Sometimes a Sagittarius seem to possess a multi-layered personality that it’s hard to know how to act around them. He may have that come what may attitude but he can also be an intense and dedicated lover. He’ll constantly spring up with new ideas and activities that would keep you on your toes. He’ll surprise you with home cooked meals and small tokens for gifts when he feels like it. If you have a Sagittarius partner you will know that they are a romantic through and through. You will also know that they can sometimes do something different from what they say. Not that they’re fickle, they just act on impulse most of the times and rely on their instincts. So even if they planned to do something with you over the weekend it could still change depending on his mood.
This varying persona creates a confusion as to what the Archer expects or needs from a partner. But observing his different activities and moods will also give you an insight on how to interact with him and give him what he needs. It’s actually that simple.
For starters, you have to have a sharp brain. You’ll notice how he takes a liking to philosophical and intellectual movies, books, or any other type of media. He likes solving puzzles and won’t stop until he figures something out. In this case you should also stimulate your brain and smarten up to make sure you keep up with him. He’d like someone of the same intellectual capacity. He’d get bored if he can’t talk to you about the thing that interests him.
Sports and socializing. Odd combination? Not really. He’s a very physical guy with a lot of energy to spend so make sure he spends it the way that would benefit you both. It’s never too late to learn a sport. If he offers to take you with him or teach you how his sport go for it. If he doesn’t then ask if you can. If you’re not a sporty type of person just try. Who knows, you might actually like it. If you decide you don’t both of you can try a new sport. Something both of you may like. And if all else fails, you can always go to his game with his friends and cheer for him. You can meet his friends’ girlfriends too. As for socializing, this in itself is energy consuming. But there are also activities that will help you socialize. Dancing for example. Go out and party with him. It could be with your friends and his friends or just the two of you hitting the club making mew friends. He’d like that. He likes to meet new people so encouraging him to do so by going with him would make him love you more.
Sex. Not just lots of it. A variety of it. You may say he’s a guy and it’s a given. Although this is true, keep in mind that the Archer likes trying out new things. Keep him on his toes by surprising him with a sensual massage or a quickie in the club bathroom. If that’s too much for you try a lap dance at home. If you’re scared of upsetting him by going overboard you can always ask him what he wants. :p
Lots of trust and long patience. He needs these from you. He can be crass at times but remember that he doesn’t mean to hurt you. He can just be honest and would rather go straight to the point than beat around the bush. Also remember that it takes forever for a Sag guy to commit so if he’s with you … that means a lot.
Yep! Try to tell that to my lame brain scorpio girlfriend of 5 years. LoL
Love, truth and understanding.
True its like I wrote this myself.
It frustrates me to see a Sagittarius+ Scorpio relationship working out. It doesn’t seem very fair.
……speechless. the stars can tell us everything we need to know. we just need to know how to read and decipher them
Me
This is not all true about the Sagittarius men, they are a handfull and don’t forget bipolar at times… Oh Lord help me, I can go on and on. I’ve been with my Sagittarius for a total 11 years.
This is me!!!!! Well 4 da most part…
Sag + Scorp relationships don’t. I has first hand experience / knowledge.
This perfectly describes me…..getting my wife to understand this , is the riddle of a lifetime..
