A woman born under the Sagittarius sign is full of life, independent, idealistic, and a lover of traveling and knowledge. With these characteristics it’s not impossible that men would go out of the way to woo her. It might seem easy at first. Besides, these female Archers (or Centaurs) love meeting people. They are known to be flirtatious and playful; perhaps, too flirtatious and playful. Keeping a female interested is the problem they have to overcome. Sagittarius females get bored easily. They tend to look for new things to try or new people to connect with. Here are some tips to bear in mind when trying to attract Sagittarius women.
1) Dress Up. It might seem shallow, but women (in general) give high regards to a well dressed guy. When going out, make sure you dress better than your friends. Don’t overdo it though. Dress up for the occasion. Don’t wear a suit if it’s not a formal gathering and don’t wear jeans in a formal party. Some of the things to check out are shoes and fingernails. Seriously, if you can’t keep those clean (they’re in plain sight) then women won’t want to know about things they can’t see. Accessories are good too. Usually a wrist watch or a bracelet is enough. Again, don’t over accessorize.
2) Keep Her Amused. It’s not all about the looks. Sagittarians are highly intellectual and philosophical people. On the other hand she also loves fun and laughter. So engage her in a light but stimulating conversation. Talk about business but don’t be too technical (unless she asks). Talk about her latest trip or your travel plans in the next few months. Or an exotic restaurant you want to try out.
3) Be Hot And Cold. Now for a more devious trick … be unpredictable. Nothing drives a female Sagittarian crazy than an enigmatic guy. In flirting with them, the push and pull theory totally works! Be sweet with them and then keep your distance the next time you see each other. Going on and off will keep them wondering what’s up and keep them interested. It provides an air of mystery that messes up with their senses.
4) Be The Prize. Don’t show them attention the whole time. Be the one who is worthy of attention! Make yourself the cath. Or at least make yourself seem like the most eligible bachelor in the room. Sagittarians love challenges. She’d be thinking of ways to win a “prize” and she would want the one with the highest value.
5) Respect Her Freedom. A Sagittarian can very well take care of herself. She’s independent and she loves it that way. You have to respect that. She doesn’t want to be tied up. Don’t ask for a commitment after 2 weeks of going out with her. Do not give her an ultimatum and refrain from being too clingy (yes men can be that way too). Give her space to grow.
More importantly, be sure to explore new things with her. This is the best way to connect and keep up to date with what it takes to keep her interested.
PS: I am really good at math but a horrible speller!!! lmao
Have to say I agree Michael u hit it spot on.
Humm, this description of Sag women here is correct however not all Sag women are ditto copies of each other; upbringing, culture, and society they live in do impact the over all personality. I see tons of other Sag women very bubbly and talkative whereas I am the opposite; very shy, and reserved. Sagg women hate mind games nevertheless, a little harmless hot and cold during initial encounters keep Sag women interested. Clingy, possesive, bossy men should not waste their time coz they stand no chance….unless they live in conservative societies where arranged marriages are common
and I am not sure about dating an aries or a leo man. The compatibility charts top the sagg- Arries and Sagg- Leo pair; however, i personally feel both leos and aries are little bossy and can be controlling …hummm not so sure I could be wrong….
I’m an Aries man and I have a Sag female friend. She hate jealousy so bad. I’m a typical independent Aries and the Push and Pull theory works so well for me. It seems to work, but it drives her nuts. I’m not desperate at all. I find it easy being her friend because we both respect each others space so easily. I think she was testing me for a while talking about her dates and her other guy friends, but I always encourage her(but show a small dash of jealousy on my face). Now that I do that, she doesn’t bother bringing them up to me at all(like I said, I think she was testing me, lol). She has other guy friends who don’t talk to her for days and she gets annoyed, but still calls them her friends. I’m so care free and independent, maybe that’s why she’s attracted a little(I can tell because she always loves cuddling and getting close). I’m also a typical “in your face” Aries who is really blunt and when she gets all emotional, I act all tough but sweet. I love my independence and I have clingy, controlling, and dishonest people. Now I’m doing the “Push” theory for a couple of days because I want my space.
Another note is she always hates buying dinner and drinks for other guys that come over. lol. She also hates drama, so do I. It’s kind of funny if I don’t text for 1 day, she goes nuts. She thinks that I don’t want to be friends anymore. lol, what a drama queen.
