Can You Make Your Relationship with a Sagittarius Work if Your Signs Are Incompatible
Incompatibility of horoscope signs is one of those areas in which there are many differing opinions. While some people doubt the validity of signs when it comes to personalities, there are some traits that tend to work in favor of the sign under which you were born. If you read the information about Sagittarius and then compare it to people you know, it is highly likely they will exhibit at least some of those personality traits. Whether you accept the validity of the information, there is little doubt that it often turns out to be correct. You need to weigh the odds and decide if you are willing to face that struggles that you may face in this type of relationship.
Sagittarians tend to be very adventurous and hard working even to the point of neglecting their families. In order to make a relationship work with a Sagittarian you have to be willing to overlook these defects in their nature and pick up the slack. Even if your sign is not compatible with Sagittarius, you can make it work if you make the choice to fill in the voids and accept them for what they are. You cannot make demands that will interfere with their ideals such as telling them to slow down or spend time at home relaxing. You have to meet them on their level—you have to be the one willing to make compromises rather than expecting your Sagittarius partner to do it.
One area in which they are adamant is loyalty and faithfulness. You will not have to worry about what they might be doing when they are away from you, but at the same time unless you are willing to become a part of their active and adventurous lifestyle you can expect to spend a lot of time on your own. While this doesn’t mean you need to become a part of everything they do, the more you can learn to enjoy with them, the more time you will spend as a couple instead of being home alone. If you are the kind of person who is content to stay home glued to the television or reading a book you will not be content with a Sagittarius.
It takes a great deal of willpower to learn build a relationship with someone who is not compatible with your astrological sign. While it is possible to make that kind of relationship work it takes a great deal of willpower and determination from both partners with the other person being the one to make sacrifices. Can you make it work with two Sagittarians? That can be very difficult if not impossible, but again, it depends on how much the couple wants to stay together and how strong their feelings are. However, you must be prepared for a lifetime of struggles and compromises, not something that is easy for two people who are prone to anger and driven to career goals to accomplish.
The whole of the above is true but it seems slightly unfair for the other person making all the sacrifices just to please their sag. My Sagittarius ex eventually finished with me (a cancer) 10 months ago after 8 years together, he said in an email, “it feels like you’re trying to keep me in a box” also “I was happy before you I’ll be happy after you”
I feel drained after that relationship.
Sag’s often speak bluntly, but truthfully. The way I read it is that you were trying to contain him, perhaps even jealous of his freedom…which I’m sure that is not why you fell in love. Most are attracted to our free spirit, then spend the relationship accusing and pulling. As for the happy before part, that is harsh, but I imagine those words came from the frustration he had built up trying to figure out why you are so miserable and moody. My mother is a Cancer and my current boyfriend is a Cancer. I feel drained dealing with the both of them..but if you ask them, even though they are busy being selfish, it’s always everyone else’s fault. Kudo’s to your ex for escaping!
Hi Carla,
I too am a cancer and my husband is a sagi. We had an arranged marriage a year ago with all the horoscope matching et al. I don know how we could be matched atall when over the year we found out our substantial differences.Being a cancer emotions are my second nature and i cry quiet easily.He abhors it. My sagi is very very close to the description. He is very caring and responsible but finds fault in almost everything i do and essentially in my way of life.he says it is his constant try to make us better as a couple.So he essentially never accepted me as I am.I am sorry your relationship did not work out but i am not giving up on him. With perseverance and endless discussions(fights) i finally have managed to see through this devious sign. Should you meet a Sagi again, let your mind rule you all the time.Don get hurt by his frank comments cause they are mostly just and true.My husband says people should be happy always and that he is not emotionally dependent on me. Heart has very little place if you want a good life with a sagi.Good luck.
Ex-wife was a Sag and I’m a Cancer. I can totally relate to what Carley wrote. But I’m happier than ever with a non-Sag… not to difficult an accomplishment. My marriage had drained me too.
I liked the article…but then again, I’m a Sag 😉 P.S. Cancer sign people are TOO SENSITIVE and TOO SMOTHERING . No offense but you probably DID keep him in a box… my ex (also a cancer) unsuccessfully tried to keep me in one for years. I hope you can find another water sign to be on the same page as you…I found another fire sign…MUCH BETTER 😉
I am a sag, and my sister is a cancer. She is the most annoying, sensitive, dagger-throwing, smothering, depressing individual EVER! Constructive criticism is an act of love in my eyes, but in her eyes, they’re ‘fightin words’. Spend too much time with these folks, and jail doesn’t seem nearly as bad. They are loving, responsible, and nurturing, but they are just not for us. PARTY POOPERS!
