Signs Are Incompatible

Incompatibility of horoscope signs is one of those areas in which there are many differing opinions. While some people doubt the validity of signs when it comes to personalities, there are some traits that tend to work in favor of the sign under which you were born. If you read the information about Sagittarius and then compare it to people you know, it is highly likely they will exhibit at least some of those personality traits. Whether you accept the validity of the information, there is little doubt that it often turns out to be correct. You need to weigh the odds and decide if you are willing to face that struggles that you may face in this type of relationship.

Sagittarians tend to be very adventurous and hard working even to the point of neglecting their families. In order to make a relationship work with a Sagittarian you have to be willing to overlook these defects in their nature and pick up the slack. Even if your sign is not compatible with Sagittarius, you can make it work if you make the choice to fill in the voids and accept them for what they are. You cannot make demands that will interfere with their ideals such as telling them to slow down or spend time at home relaxing. You have to meet them on their level—you have to be the one willing to make compromises rather than expecting your Sagittarius partner to do it.

One area in which they are adamant is loyalty and faithfulness. You will not have to worry about what they might be doing when they are away from you, but at the same time unless you are willing to become a part of their active and adventurous lifestyle you can expect to spend a lot of time on your own. While this doesn’t mean you need to become a part of everything they do, the more you can learn to enjoy with them, the more time you will spend as a couple instead of being home alone. If you are the kind of person who is content to stay home glued to the television or reading a book you will not be content with a Sagittarius.

It takes a great deal of willpower to learn build a relationship with someone who is not compatible with your astrological sign. While it is possible to make that kind of relationship work it takes a great deal of willpower and determination from both partners with the other person being the one to make sacrifices. Can you make it work with two Sagittarians? That can be very difficult if not impossible, but again, it depends on how much the couple wants to stay together and how strong their feelings are. However, you must be prepared for a lifetime of struggles and compromises, not something that is easy for two people who are prone to anger and driven to career goals to accomplish.

Sex and the Sagittarius Male: How to Ensure a Fulfilling Relationship

One has to be very careful of the Sagittarius male because of his sense of adventure which also can cross over into his love life. He doesn’t looking crying or brooding women as with a Scorpio or Capricorn. He may also begun bored with a relationship very quickly and be ready to move on to his next sexual encounter. In order to keep this man at your side you need to be able to fulfill his needs completely while providing him with a sense of adventure at the same time. A foreign woman would fulfill his need for both adventure and travel.

While this is a far cry from the part of him that is faithful and loyal, that doesn’t mean he doesn’t exhibit those traits as well. Remember a Sagittarius man will not always be interested in marriage and thus he may look toward a variety of partners in the sex department. He enjoys nothing better than having a variety of women on his arm as he heads to the local pub for a beer or two. His choices in this area are also part of his adventurous nature and his tendency to become bored very easily. If you keep it exciting for him you will be able to retain his interest longer and may even permanently.

The Sagittarius male is not looking just for sex but is looking to fulfill his need for adventure. This may mean he is not a likely candidate for the traditional sexual role and may look for a little bit of spice in order to keep things exciting. The spice may consist of different women or different ways of fulfilling sexual needs—these are things you will need to find out from an individual partner. The key is remembering the Sagittarius male will help you make the transition smoothly and with a bit of laughter along the way. Nothing relieves the tension of a first time sexual encounter quicker than humor, and you can depend on the Sagittarius man to provide more than you can handle no matter what you are doing.

The sense of humor of the Sagittarius male will add excitement to any relationship and he will keep you laughing. Humor is good not only for a regular relationship but can also be the spice of life in the bedroom as well. The sense of relaxation it provides can help break the ice for a new relationship and thus relieve the nervous tension that comes from wondering if you will be able to fulfill each other. Sex is always difficult when you have a new partner, one of the reasons many people will stay in a bad relationshi0p. They are in a comfort zone and do not want to go through the steps involved with “breaking in” someone new. The sense of humor and jokes that are the nature of the Sagittarius male will help you cross this hurdle easier.

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General Compatibility:

Lots and lots of fun and excitement await a Sagittarius couple. They have a lot in common which will fuel up the fire. Both love to travel, party, meet new people and go on new adventures. Having the same interests they will also share the same optimistic view in life. If they partner up in business, they will reach things they never even thought of. Sagittarians being philosophical people likes challenges and puzzles. The harder it is to figure out something the more drawn they get to it. They won’t stop until they figure their way out of it. One thing that might hold them back is their care-free nature. They need to get serious about what they are trying to achieve. A lot of times, Sagittarius people focus on “living their life to the fullest” they forget to work on the other necessary things. Adventure and fun can overwhelm the Archer so they need to keep their feet planted firm on the ground. Another similarity is their temperament. Sagittarius people are not emotional or the moody type. They are known to be blunt to the point of tactlessness. Often times they say innocent and honest things and end up hurting the feelings of who they are talking to. They, however, have a very long patience and, to be blunt, a bit “thick skinned” so they don’t normally take offense on a random comment or criticism.