I am a Sag female and I think Steve and Shadi needs to get it right. Not because you were burnt by sag women means they are all alike.
I’ve been in a 15 year old relationship wit a virgo male (opposites do attract lol) we made it work. I love a clean house, I love my freedom. I flirt and I’m not aware , I’m just being friendly I called it “built in my personality”. Haven’t cheated… I keep it honest and real.
I disagree with the hot and cold stuff cuz its either ur with me or you’re not!!!
I solely believe that a Sag’s or any other zodiac’s promiscuity is based on their upbringing. I have morals. Cheating isn’t even a last resort!
Love this post tho! Great read
The less attention you give a Sag… The more they want it… They are the best Lovers… Than Thang Just Hot down there…
The less attention you give a Sag… The more they want it… They are the best Lovers… That Thang Just Hot down there…Sag females flirt daily… With your friends, The Plummer, it don’t matter… They just need the attention… But they don’t realize there disrespect, causes a chain reaction… This is why there men usually Fucc around on them… Not because he doesn’t Love her, are the Sex isn’t Good… He just feels like she’s doing it mentally, so he will do it in the flesh… Stop Being a hoe Sag Women.. Saying its just yur Nature… Ijs…
Thats completely true u hit it rite on the mark..im very impresd buy ur wording and how deep u wen far as keeping us intrested me being a sag woman intrested in a women as my kind that jus makes it a lil easier for me to ajust
When someone writes an post he/she maintains the plan of a user in his/her mind that how
a user can be aware of it. So that’s why this piece of writing is amazing. Thanks!
So I’m a Gemini woman. I like both men n women thus a Gemini lol. I met this flawless sexy sag and we hit it off the first day. She would come to my house every day and from day one and never left. We would talk about everything anything including past relationships. She told me she wag in a relationship with a woman before they just never had sex (I’m ddoubting that because of how she is with me and on the subject if it) we would texts every day, calls every day, I would come to herjob and we would talk and go eat after and she would come to my house and we would go out after it chill and watch a movie, anything fun we would do. We would lay up, lay close in such. Didn’t have sex but everyone thought we were damn near married because of how strong our chemistry was. When exes came around she’d be pissed, livid, on fire l. I’d be jealous also when she would talk about her exes.. But all in all And to top it off great conversation…. So why am I on here? Because when I did make my move she went fucking crazy! She suddenly gave me these human rights about how she not gay or bisexual. I find this out after being rejected from a kiss. You would have thought I strapped up and tried to do her or something gees. So I catch the hint and back off… Then she’s come running back. Its like when I would try to be friendly wasn’t enough yet when we would get closer, the chemistry was too strong and she would back off. So it comes to a head: she played total blank with me one day, furious because I starred at her in her outfit. So I being a Gemini got tired of this confusion and just asked her straight out what was up. I asked her do she want me looking at her I. A sexual manner she said no. I said cool. I told her she misled me she said how and I stated the above. She asked how is that and I reminded her that she was in a relationship with a woman twice and she should tell.women she like women also that info because it says, “I like women just haven’t found the right one to get intimate with”. She pulled out that archer, aimed.it at me and said, “did I ever just come over uninvited? K.d.lang when you tested and when.uk have the time to. Have I ever SAID I wanted to be with you or SAID I was interested?, so how can you be misled if I never said nothing to you to tell you I wanted you. I don’t like girls so I don’t see when you would think I like you. ” so IM sitting here like wow. She never SAID alot but she SHOWEDAlot. So from that point, I turned off completely. I was hurt tho I never told her and still haven’t. I just decided I just leave it on whatever friend level . So my bday comes up…2weeks ago… And she calls me . We still converse I just don’t say anything sexual or show interest. She tells me she wants to go eat. I say sure. Nothings out the norm. We’ve done this before. When I go outside she’s in a summer dress, dolled up, and revealing. Then were together all that weekend memorial day. Now…. She goes out of town, calls me all.the way out and thru the trip, tells me she will text me when she’s back because it will.b late and doesn’t… I seen her driving as our jobs are not far from each others. When she’s sees my car she slams her brakes to let other cars go ahead of her… She doesn’t know I know this because I have tinted windows and didn’t see me observing this. So I was thrown back again like, damn she said she was going to text when she got back but didn’t then when she sees my car, damn near blocked traffic to not be seen by me… Not knowing I already did. So America, wth … I’ve read all these posts…. IM still lost. What do I do here. I fall back she pulls me.back. She dodging me now and IM like damn what happened. She wines and dines me them disappears. Advice?