My current boyfriend is a Sag. The above article is EXACTLY like him. He is currently away for the military and we were great when he was away.. but now we can only talk online and we constantly fight.. i cant tell you how many times iv taken his words and twisted them around. He doesnt mean what he says in a bad way but it seems that way to me. Im an Aries but on the edge of aries and taurus. (April 19th) He has recently told me that he thinks i hold him down. Hes not feeling the love that we had before and he hates that we constantly bicker all the time. I feel as tho he cares about work more than me. When hes home i had to almost beg him to make time for me. He also told me when we are not together he barely thinks about me because he gets so into his work and whatever else hes doing. its just not fair.. he never shows his emotions and its so hard to tell what hes feeling! Hes like a stone sometimes.. and when he comes back he says we will see how things go and he will choose if we need to take a break or break up
I am a virgo male and have been seeing a female saggitarius. Both of us had previous marriages and have had children that are grown. We have both learned from those marriages that ended. While each of us has our own tendencies each has also learned to overcome the negative characteristics of each sign and we connect intellectually, emotionally and sexually–all at a great level. It is inspiring to both of us how we relate and cannot see or have enough of each other. She does not have a quick temper. Is a responsible mom as she was a single mother for 7 years raising 3 children. I feel like a king when with her and am constantly charmed by her wit and observations and remarks. She is refreshingly open, honest and I trust her completely and never doubt what she says. Why would I. I adore her. She treats me as I have never been treated. Our lovemaking is out of this world as both of us are athletic and in excellent physical health–we can go hours. It is amazing.
A VERY WELL-WRITTEN ARTICLE. It does make certain points hard to ignore..Will keep it bookmarked as a reminder ;).Thanks
I’m a scorpio and my gf of 7 years is a Sag; one of the most incompatible matches out there! I’m jealous, sensitive, demanding, and in need of commitment, and she is blunt, honest, a partier, and the life of the party. After being told so many times that our signs will never work I almost gave up. But this advice is right…stand your ground, be open-minded and understanding…know that a Sag will be a Sag forever and there’s nothing you can do about it except love them for who they are.
Lol… reading all the comments out there seems like all the sags just got a lot of cancerian Partners in the last few years!! haha biggest mistake us sags can ever make. Cancer people are really nice and all, but they try to ‘CONTROL US’, they try to ‘CLING’ to us TOO MUCH! They dont understand that the mind appeals more than emotions/heart to us. We are sensitive but not Emo for gods sake. and yes we like freedom and honesty and frankness and fun. My Ex ( whom i THANKFULLY ) got rid of finally, realised that I will be Me, and its no use trying to change me. Also, he cries more than I DO!!!
Scorps is another sign that Sags should avoid, they try to dominate as well. and they are too Stubborn and fixed! We dont like fixed! we like Change!
Get along with a gemini- very romantic and charming, witty and INTELLECTUAL, just what Sag’s like. A tactless sign coupled with a tactful sign, and a sign with an eye for detail with one who sees the bigger picture, if both can stick, then its a great pair.
Virgoes and Libras and Aries go well too and Aquarius and leo sometimes.
mostly sags like intellectual and tactful and calm signs. Also traditional signs are not good as they cannot UNDERSTAND a sag’s unconventionality.