Romantic Compatibility:

The best thing about these two being together is that they love to meet new people and interact with members of both sexes. Therefore, there will be little or no jealousy in a relationship between two Sagittarians. They will have fun together or on their own with their own set of friends. They can count on giving each other enough space to have fun. As with business though, these two need to get serious at one point if they want this relationship to work. Having fun, meeting and hanging out with new people can be overwhelming so they need to remember that they should put restrictions on the freedom that they give each other or that the other gives them. The word “restriction” might not sound very appealing to an Archer but it’s merely drawing the line somewhere. Sagittarians are naturally flirt for example, so one might say, “Fine you can flirt, you can look, but you can’t touch. And I’m going to do the same.” In the end, they will have to sit down and talk about more serious matters if they want to end up hearing wedding bells together.

Sex:

Sex between two Sagittarians is one of the best. These two are ready to try different things at least once. Therefore there will almost be no boundaries. They will not always be interested in the whole foreplay thing. They are very much full of life when it comes to sex and may not have the patience for “romantic” gestures. Pulling each other in an empty cubicle in the bathroom of a packed club for a quickie might sound lewd for other people but it might just be the best scenario for them.

Any kind of breakup can be traumatic, but when it involves a breakup with a Sagittarius it can be more difficult. One of the reasons for this is because the Sagittarius is a very dramatic sign, and a breakup will hurt his ego. He will not let it go and will tell everyone he knows how badly you treated him and will talk about every single mistake you ever made during the time you were with him. He will try to undo his own hurt over the breakup by telling all of his family and friends how you abused, used, loved and left him. Do not expect him to focus on any of the positive points in your relationship.

In an effort to use the hurt of breaking up with a Sagittarius, all Sagittarius women can follow some important steps. It may not work with every man but it may help most of them get over the break up and be able to move on with their lives. One important thing to remember is after you finalize the break up you need to remain single for a while. If you become involved in another relationship too soon and your ex finds out he will put more blame on you and think you broke up with him to begin seeing someone else.

There are several things you can do before you break up with him to prepare him for the breakup. By following these steps you will reach the point where he will be more accepting of the breakup and even welcome it.

• Tell your partner you are unable to keep up with their sexual or physical needs any longer. Since he will want someone who is able to remain on his level he will understand your method of reasoning.

• If you act bored by slowing down and becoming a homebody, the breakup will be much easier. The Sagittarius man likes to be very active and will not want to stay with someone who is boring.

• The Sagittarius is a very confident person, so if you begin to act paranoid or insecure you will drive him out of your life without even trying.

• Start acting very possessive and jealous by questioning his every move. Sagittarians hate being with this type of person and will quickly walk away from the relationship.

• If you tell him you have lost all interest in sex and want to stay celibate for a specific period of time he will not want to stay in the relationship.

By following these steps you will be able to break up with your Sagittarius man without trying to do so. This will eliminate hurt and a tarnished ego. The key is to let the relationship wane rather than actually just breaking it off and causing hurt feelings and maybe facing the potential for him to put all of the blame on you for the end of the relationship.

You finally got your ideal mate so the question now becomes: how do you keep your Sagittarius partner? It doesn’t stop at getting the Sagittarius person you’ve been targeting. You might have seduced them or got them to date you but what’s going to keep them with you? Among all the zodiacs people born under the Sagittarius sign are the easiest to get bored. It goes the same in relationships.

Sagittarians aren’t really players; they can be the most faithful partners. But they need to be constantly on the go. There has to be a variety in everything they do and everything they have. When in a relationship, Sagittarius tries their best to make it work out. So it’s just fair to do the same thing for them. Don’t be a lazy partner. In general, if you want something work on it. It’s a two way process so you have to remember to give as much as you take.

The horoscope said Sagittarius people are happy people. They are fun, are always full of laughter and very active. Start there and figure out fun things you can do together. Take a married couple for example. After a few months of being together they stop going out regularly and the honeymoon stage ends. They either concentrate on work or stay home during their free time to watch TV together. They start to build a secure family that they forget to work on their relationship as well. The “honeymoon stage” doesn’t really need to end. It was just a term that people made up. Try to go back to how you were before when you started dating. How does that feel? You get butterflies on your stomach? You feel excited every time you go on a date? That’s how it should always feel. Don’t stop doing the activities you used to do when you were just dating if both of you still enjoy doing that. Or try something new too. A Sagittarius partner will get bored if he or she comes home and all you have to talk about are the bills you need to pay or the roof you have to get fixed or what’s up in the latest reality TV show.  Now if you said you’ve signed up both of you in that reality TV show then that would get their attention.

