A woman born under the Sagittarius sign is full of life, independent, idealistic, and a lover of traveling and knowledge. With these characteristics it’s not impossible that men would go out of the way to woo her. It might seem easy at first. Besides, these female Archers (or Centaurs) love meeting people. They are known to be flirtatious and playful; perhaps, too flirtatious and playful. Keeping a female interested is the problem they have to overcome. Sagittarius females get bored easily. They tend to look for new things to try or new people to connect with. Here are some tips to bear in mind when trying to attract Sagittarius women.
1) Dress Up. It might seem shallow, but women (in general) give high regards to a well dressed guy. When going out, make sure you dress better than your friends. Don’t overdo it though. Dress up for the occasion. Don’t wear a suit if it’s not a formal gathering and don’t wear jeans in a formal party. Some of the things to check out are shoes and fingernails. Seriously, if you can’t keep those clean (they’re in plain sight) then women won’t want to know about things they can’t see. Accessories are good too. Usually a wrist watch or a bracelet is enough. Again, don’t over accessorize.
2) Keep Her Amused. It’s not all about the looks. Sagittarians are highly intellectual and philosophical people. On the other hand she also loves fun and laughter. So engage her in a light but stimulating conversation. Talk about business but don’t be too technical (unless she asks). Talk about her latest trip or your travel plans in the next few months. Or an exotic restaurant you want to try out.
3) Be Hot And Cold. Now for a more devious trick … be unpredictable. Nothing drives a female Sagittarian crazy than an enigmatic guy. In flirting with them, the push and pull theory totally works! Be sweet with them and then keep your distance the next time you see each other. Going on and off will keep them wondering what’s up and keep them interested. It provides an air of mystery that messes up with their senses.
4) Be The Prize. Don’t show them attention the whole time. Be the one who is worthy of attention! Make yourself the cath. Or at least make yourself seem like the most eligible bachelor in the room. Sagittarians love challenges. She’d be thinking of ways to win a “prize” and she would want the one with the highest value.
5) Respect Her Freedom. A Sagittarian can very well take care of herself. She’s independent and she loves it that way. You have to respect that. She doesn’t want to be tied up. Don’t ask for a commitment after 2 weeks of going out with her. Do not give her an ultimatum and refrain from being too clingy (yes men can be that way too). Give her space to grow.
More importantly, be sure to explore new things with her. This is the best way to connect and keep up to date with what it takes to keep her interested.
I’m a SAgg female and this is pretty good info. I think you could mention we do look for virtue. Part of “Be the Prize” (which is so true) is that you are no weasel, are kind hearted and can stand up to bullies or something like that. Be Hot and Cold kind of bugged me, because I sort of hate thta, but I have to admit, it does work! One thing though, you can’t openly be with other women, or actually dis me, obviously–that’s no surprise, I mean, being aloof works as long as you’re civil. But when we’re on, if you don’t want me bad enough, I’ll find someone more passionate. When we drop our guards, there’s gotta be authentic-I-SEE-you-flame between us to make it safe for me to let my hair down. Otherwise, if you’re lukewarm, I won’t like it. I wanna be the apple of your eye. TAkes a long time for a Sag to commit, but we’re loyal once we do. Ineed to see you’re your own man, but also have that potential to be true hearted, and be hot!
amazing, absolutly true, great thanks, i am a sag female and in love a gemini male
Sagi here baby;)
Exactly!! I want to work hard to win the prize!!! The Prize better impress me 😉
Dont bore me!!!plz
I agree with Margaret’s comments. Virtue is key. And the hot-cold thing doesn’t work with me. If you’re cold, then I’m done. Life is too short for me to analyze whether or not a guy likes me, or engage in mind games.
Okay Sooo..I am a sagittarian woman and I overall agree however you’re missing one key point!… JEALOUSY!.. lord I do love when a guy gets jealous it shows he cares for me BUT!.. if he gets too jealous, i have many many male friends.. 3/4s of them all are male and i keep them very close and if a guy is jealous of my friends i easily let go of him and choose them so if a man is interested in me keep that jealousy limited i don’t mind if were out at a restaurant and the waiter hits on me and you get a little jealous its cute but you can’t over-do it
i totally agree with kayy baybe, am a sagittarius woman and it totally true.