I am a Pisces Female and i have been dating my sag. boyfriend for 8-9 months now .. we met online through a mutual friend & actually met in person for the first time in early feb. of 2010!!! Since meeting we have broke up once (about a month and 2 visits later was when he broke it off) & it was because he claimed “it was the 4 hrs. distance between us” AND ANOTHER big thing that stood out to me was the fact that he said lets just see what happens and continue to stay best friends .. he mainly said alot about how he didnt want to loose me as his best friend & that in a month we would meet back up and see if we still feel the same way!!! Him saying this made me feel like he just wanted to be single for a lil bit & then when he felt the time was right HE WAS gonna come meet bak up w. me & thats when we would get bak tog. … anyways after he broke up with me i acted as if it didnt bother me & instead i played hard ball with him. Constantly talking to guys on facebook (only because i knew he could see) and just kinda acting like i didnt care and that i was happy … well while i was playing these little games with him … he in the mean time is going out every night & getting trashed & then on some nights calling or ended up texting me saying how much he cares about me & that he loves me as a friend etc. etc. … I was sooo happy when he would do those things .. it made me feel like my little games were working. Well then i start finding out that hes hanging out with all these females & having them over .. so of coarse my imagination starts running WILD and i let my anger get the best of me so .. i sent him a text saying that “I cant handle being his friend & that Im blocking him from facebook & erasing him from my life and removing him as a friend” WEll … he absolutely LOST IT .. he starts blowing up my phone & i keep rejecting his calls .. finally i pick up after the voicemails he left me .. we just tlaked on the phone & i just told him im not gonna wait around for him to “figure out what he wants” … Its not fair to me .. im hurting while hes playing. and that i was basiclly erasing him from my life COMPLETELY … that threw him off big time .. he started crying on the phone but kinda not wanting to let me know he was crying. i then let him go and said goodbye and he said you can try to erase me but ill contact your family or your brother ( who he is close with) and ill show up at your house and surprise you .. lol .. well i told him that i would leave if he did this & just be more upset with him!!! Sooooo a week later my brother (who is my best friend) got a call from my sag.Boyfriend saying .. ” he made a mistake and he loves me & he wants to just see me & that hes gonna come drive to houston and surprise me” But not to let me know .. sooo a day after they talk on the phone he drives the 4 hrs. drive and surprises me and says that he loves me for the first time & that he wants to be with me & that hes never gonna find a girl as good as me!!! Sooo i told him i would think about it (when in all reality i was screaming with excitement in my head lol.) but after 4 days of him coming into town and surprising me i finally said yeah i would take him back. Since then we say i love you pretty frequently & when hes home from being offshore for 3 weeks we spend all of our time together!!! Hes very on-the-go … loves to excersize and do outside work .. soo when im visiting him i feel like hes doing laps around me and i sometimes tell him that i would like to just stay at his house & he can go run errands … he doesnt like that AT ALL .. he comes off to me as very needy only because .. He always wants me to go EVERYWHERE with him. Not that it bothers me but i feel like his sagittarius sighn describes otherwise?? right??? Not just that Me (being pisces) when i go to visit him I LOVE to go out and be social and have a good time .. have some drinks, dance!!!! And he doesnt really like this .. i feel like he always wants to stay at home & just be with one another lol. And not that theres something wrong with that .. its just i guess im confused .. i tend to go off what horoscope sighns say and i feel like i have more of the sag. sighn & he has more of the pisces sighn .. why is this??? Not all the traits of each .. because we both do have ALOT of the traits of each of our own sighn BUTTT we also have alot of the opposite (it seems like atleast) .. is this just me or has this happend to anyone else??? I could use all the info. that anyone can help me with :). O and also … Will our relationship work??
i am a female sag and i don’t know but i’ve been with a scorpio for over a year now and he is weighing on my nerves, he is insecure, too jealous, demanding, he wants all the attention, he doesn’t like to see me on my phone to the point where he will just take my phone and search it…. i’m trying to leave him but it doesn’t look so good, he is too possessive… now, there is this virgo guy i can’t figure him out, he seems attracted to me and i am very interested in conquering him, the first time we made love i didn’t really like it… the second time he was much more relaxed and it was great, the third time was even better… i like him, he gives me room but i’m not looking for a relationship but i want him to want me alot… but he isn’t forthcoming with his feelings… I wanna know if he views me as just a fling or could he be dying for me to pay him more attention?
i have just met a lovely canerian guy, im a sag and so far everything is great but im a strong believer in what the stars say and i cant help but worry that our wonderful relationship is going to be doomed from the start! all i can do is continue and hope its not true?! are there any other sag girls out there in a happy relationship with a canerian guy?
Guys,guys, Im a sag and if you want to avoid problems,drama stick with aries,leo,libra,aquarius and gemini. The other signs i get a long with them but on a very small doses.
I (a Sag) was married for 4 years to a Scorpio. We are now divorced. The horoscope thing was right on the money. He was demanding, jealous, and sort of a homebody. It drove me crazy and eventually drove us apart. Now, rekindling is a possibility, but after thinking about it and knowing how incompatible we are, I think I should just move on.
Can I say more…I met my Sag 5 days ago and it’s been alot of passion. We talk alot and I feels some hidden. I do see the traits that’s mention in the article. But he’s a special person I hope it work out. I willing to make sacrifices.
I’m a sag, living with my boyfriend of 6 years, a capricorn. Not a very good match, considering how stubborn, fixed, and un-emotional they are. It is very frustrating and even broke us up at one point last year. Of course i don’t blame our zodiacs, but the personality trends factored in the stress level. But after spending some time apart and growing as individuals, I think now those trends work in our favor. He grounds me, keeps my mind focused where it should be and I open him up to emotion and spontaneity. Of course it’s still frustrating, but I think it works for us.