Stay away from her. She has feelings for u but she is confused. You wiill only end up getting hurt. Just avoid her and see what happens
Hey fellow Stags, reading this article I found a few things that I did not agree with completely and others I did.
First off, yes I love it when people dress up, however, I like the surprise factor. I claim that I have multiple fashionalities so if a guy wore something “new” I would pick up on that very quickly. Not to mention I think, now it may not be true but it is my opinion, because we like adventure we can find it in a book and therefore we have a certain “prince/demon/clique” type that we fall for, for example, I love bad boys. So if you can pick up on our type and dress like it I think we would be swayed in awe (you do not have to act like the type merely dress as it), again this is my opinion.
The hot and cold thing, hell no. That would drive me crazy. I do feel insecure sometimes and because we are intellectual and philosophical we will try to figure out reasons why you are doing such a thing and sometimes that will lead to us jumping to conclusions. That is never a good thing. However, if you are somewhat mysterious in other ways, especially in a humorous or sarcastic way, I cling to that because I want to know more. And again the road to learning more is an adventure and that is a key word.
I love to talk! Sometimes way too much (or so I am told). However, I also like the quiet, intimate moments as well. Just being around someone does the trick for me. The reason is if we can be close and not exactly interact that still means you are with me and therefore you care.
More so than being the “prize” or the top dog in the room, be unique. We do socialize a lot and we get to know a lot of different people so instead of trying to top someone else in what we are aware of, tantalize us in analyzing you. New things are good things.
Another major things is I tend to be friends more so with the opposite sex than the same, so if you get jealous really easy that is a MAJOR turn off. I will respect you being with your friends so you should do the same with mine. If you are concerned with something I do, rather than let it build up, talk to me. I am more than willing to explain my position and change up a few things when you say something, otherwise I would not know – I can be oblivious to some things.
Lastly, the most important thing in a relationship, for me, is the willingness to talk about how we feel. I do not care if it is socially unacceptable for your gender to get sad or hurt, I want to know because I care for you and want to help you get to where you want me to go and I want you to do the same for me. If you can tell me that I feel as if you trust me and that makes me so happy, you just would not understand.
If you learned anything from this, be unique and talk. I personally love that in a person.
Omg…I agree with everything except hot and cold too. If your too confused to know if you want me, you are not worth it. I don’t play games like that. only ONE man has ever made me want to be faithful. He was a Leo. He was the prize…but made me feel like I was the only girl in the room when we spoke…and then he disappeared. Only to reappear again later the same night where we talked all night. We never spent a night apart after that. Intelligence, great conversation, witty, sarcasm (not mean) and hot amazing love making is the best. I like the hunt, but with prey I already know I have. I like to mix it up, keep him happy to come home. Be the “fantasy” that rocks his world and blows his mind. If you get lazy…I get bored. I walk. Don’t think you will dominate me or control me or I’m gone. I have no problem compromising, but don’t dare try to control me. You will find out you have lost because I’m already gone. That said, romance, love notes, candle light dinners, surprise adventures and picnics are what hold my interest. Want me, desire me and I’ll make sure you have everything you’ve ever wanted.
GEMINI,
I read what you wrote. Bottom line..above all esle…Sag’s like attention. To be the center of attention. To feel like we are number one. The best you could/would ever have. She’s confused and playing a game she doesn’t mean to. She’s into you, but she is mainly into wanting the attention from you. I doubt she will ever go “all the way” but when she feels low, you pull her up. We are very HIGH MAINTENANCE…i’m sorry to say. It is a flaw…sometimes not a very nice one. Move on. You will get hurt if you try to hold down this butterfly. We are a difficult enough sign when we are attracted to ONE sex….but both…baby, get out while you can. RUN. Good luck
Ladies keep it real, this article basically said “just say wassup to her and don’t bug her” and you know that works. When a guy is pretty cool and they are doing things for them selfs, we love independent men as much as we find it in our selfs. So don’t get all upset at how the hot and cold thing is a turn off because it’s not we just don’t like it when they do it constantly because it seems like they are just messing around and not taking is siriously. And to the Sag girl that said she doesn’t flirt , sweetie you probably don’t even think your flirting but everyone else is; more likely it is that you are genuine and nice and don’t take it as a flirting. I will have you know that all Saggi woman are flirts we love the attention. The best relationship I had was with another saggitariius. ????
