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A woman born under the Sagittarius sign is full of life, independent, idealistic, and a lover of traveling and knowledge. With these characteristics it’s not impossible that men would go out of the way to woo her. It might seem easy at first. Besides, these female Archers (or Centaurs) love meeting people. They are known to be flirtatious and playful; perhaps, too flirtatious and playful. Keeping a female interested is the problem they have to overcome. Sagittarius females get bored easily. They tend to look for new things to try or new people to connect with. Here are some tips to bear in mind when trying to attract Sagittarius women.
1) Dress Up. It might seem shallow, but women (in general) give high regards to a well dressed guy. When going out, make sure you dress better than your friends. Don’t overdo it though. Dress up for the occasion. Don’t wear a suit if it’s not a formal gathering and don’t wear jeans in a formal party. Some of the things to check out are shoes and fingernails. Seriously, if you can’t keep those clean (they’re in plain sight) then women won’t want to know about things they can’t see. Accessories are good too. Usually a wrist watch or a bracelet is enough. Again, don’t over accessorize.
2) Keep Her Amused. It’s not all about the looks. Sagittarians are highly intellectual and philosophical people. On the other hand she also loves fun and laughter. So engage her in a light but stimulating conversation. Talk about business but don’t be too technical (unless she asks). Talk about her latest trip or your travel plans in the next few months. Or an exotic restaurant you want to try out.
3) Be Hot And Cold. Now for a more devious trick … be unpredictable. Nothing drives a female Sagittarian crazy than an enigmatic guy. In flirting with them, the push and pull theory totally works! Be sweet with them and then keep your distance the next time you see each other. Going on and off will keep them wondering what’s up and keep them interested. It provides an air of mystery that messes up with their senses.
4) Be The Prize. Don’t show them attention the whole time. Be the one who is worthy of attention! Make yourself the cath. Or at least make yourself seem like the most eligible bachelor in the room. Sagittarians love challenges. She’d be thinking of ways to win a “prize” and she would want the one with the highest value.
5) Respect Her Freedom. A Sagittarian can very well take care of herself. She’s independent and she loves it that way. You have to respect that. She doesn’t want to be tied up. Don’t ask for a commitment after 2 weeks of going out with her. Do not give her an ultimatum and refrain from being too clingy (yes men can be that way too). Give her space to grow.
More importantly, be sure to explore new things with her. This is the best way to connect and keep up to date with what it takes to keep her interested.
Margaret
August 11th, 2009 at 1:42 pm
I’m a SAgg female and this is pretty good info. I think you could mention we do look for virtue. Part of “Be the Prize” (which is so true) is that you are no weasel, are kind hearted and can stand up to bullies or something like that. Be Hot and Cold kind of bugged me, because I sort of hate thta, but I have to admit, it does work! One thing though, you can’t openly be with other women, or actually dis me, obviously–that’s no surprise, I mean, being aloof works as long as you’re civil. But when we’re on, if you don’t want me bad enough, I’ll find someone more passionate. When we drop our guards, there’s gotta be authentic-I-SEE-you-flame between us to make it safe for me to let my hair down. Otherwise, if you’re lukewarm, I won’t like it. I wanna be the apple of your eye. TAkes a long time for a Sag to commit, but we’re loyal once we do. Ineed to see you’re your own man, but also have that potential to be true hearted, and be hot!
arzu
August 21st, 2009 at 10:33 am
amazing, absolutly true, great thanks, i am a sag female and in love a gemini male
Sagi
September 21st, 2009 at 3:33 pm
Sagi here baby;)
Exactly!! I want to work hard to win the prize!!! The Prize better impress me
Dont bore me!!!plz
Emily
October 4th, 2009 at 11:33 pm
I agree with Margaret’s comments. Virtue is key. And the hot-cold thing doesn’t work with me. If you’re cold, then I’m done. Life is too short for me to analyze whether or not a guy likes me, or engage in mind games.
