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Author: Bryce Harris

The Sagittarius Bride

Who wouldn’t want to see this funny, adventurous and sophisticated woman walk through the aisle towards him in a beautiful gown on their wedding day? The Sagittarius becoming a bride is a dream come true for a lot of men so if you get this chance you might want to give it your best because you know she deserves it.

Weddings need a lot of work and exerted effort but for the Sagittarius bride, it should be the same as the rest of her life … sophisticated, fashionable and, as much as possible, with a hint of adventure. If you’re a Sag and wants your whole persona to show on your wedding day or if you’re planning a wedding for a Sag, you have to consider a few simple things about her character.

Sags are friendly so, naturally, they have a lot of acquaintances. The Sag is very accommodating and like being friends with people from different walks of life. On the wedding day, they might not have a long guest list but be sure to expect a variety of people. You need to think of a concept that will be suitable for everyone. Maybe something that will break the ice so people who just met that day can have something to start talking about other than the bride and groom.

In picking a motif, think of bright colors like sapphire or gold or a shade of amber. Something lively but not too shocking that it would hurt the eyes. Bright colors will bring out the energy and enthusiasm the Sag bride posses. Pick something buoyant and sophisticated. A Sag is well educated and classy and that should show on her wedding motif.

The Sag is a stickler for breaking rules. They like to push things to the limit starting with small things so while the bridal gown should be as beautiful and regal as she is, you might want to add a bit more spice to it. White gowns are classic but you could throw in a hint of whatever her motif is. Maybe a ribbon / belt around her waist or a floral head dress. If you want an all white gown you can make a contrast with a colorful bouquet instead. Try sunflowers or bright colored Gerbera rather than the usual roses and tulips. Gerbera comes in so many colors you’ll have a hard time picking and the sunflower just looks fun and may even shock the people attending.

Of course the wedding doesn’t stop at the church (or wherever you want it done) or the reception. Probably the most sought after part of that occasion is the beginning of the honeymoon. Sags are wanderlust people. An exotic place would be the best to take the Sag bride for a honeymoon. Jordan, Marrakech and Egypt are good if you want places with a rich culture. Asia is very exotic and fun. Head to Europe if you’re after the history of the place. Of course Maldives, Bahamas and Hawaii are always great destinations if you want to soak in the sun.

Sagittarius Sexual Compatibility

In love, career, finances and practicality, the perfect partner for a Sagittarius are the signs that are compatible with theirs. So that narrows it down to either an Aries or a Leo. But hey, the archers are a spontaneous bunch and won’t judge a book by its cover (if you know what I mean). Besides a Sag is not the type to be boxed in and they like bending rules anyway so they won’t really take that too seriously.

Speaking of rules, a Sag might not just bend some in bed but even break it. They will push to see what their (and their partner’s) limit is. They don’t like routine so they improvise and experiment. He is likely to participate in things considered as taboo like bondage or voyeurism, among other things. If he’s not into it he’d try it out just for the heck of it. They get bored easy so in a relationship, it is advisable for their partner to consider role playing, swinging or at least use sex toys. Those will definitely spice up the sex life. They want adventure and change and it’s no different in bed. If you’re not ready to do this then you are risking the chance of losing your Sag partner. Then again the archer doesn’t really need any sort of serious relationship just to jump in bed with you. All you have to do is to seduce him / her and you’ll find yourself sharing their pillow (for further details read the other tips on seducing a Sag, lol). Here’s a general overview of what each signs sexual relationship with a Sag can be.

SO, an Aries can be a perfect partner, mostly because Aries are the go-with-the-flow type. Although, generally, they can be shy in bed, they won’t mind trying out things that the Sag suggests.

A Taurus might be too serious for a Sag but they are also sensual. They are attracted to a Sag’s independence and intelligence. They might clash in a few things but a roll on the hay is definitely worth a try.

Gemini, another air sign, will know where to blow (pun not intended, maybe just a little). They will love Sag as they both like spontaneity and doesn’t like being caged in. The sexual attraction between these two social butterflies will be inevitable and it may even turn into something a bit more serious.

Cancer is a bit too moody for a Sag and this water sign tends to put out the fire. They might have a passionate one night stand or a short affair, at best. If a Cancer can’t understand the archer’s need for a fun, drama free companion form time to time there is little to no chance they can continue the affair.

