A woman born under the Sagittarius sign is full of life, independent, idealistic, and a lover of traveling and knowledge. With these characteristics it’s not impossible that men would go out of the way to woo her. It might seem easy at first. Besides, these female Archers (or Centaurs) love meeting people. They are known to be flirtatious and playful; perhaps, too flirtatious and playful. Keeping a female interested is the problem they have to overcome. Sagittarius females get bored easily. They tend to look for new things to try or new people to connect with. Here are some tips to bear in mind when trying to attract Sagittarius women.
1) Dress Up. It might seem shallow, but women (in general) give high regards to a well dressed guy. When going out, make sure you dress better than your friends. Don’t overdo it though. Dress up for the occasion. Don’t wear a suit if it’s not a formal gathering and don’t wear jeans in a formal party. Some of the things to check out are shoes and fingernails. Seriously, if you can’t keep those clean (they’re in plain sight) then women won’t want to know about things they can’t see. Accessories are good too. Usually a wrist watch or a bracelet is enough. Again, don’t over accessorize.
2) Keep Her Amused. It’s not all about the looks. Sagittarians are highly intellectual and philosophical people. On the other hand she also loves fun and laughter. So engage her in a light but stimulating conversation. Talk about business but don’t be too technical (unless she asks). Talk about her latest trip or your travel plans in the next few months. Or an exotic restaurant you want to try out.
3) Be Hot And Cold. Now for a more devious trick … be unpredictable. Nothing drives a female Sagittarian crazy than an enigmatic guy. In flirting with them, the push and pull theory totally works! Be sweet with them and then keep your distance the next time you see each other. Going on and off will keep them wondering what’s up and keep them interested. It provides an air of mystery that messes up with their senses.
4) Be The Prize. Don’t show them attention the whole time. Be the one who is worthy of attention! Make yourself the cath. Or at least make yourself seem like the most eligible bachelor in the room. Sagittarians love challenges. She’d be thinking of ways to win a “prize” and she would want the one with the highest value.
5) Respect Her Freedom. A Sagittarian can very well take care of herself. She’s independent and she loves it that way. You have to respect that. She doesn’t want to be tied up. Don’t ask for a commitment after 2 weeks of going out with her. Do not give her an ultimatum and refrain from being too clingy (yes men can be that way too). Give her space to grow.
More importantly, be sure to explore new things with her. This is the best way to connect and keep up to date with what it takes to keep her interested.
You ladies only hate the hot and cold thing because it actually works. You all need to come to terms with this!
all sooo true… the hot & cold thing is SOMEtimes true. no bipoler ppl plz lol. but a little bit of a mystery is intiuging at FIRST. not too many games though. we DONT like games….unless we are the ref 😉 interesting conversation is key & HUMOR !! if your not funny or cant laugh i want nothing to do with you.
How about a good debate. A debate on a topic that is usually forbidden like religion or politics. Show me that you can stand up for your beliefs and opinions which have to be backed by fact as well and you have my heart
@michael, a sag woman doesn’t like to be questioned when it comes to what she does. I had a boyfriend who questioned the people I had on my myspace page (long ago) and I stopped talking to him for 2 weeks and we lived together. Were big on trust and for you to question her tagged page makes her feel as if you question her loyalty and she’s questioning your trust in her. Give a LIL longer and she may come back to you but it’s not unlike a sag to completely cut you off without telling you because we do have a tendency to feel as if you don’t deserve any explanation lol. We are wonderful women, but we have our ways
Good info I’m a sagg male
These infos are just like attracting myself=)
I have a girlfriend age 14 born on 6 December she’s really hot and all the guys like her which makes it tough for me but I’m in the same class as her. Can anyone help me!
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She looks and smiles AT me but I’m sure there’s something on my face for her to smile
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When is anyone going to help me
Okay, I agree with SagGirlll, Jenny, and El jefe, the hot and cold thing DOES work, i’m living proof of that. I met this guy a couple of months ago who’s done the whole hot and cold thing, and it’s completely kept my interest in him. Now that we’re closer in our friendship, he doesn’t do it anymore, but the thing is, i’m completely smitten with him now. I don’t know, it seems like the way he handled our relationship was perfect, it seemed like he knew what to do to keep me interested, and to keep coming back to him. It actually has me questioning if he read these tips before we met, but I’m also more than sure he doesn’t know about this website. But let me shut up now, the point I was trying to make is that the hot and cold thing really does work to a certain extent, just so long as the guy knows what he’s doing when he’s attempting it, and he doesn’t take it too far.
only 1 2 and 5 would work with me.. the hot and cold thingy would make ignore that guy for good
The hot and cold method was completely accurate! I think thats why we like Gemini guys so much. I enjoyed reading this, another thing we like is getting taken out to eat every once in awhile and a gift now and than wouldnt hurt either 😉 haha
I do not agree with the hot and cold thing… Its a game I refuse to play. So if you know whats good for you, that will be one game you will never consider. I will move on from you, because you will come across a problem I can do without.
