Those under the Sagittarius sign are probably the easiest to get along with because they don’t like to pretend they’re somebody else to please the people around them. Yes they take pleasure at making people laugh (and who doesn’t) and sometimes they may go out of the way to accommodate friends but only if the favors doesn’t clash with their principles and, more importantly, their schedule.
First off, Sagittarius people are hard to piss off. They have a pretty good sense of humor which can be dry and sarcastic so they know how to handle a joke when it’s thrown at them. They can also be callous without intending to be and as intelligent as they are, they can be dense when it comes to other people’s feelings so you need to spell it out for them. A Sag is usually seen as a very happy-go-lucky and come-what-may person but they also know how to get serious in life. They just don’t like getting stressed all the time. All that said, it doesn’t mean they don’t know how to get angry or sad. It just takes a lot for them to get hurt because they’re not very sensitive like the water signs for example. They like to live life and doesn’t sweat the small stuff.
Now, you know what they say about what could happen when the other shoe drops? It’s not that true with most Sags. They are mutable signs and learn how to adapt easily. They get hurt but they have the sense not to dwell on the negative things that happen to them or around them. This is one of the strengths of the Archer. They learn to shun out the negative people and things in their lives and charge it to experience so, although they are seen as careless when they’re young, they mature to be strong and wise individuals. They are good at learning from experiences and they only use it to make their next actions better. Now, whether they forgive you or not depends on the level of the damage you made. Telling them their dress looks awful probably won’t affect them too much. She’ll ponder on it for a couple hours but will also either immediately try to think of a way to remedy the situation or think of a nice come back to make the conversation lighter and funny instead of insulting. However, it could take a Sag relatively longer to get over things if you cheat on them. They may even make a scene upon finding out but they will learn to let go eventually and even sooner than you would expect but don’t think they’d readily take you back. When Sags let go, they let go completely. They’re not the most patient person when it comes to fixing broken things. They’d much rather look for something new to replace the last one. It’s just too messy and too much trouble for them. Although they are very forgiving and probably let the things you do slide most of the times, they are still human and there will come a time they’re going to say enough is enough.
this is so true..i love it..its like telling me everything i neede to know…here i am wondering if im treating my xbf bad cuz a wat he did..but now i know..its natural..its all gotta do with ma sign..sag
I’m a Sag and it’s very true that Sags forgive easily but when Sags say enough is enough there will be no more next time. When Sags let go, they let go completely and winning them back would be impossible. So, when you love a Sag loved him/her truly. Respect him/her for s/he will return back the love and respect you’ve given him or her in triple.
This is so me word for word! I get hurt all the time but it lasts only a few weeks and I’m on to something else. I have been told several times that I am emotionless. So not true. I have feelings but I won’t dwell on things I know I can’t do anything about. If I’ve tried loving you and you didn’t recognize that my feelings were sincere, it is not problem. Sagittarius mean what they say, we are not fake people.
I was amased when i red the part that says,’when sags let go, they let go completely’. I do that often,and when i do. I dsay something like this, a dog doesn’t go back to its vomit.
hi !
Im a sagittarius women nd i cheated on my sagittarius man i really love him, he broke up with me and i m devastated cause i want him back. What must i do to get him back! HELP!!
I’m truly amazed because this is so true, i’m very easy to get along with and also forgiving, but when you hurt me i forgive and easily move on.
So Fucking True!!!!
I, am one of them but i still need some more information,how do i go to find out everything about us as the SAGITTARIUS.To this article i really went a step forward to understand how we are.THANKS A LOT! we still need more.
Yep, I tell people to not push to the ‘screw point’ because once there, I am done! I believe being able to let go completely is a good quality to have. Dwelling on the should’ve, could’ve, would’ve is pointless! Represent!
This is so true.Once I’ve learned that you cheated I’m out and I look for another relationship to get involved in.
I’m a bit surprised to read this.I’ts so true when we Sagittarius women get hurt we shut the one who hurt us down!!!!!!! I love reading about my sign.
yeah what a like the most is the line saying ”enough is enough” ya that’s so true…..:)
I swear this is me, word for word. Just came to the decision to let my cheating Virgo~~GO! I have no plans of contacting him and I will have a new phone number when all is said and done!
My ex cheated on me and it was bad….When I found out about it….I definitely made a scene! LOL!! Crazy thing about it was he tried to make me out to be the bad guy and then he tried to get me back. I forgave me but told him to move on!