Leo and Sagittarius? Three words … Get A Room! Both fire signs, these two will burn the house down (in a good way) when they meet. It’s only a matter of mutual understanding for this relationship to go beyond sexual. A Leo is very open to one night stands which is okay for a Sag but the latter might want more than just one night without he lion.

Virgos play around a lot but they are sexual and romantic the Sag might want to keep them. Virgos are a keeper. They, normally, already know what they want and they will tell you but it won’t stop them from experimenting either. Just for the heck of it.

Libras are as flirtatious and social as a Sag. They are as sexual too. A one night stand could easily turn into a an affair and even more.

A Scorpio is one of the most sexual signs so it will be an adventure for the Sag. They can be sex partners but the Scorpio usually wants more than that so if these two are friends they might want avoid going there. One night stands between them will be explosive though.

Sagittarius and Sagittarius? Need I say more?

Capricorns might look prude or too boxed in on the outside but they can be the best sex partners a Sag can have. Capricorns are willing to learn but most of the times they already know what there is. Although emotionally they are not compatible, a Capricorn knows how to rock Sags world.

Aquarius and Sagittarius are an exciting pair. They both love having fun in and out of the bedroom and they don’t like rushing into things. This love affair (or sexual affair if you must) can last a long time and eventually lead into something more serious.

Like Cancer, a Pisces might be too emotional for a Sag. Sexually Pisces can be erotic and very sensual. They will have fun with the Sag but not for long. The problem is that they won’t tolerate a Sag’s flirty nature.

What Type Of Sagittarius Are You?

The Sagittarius typecast is that they are often extroverted and crazy party goers. They like to have fun above everything else and are not very big on commitment. Not all Sagittarius are the same, though. Some Sags can be the opposite of what they are known for so, naturally, they can also be introverted and shy. That can make things a bit more complicated if you want a shot a specific Sag and are trying to figure out how to act around them by consulting the stars. If people can only be defined by their zodiacs the world would be a better place. Heh. Of course we can always try to do something about it. The easiest explanation is the day or week the person is born. So let’s look at each of those.

A bit of info first, Sagittarius people are those born from November 22 to December 21. There is the thing called a cusp, though. This is the first and last few days of the zodiac that they share with the other 2 zodiacs before and after them. So in this case, Scorpio (before Sag) and Capricorn (after Sag). People born anytime during November 19 to 24 are a Scorpio – Sagittarius cusp so they characteristics of both signs and those born on December 19 to 25 are Sagittarius – Capricorn cusp. Moving on …

The first week (November 19-24) is the week of Revolution. This is sort of the turn around time. It is when?things are developing into something else. Again, people born on these dates share some Scorpio and some Sagittarius characteristics. The strengths or most outstanding characteristics of people born on these dates are their loyalty (so yes, Sagittarius people can commit too!), gutsy (their love for taking risks) and the way they are usually ecstatic and full of energy. These are the more quiet type of Sagittarius.

The second week pertains to the week of Independence. These are people born on November 25 – December 2. They are the more responsible type of Sagittarius. Honor is a big thing for them and they are the type that tries everything to prove themselves. They take care of themselves and do not depend on anyone to look after them and although Sagittarius are usually seen as selfish, they can be intuitive too and sensitive to others feelings. They are very much capable of taking care of their loved ones.

Week three is the week of the Originator. These are the talented and creative type of Sagittarius. They can come off as unusual but that is the ingenious that is in them. They posses a passion for arts and every beautiful things around them and can come up with great ideas no matter if it’s for work or just something they want to do for fun. This week is from December 3 to 10.

The week of the Titan is the fourth week so think big! The most common characteristics of people born on December 11 to 18 is their confident nature. They know confidence can make them get better results in things they do. They have ambitions and they try to reach for it. At the same time they try not to forget people that have helped them along they way. They also have a big heart and try to help other people who are trying to reach their own goals.

The last week which is also a cusp is the cusp of prophecy. From December 19 to 25 these people can be quiet like the Scorpio – Sag cusp but they are more of observers and psychics. They are very intuitive and try to understand things but people finds it hard to do the same to them. They are inscrutable and are somewhat mysterious.

So there you have it, a little more insight into the Sagittarius people.