F.Y.I if a Saggi results in cheating it’s because she felt like she needed to get pay back other than that you probably didn’t notice the shades of fucked up in her. Saggis when they are in love they don’t mess around, they might flirt with other unknowingly but I will have you know that compared to others and you there isn’t a similarity because we make our partners feel special we do little things for you and if you take that for granted then we will hate how you didn’t notice it. With us it’s about the little things text her in the mornings don’t constantly compliment her cus she will think you are just trying to get in her pants and push you away ASAP. Just felt like I had to add that
This so very helpful to everyone who posted, bad comments too. Thank you so much. Life is all about connections. I know what it’s like to hate someone after it doesn’t work… guys… Sagg women just not for you unless you match up well with their traits, if you don’t then it won’t work and sorry those particular women cheated. Nobody deserves that. For me, we worked. I am 33 and only just clicked that star signs are so true! As a typical Leo I read about myself at first!! I have fallen for a Saggi Woman. Fist one ever and I just wonder where they have been all my life! She is beautiful, intelligent, we talk for hours and then both get on with our lives, picking up at some point when the other feels like getting in touch. No games but my fire sign dictates I am very caring but independant. It’s a great mix. I have worked too hard with other signs and it just wasn’t there. Some are more typical than others but this relationship feels like a welcome challenge. A relationship should be work but not suffering! Again typical to my sign I love being different and very confident (not so modest!!) that makes the sparks. I take pride in what a wear and how I look and She knows it! Makes her little jealous but I am little healthy jealous too as she has the complete package. She makes me feel like a prize and I act the part. She makes my ambition burn brighter, makes me dream deeper and makes me a positive not negative Leo. I am passionately in love with her already but I let her come to me, we talk for hours in exciting settings then we go back to our independent lives, usually calling each other later on and sharing our day. I won’t admit that it was love at first sight to her until I surprise her with it a far way down the relationship as that may make her panic, she knows I am very fond. HOT AND COLD works… sorry SAGG women… you will argue the point but it’s true! but cold to the point where I am GENUINELY busy not playing games as I am ambitious and rebuilding my life after a serious near death experience. She has been so good helping me admit my imperfections and making them right, Hardest thing for a leo, That shows her I am passionate about her. She does have double standards, warding off all competition when I’m centre of attention. If she cheats on me (so many posts have said it!), she will lose this great spark we have, I hope she doesn’t as hurt me deeply. She has freedom of choice and that will be her loss but Sagg women are so caring, she builds me up and my controlling nature is under wraps where as other girls have fueled that fire. She loves to flirt, tells me about guys trying it on. SHe denies she is flirting.. she is. That’s just her, I love her faults too, she loves mine, I flirt too! She doesn’t know! Maybe in a few months I will be putting a more negative spin!! lol but I doubt it very much…
Why would anyone want anything with a Sagittarius woman? Cold-hearted, insufferable bitches with a tendency to promiscuity and cheating. Self-righteous and sassy. Terrible mothers, terrible girlfriends. Won’t admit to their own faults in character and absolute lack of morals and will say it’s everyone else’s fault when they receive their well-deserved shit. I’m not saying they don’t exist but I’m yet to meet a Sag woman who’s not a despicable excuse for a woman. I once even met a 18-year-old Sag girl who offered me a BJ after talking to me for no more than 20 minutes! I turned her offer down and she then proceeded to yap on her journal about how men are players and don’t treat her with respect. Sagittarius women are the quitessential third-wave feminists – always demanding, never willing to give in return.
If you want to attract a Sag woman for casual sex, go ahead, they’re easy as hell (despite trying to tell you they’re not). Just look at how their ‘requirements’ are pretty much universal – heck, everyone likes a person who dresses well or keeps them amused! If you want anything deeper and more meaningful than that, go after a Scorpio or a Taurus girl. They’re loyal, smarter, deeper and there’s less chance of you catching something.
First of all not all Sag women are whores and cheaters. We can be very immature if we don’t catch ourselves in the process of being insensitive. But that comes with age, growth and knowledge of self.
I myself am a Sagg woman, and very picky Saggie at that. I can count on one hand how many men I’ve been with in my 36 years of live. Both my parents were Saggs and Lordy that’s a while other story.