I’m married to a sag , together for seven years, blowing hot and cold like hell, making remarks about me to friends, and about other woman as if I should hear what he tells me and what he don’t, I. Don’t trust him, he lies like he’ll I feel and blame me for every thing under the sun, Is all my fault, .don’t know if I should leave, he don’t even talk to me
Saggitarius guy let me down 6 times after agreeing to meet me,
we exchanged pics, txt messages, he even called me 3 times and spoke on the phone. he also said i was the only one and he really wants to meet me and have fun with me, date me and keep it going. I really really like him and everytime we confirm the date and time to meet, he stops txting and keeps quiet for few days. Then he starts messaging me and it has happened over and over about 6 times now. I am confused, hurt and dont know what to think or do but i really want to meet him and dont want to give up yet but is it worth waiting for him? pls reply. thanks
Buttercup, please continue…im lost!!!#Gemini
I am engaged to a Sagittarius man, and I’m a Taurus. Not only are we not soused to be together as per every compatibility chart I’ve ever come across, he also defies the stereotypical Sag in most ways. He is slender and witty, loves to cook, and is spontaneous… but is a homebody, and would rather stay at home and read than go out with friends. He has absolutely no interest in sports, either. He has a very strong family influence of Pisces and Scorpio, and has more traits of both than his own, in my opinion. Before you get wrapped up in his “sign”, more people should pay attention to who they were raised with, how they were nurtured, etc. Once I found out my sweetie was a Sag, I lost interest, due to my ignorant compatibility beliefs. There is much more to it, than that! I’m glad I took a chance.
Sag.& torque together 20 years now¡ (go figure? ¿????? I must omit I did sumitt * it just goes to show ;
You never know till you get there ••••and were still not 5here ! I guess together we’re a saggatoraus *
Wow, I’m at a loss for words here. This is me to the “T”. Kinda of freaking me out a bit.
Hello, I’ve been knowing a sag for 7 months now. We met while allowing our kids to play at mc’donalds. We seem to have a lot in common and had a lot of fun chatting. Before we parted he said since the kids had so much fun getting along, why don’t we let them play again? I said sure. The second time we met he expressed to me how he thought I was a fun and exciting person. I thought the same so we started seeing each other. It wasn’t long before I started to see he was very moody and short sometimes with me. One thing I can say is, when he says he’s going to do something he follows through. Can be very sweet or very bitter too. I want to know if he’s worth sticking around for?
Buttercup. I have been with a sagittarius for 11 years and they are Non comital. I am an Aquarius so I give him loads of space. Sometimes so much so that he hates it. another thing foe women who get with them. They are very, very unfaithful. So you either love them. Or leave them. and Mandy, My Sag is just like yours! lol
I see all kind of astrology that says Sags don’t get along with Virgo as well. I am a Virgo and have many sag friends, co-worker I always get along with them. I know about 5 couples who are Sag-Virgo too.
My opinion..Sags are not liars. They do believe a lie of omission is not a lie. They do have to go with their mood. This can be frustrating as hell. They are a complete pain in the rear. They are also charming, sweet, thoughtful, and a lot of fun.
Don’t make plans that are too solid. Give them a list not an ultimatum.Try to resist the urge to control them and you will have a great friend, lover ….
Cherish life, stay away from SAGITTARIUS MAN!!!!
AVA… I’m in total agreement with you on that! They’re jerks and inconsiderate idiots. Its like u give them everything they ask for and don’t show or express any appreciation or concern. I’m glad I was surfing the web and found this exact blog wow… Smh! Im a Gemini just not compatible with the dumb Sag too bad lol
Poor little Tulip…. I understand what u mean its almost as if he doesn’t care at all. It leaves you frustrated, overwhelmed even without sleep but if you’re not happy cut the cord. However don’t be fooled by talk allow him to show u he wants to change.
Hahaha i have a crush on a sag, im a crab(cancer) he is very cool and sweet n spends more time with me than his gf..im falling for him
My Sag lies like nothing else all the while saying that as a Sag it’s his nature to tell the truth even if it means putting his foot in his mouth. He loves socializing with women…meeting them online, for lunch, going out to dinner, to the movies, dancing, going over their place, gets late night texts and calls. He just draws attention like a magnet. He thinks I don’t know about these “outings”. If I question about what he was doing, I’m being clingy and suspicious and run the risk of loosing him by not giving him his space or it was a male friend and he was with the boys. I’m sorry, but blaming me for smelling crap when you’re doing crap is ludicrous.
