Those under the Sagittarius sign are probably the easiest to get along with because they don’t like to pretend they’re somebody else to please the people around them. Yes they take pleasure at making people laugh (and who doesn’t) and sometimes they may go out of the way to accommodate friends but only if the favors doesn’t clash with their principles and, more importantly, their schedule.
First off, Sagittarius people are hard to piss off. They have a pretty good sense of humor which can be dry and sarcastic so they know how to handle a joke when it’s thrown at them. They can also be callous without intending to be and as intelligent as they are, they can be dense when it comes to other people’s feelings so you need to spell it out for them. A Sag is usually seen as a very happy-go-lucky and come-what-may person but they also know how to get serious in life. They just don’t like getting stressed all the time. All that said, it doesn’t mean they don’t know how to get angry or sad. It just takes a lot for them to get hurt because they’re not very sensitive like the water signs for example. They like to live life and doesn’t sweat the small stuff.
Now, you know what they say about what could happen when the other shoe drops? It’s not that true with most Sags. They are mutable signs and learn how to adapt easily. They get hurt but they have the sense not to dwell on the negative things that happen to them or around them. This is one of the strengths of the Archer. They learn to shun out the negative people and things in their lives and charge it to experience so, although they are seen as careless when they’re young, they mature to be strong and wise individuals. They are good at learning from experiences and they only use it to make their next actions better. Now, whether they forgive you or not depends on the level of the damage you made. Telling them their dress looks awful probably won’t affect them too much. She’ll ponder on it for a couple hours but will also either immediately try to think of a way to remedy the situation or think of a nice come back to make the conversation lighter and funny instead of insulting. However, it could take a Sag relatively longer to get over things if you cheat on them. They may even make a scene upon finding out but they will learn to let go eventually and even sooner than you would expect but don’t think they’d readily take you back. When Sags let go, they let go completely. They’re not the most patient person when it comes to fixing broken things. They’d much rather look for something new to replace the last one. It’s just too messy and too much trouble for them. Although they are very forgiving and probably let the things you do slide most of the times, they are still human and there will come a time they’re going to say enough is enough.
Taurus is also an earth sign,and don’t fit well with a sag. In order for earth and water signs to fit well with sag you and the Sag both will have to actually push yourselves to make it work. Which could fail or not fail…o.O if you will. Because people don’t fully understand what people mean when they say “opposites attract.” Yes the statement is true but if you aren’t able to step outside of you’re self and make it work it won’t. water + earth = life, and fire + air = freedom.
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I agree!! Sag-sag DOes NOT Work!
I spent many years with a Sag and all they did was cheat and lie about it and expect me to forgive and get over it. When I got sick of it and finally moved on, I gave back what they were doing to me and all hell broke loose. They are hypocrites, their moto in life is, don’t do as I do do as I say. Sags are full of themselves, they aren’t loyal to anyone but themselves
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I dont exactly agree w this we r dedicated to work our lovers parties workingout but i can take alotta abuse n ribbing but when some1 really blows my trust or fucks w me I will definitly beat their head soft worse than anyone u could ever know til teeth knocked out crying for thier life or if its a girl I will verbally shred her to peices til shes a broken tattered mess n hit her w every low blow I can think of but if they never cross me I could n absoltutly never cross somebody like that I jus badly want love n to b loved n respected
Soooo truueee!!! We are sensitive, romantic, and passionate but you wouldn’t know by looking at us.when you hurt us, its like throwing water on a fire.we go COLD. I delete you from my phone, my life, and my mind. I want nothing to do with you once I know you are a shitty person.lol c ya! Wouldn’twana be ya!
I’m recently trying to date a Sag. He came onto me really strong. Now, he wants time, after he so kindly made me believe he wants a deep relationship. I still really like him. I know he really likes me too. He just wants time, and dose’nt want to admit it yet. What should I do?