If a sag breaks up with you and says that he said we need space and need to start over what does that mean?? But if they do want to start over how come when I bring the situation up they begin ignoring me….sag says that he ” kinda likes me , I guess” so is there a chance this guy will come back or is it over?
lol..so true..if someone cheated or lie on me once,he/she will never gain my trust again..like never ever
i was in a relationship with a taurus for 2 years 2 mins ago until i finally decided…enough,took out my sim from phone and threw it,blocked him from my fb.this is so true im done when i say enough….enough.
Pisces95 I could probably help you with that, if you still need help let me know, it’s crazy how accurate all this is!
One girl once cheated on me, afriend told me, she was in her apartment and I saw them through the blind, when I saw them together I lost control, broke through the window grabbed him by the neck threw him towards the ceiling, then punch him repeatedly till he was knocked out, after thar I simply walked out and never talk to her again.
He recover later and I seen him walking down the street, bit it was brief the second he glance at me he took of running, I imagine they are together, but I really don’t care.
sometime i stay too long because i don’t care enough about the problem at hand , then all of a sudden, its over and i have moved on without them knowing about it , yeah , i am such a sag… i just feel like they already know what they did and they didnt care so why should i stop my life just because things didnt work, and i never believed in it in the first place so when didnt work out , it just was no suprise…
Yep, I’m a Sag and that pretty much describes me.
That fits me perfectly. People are surprised when I finally say enough is enough because they assume that im so patient they can keep up the non sense forever. They take the patience to be limitless.
Yep. That’s pretty much how it works. When it’s over, there’s no going back.
Yes, true and correct. Really liked it. We sags don’t fake, we trust people when we are in love up to 1000%, once someone break the trust-that’s it, it’s the beginning of the end and soon will be over. We are not easy to commit but when we do commit, we are serious about it , and love and respect from and for the person we love means the world to us.
So true we do not love stress and tend to ” not sweat the small stuff”,not meaning we don’t recognize it just we put it into perspective.
And please when we give you the road map to understanding us know that if you don’t use it…we normally take it back and begin to look for someone who wants to use it.
I totally 1000% agree..going through a divorce, when I am Done! I’m done completely! Annnd I found I no Wonder I’m getting Divorced I was Married to a Taurus!! Soooo true that TAurus’s are BAd for us Sag,
Met a Libra though. Ahhhhhhhh.. What a breath of fresh Air!!! Love this site! bookmarked!
Kyjrue, I was also married to a Taurus. Worst experience of my life, we were not compatible at all. I was being someone completely different from what I was and feeling miserable in the process. In the end, I was the one who made the decision to move on.
Very recently, I was talking to a gentleman, but I have no idea when he was born. We have been talking for about two and a half weeks. In that short time I learned quite a lot about myself. Our conversations were very random and open. I love openness! Anyway, one misunderstanding led to another and we stopped communicating so much. This time I also took the initiative to effectively end the friendship or whatever we had before we ended up hating each other. I miss him a lot, I miss our interactions. However, I know that missing him is just a small setback and the feeling will probably subside in a week or so.
Wow, this info really helped out so much. I am a gay male Pisces, and my current relationship is “complicated” due to the fact I hurt my Sag so much. ..He (my Sag) cared for me so much back when I first started dating him. Then, about 4 months into our relationship. I broke up with him the day before my birthday cause I was dumb and selfish. I wanted something different because I would get bored of him, so.. Like I said, I broke up with him. WORST DECISION OF MY LIFE!! A year and some months later being a little more wiser and mature. I ask for him back. He decides, “sure why not?” And we take a vacation together to Vegas and Southern Cal. Honestly, it was a huge mistake. During the whole vacation he practically ignored me, ignored my guestrues to show affection. Completely shund!! .. Now, after our vacation he tells me. “I care for you a lot, and I’m sorry for treating you like this. I just got ‘cold feet’ when I saw you. Good and bad. I’m so guarded and scared of you to hurt me again. I just need time, but I still want to talk to you everyday.” … OMG, this confuses me so much. He’s so hot and cold .. But according to this info I should just give him his space, and be cool. He’ll eventually come around, right?
Yes I love this Im a sagittarius. But Im in a dilemma. I have a Bestfriend an we both liked each other deeply. An recently he told me he liking someone else. An I been really distant since then. Yesterday we talked an I made him feel bad b/c I told him how I felt
What should I do? We been friends since middle school Im in highschool now
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My relationship with a Virgo man was over. He hurts me but I want him back because I still love him. But I lost anything to contact with him. Maybe I can’t wait to long because I’m a Sagittarius.
so True. Cheat on an Sag(been cheated on) – It’s over. There’s no going back. Once we have crossed you out of our heart, we have crossed you of our mind and life. Consider yourself forgotten.