I have two kids by a sag and have been with him since 2002. We have broken about six times and we just broke up again. I’m done, you can’t win with a sag. Everything was always my fault no matter how good I was to him. They are mean and want to control everything. Dnt ever
Goodmorning my fiance is a sag and hes nutts. Hes so demanding. We have known eachorher since 09 and he has changed. Best sex partner! They are huge freaks and yes I think they can be liars. He say alot of things out of anger maybe…. What else when their focused they work hard to achieve. But at the sametime hes the best I ever had. Im a taurus 427
I crushed on a sagittarius, we became friends, we lived together… NEVER slept together, when he gave me the keys to his apt&car, he gave me the key to his heart. We’re members of the same church, went to college together, his parents LOVE ME and treat me as their own. All of his friends respect me, of course the females are envious, but I never cared; because I know who I Am in his life. Ironic, 2 1/2 years after being bestfriends, we became intimate, and still to this day (4yrs and counting) we’re still friends who love, support, respect, and unconditional with one another. I really don’t think zodiac matters, it’s the chemistry between two people that isn’t forced, but comes naturally. Compliment one another, grow together, learn from one another. Be honest & true about everything you do, and everything/body will either fall in line, or fall behind…
I’m a libra, two years older than my Sag
#Balanced
I grew up in the same neighborhood as my Sag but never hung out. 35 years later we connected thru common friends. I’m a Virgo and sometimes feel like I can read him like a book. He is attentive, compliments me, is supportive and basically woes me daily. I like to say he feeds my soul. I do catch him in innocent little lies but find that when he lies it is usually to impress me rather than any form of maliciousness. My guy is very verbal and processes his decision making out loud. I have had to learn that just because he says, for example, “I found a great car”, doesn’t mean he is planning on purchasing it. When he actually tells me something he follows thru to the letter. And so far I have no reason to mistrust his integrity. Like the article indicates, he loves sports but isn’t wrapped up in it like most guys. He does live and breathe music and sometimes communicates with it. Movies also seem to be a topic of important conversation for him. Sometimes I feel like he knows to much movie and music trivia but have learned that his brain just works that way. It files useless information to me but since it is important to him I try to keep up on the conversation when he wants to share the details. He tells me he has a temper but I haven’t seen anything indicating that he does. In fact one thing I find endearing about him is that he is so mature in disagreements. We actually talk about the problem. No resulting in shouting or derogatory words. As for sex, we are getting older (55 and 52), so this may not be important. I want it constantly and he is more every other day. He is excellent so that might be why. My Sag guy is all man. Burps and other boy noises are part of his makeup. I grew up with brothers so the trade off isn’t a big deal. I respect him for all that he is. I think one of the reasons we are so close is because I have tried from the beginning to give him respect. Compliment him when I am honestly impressed and not blow smoke. I support him when he has a bad day and remind him of his gifts for handling those bad days. I let him be a man, give him what ever space he needs. I especially do not try and direct him. He made it this far in life and doesn’t need my direction. Strangely he craves connecting with me me several times during the day just to say he loves me. I think my respect for him has something to do with this. If you don’t chain a man he will come to you freely. Sorry if this was long winded but I love my Sag guy and this forum is perfect to discuss his personality that sometime is very hard to grasp in other environments.
I can honestly say when I first met my Sagittarius man, he swept me off my feet. He took me on adventures and kept me busy. He could talk for hours and just keep me on my toes and feet. Bitter sweet two or three months into the relationship it all just changes. He’s got a temper from hell, he tries to be controlling, very jealous. He will say mean things when angry and I mean hurtful things. He’s a good looking man and he’s a charmer. I will definitely have to say… I am a sagittarius myself and yes, I am pretty stubborn I’ve always been in control of my relationships, but not with him. I want to stick around because I know what he is capable of and i’m hoping for change with a Sagittarius man don’t even think about controlling them or locking them down, because it will push them even further, and that is my problem I need to learn to give him his freedom. Like I said I’m a Sagittarius woman and I love my freedom as well, but I guess it’s just the beginning and I feel like i’m too attached to him.
I’m an aquarius (I believe i spelled that wrong) and I completely understood that. It wasn’t that hard to understand.