I’m in between introverted and extroverted depending when I want to turn it off and on. Sometimes I just want to be left alone for LONG periods of time. I have a few clingy friends that want to go out and I’m jut past that in my life no. But my bestie whom is a Libra, she give me HUGE space plus she has a toddler and hubby to take care of and she KNOWS I will be there in a flash if she needs me, nearly 25 years of friendship.
Men well I’ve been with a Leo for a longgg time and it didn’t work, probably cause my teenage daughter is a Leo and I can only handle one at a time, there fire sign and love compliments and want the world to revolve around them. Two of them in the house is just wrong, lol. My daughters father is a cancer, great lover and bad at everything else. I tried twice he got better with age to bad his attitude sticks but my gay husband is a Cancer and he is the best (we aren’t really married otherwise we’d be really married).
I don’t like the hot and cold BS but said to say it works in the beginning, this Scorpio guy I like is really good it. He is independent and does his own thing, I love it. Yes he is successful, I don’t care that he has money, I care bout his ambition, that he is a mama’s boy and he knows how to capture my attention from the moment he walked in. Will it go anywhere that’s TBC.
I just realized I’m a flirt and I didn’t know. No wonder I attract such creepy men. We are not looking for the loudest man in the room, where looking for the male with the most substance and patience.
I could go on cause I’m a Sag but I won’t, know when to shut it down my fellow Saggies.
Tonya
I think the hot and cold thing does work to an extent, while we are trying to figure out if we’re interested or not. And I think part of that is because, yes, we Sagittarians do love the chase and the thrill, but the other part is, we really, really don’t do clingy. We need our own space, so when a guy can be hot and cold, we know that we’re avoiding a clinger. However, once I decide that I’m interested, the games have to stop because, like many Sagittarians, I tend to open up rather quickly and make myself vulnerable once I’ve decided I like you (either romantically or as a friend), so the cold part of that would hurt.
Being caring, always being concern is it a bad move to make on a Sag girl. I am Piscean & love just showering endless care on her but it doesn’t seem to make an impact coz each time she reminds me she likes doing things on her own. What should I do to win her heart ?
or even texting her each day whether she has reached home safe, whether she had her meals on time . Is it too much concern showered . What do I need to do to work things out between me & her..? Pls help with suggestions
Shadi, Mette, and Entername(whtever tht is) really need to check themselves. I have grown tired of the Sagg bashing. I’m not like the rest on this board and yes I’m a Sagg to my mutha fuckin heart so my post is gonna read a lil different. Whomever you people have had a bad connection with was probably your own fuckin faults. What the hell are your signs? Probably some shit a Sagg wouldn’t fuck with anyway. Its best tht you people keep those comments becuz you all may have been the problem. Sagg’s are not bad people we just don’t like bullshit. Take it or leave it. And by the sound of everything you all probably needed to be treated like shit. Good for your asses. Have a good day.
So what we Sagg’s as a people like space. Who wants someone who’s up your butt all day. Becuz we go with friends or stay away for a few days doesn’t mean that we are cheaters. Becuz we flirt doesn’t mean shit. We may make a person feel good during a very bad day. And no way don’t screw an Shadi Mette or Noname. All men don’t appeal to us. Maybe we need to stop being nice to everyone say fuck em and give em the cold shoulder that they think we carry. But see, that’s not us. Good thing these guys don’t travel in my circle.
And that byline tht we are terrible parents……. come see me booboo. I raised 4 sons and they aren’t dope boys womanizers or pieces of shit. Teachers pastors employers friends family and even those unknown to us love my kids and commend me on the good job I’ve done with
mine. 3 aries and 1 scorpio. All young productive men of society. Very well educated. Becuz ur Sagg mom had wide open legs doesn’t mean we all are like her. Shame on u for talking abt her like tht anyway. And truth be told she may not have slept with them. We just get along better with the opposi
te sex. Friends are who they are. Friends… so before psycho-analyzing us, take a look at yourselves. When u point one finger u have 3 more pointing back at chya.. some of that!!! Atone for your flaws as to y ur Sagg lft ya ass or cheated. I’m sure u all aren’t poster boys or up for the best man of the year awards. Its like getting u insured n saving u 15% or more on car insurance. Cover youself from disappointment thinking that you really know us. You really don’t.
not all saggie woman are tramps i a older saggie woman been with married to a scorpio male for 20 years he was my first man i slept with.and even though i married i seem to get a lot of male attention and because i am a friendly happy woman and a born flirt but would never cheat on him ever i think there is 2 types of saggie woman as i know some that are fickle and i a good mum too as me and my son are best friends .