This is so true I’m totally like this
Ok everything I’ve read about us saggi’s is sooooo true and dead on it’s freaking scary. I’ve been in a relationship with a “BULL” for 13yrs 7 of these years Married and yes when us saggi”s luv we do luv hard but when you hurt us boy watch the “Hell out”. About 8 months ago this dry and boring ass Bull wants to tell me he’s been unhappy in the marriage for a long time I’m like yeah dude me to couch potato ass that’s all he does. So I’ve kicked him out 2wice first time was when he announced he was talking to a lady at he’s job and said they have good converstaions I’m like Really dude and check this out ppl he has never been a talker through out the entire freaking relationship “really dude” get the hell out of here so that was the 1st boot out the door. I’m not gonna lie I was a mess heart broken then I say a month later he comes running back talking about he’s tired and ready to come home so I let the dry boring ass bull back in. But he still acted like he’s mind was some where else so when he got off work he was their for about a week I just told him to leave for the 2nd time and go be happy where you think that happiness is booted he’s ass out for the 2nd time and this was the longest. He just recently came running back again jan 2014 take in mind ppl all this started in June 2013. So I let he’s dry boring ass back in again so for all you ppl out their saying saggi’s cheat take that back for 13 yrs I’ve been with this man I’ve never cheated or even kissed another man we are very faithful ppl when we luv we luv hard but when you fuck us over its pretty much over cheating anything that is untrustworthy we are out the door. I tell him everyday you started this shit so I’m gonna finish it get me my divorce so I can move on with my life and finally feel free and I do have to say I’ve enjoyed being free to go and come as I please the freedom shit I don’t know what to do with myself I’ve been caged down for 13 yrs. I told him today “I said remember when you told me you where “Done” with me that faithfull day some time in June of 2013 I said you remember he looked and said yes I looked him straight in he’s eyes and said well I’m “DONE so DONE its not even funny he just stood their looking fucking stupid like them Bulls do lmao! And I told him to not even come back to this house until he get the divorce shit started and it is now 9 pm jan 13th and he took my advice and went where he’s ass was on the weekend and I feel great when he is not around no tension no walking on egg shells “Aint Nobody Got Time For That” its a new year and I all ready got my eye”s on some new prey! Wink wink sagi style we just on to the next bye #Boom!
I don’t care too much about hurting Sags as the ones I have come across enjoy turning people against each other, amongst other things, and I, as an Aries, find them false. From my very first meeting with most Sags, I always feel that they are making a great effort not to hate me in spite of themselves,, and are laying on the politeness. The mask doesn’t generally take too long to drop , even if at our first meeting they say “you and I are going to be best friends” and I think, uh uhh, well don’t get too enthusiastic, let’s see how things pan out over the long term eh??
I also find them far too attached to and worried about outward appearances and respectful of professions such as doctor, teacher, TV star, policeman, etc…very concerned about this stuff and very snobbish, love the “news” despite the fact half of it isn’t real.
Thankfully, I usually find our basic personality differences are such that we don’t spend too much time in each other’s company, and though there is the potential for explosions, these can be substantially reduced through leaving each other alone.
Oh did I mention they like having family as long as they are out of sight, out of mind, and everyone else’s family is always “better” than their nearest and dearest.
I found 2 months back that my cancer wife was cheating on with a married guy.She asked for forgiveness once I found about this.Although I forgave her I was going through hell whenever I was out of my home and was regretting my decision.However I gave her warning that if she still tries to contact that guy things will be over from my side.I don’t know why but I myself was wanting her to do something like that again so that I could let her go from my life and can have a relieved feeling about myself.I was really feeling stressed to deal with forgiving such dishonesty.However after 2 months I came to know they are still in regular contact and got the proof of that too.After letting her go completely out of my life I started wondering why I am not feeling at all about her unlike my past break up where the reason was not cheating.Then I came to this website and found support for my thought.At the end I am really fed up with this cheating stuff and in future if ever I go to commitment I’ll think thousand times before that.
I’m a Sagittarius woman! Free spirited, care-free and I truly like to be on the positive side of things… sometimes with family and/or a lover my heart is so fragile that I get hurt easily but I try my best to not show it… I might hide out, walk it off and try to think through it and pretend I’m ok… then after a days to a few weeks, I’m good as new!! I just don’t want any drama and I don’t want any problems w/ emotionally unstable people. Oh, let me tell you how much I value LOYAL FRIENDSHIPS….. to death, my friend, to death. Once that friendship is betrayed… and I never receive an apology — well, you’re gone and I forget all about you.