Im a sag guy heres the thing we r very blunt honest and intesnse in everything we do but at the same time dont take things too serious we wanna have our mates focus on our positves n we’ll reciprocate w that same energy we r total freaks who need lots of sweetness(towards us we eat it up) n attention nsex if u cant provide that while at the same time allowing our space n to b ourselves then theres ur problem n the problems start if I trust u u can trust me cuz if u provide n love we will never cheat or go out on u but believe me we enjoy life n talking to ppl n its in a totally harmless conversation hope this helps dont give up ladies we love love n will b all urs if ur all ours
I’m reading the comments and wow I personally feel hated XD Stay away from sags, they are unfaithful idiots and the worst. Let me tell you sag haters, you simply found a bad person. Don’t let one sag destroy your image of sag, unfaithfulness and all the lies is born from these 2 if ya ask me: unsatisfaction and boredom. Don’t twist yurh neck trying to please us but attempt to adapt to us and learn what makes that individual sagittarius. No, sags are not perfect I can vouch I have many faults, but nor should we be treated like diseases. Sags want love and excitement, we want loyalty but please don’t be a clingy leech. I can vouch again that truth honesty and loyalty are a must for sags. If we lie, it may be to protect you. If we are unhonest, it might be we are afraid of telling the truth in case it leads to loss or a head/heart ache. If we are unloyal(unfaithful), it means the current relationship is unpleasing to us. Sagittarius are not the black death! So have faith there’s a good sag out there or look towards another star. That’s all I got to say
Again I love this site.
its’ funny that I have already had these experiences with other signs. Like my favorite cousin is a Capricorn but I can’t date any men of that sign. My ex of 4 yrs live-in and 10 yrs live-in and out is a Gemini and just crushed me to death by cheating. True to my nature I blocked it out and moved on to the next.
What I have just realized is that I have never dated another Sagittarius. I’m 29 yrs old (11-27-1983) and I thought it was just ME who acted like this; high sexually desires, change of careers, blunt speaking, adventurous, thirst for knowledge and spontaneity.
Now I know that I was looking in all the wrong places.
Well…I’m a Sagittarius …and for the women who has nothing but negative comments …we are a handful to those who are weak and pushovers …we’re hunters of life live knowledge and trust….we lie to not hurt…bad trait…but we learn to be honest to those who aren’t afraid to encourage or endorse our truthfulness …because we can be brutal in our honesty…so if you’re a woman with a backbone….we’d respect you faster than one who’s the opposite!!!
Been with my sagi 4 over 4yrs. Broke up mani times. we been evrywhere in this relationship. We so weird together bt 4 some reson we good together as well . I’m a pisces.
I am a Sag, and so is my man…..he is nothing like how some of you, are describing your Sagittarius mates…..this is the best relationship i have ever been in….i swear we are soulmates….our chemistry and our bond is crazy…..
Sag men, never never never date a Scorpio woman. Trust me, sex is GREAT, but u WiLL regret it in the end when it’s all said and done.
I dated a sag for a few months. They are non committal. Definitely don’t make plans with them because they go based on their mood. One thing though, he was the best sex ever. Definitely freaks but they seem to not know what they want. Jumping from one relationship to another. Flirts with every girl. I could go on & on. Only best thing about our so called relationship was the sex. I’m a Taurus by the way. Learned later that our signs are not compatible.
Sound is not a fact. I no what I am because I’m me. What someone sounds like is misleading and not a fact. Emotion you can feel and you cannit assume what someone else feels correctlyI have known a women of the various signs in relatioships. And I think this blog hits off my likes. The problem with women and mainly the opposite personalities is that most people think within thier own needs. And do try and dont really try and be considerate of what makes the other partner tick. If you plan on trying to change a sagitarrious partner your in for a surprise. We are rebellious, free spirited people who recent control. Dont try and mislead us, we are intellegent enough to figure out your manipulations. Honesty you will read about us on many of sites. Advice to other signs that are set in your own ways. Don’t play the emotional game. Sagittarious have better thinga to do than concern themselves with nonsense. Truth and knowldege with have our own methods for finding the answers. dont think we are not observing your behavior. We are not arrogant, and lots of us are humbe in the fact that thiers lots to learn.