I’m a cancer female, totally in love with a Sag male. Sometimes he drives me nuts but I feel that I can’t be without him. We don’t argue a whole lot but when we do, it’s pretty ugly. We both say some not so nice things, but it’s crazy because within an hour or so we’ll be right back in eachother’s arms. It’s so magnetic. I feel like he’s apart of my inner being. I feel like I’m on a yo-yo though. Everything will be great, we’ll be hanging out, everythings smooth and all of a sudden out of no where, he does something to mess it up. I wonder if it’s intentional just to keep me from getting too attached. Sometimes I feel that the craziness isn’t worth it and we’re better off as friends but I just can’t bring myself to let him go. I don’t know why I keep hearing that Cancers and Sags are so different. I really think me and my Sag is alot alike. We enjoy the same things. We relate to eachother very well. We bounce ideas off of eachother. I think we compliment eachother and has what the other one needs/wants but I think that scares him because he know’s I’m perfect for him. He took me home to meet his family, he has me around all his circles (work, church, social) but he’ll constantly remind me that we are “good friends” and I’m okay with that but when we’re around all these circles, he’s all over me. It’s obvious that we are more than just “good friends”. I just want to hit him upside the head and say, why are you so afraid to commit? I don’t want to smoother him though and sometimes I know I do, a little. That’s what our heated argument was about the other day. Today, I felt that I was being too clingy because I don’t feel that we’ve totally made up from yesterday but I decided that I was not going to be needy or clingy. I was going to go to the movies without him and I wasn’t going to call him for the rest of the night. I’m sad though because he didn’t even call me. sigh…I’m just going to give him his freedom and see what happens.
this is more accurate than the other articles. I don’t necessarily need anyone to accompany me on the various things I like to do throughout the day (actually I prefer to stay on lonewold status so i don’t have to wait around for anyone) BUT I would love it if someone was there for the things I HAVE to do (like get groceries or wash my car.) I actually think that a sag woman just needs a lover who can anticipate what the like to/have to categories are and plan accordingly. For example, when it comes to gifts, I would love a gift certificate for a massage but not for a grocery store or car wash because I can get the massage on my own whereas the gift card to a grocery store would imply I will be getting THOSE on my own, too – bah! In the past, blank coupons have also been very nice..i mean, we’d like to think our lovers are superman (or at least as equally intelligent, capable and willing as us) with a carte blanch just waiting for us to fill out! but of course what woman WOULDN’T want that?
oh, ps to Sarah – cancers try to be gemini’s, meaning, they try to be charmers. BUT, whereas gemini’s are more self-secure – they are the REAL charmers of the zodiac – cancer men will baby you and try to turn you on through their “I’m a stable, sensitive guy” act–and it is indeed ALL an act. in fact, he’s probably already convinced himself if he’s even going to marry you or not. I dated a cancer who had at some point convinced himself that he can spot a marriage partner within 30 days (that’s how long we dated) whereas I STILL haven’t decided that type of thing yet about him yet – and I’m absolutely LIVID with the way he made fools out of our relationship. Maybe it’s because I know myself or the way of the universe better, or maybe it’s because I don’t listen to my mother like cancer men do.
So, unfortunately, although he thinks he’s smart and that he can decide these type of things, he will definitely keep trying to date you for his own emotional support because you’re stronger than he is. What’s funny is, he thinks he can keep you on lock down by giving you all the attention he in fact needs himself and because he thinks/hopes you need this support, too, which is a very offensive assumption, in my opinion. So just see through their ingratiating act (they make great actors – just watch them with people, they have only 1, two – dimensional personality that they show, as opposed to the multifaceted, unplanned, more genuine/not faked personality of the sag). So just keep meeting other men until one of them slaps a ring on you, or, if you really want to know how far this is going to go, ask your cancer man what his mom has told him to do with you. HA!
Dear Sarah,
I’m a Cancer and i’ve been with a sag. He is the far more emotional one out of the two of us, and not optimistic in the slightest. But maybe because he is so dislike what his sign normally is, we end up getting along great?
A relationship is more than a sun sign. Don’t forget that. If you want it to work, make it work. It takes two people to make a relationship and to break one.
