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A woman born under the Sagittarius sign is full of life, independent, idealistic, and a lover of traveling and knowledge. With these characteristics it’s not impossible that men would go out of the way to woo her. It might seem easy at first. Besides, these female Archers (or Centaurs) love meeting people. They are known to be flirtatious and playful; perhaps, too flirtatious and playful. Keeping a female interested is the problem they have to overcome. Sagittarius females get bored easily. They tend to look for new things to try or new people to connect with. Here are some tips to bear in mind when trying to attract Sagittarius women.
1) Dress Up. It might seem shallow, but women (in general) give high regards to a well dressed guy. When going out, make sure you dress better than your friends. Don’t overdo it though. Dress up for the occasion. Don’t wear a suit if it’s not a formal gathering and don’t wear jeans in a formal party. Some of the things to check out are shoes and fingernails. Seriously, if you can’t keep those clean (they’re in plain sight) then women won’t want to know about things they can’t see. Accessories are good too. Usually a wrist watch or a bracelet is enough. Again, don’t over accessorize.
2) Keep Her Amused. It’s not all about the looks. Sagittarians are highly intellectual and philosophical people. On the other hand she also loves fun and laughter. So engage her in a light but stimulating conversation. Talk about business but don’t be too technical (unless she asks). Talk about her latest trip or your travel plans in the next few months. Or an exotic restaurant you want to try out.
3) Be Hot And Cold. Now for a more devious trick … be unpredictable. Nothing drives a female Sagittarian crazy than an enigmatic guy. In flirting with them, the push and pull theory totally works! Be sweet with them and then keep your distance the next time you see each other. Going on and off will keep them wondering what’s up and keep them interested. It provides an air of mystery that messes up with their senses.
4) Be The Prize. Don’t show them attention the whole time. Be the one who is worthy of attention! Make yourself the cath. Or at least make yourself seem like the most eligible bachelor in the room. Sagittarians love challenges. She’d be thinking of ways to win a “prize” and she would want the one with the highest value.
5) Respect Her Freedom. A Sagittarian can very well take care of herself. She’s independent and she loves it that way. You have to respect that. She doesn’t want to be tied up. Don’t ask for a commitment after 2 weeks of going out with her. Do not give her an ultimatum and refrain from being too clingy (yes men can be that way too). Give her space to grow.
More importantly, be sure to explore new things with her. This is the best way to connect and keep up to date with what it takes to keep her interested.
Margaret
August 11th, 2009 at 1:42 pm
I’m a SAgg female and this is pretty good info. I think you could mention we do look for virtue. Part of “Be the Prize” (which is so true) is that you are no weasel, are kind hearted and can stand up to bullies or something like that. Be Hot and Cold kind of bugged me, because I sort of hate thta, but I have to admit, it does work! One thing though, you can’t openly be with other women, or actually dis me, obviously–that’s no surprise, I mean, being aloof works as long as you’re civil. But when we’re on, if you don’t want me bad enough, I’ll find someone more passionate. When we drop our guards, there’s gotta be authentic-I-SEE-you-flame between us to make it safe for me to let my hair down. Otherwise, if you’re lukewarm, I won’t like it. I wanna be the apple of your eye. TAkes a long time for a Sag to commit, but we’re loyal once we do. Ineed to see you’re your own man, but also have that potential to be true hearted, and be hot!
arzu
August 21st, 2009 at 10:33 am
amazing, absolutly true, great thanks, i am a sag female and in love a gemini male
Sagi
September 21st, 2009 at 3:33 pm
Sagi here baby;)
Exactly!! I want to work hard to win the prize!!! The Prize better impress me
Dont bore me!!!plz
Emily
October 4th, 2009 at 11:33 pm
I agree with Margaret’s comments. Virtue is key. And the hot-cold thing doesn’t work with me. If you’re cold, then I’m done. Life is too short for me to analyze whether or not a guy likes me, or engage in mind games.
Kayy Baybe
October 8th, 2009 at 11:43 am
Okay Sooo..I am a sagittarian woman and I overall agree however you’re missing one key point!… JEALOUSY!.. lord I do love when a guy gets jealous it shows he cares for me BUT!.. if he gets too jealous, i have many many male friends.. 3/4s of them all are male and i keep them very close and if a guy is jealous of my friends i easily let go of him and choose them so if a man is interested in me keep that jealousy limited i don’t mind if were out at a restaurant and the waiter hits on me and you get a little jealous its cute but you can’t over-do it
sam
October 20th, 2009 at 11:08 pm
i totally agree with kayy baybe, am a sagittarius woman and it totally true.
aerial
November 6th, 2009 at 6:42 pm
Hahahahah! I love this…ok so yeah I’m a sag 11 30th and the hot n cold thing major no no..dude if ur confused about if u like me the next time we meet then id rather u talk to me about it or say aerial I don’t wanna come on to strong that’s why I kind of pushed away a little, then I’ll flirt and smile so charmingly and say sweetie u didn’t come on too strong you’re just fine (only if I like him a lot) but to like me one day and the next day act like there’s no attraction now that’s a MAJOR PROBLEM…ill call it off quick rather verbal or mentally…either way, you’ll notice…..everything else is true! ….muahxoxo
Just another Sagittarian woman.
November 13th, 2009 at 12:38 pm
I agree on many of these things EXCEPT the hot and cold method – it’s controlling and manipulative. If you’re hot, wonderful! If you’re cold I’ll eventually pick up my things and move on – if you’re not interested, don’t waste my time.
bubbles
December 22nd, 2009 at 10:25 pm
Well said Margaret, and et.al. They need to ditch the hot/cold, attentive/aloof bit. It’s just wrong.