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I know you “sag guy”. And your problem is…. being “urself” involves you going outside your (so called) committed relationship/marriage to find what you feel that you are not getting at home. Where can you find the trust in that? You can never give what you are claiming to be able to give as a “sag”…nor can you expect to be given everything you need with false commitment. You falsepy commit to your significant other and your mistress. The “role playing” you require from your wife and mistress or mistresses will never be enough for you….its in your nature that it won’t be enough…and your lack of commitment puts you in a vicious cycle of trying to find what you feel you don’t have. Yeah you love love alright….and you all mine and I can be all yours….WHEN and IF you are ready for my role to call for it;)
Yes, all that I am reading here is true been
Married to a Sag male for 16 years
I am a Cancer woman and been able
To put up with him. Although cancers are
Known to be clingy I do allow him his free
dom and space. Yes sex is great but the
moods and tempers are something else.
I don’t really believe in horoscopes and astrology and what not but this took me vastly by surprise. Defined me to a tee. Bravo
Wow…. That’s all I have to say… I’m a libra woman (10/8) with a sagittarius guy and I must say, I agree with Day and Xavier. You definitely can’t be a pushover or they will lose interest. My sag started out super sweet and considerate, reserved, yes, but he was and still is great. He started doing the hot and cold stuff that was described by some of you, but you know what? You don’t give up. It hurt me, too, but I found out they do this to actually help. They see themselves getting close to someone and they retreat into their inner shell to assess and sort shit out. You don’t want to be around for when they do this and you want to leave them be while they do this, or hell yes, they will get freakin moody! If you want to do something to better a relationship but someone keeps bugging you while you’re doing it, wouldn’t you get irritated? He has my trust because he freakin earned it. I tested him and he passed every test. He had the opportunity to get me back for sleeping with another man or he could have at least made me THINK he did it to make me feel bad. He didn’t. He chose me over another girl when I was showing no interest and she was practically begging for his D. I lived with him for 2 months. In that time frame, he didn’t ONCE hang out with any other women, no doubt about it. I was there 24/7, I KNOW he didn’t do anything. I gave him space and he would text me, asking me what I was up to and if I would come hang out. Sagittarian men are not for the easily hurt, the quick to judge, the nonunderstanding and nonforgiving, the mentally inferior, the weak or the clingy. If you fit into ANY of these categories, don’t go for a sag. If you’re willing to listen and stand by him thru thick and thin, it can be a beautiful relationship. Not without it’s problems, but there is no such thing as a relationship without problems. We’ve gotten into yelling matches, we’ve called each other horrible things and we’ve insulted the shit out of each other… Then 30 minutes later, we’re apologizing to each other, even if we aren’t the one in the wrong. This doesn’t happen often, usually only under extreme stress. And if you’re there for him, you listen to listen to him, it will be over quickly. If you WANT commitment you have to give it. Keep things light and fun, don’t get too heavy into things until you KNOW how he feels, but let him know HE is the one you want. Do things for them, no matter how small (it’s the little things that count with sagi). If he asks you to please get him something to drink while you get up to use the bathroom, just do it. He will do it for you, too. Even if he DOESN’T ask you to do something, do it anyway or ask if he wants you to. There were plenty of times I’d just be chillin in his room and he’d come in with food he made for me, without me even asking. They are very kind and considerate people if you don’t use them and you reciprocate what they give. He used to always buy me food and drinks, even when I had money, because I always did it for him… LISTEN. If he mentions something he likes or you notice he always buys a certain kind of snack, get it for him. He will do the same for you. Just be genuinely kind and considerate and show that you really DO care and they will do the same. It will take a long ass time, but definitely worth it! I’m reaping the fruits of my labor now. I’ve gotten to the point with my sag that he doesn’t keep a damn thing from me. I’m the first person to know anything. They definitely do commit, but only to those of us that have some fight in us, like Xavier said… Sagittarian men only go after strong women. Mine is talking about moving me in with him, 2000 miles away from my homestate, he’s talking about kids, and family, about “us”, and helping me to succeed. This is the best relationship I’ve ever had. Sagittarius men are the freakin BOMB! And for those of you badmouthing them, you don’t deserve to find out. Definitely the sweetest most considerate man I’ve ever met. And I love his energy and adventurousness. He’s like a grown kid and I think it’s cute. ^^