Good luck.
im a sag. i love my sign, and feel as though im lucky to be a sag! however, sometimes i have difficulties accepting the truth in the nature of sagittarians. i am often caught pondering the what-ifs and wondering if i have made the “right” choices when it comes to my relationships. Currently i am in a relationship with a taurean. i sometimes can’t help but to compare this relationship with the one i have with my mother, she is also a taurus. As everyone knows, the relationship you have with your parents differs greatly with that of your love partner, but it seems that the very same taurean attributes that irked me when i was a child affect me in my relationship. Don’t get me wrong, my boyfriend is great. he is loving and charismatic and fun (albeit ‘fun’ in a taurean manner) but he is also a down to earth (hence “earth” sign) homemaker. This is a desirable trait for someone who seeks stability, but in the case of sagittarius’, ‘home is where the heart is’. it’s not that we don’t need a home, and bills paid, and food on the table…. it’s just that we seem to have no trouble finding provisions in whatever circumstance we happen to be in… which leads us to believe that we need not be concerned for our futures. My boyfriend and i have a good relationship. i love him, and i know he loves me (although my gypsy like tendencies bother him a little), and dispite our differences i believe that we make a good pair because of the opposing nature of our signs. i may want to roam….. but with him i know that ill always have somewhere to call home. he is like the rock in my pocket that keeps me from floating off into oblivion. for some sagittarius’ this is a curse (including me until just recently) but when we open our hearts and minds we see that perhaps there is more to life than our unearthly desires.
well, im a cancer girl with a sag guy and its kinda…a work in progress. this is themost adventurous yet fufilling relationship i have ever been in. he makes me laugh, feel like my smedium bottom is GIGANTOUS and lets me know how much he enjoys bein with me. he wants me to go with him alot when he takes care of business…but just take it as him wantin to spend time wit me. and as anyone into the stars knows, a cancer needs as much to be wanted as we need water. i am more of a home body…but guess i have become comfortable n my role as that. so when he takes over electronifying our hme, cars, phones, etc, i take care of the other house hold necessities. its truely give and take. but what i give is over ridden by what i recieve as he fulfills many of the areas that my “compatible” signs did not. i can say that i look fowrard to marriage and children with him. the positivity and easy nature that his sag nature provides my deep. dark cancerian outlook has made me realize alot about life that my cancer shadows would have never allowed.
Hey there > this site rocks >
I am a Sagittarius woman married to a Capricorn!
imagine that
pros > caps are loving and loyal, very thoughtful and adventurous, in control but not controlling
cons> hopelessly pessimistic and negative, prone to criticizing,
why we work! >>> although it is work for the sag to bring up the natually negative cap … when they are happy it is the best happiness in the world! the sag feels responsible for this mood and gives more love >>> the capricorn actually is the best to bring the sag out of a bad mood (when they are in one)
so so far so good! …
and other sag cap stories
guys! you gotta figure out the rising sign and moon sign to get the whole picture and to see if your relationship with a sag will work despite your sun sign. for e.g? am a Cancer with aries rising and ? am pretty fiery as well as emotional from time to time. so you wont get the whole picture unless you research your planets signs (in order to do this you have to know the exact time you and he/she was born. this would explain why some sagi s are even domestic because, say,their rising or moon sign is Cancer.
I am a Scorpio woman involved with a Sag man. Your comments about Scorpios and Sags do not relate to us. We could not be more compatable. We met 30 years ago and kept in touch every now and then. We ran into each other about a year ago and both of us were single so we started dating. The sparks started immediately, like a tidal wave.
Yes he is a free spirit and does his own thing alot. But I also have a life. I am not a jealous scorpio, which is a good thing because women literally throw themselves at him when we go out. I just shake my head and laugh. We both love to travel and enjoy just sitting a home cuddling. He is open and honest with me and neither of us lie to each other.
He tells me when other girls text him or call him or e-mail him and he shows me such. I think the problem is scorpio men (which I have dated) and they are posessive, jealous, controlling, emotional. They were even too much for me. Yes I like to be in control but I have learned over the years that the only one I can control is myself, so that is where my energies go.
I love my Sag man to death and I know that I waited my whole life for him. To all you women who are complaining about your Sag man. Take a good look at him.. listen to what he has to say.. He will tell you the truth, not sugar coat it. He can be a true romantic if you let him, because he does really want to be. Don’t try to reign him in, let him be who he is. Once he knows that he is free to live his life he will welcome you into his and will love having you be a part of it.