Hahahahah! I love this…ok so yeah I’m a sag 11 30th and the hot n cold thing major no no..dude if ur confused about if u like me the next time we meet then id rather u talk to me about it or say aerial I don’t wanna come on to strong that’s why I kind of pushed away a little, then I’ll flirt and smile so charmingly and say sweetie u didn’t come on too strong you’re just fine (only if I like him a lot) but to like me one day and the next day act like there’s no attraction now that’s a MAJOR PROBLEM…ill call it off quick rather verbal or mentally…either way, you’ll notice…..everything else is true! ….muahxoxo
I agree on many of these things EXCEPT the hot and cold method – it’s controlling and manipulative. If you’re hot, wonderful! If you’re cold I’ll eventually pick up my things and move on – if you’re not interested, don’t waste my time. 😐
Well said Margaret, and et.al. They need to ditch the hot/cold, attentive/aloof bit. It’s just wrong.
I’m a sagg woman, and I strongly agree with bubbles… If you’re hot keep it coming! I love the attention. And if you’re cold you better get the steppin’. I’m pretty sure most of the sag women knows that we tend to fall in love easily, n stupid men take us for granted. We just want to be loved.
I’m another Sag female (Dec. 1st) and I agree with MOST of it, except the hot/cold bit….doesn’t work for me because I see that as game playing and a complete waste of my time. Either you’re into me or you’re not.
Yes, the hot and cold is just pushing it a bit much. We don’t have time to fuck around! Get down the point. Make your point and then let’s move on from there to some real fun. Life is too short to be playing hot and cold games.
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hmmm? Im a sag too and I dislike if a guys been all attentive then turns into a plank afterwards. I do however like the challenge of turning a guy who has started off cold…If I can work some magic and then get some interest then I feel like I’ve conquered and won! Theres gotta be laughter too, can’t stand dryballs. I never thought myself to be flirtacious until recently friends have said so, I more so called it being friendly. If i like you I’m going to tell you, its that simple!
Oh so true. Unfortunately I’m hot cold. Its because I’m scared to get hurt. I love reading about this.
Hahaha, this is so funny yet its true. I really do have to agree with the Sagittarius women on here about the hot and cold part. For me, if someone likes me, I rather have them come out and say it, even if that means I feel or don’t feel the same way because I personally don’t like mind or guessing games. Plus if someone who likes me play hot and cold with me, it will never occur to me that that person like me because I’ll just take it as if the person is flirting with me. Nothing more. Yup, however I do get bored easily and I move on FAST, so if a person wants me to notice them, they would have to constantly amuse me or else I’m gone. I’m always meeting people, so one less person in my life wouldn’t even matter to me. Oh and about the flirting part, yes I agree, I am a biggggg shameless flirt, but that doesn’t mean I like you or have feelings like that for you. I’m pretty sure its like that for most of you Sagittarius women too. Ahaha. So for all you men out there, we’re not the easiest to catch but once you caught us, you wont regret it.
I love this article! It’s very true, and I do agree EXCEPT for the hot and cold part. As a Sag female, I love being admired and needed. I think this trait is what makes us Sag females flirt with everyone around us. LOL.
Excellent, so i as male gemini is compatibile w/ fem. sagit. on some stages and we can share these.
ahaha..yeah am a SAG lady, after reading the article, now i had an idea why i was like this and that hehehe and i think being too clingy (on the guys side..is a no-no, also JEALOUS guy is not our thing or my thing.. FREE spirited person like us would do!
TRASH THE HOT AND COLD METHOD!!! Driving us crazy is NOT a good thing! It aggravates us and turns me completely off! Make up your mind man! And jealousy also is good thing, i don’t know why but it makes me feel special. Other than that hot and cold thing its amazing how true this is.
Im a Sexy Sag, and the hot and cold thing is waaaaay off for me, if u seem interested one minute and then stand-offish the next, im going to take u for a harbor shark. Meaning ok i liked u then but now im looking for something more easy. I enjoy being the prize….come catch me if u can.
SOO TRUE!!!! Im a sag girl and all of this is SSOOO true!!!!!!!
Margaret I think you are so right. I am a sage female and I am picky about the guys I like. There were guys I liked and really wanted but at some point either they or I must have known they weren’t it. I knew I would easily forget them after the goodbye because they weren’t passionate enough to even follow through WTF? For one thing they don’t stand up for themselves that is a huge deal breaker. Another thing I know as a Sage femme men spend so much energy to try to make me jealous and I lose SO MUCH respect for them b/c when I am in the room lonely looking for the love to return to me I find he’s busy acting like he someone else is more important. He should have been thinking of our enterprising partnership together. I think it takes a strong man to know that Sage is a sensitive warm fun loving person b/c I think some men can break Sage’s heart. Fairness, justice, expansive thinking do no harm and if you don’t follow the golden rule you have no chance. I am disappointed. Only guy who didn’t disappoint me was a Cancer from years ago and a very passionate Libra and I forgave that Libra a lot because I understood his nature. Remember Sage is sensitive and loving and it is always the seemingly harmless guys that really hurt Sage since they can’t even admit to themselves what they feel or what they’ll do.
