Living with a Sagittarius: How to Ensure Peace and Tranquility
Living with a Sagittarius is probably one of the most difficult things you will have to face. With their strong personality and hard driven career goals, you can expect to assume the majority of the work involved in raising the family. A Sagittarius often puts his career above his family in his or her struggle to succeed, and if you attempt to interfere with these goals and efforts you will lose the sense of peace and tranquility that exists in your home. There are many sacrifices you will expect to make in order to assure the longevity of the relationship or marriage, and you must be willing to make those sacrifices.
The adventurous nature of a Sagittarian will prevent him or her from being content to sit home and relax. He always needs something to do and will likely become involved in a great many sports activities. Your vacation time will be spent in spots where there are many activities: swimming, hiking, skiing, golf, horseback riding and the like. You will not interest a Sagittarian in sitting along the beach and soaking up the sun though swimming, surfing or waterskiing may be quite appealing.
What if you are not an active person by nature? Your relationship will go downhill quickly unless you learn to participate in some activities with your active partner. You cannot always spend time doing only those things that appeal to you without putting a strain on the relationship. There is a great deal of compromise involved in holding any relationship together, and this is especially true when you have two personalities so different. It can become any more difficult if there are incompatible signs involved—that leaves more obstacles a couple must overcome in order to make the relationship work.
Since the Sagittarius has such a strong and well-defined personality, you must be willing to accept him or her at face value. When you are dating do not expect things will change if you marry—this is untrue in any situation even with signs that are fully compatible. Be willing to assume the responsibility in any areas in which the Sagittarius fails or neglects to do his or her part. Remember although there will be deep love and commitment to spouse and children there is also the Type A personality that will also “marry” the career and spend time away from spouse and children to do so.
Maintaining peace and tranquility living with a Sagittarius means being willing to overlook the things he or she neglects and being content with the time you do spend together. Do not attempt to change your Sagittarian and allow him or her to pursue those activities that make him happy while participating in as many as you possibly can as a compromise. If you compromise instead of trying to force your partner to do so you will find life will run much smoother and both of you will be happier and more at ease with each other.
I’ve know so many nice Sagittarius, but as time go by I slowly realize what you write in this article is right. Some time they’re so difficult to deal with.
Thanks for the sharing
A Sagittarian will never want the person he/she loves to compromise.
I know exactly what you mean. I have a daughter who just turned 18 who’s Sagitarrius. She once was engaged recently, to a young man who’s a Cancer by sign, and she was always so strongwilled, had to be her way or no way, so alas, she lost him. She’s very impatient, demanding and most of the time so very hard to live with. I try to teach them all how to show respect to get respect but it’s always the same with her.
I’m a saggitarian female, the article above is true, though, I broke up with most of my botfriends because they’re trying to put me in a box,,, thanks for the article, hopefully lots of folks would read and fully understand saggitarians
I am a sagittarian myself 31 years and I have onyl been acctally in love once to a gemini I still love him and that was 10 years ago I live in agony because of it. I have been in other relationships since and I think I am falling head over heals in love but it sizzles out quickly, and I have a bad habit of staying in the relationship so the other person is happy, but when I want out I end up being blunt and it’s messy.
Ann better to have a strong willed daughter at least you know she will follow her mind. How many people are pushovers who are afraid to be true to themselves and at 18 that is awesome.
It’s true that Sagittarians can be strong-willed but don’t forget that they can also be fun… They usually have so many different interests/adventures that it’s hard to ever get bored (unless you try to put them in a routine/box or if you’re not active enough to keep up with them)…
I’m a Cancer female, engaged to a Sagittarian man.. and patience keeps me alive, somehow, luckily in Chinese horoscope, I was born under the sign of Dog, and my element is water.. so I also love to play, enjoy traveling, i have my own friends and living my own life I never complained about his career, since I have my own career too.. maybe sometimes there’s always an exception to astrological signs, called love
Question: Is there any Sagittarian women on here dating a virgo or has ever dated a virgo and how is it?
I am a Saggittarius and I would like to add that it depends on the person. We like to do our best at anything and everything. If we have a career we do like to do our best, in the same token if we have a family to raise then we like to do our best at that. When living with others, if they make the effort and take the time out to appreciate us by helping out in and out the house and find ways to take the time out and go out somewhere, things will go smoothly. And as for the anger, we like to share, but just be willing to replace things taken right away!! The problem most people have with us is that they take our kindness for a weekness and think that they are going to walk all over us, with a Sag our kindness is a strength and if it is not appreciated…….We will have to keep it real and let you know how we feel. If things don’t change you have to go!!..or we will.
Married to a Virgo for 24 years and it is hell. A work relationship is your best bet.
i’m a pisces married to a sagittarius with two kids and i completely agree with this my husband is in the military and where others take 2 hour lunches and leave and hour early at the end of the day he take 30 minutes and gets home thirty minutes late, and i have to do most of the work around the house and with the pets and kids cause when he isn’t working he wants to do something and thats not cleaning. lol but i love him and i couldn’t imagine being married to anyone else
Cancerian woman married to a Sagittarian man and to echo the lady above, it is hell. I don’t have patience, still working on it. He is totally glued to his career. I feel ignored. I am more on the romantic and emotional side and he is not at all. It is extremely hard, very difficult relationship I am in. Sagittarian men are extremely difficult people, no disrespect to any, but they are very difficult. I feel like he doesn’t care or love me because it’s all about work for him and other things can fall in any other. It’s a miserable relationship.
Cancerian woman married to a Sagittarian man and to echo the lady above, it is hell. I don’t have patience, still working on it. He is totally glued to his career. I feel ignored. I am more on the romantic and emotional side and he is not at all. It is extremely hard, very difficult relationship I am in. Sagittarian men are extremely difficult people, no disrespect to any, but they are very difficult. I feel like he doesn’t care or love me because it’s all about work for him and other things can fall in any other. It’s a miserable relationship. And they are extremely flirtatious human beings. He flirts practically all the time with his facial movements, in talking to other women, emails etc. There’s no female friend he has never flirted with. It’s horrible. I need all the reassurance and security I can get, but don’t get any from him.
Im an Aries women and in a relationship wit my loving sag man we’ve been dating for three months nw and we so much inlove and we enjoy each other’s company but when coming to sex its always one round with him and im an explorer when coming to sex he doznt meet my needs sexually wat do i do? Plz help