The Weak Points Of A Sagittarius

The Centaur. The mighty Archer. Two symbols that represent the Sagittarius zodiac. Both signifies strength, power and wisdom. This zodiac is suitable for alpha males; people who are born leaders or posses high ranking positions. Socially, the Sagittarius carries him/herself well. They are what you call the life of the party. People like to be around them. Clever and witty, they also normally excel in their chosen field or at least perform very well at the things they do. The level of their confidence takes them a long way. They have varied interests that takes them around the world. On the front, a Sagittarius seem to be perfect. The ideal person everyone is looking for. But there are a few weak points that one needs to know before they decide if they want to be with an Archer.

It’s not always going to be parties and good times. There will be a few bumps in the road before one can finally say you think you may love happily ever after and whether they are big or small depends on the person who’s dealing with it.

The Sag is a traveler. He is active and has varied interests. This is considered a good attribute but in the long run may be a problem. The Sagittarius tend to be restless. They like going from one place to another because their feet just itches to go out and explore. It’s unlikely for them to stay put at one place for a long time. They don’t like staying home much because Sagittarius gets bored easily. If they live in the city they will constantly go out to meet people to have fun with. In the outskirts they may just decide to go back packing one day and see how far up the trail on the hill goes. A person with a Sagittarius should not expect to have him stay indoors for too long. Go on vacation maybe twice a year or make sure regular night outs are on the calendar to keep them entertained.

A carefree attitude can be cute but the Sag tends to overdo it. That characteristic can easily turn to being irresponsible and reckless. A developed Sagittarius knows when to take things seriously but the inexperienced ones just don’t know when to stop. Good thing they are mutable so they can be steered to the right direction. One must make sure they’re up to guiding a these devil-may-care bunch if they want to get to their destination.

One of the biggest Sagittarius trait that may cause them problems is their flirtatious nature. They are very aggressive (whether male or female) in bars and would approach the first person that would catch their attention and they won’t stop there. A Sag is a visual person and their eyes will roam around. They don’t have a problem dating 2 (or more) people at the same time and that can get messy.

The Sag lacks commitment. A person with the Sag should make sure things are clear and in black and white. They are highly intellectual people but relationships and commitments are not their forte.

Things To Do When The Sun Is In Sagittarius

Literally, the sun brings light, heat and energy to the planets that revolve around it. It’s a very essential thing that provides life. In Astrology, it is that and so much more. The sun over Sagittarius means a lot of things that are mostly positive. This means one should take advantage of that.

Take note, this is not only for people with the Sagittarius zodiac sign. The sun affects all zodiacs but how it does so depends on which sign. Here are few things you should be aware of next time you hear the sun is hovering over the Archer this month.

1) Take A Risk. We all know the Sagittarius is a natural risk taker. He likes the thrill it brings especially if he thinks he might bag the prize. So if there’s a better time to “Go For It”, it’s when astrologers say the sun is in Sagittarius. If you’ve been contemplating about a new business venture or an idea that might improve work then do it. Trust serendipity to bring you something pleasant but unexpected. Audition for a community play and you might just get the lead spot! It can be anything, really. Just something that would add up a bit of spice to your usual grind.

2) Take On A New Adventure. Again, another thing to bring excitement to your daily routine. Take a hike, ride a bike, try bungee jumping or jumping off a plane. That may sound extreme but you get the drift. It’s all about trying things you’ve never done or haven’t even thought of. Travel and learn. Go somewhere you’ve never been before. Experience different cultures and traditions, first hand. Get out of the house and have fun!

3) Explore Your Creative Side. This in itself can be a new adventure for anyone. The Sagittarius is known to value freedom and not only in relationships. Freedom is a way of thinking so expressing ideas is, in a way, freeing yourself. Either through business or personal matters, there is a way to exercise this. You pick something you’re really good at like, drawing or writing and practice with it. You can share your ideas with others and make them think too. This way you can have someone to explore with and think of other great things to meddle with.

4) Shape Up. The sun plays a vital role in your health when it’s in Sagittarius. Go and ride the not only physical and mental vigor of the Archer. This is the time to either sign up for health classes or just go out of the house and job around the neighborhood to avoid being stagnant. If you’re already in a program you may feel the need to take it up a notch. Athletes for example can go up on a more hardcore training to increase endurance. Mentally, you can attend work shops and go on retreats to achieve inner peace and relax. The sun is usually associated with the heart, circulatory system and the immune system so you would want to be careful with those. If you are a hardcore partier you might want to change your lifestyle a bit to save yourself from further health problems.