Kayy Baybe
October 8th, 2009 at 11:43 am
Okay Sooo..I am a sagittarian woman and I overall agree however you’re missing one key point!… JEALOUSY!.. lord I do love when a guy gets jealous it shows he cares for me BUT!.. if he gets too jealous, i have many many male friends.. 3/4s of them all are male and i keep them very close and if a guy is jealous of my friends i easily let go of him and choose them so if a man is interested in me keep that jealousy limited i don’t mind if were out at a restaurant and the waiter hits on me and you get a little jealous its cute but you can’t over-do it
sam
October 20th, 2009 at 11:08 pm
i totally agree with kayy baybe, am a sagittarius woman and it totally true.
aerial
November 6th, 2009 at 6:42 pm
Hahahahah! I love this…ok so yeah I’m a sag 11 30th and the hot n cold thing major no no..dude if ur confused about if u like me the next time we meet then id rather u talk to me about it or say aerial I don’t wanna come on to strong that’s why I kind of pushed away a little, then I’ll flirt and smile so charmingly and say sweetie u didn’t come on too strong you’re just fine (only if I like him a lot) but to like me one day and the next day act like there’s no attraction now that’s a MAJOR PROBLEM…ill call it off quick rather verbal or mentally…either way, you’ll notice…..everything else is true! ….muahxoxo
Just another Sagittarian woman.
November 13th, 2009 at 12:38 pm
I agree on many of these things EXCEPT the hot and cold method – it’s controlling and manipulative. If you’re hot, wonderful! If you’re cold I’ll eventually pick up my things and move on – if you’re not interested, don’t waste my time.
bubbles
December 22nd, 2009 at 10:25 pm
Well said Margaret, and et.al. They need to ditch the hot/cold, attentive/aloof bit. It’s just wrong.
sucker for love
January 20th, 2010 at 4:07 am
I’m a sagg woman, and I strongly agree with bubbles… If you’re hot keep it coming! I love the attention. And if you’re cold you better get the steppin’. I’m pretty sure most of the sag women knows that we tend to fall in love easily, n stupid men take us for granted. We just want to be loved.
Monica
January 22nd, 2010 at 8:33 pm
I’m another Sag female (Dec. 1st) and I agree with MOST of it, except the hot/cold bit….doesn’t work for me because I see that as game playing and a complete waste of my time. Either you’re into me or you’re not.
Shell
January 31st, 2010 at 4:20 pm
Yes, the hot and cold is just pushing it a bit much. We don’t have time to fuck around! Get down the point. Make your point and then let’s move on from there to some real fun. Life is too short to be playing hot and cold games.
AFTAB HUSSAIN JATOI (PAKISTAN- City LARKANA)
February 5th, 2010 at 2:53 am
How i can pass the my comments! because already comments of experts are available but i’ll pass following few words…=>”FEMALE is nothing without MALE because Female made by from little part of Male”……….thanks
Sheree
February 10th, 2010 at 7:18 am
hmmm? Im a sag too and I dislike if a guys been all attentive then turns into a plank afterwards. I do however like the challenge of turning a guy who has started off cold…If I can work some magic and then get some interest then I feel like I’ve conquered and won! Theres gotta be laughter too, can’t stand dryballs. I never thought myself to be flirtacious until recently friends have said so, I more so called it being friendly. If i like you I’m going to tell you, its that simple!
nel
February 23rd, 2010 at 10:02 pm
Oh so true. Unfortunately I’m hot cold. Its because I’m scared to get hurt. I love reading about this.
Sarah
March 9th, 2010 at 8:27 pm
Hahaha, this is so funny yet its true. I really do have to agree with the Sagittarius women on here about the hot and cold part. For me, if someone likes me, I rather have them come out and say it, even if that means I feel or don’t feel the same way because I personally don’t like mind or guessing games. Plus if someone who likes me play hot and cold with me, it will never occur to me that that person like me because I’ll just take it as if the person is flirting with me. Nothing more. Yup, however I do get bored easily and I move on FAST, so if a person wants me to notice them, they would have to constantly amuse me or else I’m gone. I’m always meeting people, so one less person in my life wouldn’t even matter to me. Oh and about the flirting part, yes I agree, I am a biggggg shameless flirt, but that doesn’t mean I like you or have feelings like that for you. I’m pretty sure its like that for most of you Sagittarius women too. Ahaha. So for all you men out there, we’re not the easiest to catch but once you caught us, you wont regret it.