This message is for (Michael). You should call her and talk to her. Flirting is apart of who we are as SAG. No harm intended. It is our free-spirit of expression it mean nothing to us ITS JUST WHO WE ARE. Sag do not like to be question, told what to do, or fell obligated to anyone or anything. Freedom to a SAG is AIR, FOOD, WATER AND SHELTER. Never take a SAG wanting freedom for granted. Suport her.
Okay michael what you need to do is show her your either upset in a sad way, or upset in a mad way. I am a sag and when my girl gets all jealous on me, i get SO PISSY. I ignore her and treat her like dirt, but deep down inside, i feel the exact same feelings and then meaness is jjst to make her not do it anymore. What you need to do is when you do get a hold of her, be very deep with your words and emotions. Say you realized that they werent a big deal. Then usually sagg will do the rest of the talking and you can go from there. If she is mean to you after you tell her, have a strong emotional responce so she realizes that she is in the wrong. Make her want to prove herself to you, whether its just she is sorry, or you should keep her. Sagg girls like a challenge. And so do sagg guys. I am a sagg, and thats my advice. Best of luck to you.
I am viewing this page because i have feelings for a very beautiful sagg girl. Honestly those kinds are the hardest, because since they are flirtatious, they can get to know a lot of guys, and the competition is on! But i am a sagg too, and i have confidence in my “lady skills”, also i am one stubbornperson. I dont quit, i dont give up, especially not for a beautiful girl that i would get along with perfectly. I am a big fan of sagg and sagg relationships, because we are on the sam level and we are. Both very very loyal. I really hope she will fall for me. I havent had good luck with love in the past. Just a bunch of flings. Cuz thats the sagg way.
L8ter.
I’m a sag girl and i’ve gotta say that the hot&cold thing doesn’t work at all. If you’re cold we’re done!
Ahmm, d truth is I startd laughin out loud by myself 4 wat I read in d article bcoz its js soo true! Abt d hot n cold thng, d trick here is v r soo much on d go tat smthng realy INTERESTING shud b thr 2 mk us stop n turn our head. No, tat doesnt mean v dn notice d smart-dressd-4-d occasion man, bt yea d max tat wud hv gone thru d head wud b- hmm, atleast I wont gt bored wid tat guy arnd,lets hv a talk!. U wont believe me, bt tats al it is! whn they play d hot n cold stuff, I gues v gt intrigued, n thn js leave thm thr .its vry buggin, bt durin initial periods, if tactfully dne, I hv 2 admit I hv fell 4 it!! Bt plz plz plz dn xtend it into d relatnship, u
r gonna end up wid buckets f temper tandrums, shut out, n rebelliousness bcoz d simple reasn y v play d hard 2 gt is bcoz v r trustin babies at heart n gt bruisd vry often. So if u gona put a cold ice on it, simple . It wont make us freeze, d fire in us vl vapourise it n u wudnt evn realise whn v hv packd our bags n left d show- mentaly, physicaly n psychologicaly.! Al d best! B-)
…My boyfriend needs to read this…
SagGirlll got this spot-on. Hot & Cold is for the initial ‘courting’ only, to fan the flames. No-one in their right mind should try this once you’re actually a couple – that’s just water on the bonfire!
Challenges are what drive Sag’s towards their quarry. But being a constant challenge after you’ve captured them? That’s too much work… and we’d rather move on.
Sagi women are a turn off, there houses are usually untidy, they are scatty women, and unfaithful usually, I will admit they make great lovers and they love to connect intellectually, most of the time they attract fast-lane thugs who are no good for them, they cheat a lot not as ,much as taurus or scorpio women but they are fun to be around.
dont get me wrong, i am a gemini man, and I am in love with a sagi woman I cant tell her because I cant read her well enough.
yes i used to be a fast-lane thug!
hey i like sag girl but im pieces clingy my nature so do i have chance ?=)
All of these are true in my case! (12/4th). I actually like a guy who gets jealous when another man looks at me, but again I hate it when he gets too possessive.
I agree with the hot and cold thing. It makes me curious how come a guy is sweet to me for one day, then the next day we appear cold. But that’s how a relationship goes! you can’t be too hot always, nor too cold. It drives me like hell if we’re so attached, or if we’re too distant!