5) Socialize. The Archer is known to be friendly and light hearted. They can get along and be friends with almost anybody so go out and meet friends. Get a hold of your old friends and renew your bond, do the things you used to do together and try some new ones. Also, meet new friends either through the old ones or from whatever social gathering you attend. Say hi to the person sitting on the table beside yours at the coffee shop. Or the next person you stand beside with at the veggie section at the grocery. You might have the same things in common that can be a start of something special.

There are endless possibilities that open up to a person everyday. The key is to know when to do something about it. The sun in Sagittarius just might be the time.

Good Vacation Spots For A Sagittarius

If you are an Archer then you would know that the farther the destination the better. If you’re not then this is what you have to remember if you plan to take a Sagittarius to a trip. Sagittarians have a lot of passion for exotic places and different cultures. In horoscopes there are 12 houses that actually represent different spheres in life. The Sagittarius is in the 9th house which is also called the House of Long Distance Journeys.  For them traveling not only means adventure but also learning new things along the way. Things they won’t encounter on a daily basis.

The usual destination and activities are beaches, camping, hiking on the hills or fishing. Anything that they can do on the great outdoors. A true, blue Sagittarian wouldn’t stop there though. The mighty Archer loves to travel. They love being in Paris but won’t mind going to third world countries too. Anything that can happen during the trip will be charged to experience. It’s all part of the adventure.

Now, most people, when planning for a vacation would go to an island resort, a nice hotel up in the mountains or another city not much different from their own. Sagittarians like to spice things up a little though. They like doing things spontaneously or even just go some usual place and just have fun. Here are some of the places that might interest an Archer looking to learn and have a little adventure and a deep sense of culture and traditions.

1)      The Rockies, Yellow Stone Park or the Grand Canyon. For starters. These are very popular places to go camp out or stay with family or a good group of friends to the just hang out and enjoy the wonders that nature provided.

2)      Morocco, Cuba, Philippines. Visiting or even living in a third world country is not something for everyone. It may sound bad for some but it is an adventure for a Sagittarian. They are not all that bad but the Archer will be curious as to how things work there. How the people are, what a hundred dollar is worth and how far they can get you, what the markets look like, what the beaches look like or what night life is like. These are some of the things that they would want to experience. These countries are also filled with culture and traditions and this would interest Sagittarians very much. In visiting a third world country they won’t only be able to know these things like what books or a teacher s relay, they will also be able to experience it.

3)      Egypt, Jordan, Petra, Israel, Nazareth. Religious and very historical places. A person doesn’t have to be religious or be on a pilgrimage to go to these places. They don’t even have to be Christians. Just try and see how it feels to go to those famous churches or places that are linked to the Bible. Swim at the dead sea and know how it feels to just float effortlessly. Looking at their old architecture and imagining how the first cities look like and how people used to live like.

What Sign is Most Compatible with a Sagittarius Male

The male Archer is very approachable and easy to get along with. They are fun, happy people and are easy to impress. On the other hand, they can get turned off easily too. Sagittarians are known to be flirts and get bored easily whether it be from an activity, event or a person so be sure to have enough tricks up your sleeve when you’re together. Sagittarius men look for fun people like them or someone who can understand their love of freedom and share their passion for living life. Someone who can party with him till dawn would probably be on top of the list although in the end, the Sagittarius male would look for someone he can share more than a good laugh with but also intellectual conversations and serious plans for the future. Here are the compatible signs with the male Archer.

Sagittarius Male with a Sagittarius Female. Being born under the same sign, these two will have a lot in common. Neither of them will be too emotional which is good because that turns the male Sagittarian off. This is one big factor because Sagittarians can be blunt to the point of tactlessness at times and a sensitive woman will not be very tolerant with this. It’s important as well that they have the same interests and positive outlook in life. This will give both of them the drive to continue with what they are planning or had already started.

Sagittarius Male and Aries Female. These two have a lot of things in common and that’s a very good start. An Aries female loves her independence too and will understand the Sagittarian’s need to hang out with his buddies watching football on a sports bar on a Sunday. An Aries can go with the flow being also born under the fire sign. They will be there for each other but at the same time give each other enough space to grow. This way, male Archer also won’t be mindful of the female Arian’s achievements knowing at some point he was the one who helped and pushed her to do what she’s doing right. Playful as they are, they will think of something else to do for sure.

Sagittarius Male and Aquarius Female. For one, the lady water carrier (Aquarius) values her freedom as much as the male Archer does. If you go and hang out with your friends she will make sure she has as much fun with her girl friends as much as you do with your buddies. There is a very strong attraction between these two. Since the Aquarian is a female, Jupiter ruled Sagittarius will get along fine with the feminine water carrier.