Scotty, don’t give him too much space, you hurt him, remember? He needs you as a friend. show him he can trust you, shower him with fun gifts and fun times and don’t let up. he will slowly come interested if you are real! for sure .
This is so true, I don’t worry myself about anything at all, sometimes my friends wonder how I do not panic or worry about things. And same for bf, when I stop a relationship I never look back, and yes I forgive and forget so easily life has so much to offer why worry about little thing?? In a true sag and I love it
Am a Sagg, Moon in cancer and Ascendant in Leo. the Ultimate predator. the Perfect archer! my Rising sign makes me a predator, leo is known for its magnificent hunting skills and my Sun sign makes me plan my target very well, making me the Ultimate predator…..
well, am the type of guy that reacts without thinking when am hurt. i guess thats were my Cancer moon falls in, my actions are based on my emotions and thats the sh*t i dont like. bright side of the moon is that i get to be emotional coz cancer is ruled by moon and moon gives of emotions of passion and wakes the feeling of loving. by my Leo ascendant always gives off an image that you cant mess with a Lion in the prime of his time. and my sagg sun gives me that higher mind logical thinker on what to do next, how to go about it and how to remove obstacles in my way. am a proud one! you can tell
Same for me so true, this so explains y i m the way i am
I am a taurus, I was with my Sag ex husband for 5 years. He always said he was done, would go sleep around, but he always came back. He was a pathological liar, unfaithful, manipulative, and extremely violent, volatile and abusive, and a fantastic blame shufter who would never take responsibility for his actions or how he treated me and other people. I am not saying all Sag’s are like this by any means. He is a special breed, and I definitely found when it comes to him, no katter what he said, he was never ever done. If I were to drop the restraining order, he would probably still come back at some point.
This is what I do all the time. I’ll give you a shitload of chances but once I find out you’re disloyal or/and trustworthy you’re out of my life for good!
@Don the Kota I LOVE IT!!! I am so the same & Proud to Be!! I refer to my next as my prey as I am always on the prowl in between relationships! But yea; when we’re Done, I can hardly remember your last name as soon as two weeks later & I’m usually cool with that Scurrrrd!!? LOLBVVS
Yeah I like a guy- we click- then something just doesnt fit and im out like see ya. He’s left standing there like wtf just happened!! Im not cold- i just know he’s not the one, so why waste time.
I agree with Missy. I am Scorpio. My Sag came onto me hard and I fell in love quick. After awhile his rough and tough side really came out. I come to find he cuts a lot of people out of his life- family, past Gf’s, for reasons which seem small. He would get mad at the smallest things. And go completely off. Play mind games- but call you out if you try to do the same. Acts like his attention is a reward you have to earn. Tell you about his day and problems, but gets bored with anything you say about yourself.
Looking to the stars for answers. My sag man and I were going strong for full five years–til I found out he was wooing multiple women at once. One of the girls forwarded me his messages. I bolted out of the relationship so fast. Loyal? honest? Really? I’ve done all I can to the best of my ability. I can’t keep up with the saggitarian fk-updness.
sounds true ,, but you forgot one or more things character traits ! we are very focused on what we love to do, being career related or accomplishing
the task at hand , and we don’t have patience for any bull crap
we have a natural ability see into anybody’s phony agendas,
oh yes theirs many more great things about us Archers, feel free to submit more comments
My hubby of. Almost seven years having me crazy with hius mind games.blowing hot and cold, I don’t know where I stand with him…I don’t trust him, always puts the blame on me and make as if he is never at fault, not even once…making hurtful ‘jokes’ about me with friends, I feel he doesn’t respect me, when I ask him he denies and feel offended, refer to other woman in a kind of storey, feels like he is telling abpout stuff that’s going on behind my back….when I ask. Why he play games he denies and lie to me, om so confuse, compliment other woman incl ex wife infront of me and all the remarks as if I don’t have reelings…what must I do HELP
I’m a Leo dating a Sag male.. already he annoys me with his Sag behavior. He’s calling me out on small things and when I call him out his attempts, he cuts me off and make a clean break to say “cool” or “ok, it’s over, lets move on”. You can’t say something to someone and expect that “cool” to work with everyone else because you, a Sag says so. So me, a Leo, I’m going to give him all the space he needs to clear up his little non-intentional mind games. Supposedly, Leo and Sags are compatible… I’m trying to reason with this theory. It says we’re lucky to have fallen for a Sag, how so? When they get bored easily, forgive and forget you quick.. Too much work to entertain a Sag when they set themselves up for a failed relationship. But the sex is hot though.. lol
I’m 21 years old and I love to make people laugh and I have a thirst for knowledge. Evey thing was so true this is so me.
