If you’re wondering whether a Sagittarius can forgive, the straight up answer is yes. What you need to determine is the level of forgiveness the Sag is willing to give you. The question now becomes, there are levels of forgiveness? To which I answer, yes. The mighty archer is known to be very nonchalant and happy go lucky that most people thing they would just let things slide, whatever that is. But everyone has a boiling point.
I ran across a forum thread where this is a teenage girl’s dilemma. She tried to play games with a Sag guy she’s crushing on and although most people would find it off, the guy just laughed and said he found it funny and even cute. Her scheme worked because she got his attention and they even became friends. The second time she did this she turned the notch up that our Sag subject actually found it offensive but said “it’s ok, it’s done, let’s just forget about it” and they remained friends. The girl then, tried a prank again a third time, thinking it was okay but this time turned it up and tried to involve Sag guy’s new gf. He then got mad and started calling her out on her prank and asked her to leave him alone then eventually stopped talking to her or responding to her apologies.
There’s no real need to look at the situation to understand where things went wrong. The girl already established a connection the first time she tried this approach so there was no need to do it a second time but let’s humor her. Yes, Sagittarius is known to love puzzles so a brain boggling prank (or mind games, if you must) might be very appealing to him. The second time the girl tried a prank on him is where the “letting things slide” trait of the Sag comes in. He did get offended but there was no harm done so he just shrugged it off. The third time, though, was obviously a whole different level because one, it includes someone aside from himself and two, the prank could be something that could ruin his relationship with another girl he started dating.
A Sag can be a nice person yes but, again, he has limits. In general, he will forgive as long as there is no lasting (negative) effect from the incident. If there is he will also forgive in time but maybe not because he wants to. The mighty archer can be a righteous person and he knows that the right thing to do is to forgive so he will grant this pardon but he will continue sitting on his high horse. He will not forget.
If you want to ask forgiveness from a Sagittarius you need to be ready to argue your point much like a defense attorney does in a courtroom in front of the jury. Choose your words carefully and make sure your arguments are valid. The Sag will use his intellect to prove his point so you should be able to do the same. Trying to appeal to his righteous side might help a lot. Make him feel (forgiving) it’s the right thing to do and he will grant you that. If all else fails walk away with this experience and learn from it.
I am an Aries, in love with a Marine, who’s a Sagittarius. I flirted with him outrageously and offended him the first time. Then, he said he forgave me. Well, then when he didn’t tell me he loves me back and just hinted at it only, I told him how much I love him. Now, he says I offended him greatly and crossed the his line. I can only be his friend and nothing more! He won’t even talk to me now. What do I do??? I’m crazy about him!
He’s playhing mind games with you and was testing your committment. Whatever it is that you had been playing around with him eventually he’s going to want straight to the point answers. Games can be fun, but we’re grown-ups and if you continue to act like a high school kid, then he will NEVER talk to you again. I’m a saggitarius man and I do the same thing with women in trying to gauge their interest, but essentially every human does it.
What do you do? He’s over you and wants a different challenge that lies ahead with another woman, if he goes back to you, you would have to go above and beyond by having him recognize your true intentions and make him recognize your overall beauty and NO do NOT bring another guy into the equation, do that you might as well kiss your sagittarius man good-bye for eternity.
Hope that helps….
Hi. I’m a gemini. I looked at his ipad notification. I do not have have his ipad password. But I told him. He got pist. Wants me to leave the house. Said harsh things. What should I do? His also a sagg
am a leo and am crazily in luv wid dis sagg man who is 11 yrs my senior… v hav a thing, he respects me likes me n v hav gud physical chemistry too bt d topic of commitment nvr came btwn us.. lately he has been talkin bout marriage(nt wid me, jus in general).. and i felt alerted., n strtd makin plans to propose t him.. bt i ws clueless bout wat way t go., so as a last choice i cald a frnd of his who became my frnd through my sag guy… dis scorpio fellow ws al sweet t me bt he sold out my plans t my guy.. it annoyed him and he tld me if i cntnu doin dis wat is btwn us wl hav t end., he also said am a gud frnd n a nyc prsn bt i shld grow up..
i jus knw 2 things.-1. i realy love him and want him in my life fr evr
2.i dint mean t offend him n respct him a lt…! i jus wntd d correct advice so dat i wont loose him al together…!
now am clueless bout wat t do…! please help me.
So I slept with and older Sagittarius man, and at a work party I told a few people about me liking him etc. I actually can’t remember what I said, but he got really mad and he hasn’t spoken to me in a few days. He won’t text me back or anything. I’m freaking out for some reason. I just can’t believe I made him that mad :/
I’ve been with my sagittarius man for 7 1/2 years. We just moved in together this March after 7 years. I know he loves me because he can not be without me. I tell him I love him and he says don’t . Why is he playing games if he asked me to move in with him
I have been talking to a sag guy for a little while and I made 3 or 4 mistakes and made him mad now this last time he has blocked my number and I am so heartbroken, how can I get him to forgive me, I am a leo.
Hey am a cancer. Ive been in a relationship with a sag man. and its been very shaky…3 months ago we broke up and got back together 3 weeks ago. and this week a few people were pressurizing me to break up with him….and I know it was really stupid of me but I actually did it and I don’t know what to do now…..please can someone help
Hi I’m a Capricorn woman & I’ve been dating a Sagittarius man for month. Things moved too fast for us in the two months. One evening we had an arguement that got out of control that I left his house immediately bcos of his temper & the harsh things he said to me. After that he kept me at arm’s length & i never saw him for 3 weeks.I asked him if he still wanted to continue with the relationship & he said he wasn’t sure. After that I decided to give him space & stopped texting him. He would text me every now & then & sometimes tell me he misses me but stoop telling me he loves me like he used to. One evenIng I decided to go out with my friends to a local high class pub that he frequently goes to… I met a good looking guy who started giving me attention which i responded positively to. In approx 1 hour my Sagittarius boyfriend mysterious was standing about 200 mtrs from me in the same put. He stood there almost like waiting for me to talk to him or maybe introduce him. I froze and just starred at him & decided not to introduce or talk to him. He stood there watching me as I talking to this guy for some time. As I went to the ladies room he followed me & told him to never contact him again. The next day he phoned to verbally insult me. He then since blocked my mobile. As for the new guy, well the relationship never even started.nothing happened between uuuus