Sagittarius Male and Leo Female. Both fire signs, these two will also hit it off. They can be considered an ideal match if not perfect. One of the things that they need to work on is what a Sagittarius says in front of a female Leo. Leo’s can be sensitive at times but can get over it easy too. Once they are able to remove this road block, they can go from one point to the other seeing eye to eye. One of the best things the female Lion can give the male Archer is inspiration to do what they have always been thriving for. The female lion will support the Sagittarian’s ideas in any way she can.

Sagittarius Male and Libra Female. Both intellectual, the Libra female can entice the Sagittarius male with a very juicy conversation or even an argument.  This combination is perfect as far as their planet signs. A Sagittarius is born under the planet Jupiter which makes them masculine and a Libra is born under the planet Venus is feminine.  Their differences are actually some of the things that make them a good combination. A Libra woman can offer the Sagittarius more than companionship but they can also share goals and work on those together.

What Sign Is Most Compatible With A Sagittarius Female

Sagittarius women are fun and flirtatious but can also be intellectual and deep. It takes a while for them to commit but once they do, they are very loyal partners and will honor that commitment. Sagittarians look for people who either have a lot of things in common with them or someone who can make them experience something new continuously. They love to party and have fun so they wouldn’t settle for just about anyone. Below are some of the best romantic matches for a Sagittarian female.

Aries Male. This is perhaps the best match for a Sagittarius female. The female Archer may like to flirt but an Aries male won’t be too possessive of her because both of them love meeting and hanging out with new people. These two will throw great parties or small gatherings that all of their guests will enjoy. They are both intellectual types too although an Aries male will be more passionate about an issue than the Sagittarius female might be. Usually Sagittarians are the last to commit to anything but if Aries can keep them interested (which they can) the female Archer will soon be accustomed to a more long term relationship. Because of a lot of similarities between the two of them, they will have a very harmonious relationship and can lead to a marriage made in heaven.

Leo Male. Leos are creative and idealistic. That is probably the biggest advantage that they have in winning a Sagittarian female’s heart. Leo’s have a very bright outlook in love and life. He is intellectual and philosophical like the Sagittarian. They too have a lot in common. A Leo is a fixed sign while Sagittarius is mutable. It will be easy for a Leo to manipulate or drive a Sagittarian towards a goal that he thinks is best for the two of them. This is one sign that a carefree Sagittarian female will work with. Leos are born to be leaders and a Sagittarian is easy to guide. In bed, Leos like things spontaneous. This works for a Sagittarius because spontaneity is her middle name. The biggest possible problem they will encounter is that the Sagittarian female can sometimes say things a Leo does not care to share with just about anyone. If they can fix these little differences then expect another long term relationship from these two.

Aquarius Male. Aquarius males make fun look like double the actual fun he gets. This is another air sign and air can guide the fire sign Sagittarius to the way they want. There will be little jealousy on this relationship because both love meeting new people and partying until the wee hours of the morning. An Aquarius guy might have a detached nonchalant attitude about things which is fine with a female Sagittarius.

Libra Male. The air sign Libra is more focused and likes to be in control. The Sagittarius female, which is also a fire sign, would let him take the reign and guide her to the direction he wants to take. The female archer will never get bored with the ever changing ideas of a male Libran. She will find it exciting since she is a risk taker and Librans would not stop her from her adventurous ways.

Sagittarius Male. Both signs can make great partners in crime. They know how each other are and what each other like so it will be easy for them to adjust and in most cases they don’t have to adjust anymore since they understand where each other are coming from. They both love to party and have fun. They are idealists, creative, loves living life and has a passion for freedom and space. This relationship will be like a roller coaster but will also be worth it for the two of them.

Keep Your Sagittarius Relationship Interesting

You finally got your ideal mate so the question now becomes: how do you keep your Sagittarius partner? It doesn’t stop at getting the Sagittarius person you’ve been targeting. You might have seduced them or got them to date you but what’s going to keep them with you? Among all the zodiacs people born under the Sagittarius sign are the easiest to get bored. It goes the same in relationships.

