If you’ve dated a Sagittarius guy you’d know that he is complex and hard to catch. These men born under the zodiac Sagittarius are very approachable because they are naturally friendly people. But getting their attention is different from keeping it. Whether we like it or not, the men with the sign represented by an Archer or a Centaur will follow the next thing that will catch their attention. Being a dual sign (half man, half horse), a Sagittarian tends to have a double personality too. One is philosophical and idealistic (man) and the other wild and carefree (horse). Given that, one must be ready to come across both personalities and be able to handle it before she plans to seduce him.
Sagittarius Traits. A Sagittarian is easily attracted to a woman that’s fun and full of energy and sex appeal. So what you need to do is dress flirty (not slutty), put on some make up and light perfume, laugh, look fun and HAVE fun. This will get his attention right away and will make him fall for you. Be warm and friendly towards him and his friends. His friends are very important to him and this will make him feel you accept him as a whole.
The Sagittarius man can also be considered a knight in shining armor. Generally, he will want to reach out to help and fight for a worthy cause. But, other than hanging out with fun people he can’t help but get involved with a damsel in distress. Note that this is a part of him that has a dual personality or varied tastes. He may feel he has the responsibility to make things right for someone. This is the alpha male in him acting out. On the contrary, he doesn’t like women who cannot stand for themselves. This is where it can get complex. Do you act like someone in need or someone who doesn’t need anyone? A little bit of both. You don’t want to act like a weakling who can’t fend for yourself. You need to have enough confidence to let him see you do have your moments but you can always bounce back on your feet.
Moreover, the centaur is a physical person and it bores him to sit around doing and seeing the same things. You need to be able to offer him something else. Constantly.
Seducing The Sagittarius Guy. Don’t just go for the usual things people do on a date. That’s no way to turn on the Archer. If you want him hooked to you engage him in physical activities. A Sagittarius loves sports and outdoor events so plan on a weekend out of town or do activities together. Some of the things you might want to try are gambling, camping, horseback riding, wake boarding or even bungee jumping and sky diving if you really want to impress him. Be impulsive too. Even if you have planned to do one activity it wouldn’t hurt to switch to a different one or add it up if you can still take it. He would love the spontaneity. Do some of these and he will surely bite it hook-line-and-sinker. One thing to keep in mind is that Sagittarians are direct people. You might not need a lot of seduction to get him to jump in bed with you. Most of them may even consider sex as a sport. Be aggressive and tell him what you want. You might want to refrain from mentioning anything about a commitment yet because this will make him run for the nearest exit.
Know What His Dating Rules Are. In every relationship it’s very important to know where you stand. Luckily, being straight forward people, Sagittarians doesn’t go through a lot of phases before he tells you what the score is. But you also need to know what his rules are when it comes to serious dating as opposed to casual dating. Do not force him into going to a serious relationship if he isn’t ready or does not want to. This would only push him away even more. Give him a little freedom and before you know it he will come back to you.
yes its correct. As i did the same to stress him for a serious relationship the very first time we met, he didnt like that and said it at once. but the good thing is he is still pursuing the terms. i ve decided to give him freedom until he decides!
I am an aquarius,he is a sag. we been together for three years on and off, we split up four mos. ago, he met another aquarius and I spent time with and old flame,(sag. also) will he keep other aquarius in his life and is this competition fof me?
Wow this advice is so on point. I’m a sag and my ex is one too. We acutally have the same exact birthday. We was together for three years and everything was good until the arguments started. So give him freedom but keep him interested. He is a natural flirt but will remain faithful to you. And get to know his friends is definitely on point.
Excellent advice.
I am a leo and I recently fell for a sag who got out of a very serious relationship 6 months back. We did things for a week and then suddenly he vanished. Now he says that he promised me nothing and that he is still hurt! He wants us to be friends but nothing else. I know the way i feel for him is different and special. How do i get him! Any suggestions? Please…………
My first love is was Sag, we recently ran into each other again after 26 years (I broke it off the first time), now he is interested in going out again, and I am at a place where I can finally appreciate the many facets of this kind of man. I am also a Sag, our birtdays are the Dec. 18th/Dec.19th. Let him have his freedom is definately true, Sagittarians move fast and are always taking in new things, but do want a special someone to love, especially as they grow older. We are very endearing people and super sentimental, he remembers every detail about when we first were in love, I am looking forward to getting to know this man much better now.
I just met a Sag, im leo girl. All i can say is WOW about this guy. We just seems to fill out each other sentences and he adores me so much!!!!!
ANGELA: he may keep going to an aquarious because an aquarious is a wild card, you never know what you’re going to get. and thats what is appealing to a sagittarius. i am a sag also and we may be blunt but we are also pretty sensitive and will do almost anything to avoid letting people know we are hurt! you have to smuggle yourself in there to get him to really open up. remember that.