I would just like to mention on how I dated a Taurus before and it was one of my worst matches/relationships. We had nothing in common. I would enjoy going out with the girls to sing karaoke, dancing, drinks, wings, movie theaters, last minute road trips, going to the beach, cabins etc….I always attempted on inviting him, but he had not the slightest interest in doing any of that…I was SO bored with him. In return tho I did not let it bother me and I left him to hang out at home with his small selection of close friends that would go there every weekend and if they did go elsewhere it was for food and drinks at a fancy restaurant (where I did not have fun having food and drinks at cuz i would rather be somewhere more loud and not so formal and boring) then they would leave and go back to his place for drinks all night once again, while I went and did my own thing in a more upbeat environment and crowd. He would complain I go out too much, I would complain he never left his house to do more fun things and that i was bored sitting around there every singleday. We did not last long, from meeting each other and instantly dating in the first week or so, to breaking up before 3 months was even done. I now date another sagittarius and its been close to 5 months…We rarely fight…i think i can count our “agreements to disagree” on one hand and we always drop it instantly and continue having soo much fun together, we are both random and last minute..we dont make plans, cuz we always break them with ppl and they get upset for not being able to make it or last min making other more fun plans, our motto is to play it by ear. Works awesome for us and we make each other laugh so much!! every single day! Thank gawd I got rid of that boring ass taurus!
Im a Sag hardcore and I trip out when im with a certain sign. My first GF was a cap and was so true she was to conservative and we both knew marriage would never work. Glad she said no. My next GF was a leo and we were so happy this is the only time i could actually feel the love just her smile would make my day, But im the biggest Idiot ever and ended it suddenly for no good reason. At the time alot of girls wanted to go out so my ego got the better. Two weeks later I was so bummed the happiness was gone and when i came crawling back it was to late…I tortured myself over this for years wouldnt have a relationship just let the girls come and go…I ran into a good friend of mine I knew for years and we hooked up a few times through the years…We start Dating and let the pain begain. I worked in sales so i had customers calling me 24/7 on the internet to finalize sales. We go out to eat my phone rings I see its a customer put the phone down cuz im having dinner with my girl. Why dont you answer??Who is that??Let me see your Phone?If I was on the Internet late working. Who you emailing? I had eyes for her only and i would go crazy. She said to think before i speak. Like Litarally she would shush me say before you respond think. Which is worst because now im responding to that. Talk about twisting words she had me thinking I didnt know what i was talking about to the point I didnt know what i was talking about. Anyways I asked her to marry me and we were engaged for a year but It chaged me as a Sag. My personality flipped Anti-Sag was a very bad feeling. Finally I called it quits broke it off left and never looked back. And now its like im slowly recovering my inner sag…And if you figured out by now my ex was a Scorpio then you just won a cookie. They call it compatibility for a reason. So now I guess maybe we wcan see what happens between two Sag since ya all are my people…Truth is we are fun center of attention thats why they loves us… happens
I’m a Sagittarius and have been around the block a few times. The Vedic astrologers of India have it right. Sun signs are not reliable indicators of compatibility. In my case I’ve dated men who were all different signs and they all have their quirks. Sagittarius partied too much with his beer bottle and when he threw it at my head I was gone. Mr. Cancer who for me was a case of instant gravitational pull, blew it when we were discussing our wedding…being a Christian and wanting to be married in a church, he sat me down like a child and told me all about the “Big Bang Theory” and pointed out how educated he was…so, I gave him my “Big Bang Theory” and left. I never looked back. You never, ever, ever make a Sagittarius feel inadequate in any way and “holier than Thou” attitudes don’t get you anywhere either. If you think you are a superior being…stay away from a Sagittarius whatever your sign is! The philosophical nature of us Sags can’t stand inequality or people who think they are better than everyone else. Cancer #two…yes, I got another one…was so possessive and needy he literally would cling to me. His need for constant physical contact was suffocating. When I broke up with him his sister phoned me and yelled at me for destroying her brother’s will to live. He would make my head swim with nausea that’s how bad his ‘love for me was’ Yiiiii! I was engaged to a Scorpio but ended up telling him to hit the “long and winding”. We were great together. Never fought about anything. Life was wonderful until I started my own business and OMG didn’t he have a great time telling me I was doing everything wrong! Mind your OWN BUSINESS Scorpio! Aquarius?…never there when I needed him. Too flighty…like a balloon filled with helium off with his head in the clouds…loved the sound of his own voice. Pisces…two completely different Pisces…first one…complete possessive psycho…I couldn’t go to the ladies room without him spying on me. When I broke it off with him he ran me off the road and totalled my car. Pisces #two…totally asexual. Who comes to bed with striped pj’s in July with the buttons done all the way up to the throat? Bye-Bye! Virgo had some strong possibilities but wouldn’t make a move…expected me to direct the relationship in every way…too draining. Aries held promise until I saw his temper tantrums if I wouldn’t bend to his will. Leo was reeling me in until I found out he was married. That is a no-no! I have too much respect for women to ever get involved with a married man! Shame on you Leo!
