If you’ve dated a Sagittarius guy you’d know that he is complex and hard to catch. These men born under the zodiac Sagittarius are very approachable because they are naturally friendly people. But getting their attention is different from keeping it. Whether we like it or not, the men with the sign represented by an Archer or a Centaur will follow the next thing that will catch their attention. Being a dual sign (half man, half horse), a Sagittarian tends to have a double personality too. One is philosophical and idealistic (man) and the other wild and carefree (horse). Given that, one must be ready to come across both personalities and be able to handle it before she plans to seduce him.
Sagittarius Traits. A Sagittarian is easily attracted to a woman that’s fun and full of energy and sex appeal. So what you need to do is dress flirty (not slutty), put on some make up and light perfume, laugh, look fun and HAVE fun. This will get his attention right away and will make him fall for you. Be warm and friendly towards him and his friends. His friends are very important to him and this will make him feel you accept him as a whole.
The Sagittarius man can also be considered a knight in shining armor. Generally, he will want to reach out to help and fight for a worthy cause. But, other than hanging out with fun people he can’t help but get involved with a damsel in distress. Note that this is a part of him that has a dual personality or varied tastes. He may feel he has the responsibility to make things right for someone. This is the alpha male in him acting out. On the contrary, he doesn’t like women who cannot stand for themselves. This is where it can get complex. Do you act like someone in need or someone who doesn’t need anyone? A little bit of both. You don’t want to act like a weakling who can’t fend for yourself. You need to have enough confidence to let him see you do have your moments but you can always bounce back on your feet.
Moreover, the centaur is a physical person and it bores him to sit around doing and seeing the same things. You need to be able to offer him something else. Constantly.
Seducing The Sagittarius Guy. Don’t just go for the usual things people do on a date. That’s no way to turn on the Archer. If you want him hooked to you engage him in physical activities. A Sagittarius loves sports and outdoor events so plan on a weekend out of town or do activities together. Some of the things you might want to try are gambling, camping, horseback riding, wake boarding or even bungee jumping and sky diving if you really want to impress him. Be impulsive too. Even if you have planned to do one activity it wouldn’t hurt to switch to a different one or add it up if you can still take it. He would love the spontaneity. Do some of these and he will surely bite it hook-line-and-sinker. One thing to keep in mind is that Sagittarians are direct people. You might not need a lot of seduction to get him to jump in bed with you. Most of them may even consider sex as a sport. Be aggressive and tell him what you want. You might want to refrain from mentioning anything about a commitment yet because this will make him run for the nearest exit.
Know What His Dating Rules Are. In every relationship it’s very important to know where you stand. Luckily, being straight forward people, Sagittarians doesn’t go through a lot of phases before he tells you what the score is. But you also need to know what his rules are when it comes to serious dating as opposed to casual dating. Do not force him into going to a serious relationship if he isn’t ready or does not want to. This would only push him away even more. Give him a little freedom and before you know it he will come back to you.
I am a leo and I have been spending time with a Sag guy, I am really liking him and he says he is really likes me too. I feel such a connection to him we spend hours talking and laughing and I absolutely love to laugh. Its crazy but I have a feeling that he is the one and we have not entered into a relationship yet. I really want to take my time and I don’t want to scare him off but I can’t shake these feelings. I feel so giddy around him!
I am a Scorpio, I wanted to know if there could ever be a chance with a Sag.. I haven’t seen any feedback on any Scorpio & Sag relationships. Does anyone have any advice?
sorry Shaz, i am a sagitarius male. i think that the best matches for us are females born under leo, aries, aquarius, and little extent libra. with scorpions i have seen there is tension involved. find ur self a scorpion ora capricorn instead.