Sagittarians aren’t really players; they can be the most faithful partners. But they need to be constantly on the go. There has to be a variety in everything they do and everything they have. When in a relationship, Sagittarius tries their best to make it work out. So it’s just fair to do the same thing for them. Don’t be a lazy partner. In general, if you want something work on it. It’s a two way process so you have to remember to give as much as you take.

The horoscope said Sagittarius people are happy people. They are fun, are always full of laughter and very active. Start there and figure out fun things you can do together. Take a married couple for example. After a few months of being together they stop going out regularly and the honeymoon stage ends. They either concentrate on work or stay home during their free time to watch TV together. They start to build a secure family that they forget to work on their relationship as well. The “honeymoon stage” doesn’t really need to end. It was just a term that people made up. Try to go back to how you were before when you started dating. How does that feel? You get butterflies on your stomach? You feel excited every time you go on a date? That’s how it should always feel. Don’t stop doing the activities you used to do when you were just dating if both of you still enjoy doing that. Or try something new too. A Sagittarius partner will get bored if he or she comes home and all you have to talk about are the bills you need to pay or the roof you have to get fixed or what’s up in the latest reality TV show.  Now if you said you’ve signed up both of you in that reality TV show then that would get their attention.

Pay attention to the little things. When dating it’s natural to compliment your date about the clothes they wear. About the effort they went through just so they can come up with a romantic date. Once in a relationship people forget to notice these small things. It said in a song that: “it’s those little things that mean so much” and it’s true.

It all boils down to the fact of both of you keeping your relationship as hot and as exciting as when you were first dating. The flowers, small tokens, candle light dinners, out of town trips (jus the two of you) doesn’t have to end just because you’re married and already have kids or you already feel secure about the relationship.

Getting Your Sagittarius Partner Back

Bringing back someone who left you is not an easy task. It’s not even an easy decision. So you don’t only think of ideas on how to get your Sagittarius partner back, you also have to figure out why they left in the first place and how to make them stay after.

Reasons. If your Sagittarius partner decided to end your relationship, chances are, they are feeling caged in. Sagittarians value their freedom. Once they feel the walls are closing in on them they will head for the door and won’t look back. Not saying this is the only thing that would make them walk. But it’s the biggest factor. Generally, Sagittarians can be impatient, wild, and are afraid of commitment. They are playful and flirtatious and if you voice out your concerns and let them know you feel insecure or jealous they will lose their interest. You have to have fun with them because all those flirting are just that, flirting. If a Sagittarius wants to end a relationship, they will tell you. If they don’t do that, there’s nothing to worry about.

This is the same as being clingy. Sagittarians are independent. Naturally, they will want their partners to be independent. Just like them. They will start feeling nervous and might even panic if all your decisions depend on what they want or what they need. If you think you should do this because you want to make them feel or to know they are important to you … STOP. If you’re deciding on something, whether it be big or small, just either make a decision first, tell them, and ask: “what do you think?” or “hey I’d like to get your opinion on this”. For them, getting their opinion is better than making them decide themselves. Also, since Sagittarius people are carefree, and yes sometimes careless, making them feel things rely on their decisions will be scary for them. They are independent people but looking after others can be strenuous if they’re not ready to do that.

Getting A Sagittarius Partner Back. Stalking your Sagittarius ex and sending them countless of messages and gifts won’t bring them back. You can’t make it happen right away. So don’t push it. Be patient in planning and executing the things you should do. For one, act nonchalant about it. You don’t have to act like you don’t care. Just say you’re okay with it if he thinks it is best (even if you’re not). Offer to be friends with him/her. That way you won’t lose touch and will still know what’s going on even if you’re not together.

Now one of the most important things to do is to love yourself. It may sound cheesy but it’s the truth. Sagittarius people will not give importance to people who do not think of themselves as important. Be selfish if you must. It’s not always that bad. People in a relationship generally makes does things to please their partner. Just take time off to pamper yourself and do the things that you want and don’t think about what he wants or what he may think about it. You’re not in a relationship anymore so what he thinks should not matter, really.

Build up your confidence again. Chances are, you broke up because you were feeling insecure and he knows it. Sagittarius people are very attracted to confident women. He wants someone he can take with him anywhere and not worry that she might not fit it.

All of these boil down to defining yourself. Boost your self-worth, feel important and be important. Respect yourself. If you don’t do that no one will. Make them feel like it’s their loss and not yours. If you take care of your own needs, stop being clingy and start feeling attractive they will find you attractive again, they will look at you again and who knows, they might want a second change again. If it’s meant to be it will happen.