My ex was a Sag… I really miss him!
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I am a leo just met a Sag…. my God seems like i m with myself so much !!! I think this is a perfect match feels so comfortable !!! I agree with Nicky !!
Sag men are the best, I am now in love with one again. I am a sag too!
saggs are the best!!! lol me and my boo are saags and i love him to death!!!
I’m falling in love with a Sag guy. He is the best. I hope it works!
I’m an Aries, my man is a Sag and we’ve been together for three months. The one thing I love about this sign is that you don’t have to play games. They tell you what they want, and they tell you what they’re thinking – EXACTLY. It was a little hard at first because even the criticism is straightforward, but it’s worth it to know that you’re hearing exactly what’s in his head – because when you get the compliments, you know they’re genuine.
I love the fact that my Sag is a complex, interesting man. I could never be involved with a simple-minded, one dimensional man. I’m not the typical Capricorn, & usually guessed for Leo, or Aries. I easily satisfy his outgoing social style, & find it natural to keep him intrigued with my many interests, talents & activities. In the boudoir, I have clearly met my match, & I intend to enjoy him at every opportunity! He is AWESOME, & I’ve been blessed!
Under matches for Sag Female you wrote Aquaious is an air
For so long I’ve been looking at different sites to find out about the Sag man, and I thank God that I ran across this one! Everything was right on point! I am an Aries and he a Sag, yes two fire signs. Freedom is the most essential part of our relationship. We stl hold the title of jst being friends, but I can say tht I am his special friend and thatKs alright with me! He gvs me all that I want and need in a man without commitment. The sex is truly “the best I ever had”!!!
i am cancer and he is sag he is justt flirt , but he i loves me lot , he like to travel and enjoy life and even i
what gift must be given to sat male
I am Aries and he is Sag. we r crazy one for other, both so impulsive, we understand each other only by eyes, fun, speak, freedom, i hope to keep him for ever, all i learnt is need to give him freedom and not to be pushy, they run if they feel pushy, is great yes that no need to play with him, he is straight, is important also i think his friends to likes u, he pay attention to that. Before I have heard they r not jealous , but mine it is, what u think?
well im a capricorn and im intrested in a sagittarius man…we’re total opposites of course but i truely want to get to know him…what should i do??
I am a sentimental Piscean? How do I keep my Saggitarian man interested and loyal to me all my life?
im a leo woman and currently in a relationship with a sag guy…i should have read this article first before . i could have avoided the mistakes i did… all that was mentioned were correct…
hope we can be able to iron things out this valentine’s day… if he will come back to me
i’m a cancer and i recently just fell head over heels for a sag guy. i know that cancer and sag really don’t work out well, but luckily for me i’m just a big astrology nerd, so i know what to do, what to feel, and what not to, etc. most of this stuff really is true! my sag is playful and funny, and loves being active. he loves to do stuff for me, too. i guess i don’t like that he’s not too open, but he’s working on it–he just needed a little patience. i do give him lots of freedom, too. i told him i’d be patient and wait for him whenever he decided he wanted to give me his heart. –& that’s what he did, very recently, too.
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Aquarius girl, head over heels madly in love with my Sag guy. We’re so alike and complement each other perfectly and people always ask me when we’re getting married, but niether of us is in a hurry. And he told one of my best mates that he’s crazy about me.
sagittarius gal been with my sagittarius hubby coming up three years =-) strong!!!
Pisces dating a sagg for almost 5years FREEDOM is the key to making this work… us pisces love hard and 4m my point of view ive made him my world at times but from now on im changing that he will not be my world i will give him his space && pray god will keep us 2gthr 4ever =]
I am presently in the first stages of starting a relationship with a Sag man. I am also a Sag and know for a fact that we do not like to be closed in… we need to breathe on our own and come back home for REAL love and affection. Patience is a key word and it will happen, but never cease to let him know he is loved and cared for no matter what! Loyalty is extremely important… cross us once and you are out!
Sadges are generally really open. The way to keep him interested is to have a lot going on inside and out. If you don’t then chances are you’re not going to manage it very well. They get bored with routine. Seriously. But some Sadges have so much going on they might be open to someone who is stable, but not boring. If you are not the life of the party that’s okay, but just don’t be so grounded Capricorns!
Hi ladies,
I am a saggitarian man and the general traits of personality are really as described above.
It’s true that we are flirtybut faithful:) I come across lots of temptations but like to remain faithful, offering it to my girlfriend who is Capricorn.