Thur I think a worse crime than a guy being clingy is him being indecisive. Those are the worst guys if you fall for them who knows how long your life will be in limbo before something happens. I like the dark horse, the rebel the flawed guy b/c you know he will follow his heart and if you are in it he isn’t going to waste time playing games that will lead to someone being terribly hurt. He will let you know in so many ways and it won’t be a sick game just to boost his ego.
I agree Brittany. Being needed is a very strong drive I have stayed in places and jobs for the simple reason that I was needed there. The loyalty thing is strong too to jobs etc to situations maybe thats also the Moon in Cappy influence.
Hey. I’m a SAG male, n I just started lookin into all this astrological stuff and it’s interesting. Anyways… If its all the same, I hate when women try to do that hot n cold thing, it’s like they’re playin with your mind and I need my freedom. But, at the same time I like to play with women’s minds too, I know its wrong, but I like to get them to fall in love with me, I never break they’re heart, but I just leave them wanting more, and since I have trouble committing, I never give them more, and I keep them at that level where they think of me of like a high school crush. Truth is I’m just a nice guy and I don’t want to hurt these girls or degrade them in anyway. Any Ideas why I do what I do?
hi all
ummm i personaly dnt believe in stars but this is damn true yaar,or aaj se mujah b stars mai thora thora believe hone lag gaya hai,so cool nd sag’s r da bst!!!!!!!!!ha ha ha!!!!!!!!!!!
What if she was kinda interested in messing with another girl who dresses like a tom boy?
some sag women are reserved, like me. although the “fire” is always there like with the extravert sags (but often hidden behind meekness or silence), our love for freedom and philosophy is the same. i’ll agree with “Keep Her Amused” and “Respect Her Freedom” advice.
to Kayy Baybe:
I was jealous with a sagittarius woman… AND it turned out I descovered she wasn´t that faithful to me… She use to “like” a lot of guy sof her facebook, and flirt? she used to do it with just mosquito that flew by…JEALOUSY? But she? she was VERY jealous. I didn´t have the right to be, but she had it. Don´t play with it sagittarious woman. Or else you will loose the man of your dreams. She used to tell me how much she loved me, she even got pregnat, we were so glad about it, but she could forget so much about her ex-lovers or ex-flings… Too much freedom will destroy your sentimental life with that man that you think you were waiting for so long time in your life… Your desire for “freedom” will ruin your heart, and other´s, that a real pity…
My experience with some female sag was same. JK.
My exp with some female was same. Jk.
I hate when a guy plays hot and cold! the guy I’m trying to get is a gemini, who has a virgo girlfriend.
I think we would be perfect!
If only I had read this thread months ago! I am 7 months into a relationship with a very sexy sago. I have never had a relationship like it before and I am smitten. I have never known such fun, fire, unpredictability and the best sex ever. Unfortunately I have given her too much love too easily, and I haven’t allowed her enough freedom. What an idiot. The jury is now out and I’m expecting my verdict by the end of the week, Damn!
Big thanks for this info.
I just want to make sure, all Sagittarius women,, was all of the point named on above true? Cz I’m in love with Sagittarius woman right now. LoL, thanks again.
dat’s is the real meeee
Hot and cold definitely doesn’t work with me- it confuses me and I lose interest pretty quickly. What does work is LOTS of interesting conversation. I stay interested through conversation. Nothing’s sexier.
Ladies, come on now, let’s be honest here. The hot and cold thing absolutely works on us and afterall this is an article aimed at people trying to attract a Sag girl. I don’t believe the author is saying to play mind games with you throughout the relationship… This is just a tactic to snag your attention (in the early meeting stages). And it works! If a guy comes on too strong at first and gives you all his attention and becomes absolutely clingy, we IMMEDIATELY lose interest. Why? It’s too easy, we need room to breath, we start wondering why this guy is so “desperate”, perhaps he’s not that great of a catch, etc… And we split faster than he can call out our names. The hot and cold thing keeps us interested and wondering which is irresistible to us. BUT, once he grabs our attention and we become genuinely interested, the hot and cold game is no longer needed and should stop. Sag’s are extremely honest and upfront–we expect no less from the guy who has won our affections and wouldn’t deal very well with this kind of stuff in a real relationship (hence why all the Sag girls are probably upset by this). We need lots of attention and need to feel loved and wanted by the person we love. So in short, I think this works well to snag her attention early on but will backfire horribly if you try to use this in a relationship with a Sag girl that has true feelings for you. Buyers beware 😉
Well..Im also sag female..12/14/70 and I must say that the hold/cold issue is kind of a turn on because it is intriguing. It makes things more interesting. I mean..if a guy gives in right away ..not so fun..but..if you have to wait and he plays with you like that..it just seems like the end result is soo much better! I can see why some comments say it is deceiving but it does make things more thrilling and worth it..I mean..if it really is worth it in the end..But, I agree with the article almost 100% /// It really is true and I must add most importantly that we Sag women want the complete truth..any form of deception is a relationship breaker..friends or lovers. Honesty really is the best policy with us! We know that we can be a bit trusting and even naive sometimes….so we wanna know you truly are trustworthy.//because we are!!! :o)
im a capricorn guy n have fallen in love with a sag girl. Shes so different to anyone else i met. Im a pretty patient n flexible cap so im hoping our relationship goes well. I know were opposites but her flighty idealistic personality drives me crazy! Annoying at times but gorgeous on the inside. Its a challenge getting used to her tho. I hope im not being too clingy or distant. So far so good though. For the most part the personality is definatly what was said above. Wish me luck haha!