Pay attention to the little things. When dating it’s natural to compliment your date about the clothes they wear. About the effort they went through just so they can come up with a romantic date. Once in a relationship people forget to notice these small things. It said in a song that: “it’s those little things that mean so much” and it’s true.

It all boils down to the fact of both of you keeping your relationship as hot and as exciting as when you were first dating. The flowers, small tokens, candle light dinners, out of town trips (jus the two of you) doesn’t have to end just because you’re married and already have kids or you already feel secure about the relationship.

Bringing back someone who left you is not an easy task. It’s not even an easy decision. So you don’t only think of ideas on how to get your Sagittarius partner back, you also have to figure out why they left in the first place and how to make them stay after.

Reasons. If your Sagittarius partner decided to end your relationship, chances are, they are feeling caged in. Sagittarians value their freedom. Once they feel the walls are closing in on them they will head for the door and won’t look back. Not saying this is the only thing that would make them walk. But it’s the biggest factor. Generally, Sagittarians can be impatient, wild, and are afraid of commitment. They are playful and flirtatious and if you voice out your concerns and let them know you feel insecure or jealous they will lose their interest. You have to have fun with them because all those flirting are just that, flirting. If a Sagittarius wants to end a relationship, they will tell you. If they don’t do that, there’s nothing to worry about.

This is the same as being clingy. Sagittarians are independent. Naturally, they will want their partners to be independent. Just like them. They will start feeling nervous and might even panic if all your decisions depend on what they want or what they need. If you think you should do this because you want to make them feel or to know they are important to you … STOP. If you’re deciding on something, whether it be big or small, just either make a decision first, tell them, and ask: “what do you think?” or “hey I’d like to get your opinion on this”. For them, getting their opinion is better than making them decide themselves. Also, since Sagittarius people are carefree, and yes sometimes careless, making them feel things rely on their decisions will be scary for them. They are independent people but looking after others can be strenuous if they’re not ready to do that.

Getting A Sagittarius Partner Back. Stalking your Sagittarius ex and sending them countless of messages and gifts won’t bring them back. You can’t make it happen right away. So don’t push it. Be patient in planning and executing the things you should do. For one, act nonchalant about it. You don’t have to act like you don’t care. Just say you’re okay with it if he thinks it is best (even if you’re not). Offer to be friends with him/her. That way you won’t lose touch and will still know what’s going on even if you’re not together.

Now one of the most important things to do is to love yourself. It may sound cheesy but it’s the truth. Sagittarius people will not give importance to people who do not think of themselves as important. Be selfish if you must. It’s not always that bad. People in a relationship generally makes does things to please their partner. Just take time off to pamper yourself and do the things that you want and don’t think about what he wants or what he may think about it. You’re not in a relationship anymore so what he thinks should not matter, really.

Build up your confidence again. Chances are, you broke up because you were feeling insecure and he knows it. Sagittarius people are very attracted to confident women. He wants someone he can take with him anywhere and not worry that she might not fit it.

All of these boil down to defining yourself. Boost your self-worth, feel important and be important. Respect yourself. If you don’t do that no one will. Make them feel like it’s their loss and not yours. If you take care of your own needs, stop being clingy and start feeling attractive they will find you attractive again, they will look at you again and who knows, they might want a second change again. If it’s meant to be it will happen.

Normally a Sagittarius woman is the one who seduces a man. That’s because she likes the challenge. Sagittarians are full of ideas and are always positive about them so expect some pretty irresistible tricks from her. However, if you have been with Sagittarius women I’m sure you wouldn’t want to wait until she notices and seduces you. You have to take action as these fun-filled, lovers of life will not stay single forever. First things first, get to know her different sides; what she likes and not and try to work on it.

The Intellectual Sagittarian. Your main task would be to keep her mind stimulated. She is definitely not a dumb babe so don’t treat her like one! Sagittarians are the intellectual type and you might be surprised to realize you’re the one trying to keep up with how her brain works. She can talk about anything from politics, gas prices, law, traveling, traditions and exchange rate to the latest celebrity gossip, best salons and the price of a lemon. Not only that, she gets bored easily so you need to constantly think of new things to talk about or discuss or her eyes and ears would end up slipping somewhere else. Use your wit and intellect in seducing her. Be humorous and crack jokes. If you can make her laugh then keep going because you’re on the right track.