I’m a gemini man. In love with a sag. She decided after three breakups to finally break it off with a “I’m done”. We get along so well yet she says we are not compatible. She says I have made my decision respect it. But I’m not one to give up, especially when I have confidence in her. Should I give her space and see if she changes her mind? Or just move on
They only care about themselves, they hardly ever get jelous, they move on too easily and are emotionless towards anything
Hi everyone hope you guys are good! Im a sagg male in along distance marriage to a scorpio! Was very very loyal to her but she was full of it lies! upon lies! And I hate people who lie or pretend to be something who they aren’t. anyway I also accepted her daughter who I always supported like my own daughter as time went buy I noticed this constant lies and doing things behind my back her ex chasing her and always on the scene! I worked really hard to put food on her table and I never got to even touch her daughter or hug her! I feel used and betrayed! I would get threats of divorce to the brink of she was infront of the judge and etc etc only to fall back on it! Constant mind games! Like always I use to send her money and one day I asked the agent to track payment down to which town she is picking money up from? They told me the name of a different town where she was living I confronted her via phone and asked why lie??? I just got fedup and I left the relationship and regarding divorce she can do it herself!
The relationship just mentaly drained me. Always switching her mobile off when I needed her! I am mentaly scarred! Never again! Never!!
That pretty true. But it really depends on the situation. I’m a sag and very very very trusting and forgiving. I’ve been back and forth with a Taurus for 1 year, I’ve known him or 4 years. He used me for sex but said he loved me and now I’m just kinda done, but I’m still involved with his family so I have to be civil and friendly. But there’s something about him.. I’ll always love him but if he doesn’t love me, why not find someone who will?
Im a sag and i keep myself going and dint worry about the past.
its kinda funny cause all sags that i know are extremly dishonest and disloyal.
the most disloyal persons i know fall under this sign.its disgusting.
I NEED YOUR HELP PLEASE!!!! I’m a Taurus lady and I know this sag man that said that he broke up with his wife three times before they got married in their early 20s. He had been separated from his Scorpio wife for a while, and I dated him briefly. We got into a misunderstanding and he got upset at me and said he was going to try to work things out with his wife. He complained about her all the time – nagging, controlling, super jealous, criticizes him all he time to keep his self-esteem low, spends way too much money, wanted more kids than he wanted, etc. I want to give him time to calm down before I try to contact him, but how much time should I give?
We were great with each other. Our personalities matched on so many levels. He began to share feelings for me, said he thought we were perfect for each other, then got cold.
I know he feels obligated to stay in his marriage to be a father to his kids, but I also know that he’s miserable. I feel I could become serious with him and help him through a divorce but how do I communicate that without scaring him?
Before he disappeared, we had an awesome night of cuddling and then I said things I didn’t mean, like I wasn’t sure if I could be serious with him, because I wanted to slow things down and also because I thought it would scare him if it got too serious. I texted him later and told him that I didn’t want to get too serious yet but I also didn’t want him to feel rejected but he hasn’t replied to any messages since then. Also, I’m a few years younger than him but I look way younger. He’s made comments that sounded like he was insecure and that he didn’t think someone like me would want him because he thought he was fat (though he’s not and just bigger and muscular). When we cuddled, he told me that fat people and thin people do work out. I just laughed it off and told him he wasn’t fat.
I miss him so much and wanted to tell him my true feelings in person but he’s disappeared and won’t respond to messages or calls. My other question was – if a Sag man supposedly cuts people out of his life forever, why did he take back his exwife 3 times and why won’t he leave her now that it’s clear she’ll always be a controlling, jealous nag? Do I have a chance of getting him back given that he took back his ex 3 times? He and I have never gotten into any arguments. Something just happened where he thought I did it and it turned out that I didn’t do it with solid proof.