I have been married to a Libra man and I am a capricorn woman for 21 years. The realationship has fizzled out. He is very good to me but we have no sex life. I have discussed this with my husband but nothing seems to change. I left my husband and met a sag guy. He charmed me and I moved in with him for 6 weeks. I was so happy. I was losing weight and I felt so alive. The sag. guy knew all about me and my husband from day one. The sag. guy I guess grew bored with me, I have no reason but he told me he thought I should get my own apartment and we would see each other. Well I couldn’t afford that at the time so I went back to my husband who was begging me to come back and that things would change. Well nothing has changed there, but the sag guy keeps in communication with me and I have went back and seen him about 4 times a year or so. The sag. guy is calling me and texting me again and wants to see me. I saw him for a few minutes at his work the other day but we have not gotten together. The sag. guy makes plans then changes them. My problem is I care for this sag guy I never told him but I do care for him deeply. I do not know if it would have worked out. Everything I read about the sag. guy tells me this is how he is. Anybody have any suggestion for me?
I’m a Capricorn and my guy is a Sag. This describes him to a tee. He’s the most honest man I’ve ever met, fun, very attentive, understanding, CRAZY! And he gets me like no other person on the planet. And I agree with the others who say Sag men go for strong, independent women. He told me that’s what he loves about me and yet, he’s incredibly nurturing and understanding of my vulnerability. They need and respect patience because, if you are who they want, they will be patient with you. Listen to his words, because they are very deliberate in how they speak. My guy is the epitome of what a man should be. He’s incredibly smart (and Sag men cannot stand the girls who have little or no intelligence–if you can’t keep up with him in conversation then there’s no use in flirting with him because he’s not interested. The most you’ll get is a one-night stand–MAYBE). But he still believes in chivalry and seduction and treating a lady like a lady.
Are there any Aries women dating Sagittarius man? I’ve never dated one, but met one recently and really like him. Reading all these horrors making me wonder, that Only incompatible zodiac signs complain about Sags. Want to know the opinion from women of Fire Sign such as myself.
look everybody nothing is perfect in this world. i am dating a sag from last 2 month and m a cancer and i know there is no compatibility between a sag and a cancer. But still we love each other the way u said he is very adventurous, he loves to make new friends and in fact sometimes he wants to be himself and in that duration i even call him or message him after some time he himself comes back to me. Girls true love happens only once in a life and if that true love is sag dont lose him. Have patience…
I’ve been with two Sagittarius men. I’m a gemini. They are carbon copies of each other. The best sex ever. With the first guy i was in love. We had a volatile relationship. He was my first everything. We were cheating with each other. Yes, Sagittarius cheat..alot. But so do I. I always cut contact with him. He always finds me..always. He told me I was the one who got away. I was his best friend and best lover. Likewise is true of him. I would never be in a relationship with this man. He’s not capable of a long, lasting relationship. But I never rule out sex. Sagittarius men like to explore and experiment. Me as a Gemini this is great. Because my current Sagittarius is so inexperienced and we have been doing some of my most freakiest fantasies. But I’m not caught up. Because like i said I’ve dealt with this kind before. They are heartbreakers, they’re the reason women hate men. They are charming liars. But they can’t outsmart me. Or outwit me. They have sly smiles and sneaky ways. Any woman would fall for it. Just know what you’re in for. Or if you’re only in it for sex like me, go for it. That’s the best experience. You won’t regret it.
Billy
Sagittaurus – that is what I am calling the name for me and my sag Beau