The Materialistic Sagittarian. At times a Sagittarius female will seem high maintenance. And she could be. Sagittarians love fun and adventure, traveling and sports. One way to seduce this side of her is to take her to trips and cruises away from her usual scenery. Go to a deserted island resort or book a few days stay on a luxury ship. This will blow her mind away. She knows how to appreciate the good things in life. Luxurious hotels, exotic restaurants and high end night clubs will be every appealing to her. Little tokens to show her how you appreciate her or a bouquet of flowers delivered in her office for everyone to see will surely get more than her attention.

The Simple Sagittarian and Sporty. Although she can be materialistic, the Sagittarius woman also values simple things. A Sagittarian when in love is very romantic. Camping out is a good activity to do with her. It’s something that will challenge her and make her sweat at the same time feel romantic because it’s just the two of you in the woods for the night. Bring a double sleeping bag because a Sagittarian is naughty and likes the idea of making love in the great outdoors. On a regular weekend, try staying in to cook for her and watch a DVD. Surprise her by planning a pillow fight but make it look spontaneous for added fun. Or chase her around the bedroom and make sure you end up in bed (or the kitchen counter if you must).

Now for a few DON’Ts. A Sagittarian values independence. Yes she’s a woman but don’t try to stop her for paying the bill at the restaurant. There’s no reason why she can’t do so. This does not mean you should let her pay all the time though. It’s just a way for her to feel you are equal. Also refrain from being to showy in public. Yes a Sagittarian is game for some quick fun in the men’s room but that is different from being mushy and clingy.

A Sagittarius woman will be easy to persuade as long as she’s in to you. Keep that in mind by the time you get into the actual seducing you might find you don’t need to do it anymore.

If you’ve dated a Sagittarius guy you’d know that he is complex and hard to catch. These men born under the zodiac Sagittarius are very approachable because they are naturally friendly people. But getting their attention is different from keeping it. Whether we like it or not, the men with the sign represented by an Archer or a Centaur will follow the next thing that will catch their attention. Being a dual sign (half man, half horse), a Sagittarian tends to have a double personality too. One is philosophical and idealistic (man) and the other wild and carefree (horse). Given that, one must be ready to come across both personalities and be able to handle it before she plans to seduce him.

Sagittarius Traits. A Sagittarian is easily attracted to a woman that’s fun and full of energy and sex appeal. So what you need to do is dress flirty (not slutty), put on some make up and light perfume, laugh, look fun and HAVE fun. This will get his attention right away and will make him fall for you. Be warm and friendly towards him and his friends. His friends are very important to him and this will make him feel you accept him as a whole.

The Sagittarius man can also be considered a knight in shining armor. Generally, he will want to reach out to help and fight for a worthy cause. But, other than hanging out with fun people he can’t help but get involved with a damsel in distress. Note that this is a part of him that has a dual personality or varied tastes. He may feel he has the responsibility to make things right for someone.  This is the alpha male in him acting out. On the contrary, he doesn’t like women who cannot stand for themselves. This is where it can get complex. Do you act like someone in need or someone who doesn’t need anyone? A little bit of both. You don’t want to act like a weakling who can’t fend for yourself. You need to have enough confidence to let him see you do have your moments but you can always bounce back on your feet.

Moreover, the centaur is a physical person and it bores him to sit around doing and seeing the same things. You need to be able to offer him something else. Constantly.

Seducing The Sagittarius Guy. Don’t just go for the usual things people do on a date. That’s no way to turn on the Archer. If you want him hooked to you engage him in physical activities. A Sagittarius loves sports and outdoor events so plan on a weekend out of town or do activities together. Some of the things you might want to try are gambling, camping, horseback riding, wake boarding or even bungee jumping and sky diving if you really want to impress him. Be impulsive too. Even if you have planned to do one activity it wouldn’t hurt to switch to a different one or add it up if you can still take it. He would love the spontaneity. Do some of these and he will surely bite it hook-line-and-sinker. One thing to keep in mind is that Sagittarians are direct people. You might not need a lot of seduction to get him to jump in bed with you. Most of them may even consider sex as a sport. Be aggressive and tell him what you want. You might want to refrain from mentioning anything about a commitment yet because this will make him run for the nearest exit.

Know What His Dating Rules Are. In every relationship it’s very important to know where you stand. Luckily, being straight forward people, Sagittarians doesn’t go through a lot of phases before he tells you what the score is. But you also need to know what his rules are when it comes to serious dating as opposed to casual dating. Do not force him into going to a serious relationship if he isn’t ready or does not want to. This would only push him away even more.  Give him a little freedom and before you know it he will come back to you.