So..I haven’t dated a Gemini yet, or a Capricorn, or a Taurus, but I did marry a Libra and eventually divorced him. He was a combination of the psycho Pisces, the control freak Scorpio, and the moody, “I’m so much more intelligent than you” Cancer. I haven’t given up on men yet and will still be open to any of the signs despite my past experiences as I do believe everyone of us are unique and as the moon moves from one sign to the next, so do the characteristics of each sign change. Life is what you make it. Give out what you expect to receive and you will not be disappointed if you give it with your whole heart and if someone lets you down and things don’t work out, then thank the universe for allowing you to have the experience anyway and bless it and let it go. All of my experiences with these men have helped me to clarify what it is I want and need in a relationship and when I do fall in love again, I will be very sure that both of us are enriched by the relationship. I don’t mind sharing the limelight with someone who is just as fun and up-beat as I am but I sure don’t want to be dragged down into the hole they’re coming from if they are negative, pessimistic, controlling, or otherwise mentally or emotionally deflating.
My best advice for anyone looking to love a Sagittarius…give them a long leash and they’ll always be happy to come home. If you are a Cancer male…do the lady a favour and stay away. If you are a Cancer female…you could have a wonderful and loving relationship with your Sagittarius man if you control your moodiness and quietly accept his sometimes lack of tact or expression. He might not always choose his words carefully enough for your sensitive nature but please…don’t use tears to try to make him change and for Heaven’s Sake, don’t be clingy! He won’t understand why you’re always throwing water on his fire and will eventually leave and head for the sunny side of the street. Your naturally loving and nurturing manner can cause him to adore you so don’t use coersion or whining to get what you want from him and don’t smother him with love or you’ll be as annoying as a gnat.
Above all…don’t be a doormat, no matter what sign the other person is. Be true to yourself and be open to improving whomever that true self is. We are all here in Earth School and relationships of every kind are what makes us grow and evolve whether it’s a relationship with a lover, a friend, a spouse, a parent, a boss, a child, a neighbour, a teacher, a sibling, etc. It is our experience with these people who shape us and we are all constantly changing and making new choices. Choose Joy. Everything else will fall into place if you, yourself, are happy within your own being. Cheers!
But anyway’s who care’s if I’m a teenager or not. Anyway’s I myself wouldn’t date any of these zodiac sighns- Cancer, Taurus, Balance.
Sighnes that I would date: Aries, Sagittarius, Scorpio, Gemini (MAYBE), Libra, Pisces.
I’m a sagittarius girl, who is also a younge female.
Many guys I go out with are very boring, dull and they don’t seem to care about me much (so they make me fall in love with them for nothing, BORINGGGGGG!!!!! Guys like that are called, JERKS!!!! M*&^%@#F&CKERS!!??)
As a Sagittarius man I must say the description of us is fairly accurate and true to our nature. I’ve been married to a Taurus for over 20 some years. Our relationship has been full of bumps and bruises. She is down to earth and stubborn as they come. We have learned to compromise just about everything. Unfortunately it’s coming to a brutal end. Neither of us want to end it but it seems like those comprises are not enough for me or her. Life and all its experiences we have had together allowed us to grow, problem is we have grown apart. As a Sag it’s about learning and experiencing all the things out there and just have fun in the process. While the Bull tends to be slow in moving around due to its tendency to be content to enjoy its present pasture to graze upon. If there are any other Sag’s that are involved with the Bull you better have plenty of carrots and apples or whatever it is they want to dangle in front their nose to keep them moving forward and staying moving cause once they stop and sit they won’t budge much or not at all, and you will wear yourself out trying to pull, push, and tug them on. They do eventually learn that trick over time though.
I’ve come to realize that their patience and perseverance pays off for them. They are content to enjoy what they have and stay with it regardless what lies on the other side of the mountain. Which is a very endearing trait and one that intrigues me I could never figure that one out. Whereas a Sag is never content to sit in any one place for very long. Always wanting to climb the mountain to get a better look around and see whats next for we always enjoy a good adventure.
I must say though she was & is very caring, thoughtful, and not very possessive, but a homebody which worked out cause she allowed me to roam around freely, not to worry to much about my carefree attitude and flirtatious ways as she quickly found out that I am loyal and devoted to those I love and care about. With me its always the what if or I could if I wanted to ways. She kept me in check and grounded to the world while always taking care of our 4 children who are now all grown. Not to say that I neglected or didn’t help but she seemed to be more stable than me unless there was bloody mess involved.