Actually this is pretty generalised stuff which you could apply to anybody, not just Sags …one thing both males and females have in common is that they are narcissists andthink anyone who doesn’t fit their idea of perfect (which could mean anything) is not worth bothering with. They are suckers for money, power and social standing even if it comes with lots of dysfunction attached…they are not fussy about dysfunction if it means they get attention for having “stuff” (ie big house/ car/ kids, whatever). They invented the phrase “having it all”. Most are cold hearted, selfish bitches and bastards.
– From an Aries – our vision being far and away more progressive than Sags’, their being stuck fast on the earth plane!!
Forget all about the fire,
all about all the earthly bullshit
all about the air that blows
and water that flows
just be the fire,
just be the eternal light 😀
It will come to you
and you will hear it thunder
at the same moment as you see the ligtning
flashes in your eyeballs.
What is it you may ask … it is the etarnal creation
… once again … don´t be surprised, it´s eternal
again and again and again … just behave your self
according to the sound of the thunder and your flashes.
how does it work out for a Leo to be with a Sagittarius.
Can´t you see?
Can´t you feel?
Can´t you be healed?
I can see!
I can feel?
I can heal!
Just be exactly according to your earthly nature … you
my wonderful looking and softly smelling saggie girl …
and there will be, as you know always will be, as you see
the flowing air, the flowing water, the flowing earth … and us
as the reflections of the eternal sparks and the fire´s flashes
under the thunderous vibrations of our hearts – our heart!
But … because there is always … but
I have to say my final words, as I see it from my viewpoint:
For me is the sunny lioness the one and only perfect woman
and our´s will now be to the eternity of our waltz together,
intertwined as the firebird, the bird of our paradise
on this earth … under the burning sun we will be
each other´s Sun, The Sun trining The Sun,
under the little sun that will burn our skin,
but we got the spirit and our souls living over and out
the Hot and Cold thing WORKS … I’m living proof … I met this guy Anthony a while back (he’s a sag too .. so were very compatible) but anyway he just captures my attention so well and I feel like were meant to be together .. he is so intriguing and we bond in so many different ways .. we can literally sit up all day and talk about anything under the stars .. literally anything .. but he is HOT and COLD .. which is incredibly ANNOYING !! but the hot and cold thing does keep me on my toes and interested … I kinda like the chase , I’m used to guys falling at my feet when they like me and my sag guy won’t budge .. the doesn’t lead me on just In case any one was wondering .. he just keeps me on my toes .. point blank period the hot and cold thing is annoying but it workssss !!!
Kazia – you accuse saggies of being arrogant and then sign off ‘from an aries who are way ahead!” do me a favour! aries are the most controlling, overbearing, arrogant, selfish and immature people on the planet. ‘Me first’ is their mantra -always. Saggies are among the least materialistic people you can meet; they are not motivated by money unlike so many others including aries. my brother is an aries and nobody likes him because he is the personification of selfish, spoiled immaturity. he has children but still expects to be centre of attention. and as for whoredom?!! Are you kidding me? Aries invented it. The men are incapable of keeping it zipped and don’t care who they screw. The women are equally unscrupulous and sluttish. They are driven by sex and are known for it. Warren Beatty was the most renowned man-whore in Hollywood. I know several saggies and it is utter bull that they are sleep arounds – I am celibate! Aries are often jealous of Saggies because they are more popular than the domineering, interfering bossy aries who should learn humility and to mind their own business.
Am a cancer, I have have a child with a sag , and surely tried to understand her but failed thinking she does not love me, she decided to get pregnant again for a second child i surely keep wandering why this woman would have another child with me when she is not in me. i have never met such a lady and i love her for that. complicated , but i want to settle down and here she is seeming a little hard. she calls me every time, wants to hold my hand in public, wants to hangout with me , but never give me this burning love. advise
Hey people out there!! Do help me to cheer up my Sagg girl…she’s annoyed with me! What best will help me have her back??