Why would a saggitarius who ignores you get mad when you try and move on only contact you not wanting you move on because they act uninterested then they get mad. I have no idea what i didnt to this evil sag that i really really cared about. When we met i wasnt physically attracted to him or his burping in public. Then as the night went on I experienced how caring and intelligent he was and then there was that first kiss? And we both melted him nor I ever experienced this kind of chemistry before. One day last year after we made love he wanted me to spend the night so i did and then he wanted me to stay the rest of the day and I couldnt i had to get to my children and he has a child and shouldve understood and guess what somethin similar happened years ago thats why he dumped me and he apologized and wanted to start over. Im beginning to think its more of a mental issue and it hurts because i really love him and i dont get it i would be there for him 100% he keeps sending pictures of some girl who looks like sam jackson sayin “she’ll treat me better” even nude pics of her..people tell me he could be intimidated because your a good person and cute and he’s not used to it. I know he has trust issues and his first love was really beautiful but im not superficial and had a hard life and came up and im no one to be afraid off. Im a Libra who just doesn’t get it but will move on..there’s gotta be someone less dramatic then this …would’ve been nice to see how far we could go..i miss him holding me all thru the night the pampering grabbing my stomach which was weird…oh well hope i find someone similar but stronger
I was recently seeing a Sagittarius who I thought was a more mature guy. We met on Tinder and he seemed to be a genuinely nice guy. He gave me the space I needed in the beginning, and text me constantly. He has been through two marriages, currently in the process of getting his second divorce, and we seemed to really hit it off. I am a Cancer with a very prominent Sagittarius moon and Ascendent. I was the one to keep it bright and breezy, and he was very keen. Then, after a really good evening together when he seemed to open up to me a little more, he completely cut me off without warning. No explanation, just blocked my number. Although I’m ready to move on as I’m not taking disrespect like that, it would be nice to know why. I had sneaked onto Tinder that day to check when he had last logged on (3 weeks ago, which I was happy with), but then next minute he has been on and unmatched me. I’m wondering if he thought I was cheating. Or maybe he’s just a major dick. Either way, his loss.
Really needing help fixing a Now Broken relationship with a Sag, Im a Virgo…
We went from barely knowing each other to Both stating & realizing we became best friends over 2 months, and then all of a sudden she tells me shes breaking up w her Long-distance boyfriend cause she really really has feelings for me…
4 days later, she changes her mind, says shes ‘not ready for a relationship like US’ and needs some space & Im smothering her, when shes constantly asked me to be with her & I gladly did as it was all the time i could have with her…
Its been 2weeks now & she finally started talking again & pretty much blamed everything on me, told me theres No Way we could be best friends already & she ‘must’ve not spoken clearly’ and says she ‘never meant feelings like that, she thought she did but she was scared & wrong’. It ends with us staying friends & then she all of a sudden picks another fight where she says she may have ASBergers & i try to tell her how wrong she is & it may be something else & she completely shuts off, acts like i Started the fight & then keeps saying i’m ‘Digging [myself] in deeper’. Its been 2 days & were not talking now & she doesn’t want to see or hear from me until I Appologize for suggesting such a thing & admitting that im simply an Asshole… When the biggest thing that pulled us together is I’m a Southern Gentleman & SHes One Hell of a Lady.
I dont want to bloody Lose Her… Help??
I most definitely agree with the last statement that we are still human and when we have enough…then it really is ENOUGH! As a Sagittarius, I usually hold things in (which I know ) isn’t good. And I try to understand other people’s point of views, but when it gets to a point where you just don’t feel like my feelings and/or opinions matter and you totally disregard me, then we will have a problem! I had a “friend’ tell me without getting into too much detail on here, that because we didn’t share this type of relationship, what I had to say on certain matters didn’t matter. So finally I told the person well since you feel that way and since I don’t seem to matter to you, then there’s the door and I wasn’t at all polite when I said it!
Sagittarius are the most disloyal I was in a relationship with a truck driver who was a Sagittarius…I thought they loved me everything seemed fine until I realized the job was a way to travel…they love that…and meet new “intresting” ppl..they bore easily…and can not…I repeat can not be faithful or loyal…they are pushy..and despite their positive talk they are very negative…they talk the talk but can’t walk the walk…very fake
..very fake…they won’t express their emotions because they don’t want to see themselves in a bad light..they are always between jobs and have no problems squatting at ur place until they find another sucker…they are takers…HEARTLESS cold sobs
Well I’m a sag and I’m currently still battling with past hurt relationships because I really did care abt them friends and fam situation. Sometimes I think to myself fu k hm all but then sometimes when I’m bored my mind starts to wander again and repeats the whole damn thing. I totally cut thm off for good. Dont want anything to do with thm ever again. But with fam Im still struggling…
I never cheat on a sag I only broke a promise that he had a great belief that I would never call my ex or what but out of no where for some reason I need my stuff back and I called my ex and told my sag that and we broke up idk if that something that he can forgive and get back with me at least I wa being honest and I’m a cancer girl but it’s not like my ex lived close by he was in a different state. Do you think he’ll give me a chance even thou he said was done with it ?