Emotionally is where we differed. I’m very emotionally detached. Emotions just do not fit in a logical sense or order of things for I have a lack of water signs in any of the houses or planets when I was born basically all Fire, Air, & Earth, only 1 Water sign which makes me hard to handle at times due to I have a tough time making any sense of them, and when I do get emotional I’m so intense that I burn as bright as the sun and hot to the touch until I burn myself out. The main problem about that is, it is always those I care about that get burned the worst. The good thing is that I am always willing to apologize for those out burst that come out. Which is why I usually walked away when I feel those bursts coming.
Never the less, Relationships deal with emotions which are a form of water and water tends to put out the fire and it tends to cling to ya. Which is why I think Sag’s do not do well in a relationship’s with water signs. I say learn to know one’s self from the inside out. Cause as a fire sign we tend to consume everything around us unless kept in check. It’s just in our nature. Have fun and enjoy the ones around you with as much compassion as possible everyday for you never know what tomorrow will bring.
Hi everyone!!!
Im a Leo girl* I met my sagg guy more than a year ago and because im not much into horoscope stuff i havent dig into what cinda personality he is… well that was after three months of course… the two of us were so catched up into each other until i thought my gosh this is so “to good to be true”… i couldnt understand why we just seemed to blend in… well i found out his birth date, scrole around here and there and i got it!!!! I never planned to go out with a guy thats compatible with me it just happened that the two of us met and at that time “strangely” matched. You know my sagg just speaks his mind! His down to the point, go right through it and never compromises…. you’ll always knows how he feels about a situation, but what i do appreciate about him is that through it all he tries to still be sensitive to my needs… his ALWAYS ready to back me up and he is oh so sweeeeeeet! He gives me time to shine (i mean im the proud Leo:) and never let his pride comes in the way. Theres more warmness than actual conflict and whenever we have argues (i mean we are both fire signs) this never lasts long…. It seems he understand my emotional needs and we tend to fill in on each other… I now understand why we’re still so much inlove – its just in the stars*
Any good news on a Sag with a Sag???
I am Sagittarius woman my husband is Cancer. We have been married for 20 years. I am not a strong believer in astrology, but I haven’t ruled it out either.
Hey Robin, Sagittarius with Sagittarius can be an awesome combination if both are emotionally mature and responsible. They will be great travel companions and life will be fun wherever they go and their friends and families will love to have them around. But….if they’re not emotionally mature and responsible….bills won’t get paid…money will run out for fun instead of paying the utility bill or stocking the pantry with food. One or both parties can be tactless or insensitive in their speech which can result in offenses and seeming boorishness. If you are contemplating a relationship with another Sag, be sure that one of you has your head on straight and will deal with the responsibilities concerning finances and estate planning. Make sure you keep your passports up-to-date, have a great set of luggage, a backpack, and proper footwear, too! Happy Trails!
I am a sagittarius female with a capricorn man we have been together for 2 years so far so good we have had our ups and downs but he is always willing to work it out..capricorns are very dry ans unconcerned but they love attention and sagittarius women are very outgoing and adventurous for the most part we get along because i am not at home most of the time I am always shopping we have a different outlook on a lot of things but our communication and compromising attitudes keeps us together and we do alot of things together and with our family so we keep the sparks lit in our relationship COMMUNICATION AND COMPROMISING AND LAUGHTER ca change anything…plus the sex is great and spontaneous..Sagittarius women know how to be sensual and sexual we make it do what it need to do to keep our men happy at least I DO….
any more comment on sagi-pisces relationship…
PEOPLE, PEOPLE LISTEN UP ! AS A SAGITTARIUS ! I CAN TELL U WE LOVE OUR OWE INDEPENDENCE…AND THE BALL AND CHAIN WILL NEVER WORK….HA HA ! JUST BE REAL (NOT FAKE) and you will keep your Sagittarian partner for life (maybe ?). No, doubt we are work. But we are worth all that and then some…Our nature is just FREEDOM…peacefulness, fun, loving ,adventure (never wanting to be bored)….if u r boring . Step-off (speaking for all Sags) we hate it ! with a passion. Take us on a retreat (spa) for relaxation…and when we ready to have fun ,,,,,,,SKY IS THE LIMIT !(sky-diving, a cruise, romantic dinner , an airplane plane ride) ALWAYS SOMETHING SPUR OF THE MOMENT WILL DO ! .WITH US ! U HAVE TO COMMUNICATE with us (sags) we don’t read mind’s…(although, we are usually good at figuring u out) honestly ! we can see right thru most, and it is so FUNNY to us. WE JUST WANNNNNNNNNNNA HAVE FUN ! BUT the right one can get all of our heart…..GOOD-LUCK ! WE THE BEST !
At this time I’m in love with ARIES !
Relax and no operate!