I agree that the cold/hot non sense needs to go away. Everything else is true. But seriously our minds are way to great to be analyzing ppl that like to play mind games. We can play them and very well but we just don’t like them! It takes way too much time and we are just way too much impatience for that!
I’m an Aries married to a Sag woman & she is very difficult to live with; great sex, very pretty, but totally narcissistic. I think she cheats, but I haven’t tried to prove it. If you ask me, 12.5 years of hell & a lot of debt.
I’m currently head over heels for this Sag woman I’m currently talking to… I’ve never encountered a sag woman before, and I must say I am completely blown away. Thrown for sure, as there are just so many amazing things about her, that I am overwhelmed. In a good way obviously!
When we talk, we’re constantly smiling, laughing, and engaging. I work with her, which makes it very interesting, I’m glad she works on a different team and department! LOL 😀
I can remember 3 months ago when she walked into the office, and I made eye contact with her. My intuition screamed, “she is different”. The glow, her shine, her SMILE.. oh my… that smile! words can’t even describe!
I’m a very outgoing person, and so once we started to talk, it was obvious we can keep a conversation going for lengths of time!
We started to talk on chat a lot pretty much daily, and then we exchanged numbers about a week later. We would text off and on, but nothing to serious.. just light talk. We would engage mostly at work, or at lunch.
I noticed when we worked together, we worked well as a team, and had very good chemistry. Lots of eye contact, light flirting going on… so again taking it chill as it’s the work environment. I said to her one day, we make a great team!! She responds “LOL, yup like Pinky and the Brain”. I then said, I’m obviously Brain!
We attempted to get together outside of work on the weekends, but for some reason couldn’t align schedules. She’s always got something going on, which is something I started to learn, as I researched my amazing Sag Woman.
She has told me a lot about herself, and I’ve been taking many many mental notes. My first big move, to tell her that I really like her, and that I’m interested.. was when I had a custom bouquet of sunflowers, with purple lilacs sent to her when I was working from home on a Monday.
A week prior, she had stated how much she loved Sunflowers. One of the other gals who works in the office received the flowers at first, and then walked over to her, and delivered them. From what I understand, was jealous of her flowers! My SagGirl sent me a text instantly, “was this your doing”, I responded.. hmmm I dunno, was it? 😉
She then quickly posted her lovely flowers to Instagram. After seeing how well she responded to them, I couldn’t help start to think of many other ways I could surprise her, and always keep her smiling and laughing.
We have so many things in common, it’s unreal. That’s another story in itself..
Yesterday was our first time outside of work, to spend time with her. I never get nervous, but with her I was!! She would say things out-loud in conversation, the quickest way to my heart, is through my stomach. Which I thought, say whaat!! LOL how rare is this, a woman that likes to EAT!!
So at first she wanted spicy cajun seafood.. then I ended up taking her to this amazing BBQ place. Our first time in public with out other co-workers, was the big test, to see if we vibe, and have chemistry in public places.. I must say, I haven’t laughed so much in my life!!! We ate, we talked, we laughed.. we then had planned to go see a movie she wanted.. but also was going out with her girls later.
We ended up staying at the restaurant later than expected, and said we can continue this another time, as I know you’re going out with your girls. Drove back to her place, and then we talked for another good 30 mins, and then I left. I gave her a hug, which was nice, and felt solid!
I’m not sag man, so this of course IMO will be the chase of a lifetime. I say all this, and tell you a bit of my story.. in hopes I can get some good advice, tips, things to look for.. etc..
I’ve learned so much from reading this page, and other articles.. I know there is a lot of Sag women posting on here, and probably men who have success with Sag women on here.
She is special this I know, and I know she is the catch of a lifetime. I’m 37 years old, and have never encountered a woman like her.
You know what? I live among a few female Sag girls and women. Yes most of my family members are Sagittarius and it’s just a curse, no offense. I’m one of those loyal dudes that removes every girl from his side to stay with one, and the one is like “well….that’s your duty” but she never wants to understand how it hurts my feelings when she thinks she is free to flirt with others.
(IF ANY OF YOU SCORPIO GUYS ARE READING THIS, I HAVE TO SAY I DO LOVE YOU MEN, JUST DON’T FALL IN LOVE WITH A SAG GIRL EVER, BECAUSE THEY DON’T DESERVE YOU AT ALL.)
A sag woman broke my heart. She so insensitive and wouldn’t wanna listen.