To get one Sagittarian I give you some hints:
1. Invite him to visit a park or a place where there is nature around, after some time, stop for a drink, one that might be coffee with some liquor and a slice of cake.
2. Seat near him, or move towards him during the conversation, smile and laugh.
3. Plan also to go to watch a movie, and start palnning holidays that involve travel.
After steps 1 to 3 – or even just 1 – I assure you that he would approach you and start touching you:)
Good luck girls, we Sagittarians love to love and are very easy to live with:)
I just met a sag and he was direct right away. It sort of threw me off and when we saw each other last night, our second date, things did not work out so well. His initial honesty about his sexual feeling s toward me were arousing and off-putting. When we saw each other last night I kind of felt like a deer in head lights. he asked me if I’m inexperienced. I am! I was very honest with him but I was sort of embarrassed about my lack of dating history so I went no further into the matter. A friend stopped in to say hi(he is town for a little while) and this was upsetting to him. He eventually left. We spoke briefly today and we decided to try again next week. I really like this guy but I’m afraid I wont be able to hold his attention. I’m a taurus. Can you give me any advice?
ya.. am a sagittarius man looking for sagittarius girl. and leo woman(girl). age 24
I am sagittarian too…and feel totally blessed to have a sagittarian guy in my life…i love him like none ever before(this is my first time in a relationship though). And i am really looking forward to it. He’s absolutely the kind i so awaited. The best part is, he genuinely respects women. Man!! i love him <3
I,he been married to a sag for 20 years it has not been easy,since I’m Very control freak & everything has to be plans at time I still have to bank his chain & bust out the dip at the same timely I have no idea how we have lasted,since I found how FREE sags are I’ve done everything possible to scare him ruin our relationship.have not been succeful now I think they like a good chase.
Hello:)
Am a leo girl, and i’ve been with my sag. for nearly a months
god does he mean beyond the world:D
he is basically the perfect match for me(:
i honsetly hope we last.
i love you george:)
it is hard to keep a sag man but if y did you are so lucky woman y will never get bored or worried
just trust in him and stop tracking him away it is dangerous
good luck
I was recently introduced to a Sag. & the physical and emotional attraction is killn me of course bein a cancer n w/ him I thnk it’s just a pint of care but majority physical. We havnt done anything and Im on a mission to mold him to where he care but only because I’m ambitious not because I want a future—> Idk if he will deliver that much
It is true at he is hard to keep. Though I can stand him for that. When we are together, I feel that he doesnt care at all. I guess I was boring. We didnt even last long and we are currently separated…
Eduardo thank you for the advices
i think for my Sag the sex is very important too …. maybe way to keep him .
is true u r very easy to live with,
and by the way not stingy at all 😀 hehe
I am currently in a relationship with a sag man. I am a libra woman and I just don’t understand this man sometimes. His attitude is awful. We argue all the time. I don’t think it will last too much longer.
Im a Leo female and I married a Sagittarius when I was 21. They are very nice men who will not tolerate clingy women. You have to have things going on for yourself or you will find that they will be out chasing the interesting woman who does! Its that simple. A sag wants a woman that can teach him a thing or two. They will do what it takes to make things work. My Sag gets bored very easily so it is nice to always something for him to do (he will do it). They are very passionate and expect you to be as well. Sag men like to have an open end to their future so dont have his whole life planned out for him or he will run! At least dont discuss anything permanent because they have short attention span which will bore them with you if you do. Jus talk about your big dreams and aspirations. He will then be happy that you finally have something to talk about. He also does not like an emotionally weak woman so hide the emotions! Make him believe he is the emotional one and he will LOVE you, really love you.
i am a libra he is a Sag i dont think it will last we always argue
They do NOT like to be tied down…open the gate and they will RUN…but always come back if u give them freedom. If u want to tie them down they will never come back. So if u are looking for a relationship DON’T MENTION IT TO HIM…let him mention it to u. Have fun…don’t get too sensitive and make them feel special in every way…they will stick around. I do believe they are extremely sexual…so u better know what your doing behind closed doors…
Hei, i am a sagittarius female in a serious relation with a sagittarius male. We share the same birthday, we have been very good friends since long. Just felt like asking how i can make this relation even better forever.
I am falling for a Sag man, Btw, I am a Virgo. I do agree with the above descriptions. I do think that they want everything their way and at their pace. It is really hard for him to open up and tell me how he really feels about me. We’ve been seriously dating for about 2 months, and lately he keeps asking me during sex, how I really feel about him, which to me indicates that he may be afraid to fully give in… I’ve approached serious talks with him regarding where we stand, and he just tells me he wants to take things slow…Even though he claims that he like me very much, which I do believe, I just feel he’s just holding on to me as much as he can because of the amazing sexual connection we have, and which he claims he had never connected with anyone sexually as he has with me. All in all, he has me soooooo confused, I can’t put together his real intentions towards me…Any advice/suggestions??? If it helps, this guy is 38 years old, I do know that the older they get, the morethey are ready to settle down.