Brittney
March 31st, 2010 at 11:27 am
I love this article! It’s very true, and I do agree EXCEPT for the hot and cold part. As a Sag female, I love being admired and needed. I think this trait is what makes us Sag females flirt with everyone around us. LOL.
had
May 4th, 2010 at 1:43 pm
Excellent, so i as male gemini is compatibile w/ fem. sagit. on some stages and we can share these.
thur
May 13th, 2010 at 9:29 am
ahaha..yeah am a SAG lady, after reading the article, now i had an idea why i was like this and that hehehe and i think being too clingy (on the guys side..is a no-no, also JEALOUS guy is not our thing or my thing.. FREE spirited person like us would do!
Miss Sagitarius
May 16th, 2010 at 8:26 pm
TRASH THE HOT AND COLD METHOD!!! Driving us crazy is NOT a good thing! It aggravates us and turns me completely off! Make up your mind man! And jealousy also is good thing, i don’t know why but it makes me feel special. Other than that hot and cold thing its amazing how true this is.
YummigIRL
May 25th, 2010 at 12:45 pm
Im a Sexy Sag, and the hot and cold thing is waaaaay off for me, if u seem interested one minute and then stand-offish the next, im going to take u for a harbor shark. Meaning ok i liked u then but now im looking for something more easy. I enjoy being the prize….come catch me if u can.
hannah
June 2nd, 2010 at 11:26 pm
SOO TRUE!!!! Im a sag girl and all of this is SSOOO true!!!!!!!
anny
June 10th, 2010 at 3:15 am
Margaret I think you are so right. I am a sage female and I am picky about the guys I like. There were guys I liked and really wanted but at some point either they or I must have known they weren’t it. I knew I would easily forget them after the goodbye because they weren’t passionate enough to even follow through WTF? For one thing they don’t stand up for themselves that is a huge deal breaker. Another thing I know as a Sage femme men spend so much energy to try to make me jealous and I lose SO MUCH respect for them b/c when I am in the room lonely looking for the love to return to me I find he’s busy acting like he someone else is more important. He should have been thinking of our enterprising partnership together. I think it takes a strong man to know that Sage is a sensitive warm fun loving person b/c I think some men can break Sage’s heart. Fairness, justice, expansive thinking do no harm and if you don’t follow the golden rule you have no chance. I am disappointed. Only guy who didn’t disappoint me was a Cancer from years ago and a very passionate Libra and I forgave that Libra a lot because I understood his nature. Remember Sage is sensitive and loving and it is always the seemingly harmless guys that really hurt Sage since they can’t even admit to themselves what they feel or what they’ll do.
anny
June 10th, 2010 at 3:18 am
Thur I think a worse crime than a guy being clingy is him being indecisive. Those are the worst guys if you fall for them who knows how long your life will be in limbo before something happens. I like the dark horse, the rebel the flawed guy b/c you know he will follow his heart and if you are in it he isn’t going to waste time playing games that will lead to someone being terribly hurt. He will let you know in so many ways and it won’t be a sick game just to boost his ego.
anny
June 10th, 2010 at 3:21 am
I agree Brittany. Being needed is a very strong drive I have stayed in places and jobs for the simple reason that I was needed there. The loyalty thing is strong too to jobs etc to situations maybe thats also the Moon in Cappy influence.
Matt
July 13th, 2010 at 3:13 pm
Hey. I’m a SAG male, n I just started lookin into all this astrological stuff and it’s interesting. Anyways… If its all the same, I hate when women try to do that hot n cold thing, it’s like they’re playin with your mind and I need my freedom. But, at the same time I like to play with women’s minds too, I know its wrong, but I like to get them to fall in love with me, I never break they’re heart, but I just leave them wanting more, and since I have trouble committing, I never give them more, and I keep them at that level where they think of me of like a high school crush. Truth is I’m just a nice guy and I don’t want to hurt these girls or degrade them in anyway. Any Ideas why I do what I do?