Hey guys I’m a sagi but I would NEVER date one!!!!
I am an Aries . I just cNt understand why sag feel like they never do wrong to others. Why are they always the victim. People take lots of crap off them. But they can’t take any crap back.
@ Kelly, I understand completely, I too have been in a situation when the person made me feel like I was an option and once I removed myself from the equation that was too much for him to handle. What people need to understand is that it’s not about astrology, people are people. And it doesn’t matter what month or day you were born. Anyone can be dishonest, disloyal, and down right mean, if that’s just in them. I also think that anyone just as you stated can get to a point where enough is enough. A person, no matter what sign they are has their breaking point.
hey sally im a sag. and i dont mind telling people when enough is enough but i put myself first so much its a habit. i will give up my only food so my bff can have extra. some times i dont eat for 2 days. so ya im totes full of myself and i dont care what people thinkof me just dont mess with my friends or family. so shut up sally and go back to where you came from.
Dear Sally,
I don’t agree with the ones saying all saggittarius are self centred and we aren’t all liars. First of all sorry to hear about your experiences but it’s not fair for you to judge us all over one person. I’m an honest saggittarius girl and I surprisingly don’t lie at
all, did something bad? Admit it. I’m a very honest person and to say the truth I do see saggittarius’s that are self centred
and I don’t like them, I
just don’t get along
with other saggittarius.
Don’t base everyone off their sign, everyone has their own
personality added to
that. I don’t put myself first, I put others I care about first, if you don’t have anything to do with me and my friends then I don’t care about what you think. I have no problem saying enough is enough, I’m tired of people saying that a saggittarius are selfish pricks but all the reason why that makes you the selfish one for making others look bad in your pain.
Yo Scorpio astrology don’t mean sh!t sorry but live with it and don’t be dramatic. I’m sorry about how I’m just a saggittarius and I absolutely don’t have feelings cuz according to you I’m just a b!tch. I was getting somewhere with several signs but they either cheated on me or where the selfish ones themselves we aren’t they only ones who can be mean but you just can’t live with the truth…..
Hey guys,
I’m a saggi woman. If you hurt us, we might do something to hurt you back. But, we don’t hold grudges, being happy and positive is more important to us than taking revenge hahaaa it is such a waste of time thinking about someone we hate. It brings so much negativity into our life. Life is super precious. I will cut you out of my life and forgive you in order to forget you.
Dear Leo00,
If you are a Cancer, you better not to fall for us coz we saggitarius is too much to handle. We will only love you at the beginning coz you Cancer people are so caring and soft. After a while, we will get bored and realise we are not meant to be with you in the long run.
I am sorry for all those having a hard time with other sags. I am a sag myself and it is hard for me to want to commit myself to anyone. A sag loves their independence above anything else and will overreact when absolutely terrified of being trapped and not knowing what to do next. I have been in that position and hurt others because of it. The biggest reason I think we move quickly on from relationships is due to our nature of letting go of things that harm more then help. That does not mean we won’t mourn for the loss of a relationship we truly wanted, but it does mean we won’t stand for bs if that was given to us and move on quickly when realizing thats all we were given. We fall quickly then begin to regret sometimes because we are fierce lovers and if you aren’t able to handle it we will be hurt and pull back fast to avoid hurting ourselves. WE are a lot to handle so do not take on a sag if you are not ready to handle the emotional responsibility that they bring with them. Which is sad to say. But it’s hard if your partner cant handle your needs and desires. As well as your wants.
Sagittarius serves a big purpose on earth, they spark the minds that change the world. If you’re lucky enough to have one fall in love with you and you price yourself to be unworthy you will likely suffer in this life and the next
I recently had my heart trampled, kicked, spat on by a scorpio. as someone who has never experienced this before, the abovementioned, in general, describes my actions quite well – yes I deleted him from my life as best I could. And some days I fantasize about keying his car or destroying his career, but other days I am motivated to be the better person, learn from the situation and find someone much better suited. I know he lost out on something spectacular (he was too boring anyway). I am proud to be such a compelling and intense person.