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Help!!! Im a Pisces female I’ve been dating a sag man for close to a year and half now..our circumstances are complicated ..i am separated but still reside in my home i share with my son and my husband…he is also separated but does not live with his spouse anymore..he has been asking me to move in with him but, i am not ready to put my son through the emotional turmoil involved in the change he is only 5 with emotional disabilities…thats being said ..he recently did some searching and got wind of a personal conversation i had with an ex of mine..and decided to run..he won’t talk to me or see me..he hardly even texts me..he and i were inseparable…love, obsesssion, emotional off the charts for the both of us..everything was reciprocated..i tried to make amends but, he still won’t budge…what can i do..i only hope i haven’t lost him for good…pls help..
im a gemini woman and i love sag men!!! 1 of my best matches. we laugh and have fun all the time
What the hell? where the gemini women at?! im one Nd apparently sagittarius men are very compatible with gemini woman. I believe that every bit becuz ive never been so physically, mentally, and emotionally attracted to any other sign. I have fun with my sag man…nd everything is new nd fresh with him. Im in looove!
I met a Sagitarius (born Dec 19th) through a dating site. We’ve been talking since Dec 25th last year! What stops me from going further than casual acquaintance with him is that all he talks about doing with me is…sex! He expresses that he’s VERY sexually attracted to me. He says that he masturbates to my pic (from the dating site). He only talks about his desire to have me ride him horseback (lol). As a TAURUS female, I love directness. I love for people to get straight to the point, but when it comes to dating, I don’t like men to constantly tell me how sexually into me they are. I like when he says things like, “How’s my baby doing?” But I don’t get to see his gentle soft side. I think he’s getting frustrated with the fact that I will not give in to his sexual advances…BUT Taurus women are highly classy and most of us just don’t do one night stands or casual sex kinda deals. I think he needs to tone it down a notch on the sex talk…but will he? There are things I like about him: what he does for a living speaks volumes about what he stands for a believes in, he does have a more gentler side that I rarely see though, and he makes me laugh and is easy to talk to. As a Taurus female, should I just walk away?
I just started dating a Sag (I’m an Aries) and my GOD its like we fit together perfectly. He is a little distant, I have to catch myself to not be so pushy sometimes but he is the one who initiated the “serious” relationship. But we were best friends for a year before we even started dating. We took it slow. But sometimes we have to catch ourselves and slow down before we take it too far too quickly. I’ve only ever dated Geminis before and I have to say I’m liking a fellow fire sign way more.
I met, dated then settled for a friendship with my sag. As everyone has stated the sex was magnificent! We talked on the phone and spent countless hours together. He always stated that he was not ready for a relationship due to a failed marriage. Once I became further attached and expressed that he only wanted to maintain a friendship.We still talk everyday and hang
out occasionally with friends and family. But now that I have
distanced myself he has questioned it. He always says he does not trust women and if he were to become involved in another relationship it could only be me. Is that a mixed message or what? Like I said CONFUSED!
a bit he has commented on it. He has always said he doesn’t want to hurt me. My heart is with him. He says that he is still attracted to me and his interest is more than just friendly but, I feel that he only says that! He also says if I were to be in a relationship it would be with you. it would I am a gemini. Are we compatible?
Hey everyone I’m a pisces and I been dating this sag for almost 3 months now and he still hooked to me lol …. we first me at this hotel spot and I was out with girls lookin cute ready to mingle, you know just having fun, laughing, being my self.. when our eyes met up with eachother that night and we was staring at eachother for 10 min straight, he came out of no where & told his friend out loud I want to make her wifey… ever since that night we been hanging out having fun and ofcourse giving him his SPACE!!! cause I love my space … thats crazy though I guess im not a sentimental pisces even though I can have my ways!!!! I think im feelin him Prayin cuz I want him
I am a scorpio and I am falling for a Sag guy – Bad combo except in bed but he’s the NICEST man – has a hard time with intimacy at this point which is hard for me because once I know I like someone I’m ready to join souls and move in together I am trying to bite my tongue, though, and let him move forward on his terms – I am just reading all I can about how NOT to run ’em off cause he’s a keeper if I can keep from getting too Scorpio on him. I know he likes me because he’s doing things Sags do to show it – cutesy nicknames and spending a lot of time with me though he’s incredibly busy. Any advice – and input to encourage me how I can know he STILL likes me. Scorps are masters of the smoke screen so total sincerity is hard for me to believe.