Omg all these women saying how the hot and cold thing doesn’t work but it seriously does I’m a sag as well and I love it, it drives you crazy which is again back to the mysterious thing and it’s just great the sense of not knowing and having to guess and work to make the guy like you it’s just fun :).
TRUE! Sagi women are unpredictable, freedom-loving and do not like to rush things immediately. They are cool-headed and see things one step at a time. They may also seem flirtatious, but once you really get to know her, you will see that she is just being friendly-in her own cute way. When dating a sag, try to amuse her. Excitement will keep her on the right track with you.
Not bad
yes, 98 percent very true…. in as much as I already want to commit to my libran bf….at the back of my mind, there is still a
small voice telling me not to give my freedom away…
A good one
Ummm this could not be any more accurate. And Meredith hit it on the spot…it takes a lot for us to commit, need to feel that heat to know its real and worth keep hot.
I would like to add..
I think we sag women are more likely to demonstrate than deal with hot/cold behaviors when dealing with emotional involved. I think we are a tid hypocritical, I personal a, hot/cold but boy do I HATE it when people I am emotionally involved with engage in hot/cold behaviors. I do expect someone to be into me and it to be HOT-not always but the majority of the time-and to understand I can be hot/cold and be willing to work with my ups and downs–because they love me that much and its worth it to them to take me as a complete package
Sagittarius Women , truly are the worst women in the zodiac.
They have absolutely no moral fibre, no inner code and they are the biggest hypocrites of all women.
I thought scorpio women were the worst, but scorpio’s problem is that they are hyperemotional and controlling.
Sagittarius women have no conscience in putting their partners at risk with their own reckless and promiscous lifestyle!
I totally agree with steve, they are the cold calculating bitches yet the best prostitutes – I think sagittarius invented prostitution in the first place.
So don’t spend time reading this blog about learning ways of attracting sadges – the greatest aphrodisiac for sadge women will always be money and power. Shallow bitches really. So guys, concentrate on only point #1 . Dress up, and she’s gonna strip it all away for you.The intellectualism is just a superficial polish that they display is just a facade for the uncouth lusty cavewoman that exists in them.
An ex of mine kept boasting of her “amazing” single life to my other friends after she broke up with me – too much drinking, plenty of unprotected risky casual sex (anal), and how the men she screwed around with were “tied” around her little finger!
And she is still single in her early 40s and yearning to fall in “love”! How hypocritical and sad!
She mocked the concept of marriage, and won’t hesitate to ruin someone elses (by sleeping around with a married or taken man.) . At the same time she used to say she would make the best wife as she knows how to make men happy (without a scrap of evidence however as she kept crying that how exes dumped her – this initially made me take care of her and love her). She’s probably slept with more number of men in her life than the number of car models Benz must have manufactured in the last decade, yet she used to get so jealous when she sees her men (me before, and from what I heard her present fling) even talking to other women!
Her friends even told me they were fed up of listening to her hypocritical sermons and sob stories.
She even went far to try to break me up with my present woman with her vicious lies. And at the same time kept texting me with messages hinting at pornstar sex if I got back with her!
And this has been similar more or less to other Sadge women that I got involved with before my present girl.
Really Sadge women are sexual predators, financial parasites – but the only upside about them is they are like pornstars in bed – so you can act out all your porn fantasies with them. Don’t even bother for a relationship – coz they’re not “fit” for it.
I actually got interested in astrology after I broke up with them – and I found another surprising statistic – Sadge women are the women most likely to remain single all their life (with sex of course – they are not prudes).
My present girl , She is a Libra. I have never been so happy. Libran women are the best!
saggs are cold selfish calculating cunning bitches. they are the most insecure sign of the zodiac
I have to agree with this I am a full blooded sag from the top of my head to the bottom of my feet I seen where you all are coming from with the hot cold thing but I agree with sag girlll true be honest with me while in a relationship but in pursuit there is nothing wrong with a little cat and mouse I love a challenge and I like a little mystery as well now if we are in a relationship and you feel the need to play those games im out the door faster than I can get it open if im giving you me I have to know im getting 100% of that back but for the most part everything else was dead on if you are a true sag woman you will agree
Lol, the “hot and cold” bit is hilarious because ALL people prefer someone who’s upfront about their feelings, not just Sag women. Thing is, this is advice on how to build attraction, not on how to take the pressure off and get rejected early on. As it stands, hot and cold works on all women. It’s fact, tried and true, and no number of women saying it won’t work on them will make it untrue.