I think Sag r genuine and good , I had a misunderstanding with one because his wife set name up and made me spill the beans but I still that sag , I got mad because she said he said bad stuff about me I messed up , and talked bad in return, I don’t blame her I’d do the same about namurois children’s dad , but I hurt him I said everything opposite of what I meant , because I wanted to hurt Him but I didn’t réalisé he’s the only one I don’t want hurt in this world he knows that .he knows I’d give him my only food and only eye if I one , I don’t know what to do I just leave it to God he’ll fix it I’m just sad , i don’t want no one but him , please pray god takes away this pain.
I’m a sag. I have made mistakes like everyone else. I have hurt people heartlessly like a lot of people have. If you just come here to bitch about sagittarius, haha, tough shit. I have dated two men in the past, both same sign which I won’t mention. They gave me hell but it takes two to tango. I will never go to any webpage about that particular sign just to complain. Again, say what you like, we don’t give a care. I seriously don’t mind being heartless towards those who cry and moan about us on a general astrology website. Grow up.
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I am a sag. Every relationship I’ve ever been in I’ve been nothing but genuine, loving, companionate, caring. But I always get cheated on or start getting mistreated. When that happens I turn into something horrible.
Hey Hanna I read your story, im sure Sally didn’t mean to hurt you that was written like 4 years ago they are not one person it’s someone else , she’s just a blabber that doesn’t hurt nobody , you are a good person that no one would want to hurt , and no she didn’t mess with your family it was all a mistake , please forgive her , will ya , please , it’s doesn’t have to do with zodiacs colors names statuses money fame education .we’re all human beings with feelings and are worthy of respect and love , some people can’t control their mouth when they’re mad . But you’re lucky you’re not like that .maybe it is a Sagittarius trait
I am a Pisces woman i have a feeling with a Sag man for 5 years my instincts always favor for him and i think he have the same feeling as me . how can i ask him in not awkward? help me please
I had known a sag , later he got in jail , his family asked for help so I did help wholeheartedly, i ask for nothing , just to get him out of his suffering , they claim I gave money to.buy him from his household , in the woman lol not the man , I found out that they used me and never told the truth , I knew it all along but I told myself I’ll give them the benefit of doubt , claiming I’m a backstabber.because his wife used witchcraft she pretended she was someone else and texted me from his phone to know stuff , and made stuff up , she’s a great actress his dad told him I’m a bad person and told me incest is ok , i lost respect because of that and other things , I don’t mind helping people if I run out of not just money everything i don’t care if I can get one human being out of suffering , but when you find out you have been used it hurts and you turn into someone else.
What does it translate to when you try to stand by someone and help them out and they misinterpret your kindness with weakness and hold it against you , is it possible that Sagittarius do take advantage of other naive people for their own good and deny the fact they ever did that , I once tried to help a sag when they needed help but they treated me worse than bad , call me names make fun of me, humiliate me, and make me feel bad about myself , made me regret I even thought of lending a helping hand to someone like that . Is it the sign or the person or even Satan .
I am a sagittarius woman. the only reason I believe a sag might cheat is if her partner fail to love her. beside that a sag woman is very faithful and committed to her partner. sag woman loves deeply. however I am in love with a Pisces man..and its really tough. I don’t think things will work out. and I am confused scared. you have deserves a sag woman love.
Yeah, we Sags have long fuses, but when we get fed up enough with people who want to talk on the phone and have crying ass pity parties…it’s time to ghost the chick who is an alcoholic and wants to laugh and then have a big cry at the same time on the phone no thanks see ya.
sag men are the best period…. fun , noble , hard working and the list goes on and on …. the perfect sign for a male .
Hey all my sag brothers and sisters! Don’t listen to negative comments! We live stress and drama free! Truth be told about us, we are full of adventure and tons of fun! Most people don’t understand us and our love of life and people! Ya we may come off as too smiley, full of jokes, cunning and crude! But we rock! Life is good when you don’t think or dwell on the small things! Honestly if you want to date one of us, drama is a no go!! We like to be on the go and have fun… if it’s boring and repetitive then expect us to just leave… live long, have fun!
Peace ??