Grew up with this guy he’s a sag.Fallin for him fast but this was very helpful thanx! Hope it works out.
I am a sag 1 Dec. Fun loving. Think and work at my pace. Dont push me around and too hard. Dont suspect me because I wont do that. GENUINEly APOLOGISE when you offend me.
All that has been said about sagis are 99% true. there are somethings you may never know about them even if you live with them for hundreds of years. Sags are versatile and can adapt to different situations without stress.
I am married to Piscean for 14yrs with 5 kids. She is learning to understand me everyday. She cant know me fully, but she is trying and managing me. She is best for me.
I am a libra/scorpio cusp and dating a sagi/scorpio cusp guy for the past year! We both believe we are ‘elevated’ souls and we have shared so many soulmate instances that its unbelievable. The sex is just amazing and our trust in each other and ability to communicate is unbelievable. We both came from failed marriages and have children but I feel the love is just supreme and seems to be growing by the day.
well i am with this guy who is sag and i am a leo..we have great chemistry..i love going out with him we always have fun together..we have great sexual life..but sometimes i get really emotional with him maybe cuz i am very possissive about him..i hate the fact tht sag guys love flirting..thts why sometimes i get control freak for him..sometimes i even tells him that i doubt if he is seeing others woman too..when he gets careless about our relationship..and when he doesnt pay much attention on me..then i think he doesnt want me and when he stop talking with me for few days and get busy with his life then i think thts the end of our relationship but when he show more care about me then i get fine with him..i think i should understand how they r but i am afraid to lose him..thts why i get more possissive for him..i seriously need help to deal my relationship with him..i love him so much..he is the best thing ever happened in my life and i dont want him to leave me.and i want to get settle down with him but he is taking time in this matter. please help me what should i do?
I am a capricorn woman and I left my husband who is a libra and started dating a saggitarius man. I moved in with him and we were very happy for about 4 weeks. He then said he thought I should get an apartment. That didn’t sit well with me, so I moved out. He didn’t call or text for like two weeks and then it was always hey. He wanted to know who I was seeing. When I asked did he care he said yes, but he never asked me over or out. After a month and a half we hooked up again for a night. He now texts me but still doesn’t invite me over or out on a date. He flirts with me but that’s it.
I cannot figure him out. I have read all about saggitarius men on these sites and I know they like their freedom, but it just looks like to me he would ask me over or out and not keep playing games with me. I guess I feel like he is playing games as me being the capricorn I want to know how he feels and him being saggitarius will not tell me nothing other than I am sweet, good looking, and good in bed.
I do love being around him, and he is the spark in my day when he texts me or when I do get to see him. There is alot of interesting information on this page.
Im with a sagittarrean! Oh boy are they complex! They very faithful! True, dont ever pressure them to do something theu dont want to do! Its best to let them do the inviting, intiating because they can be hard to read at times! Although hes submissive and wants a dominent woman his freedom is on a need to have basis! They caring, but they do have strong egos! They can go for a long talk about themselves! This sag man wasnt brought with much physical affection so hes a bit of a reservist! Old fashioned, easily satisfied, flirts but not purposely! They have a warm inviting nature about them that appeals to woman! Mine is a gamer… Ps3! yep, i went there! We’ll see what happens! 2 mnths so far!!!
I’m a Gemini and I just started seeing a Sag. This description sums him up to a T! I’ve met his friends and they love me (he actually introduced me to them on the first date – that’s how important it is!) and I get along great with his family. The trick with him is to stand back a bit and to not let my crazy Gemini nature make mountains out of molehills.
Keep your own hobbies, do your own things, and let him do the same. So far, it’s worked amazingly because I realized after the first date (well, I didn’t realize, he very directly told me!) that he likes his own space. Respect that or he’ll walk away. It’s actually really good because I can still do things with my friends and he totally digs it. It’s the best of both worlds.