I’m a Leo guy, and I’ve been with a handful of Sag girls. They can be lovable, hilarious, and downright face melting in bed, but that’s pretty much it. If loyalty is what you’re after, then forget it. And I’m talking about more than just whether or not she doesn’t fuck every guy she flirts with.
The honesty issue: Everywhere I see Sag women talking about their signs together, it’s a mutual circle jerk where they yammer on and on about how important it is to be honest and how it’s so frustrating that other people can’t handle their honesty. All I can say is that it must be nice to have a built in excuse to be an insufferable bitch right in your sun sign description lol.
My mom was a Sag, and I must have had at least 4651561 “uncles”. God bless her, she could never get used to the idea of raising a kid alone. Either that or she just needed constant dick.
Go after them for the sex and don’t take it personally when they get bored. If you stay friendly without a grudge they WILL come back for round two.
Sag sexy woman in love with a gemini man.I married him because he didnt play stupid mind games.Not all sagittarius are whores been married 5 years and haven’t cheated.How I was if I was in a relationship I didn’t cheat but if you messed w my emotions yeah why not screw you over too?Past that naive teenage shit.My gemini is the only man who Ive had the best amazing sex.And he’s honest +genuine + can cook too who wouldn’t want that to come home too?
yep. hot and cold techniques show an extremely insecure individual. use that energy to actually build character instead. same thing with ‘dressing up’, whether you dress up or not, sag girls will know how hot you are, and dressing up just once again shows that you’re compensating for a weakness. sag females would rather have substance than flash, they could easily judge character.
Sag male here..I figured I’d have some fun and read up about attracting a Sag female and came to the realization that I just need to marry one! The hot and cold deal was right on point! We all need to meet up for drinks!!!
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All of the men posting on here saying all Sagittarius women are whores obviously just had some bad luck with one. We are not all like that!
Thanks for the info, actually at present, I am courting an sagittarius lady…UUU
I just felt in love with a sagi, but I think I made a mistake of not given her the challenge, I made her to know how much I care & now it apears I may not get her. Secondly its true that she attacks many guys, it there hope?
Very true information indeed! I’m a Sagittarius girl, however I’m honestly not sure if the hot and cold thing really works because yes it does make me wonder if he’s really intrested or not, but it makes me ponder in a bad way because to me it shows like he’s unsure about you.. Therefore it makes me uninterested. But ugh, yeah being clingy is also a hugeee no! Total turn off.
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January 3rd, 2013 at 3:14 am
I just felt in love with a sagi, but I think I made a mistake of not given her the challenge, I made her to know how much I care & now it apears I may not get her. Secondly its true that she attacks many guys, it there hope? ——————————————————————— There is hope! Just know that you did your part and you said what you had to say. It’s just up to her if she feels the same way about you or not(and that doesn’t even have to do much with astrology). So don’t bother her about it, she will tell you what’s up when she’s ready. xx.
Well, as a (humble – lol) good looking male Leo, every Sagittarian woman I have been around there was fire! What I learned about Sag woman is that they love our physical style and hotness. They also adore our passion for life. However, it’s not enough for them. You have to be the kind of guy that can flip from a goofy fun loving man, to an aristocrat at a moment’s notice. If you’re a good looking, Intelligent, fun loving man, you have already won your Sag and you don’t even know it.
Hot and cold is BS – Sag’s will not chase. If they give you any sign that they are interested – seductively make your move. Not too much, not too little. The key is to allow them to be part of your seduction of them. They want to feel that they earned you.
If you get as far as a date…you’re in buddy. Be creative with the first date without extremities. For instance, don’t just go to a bar for a drink. Take her golfing or something. Let her drive the cart. At one point in the day lean over and give her an unexpected kiss. Just do it once. That is probably a better definition of the hot and cold of what Sag’s love. Remember, you’re already in dumbass – work it lol.
-Michael
I am dating a sagittarian woman. She is interestig and different, sweet, smart, exciting and as beautiful as the sun is hot. I have learned to curb my jeliousy and posessiveness. I love who she is and the faith I have in her has helped me do this. Tauras men are romantic, loving and loyal. If a sagittarian woman gets to our heart she will find the security and unbreakable love, passion and adventure she is looking for. The stubborn bull is actually a good thing. We dont want to give up on love either. We have trustworthy hearts.
Advice for you Sagittian women. If you meet or have a Tauras man dont dissmiss him because of his posessiveness, it is because he knows he has found a treasure and he doesnt want to loose you. Be as flirty as you want but always let him know that you love him and arent going anywhere. Security is importany to him too. If you show him love, afection and that you are truly honest and loyal, you will have a romantic, loving, adventureas partner that will go to the end of the earth to keep you safe and make you feel loved.