@confused virgo I think this passage is about sag women most sag men play the field a bit before the actually find the one they want to be with you will have to do research on a sag man in order to understand. I have read that sag men can be big cheaters.
A Sag (me) is a fire sign. Fire signs go well with air and fire signs. Because they both need space to be free they are both independent, and they both love to travel. Some air signs would be Libra, Aquarius and Gemini. Gemini and Sag <—-Best match.
Some fire signs Aries, Leo and Sagittarius. Warning!!!!! Sag and sag do not mix I repeat do not mix!!!!! If you're a Sag (like me) and you want a relationship to last long go for the air signs. Libras and Sag have a lot in common they’re both enthusiastic about finding truth and beauty in their experiences. Libras make stimulating partners for Sag. Sags love learning, and are attracted to intelligence which would make the Libra a great companion. Sag and Aquarius are a very good match. If you're a Sag woman and you want a man who is down right crazy about you go for an Aquarius. Aquarius like Sag love adventure. They also love to help people which the Sag will find fascinating. An Aquarius will go out of their way to make their partner the sag happy. When an Aquarius feels like the Sag is growing bored with them they will work to pull the Sag back to their level in which they are in, in the relationship. The Aquarius is adventurous in bed just like the Sag. These two will be getting it on everywhere. No rules anything goes when it comes to these two in the bedroom. An Aquarius is idealistic and very original. And can be cold to people who are boring and unoriginal. Good thing the Sag is not a boring person! The Aquarius is attracted to the Sags excellence. <— No joke they love how independent the Sag is. The best thing about the Aquarius and Sag relationship is the fact that these two will push one another to learn. It can be a bit competitive between the two,but there's never a dull moment. Sag and Aquarius both enjoy the feeling of mutual admiration. The Sag will be attracted to the originality of the Aquarius. And like I said before the Aquarius will be attracted to the Sags excellence and initiative. And I save the best for last the Gemini and the Sag. When a Gemini and Sag come together in a relationship they make gold!!!! They both need freedom tho Geminis is mental.They both love new experiences, people, and will have some good times together. When the Sag gets one of their travel fetish the Gemini is always there with their bags packed ready to go. Both Gemini and Sag have short attention spans which means they can keep up with one another. They also both view the world the same way so they will have awesome conversations. The Sag can sometimes be a bit too blunt, saying things without thinking beforehand about whether they’ll hurt someone or not, but Gemini is almost as hard, or thick skinned as the Sag…..So it would probably go trough one ear and out the other. Like the Sag the Gemini can forgive and forget quickly. And there will hardly ever be any problems between the two. Like the Sag the Gemini loves to learn. Air fuels fire. <—– These are the best matches for the Sag
Sag also make good relationships with Aries,Leos,Libra,and Sag/Pisces <—themselves and the Pisces. The Sag and Sag relationship is tricky it can be really good or really bad either way they will be good friends when everything has been said in done. The Sag and Pisces relationship will start out great than it will go down hill. Because The Pisces is a water sign, as well as the Cancer,and Scorpio. Water and Fire obviously don't mix -_-! So if you have commented on this passage and you are saying "My relationship didn't work when I was with a Sag." and you were born in one of these moths it's because your elements don't mix.
Some other signs that are a bad mix with the Sag are Capricorn, Taurus and Virgo. These are of the earth element signs. These signs like stability and being home where as the Sag is always on the go. These signs are people who can come off shy and to themselves. Where as Sags love to talk and are outgoing. The Sags over bearing attitude is WAY!!!!!!! to much for these signs to handle. These are love signs who fit well with Water signs for they are love signs as well. Because water and earth create life.
So to recap Sags fit well in relationships with Libras, Aquarius, Gemini, Aries, and Leos.
And they don't fit well with Cancer, Virgo, Scorpios,and Capricorns.
And if you're a Sag looking for a relationship that you don't intend on keeping for long go for another Sag, or a Pisces. Sag and Sag = Great sex, and Sag and Pisces = a taste of love for a little while.
I'm not sure which signs Air fits well with outside of Fire. But I'm sure the results are the same. You will have to do research to understand your signs better. If you research your sign you will most likely know which signs to avoid. I personally think that knowing all this puts me a few steps closer to finding my true love. I hope this helped a few of you wondering hearts out there :p