Thanks!
Well i m a a typical taurus and want to know straight away where the relationship stands when i m interested. I was introduced to a Sag male who (as described) is very active, parties, hangs around with loads of girls and is a BIG time flirt. Next thing i know he invites me to dinner and then spills out all he thinks about me and how interested he is and we kept as ‘friends with benefits’ for a mont, until i found out he wasnt only seeing me at the same time. I let him know straight away i was angry and all he could say was ‘im sorry and perfectly understand why your mad, but im single and i m not obliged to tell you’. they ALL want their freedom. AFter a while we kept in touch, and he told me he wants to take it slow before committing into anything..that he wants to ‘get to know eachother’..as a taurus i have very little patience and got in a few more fights with him because of rumors but he very honestly told me ‘ask ME’ ..they are VERY open and want to share everything without playing games. Its also very important to play hard to get or else they will hunt for those who do if you are boring or not interesting enough. I m giving him as much space as possible and i m hoping it is going somewhere..as he says.
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I’m a Sag/Aquarius and I must say that there is much truth to all of the positive comments made about the Sag male. As for the negative things, those aspects come from either Scorpio influence, Capricorn influence or the persons moon sign in which some cases, we mostly identify with.
The only negative aspects to our sign are Jealousy, and complete dis-interest in a person to whom we are not attracted to. That doesn’t mean we don’t make good friends to the “Not our type” bunch, it just means that we will not show or return any bit of the wanted romantic affection if we are not interested. Basically Sagittarius men are the poster children for “He’s just not that into you” if he’s not.
On the other hand for those that have a Sags attention, he will most definitely show you that he’s into you and as well.. he will tell you. Because some Sags have been exposed to unavoidable bad luck in life and love, they will tend toward several partners and keep their options open for 2 reasons… 1 if he’s been so jaded that the proverbial can of worms has been opened and it’s gonna take a mack truck to settle him back down, or 2 He naturally has trust issues and struggles with jealousy, and wants to know that you want and need him (That’s why Eduardo was so spot on when he said move towards him in the conversation) (|Only if you can tell he is into you otherwise, you seat next to him and physically show interest even minutely, you’ll rarely see him again. You’d never see him again if he weren’t such a nice and kind being.
The FIRE element in Sagittarius fuels his anger IF he really get’s furious, and also fuels his Romance. It is a guarantee that if a true Sag has the hots for you, his blood will always be boiling whenever he’s around you whether he tries to hold back or not. He will often have visions of you two intimately during any given moment conversation or meeting. For those of you whom have been lucky enough to garner the Sags emotional attention, but are hesitant because you don’t feel quite mutually, here’s the LOWDOWN: There’s nothing better! A true Sagittarius man will give you the shirt off of his back, and will go to great lengths to please his love interest in every way in and out of the bedroom.
If the Sag male loves you and is assured you love him, it’s like setting a brush fire to an entire planet, his affection will burn burn burn for you. He feels hotter the more he knows that he can have what he craves. It’s a charge stemming from the good nature of him, it makes him feel right, complete and in-order. Take inventory on your emotions and see if you can mesh your personality with his. A most important thing to remember is Sagittarius is extremely sensitive and good, though they have a hard and bad side that had to be brought out by negative opposing forces or people, they are indeed good and if you are ever hurtful in your treatment with them, words or otherwise, their affection could dissipate with a single action. Not out of meaness, but out of hurt, a Sag male cannot see himself with a person who would or could ever hurt them deeply. An apology and admission of guilt could repair the damage in time.
Aries female with Sagittarius male. Never has this magnetic force with ANYONE. We click. Been a week and we already connect on an emotional as well as a physical level.. The bedroom is AMAZINGGG. Unbelievable match!!
Head over heels in love with a very ALPHA sag man. He protects me, stands for what he believes, challenges me and others but is no bully. A true man indeed and kind to those who earn his trust. Lovemaking and sex is out of this world, Im a strong leo and still cannot help but surrender to his sexual dominance and power…my god he turns me on just to think about him. I really worry he will leave like they say when he has enough? Cant bear to think about it…he’s the love of my life :))
I am an aries and I so want a sag!
Where can I get one?
ok help! met a sag. from the start he told me “dont run me off” also mentioned he was not into relationships, so leaving him alone letting him do the calling now hes asking me why I am distancing myself? confused to say the least. I just like him enough to give him the space and freedom he loves.???/?