crazy in a ‘u turn me on kinda way’. 😉
i am sag female but i am not flirtyyyyyyyyyy
Sag kvinner er veldig utro, ullojal, og veldig løgnaktig… De er den minst pålitelig. De er IKKE verdt det i det hele tatt!!!!
I know some sagi girls and a lot of this stuff is so true. They are such fun and attractive and vibrant girls.
But there is an arrogance about them that men ‘should’ run after them for ‘ages’ before they have a comitment from them etc and they’re bordering on been obsessed with their ‘freedom’ and they can be pretty nasty. one gilr on here described men to them as ‘nothing more than accessories in their wardrobe. I don’t know many people men or women who want to be valued so little as that. On the other hand they can be very sensitive and get ‘sooo’ upset if they’re slighted in any way so you could argue they have the arrogance that it’s fine to devalue others but NOT ME.bit hypocritical really. Also since they love their freedom so much they should perhaps inform their partners that they don’t want a serious r’ship etc and if they love their freedom that much stay single! lol
I hope i dont hurt any sagi’s by saying this but like you guys i’m also blunt and say it how it is.
So here goes..sagi’s (and there will be exceptions) are great fun and there’s no doubting that at all, they brighten up the room and are intelligent and make good conversation and have so many wonderful traits but ultimately not people to be wasiting your time with if you want a deep meaningful r’ship with cos that’s just not them.
great fun but ultimately (not much more than that) a bit too shallow and lacking in substance. they’d be great people to have a fling with or an affair with. they’re more foreplay than full sex. if you want the real deal and full sex and some real depth scorpion women are the way forward! lol
Sorry anoynomous, but I think you are only judging “some” Westner/ non-Muslim Sag women here.
Sags women- who are Muslims 99% of the time date aiming at a long term relationship. You stated yourself that Sag women are intelligent beings- we know what we want from our lives- and most of the time we are honest- in fact too open and too honest about stating what we want. I am a good player, liked by all men really- but it’s usually the Leos and Aries (cos they are smart and boy they can talk and are so much fun man!) that impresses me big time. I too don’t like that Hot and Cold thing- you like me, you tell me- be honest cos i am honest with you. Honestly, the last Leo i liked didn’t like me, and it lead to me losing a lot of self-esteem as we Sags are very oriented on our personality looks. We are loved by everyone- get long with everyone, so when a man ditches- it’s painful. It’s worse if you are a Muslim- cos you already know that there is little fish for you in the sea to begin with!
Evn im a sag gal. . N its tru lik nythin. . .esp abt de enigmatic guy. . .
I am a Sagittarius women&everything is very true except the hot&cold because I have mindlessly been reading things on my zodiac signs and 4 out of the 5 things i have read say that Sagittarius women hate mind games, which totally contradicts the hot&cold idea.
LOL, i happen to be a saggitarian gurl & this is SO FRIGGIN TRUE. i was reading this thinking “wow, that is pretty darn good”
you know us well ;]
Sags women are cold, calculated, selfish bitches.
Best prostitutes, nothing else.
All men should avoid them. You can’t have any relationship with them, you will regret it big time. They like whoring around, that’s definition of fun for them.
I have been in a relationship since December ’10 with a sag woman. There has been many uses of “love words” between both us. Last one we text/call before sleep, and first one text/call when we awake. I have grown to feel that she is the most wonderful woman I have ever met. A few days ago, I questioned her flirtatious tags and comments on”Tagged.” Now all of a sudden I am shut out out and calls/texts are ignored. I am not understanding and feel really hurt. Do I not text or call her and wait on her to question “where I am at” or just walk away. I am really hurt by her silence. What is the best course of action for me to take? I love her dearly, and have felt I wanted to spend the rest of my life with her. We are not kids, both approaching 60. Do I give her space and wait, fearing I may lose her, or say good bye?