Laughs are great, time spent is awesome, and the sex is amazing. Just be independent and a little hard to get but still soft and feminine and you’ll have him!
I am a pisces and am madly in love with my sag man of 10 months. They love to entertain friends, go out, loves the outdoors. He loves his freedom and hates if anyone tells him no he cant have or do something. Sags are loyal but they are hard to commit, takes the perfect girl in thier eyes. I love how they dont lie and tell it like it is even if its not what you want to hear. He keeps me always wondering. Never a dull moment. Very confident men they are.
sag man are fun to be with,genuine,adventurous,direct to the point,sweet,flirt sexually very active,pure energy,abit no feelings because i meet a sag men his a pilot when we meet the first date we just have dinner an after we seperate with diff house,then next meeting we decided to hv fun cuz he only base in sg for few days travel again an back to sg in few weeks.so we really hv fun that night drink,dance,play im a party girl but that night is just simply amazing for me.in the mid that were togethr while drinking i open my fb and show him what i hv till we come to my friends list til he say to me wow ur friend pretty,means he like my friend so ok i ride on with him say ok i help u for her,then the next day i go home and i msg my friend say that my friend like her and she said shes not interested with western guy,then this guy say ask her to meet me an hv dinner with me.omg i talk to him calmy in txt but deep inside me i want to kill him 10x..hehe.but i told him dont worry i will stil help u ok,but he said ok if she not interested its ok then,u and me can meet again once i land to sg again..so for now i just see him in fb..thats everyday life for us..i like sag personality his perfect for me,i also like libra.this 2 sign is simply perfect..im aries women..good luck guys..aries girl is for sag and libra ok cuz this sign only can handle an understand as an aries women…
i am a scorpio and i been with a sag for almost two year and nearly got two kids to him what an attitude! he wants freedom very cool guy,nothing important but friends.. but i really do love him..
Wow!!! Its takes alit to get me this excited for a man but when I met this Sag……we clicked!!! Its like we are like magnetic together….the sex is amazing and his genuineness I love it!!! I really want to continue to grow our relationship….he said he is not looking foram anythang, a relationship right now because of his schedule
I hate to put to much energy into things that have no future but am a Aquarius and love freedom and space just like the Sag……however I do want to be in a evolving relationship…is this something that I should still pursue ??
I am a Libra, my lover is a Sag!! We are best friends and lovers… I have never experienced anything better… We never argue or fight… We agree about mosth things and our chemistry is beyond our physical bodies… I have dated Sag’s throughout my life.. Which we remain frienda… Nothing bad ever tore us aprat only life changes…. But now I am in my late twenties and I have met the man of my dreams (literally) .. Our love carries on like “The Notebook”…. & I am sure I found my Twin Flam….. Marriage is on the Horizon and Happily Ever After is sure to be our Ending!!! E&P= <3 2012
I am a Libra, my lover is a Sag!! We are best friends and lovers… I have never experienced anything better… We never argue or fight… We agree about most things and our chemistry is beyond our physical bodies… I have dated Sag’s throughout my life.. Which we remain friends… Nothing bad ever tore us apart only life changes…. But now I am in my late twenties and I have met the man of my dreams (literally) .. Our love carries on like “The Notebook”…. & I am sure I found my Twin Flame….. Marriage is on the Horizon and Happily Ever After is sure to be our Ending!!! E&P= <3 2012
Just met a Sag and he seems nice but I don’t want a relationship. I really hope he doesn’t fall for me like that. I am a Cancer. I just want to be friends and having a relationship is not the plans for me. Should I run now?
Gemini women and Sag men r def feeling each other lol…they r really attracted to us bc we r crazy, unpredictable and strong women..My ex is Sag and he’s my best friend now..sex was amazing, best I ever had…and he always says if I decide to come back he’s ready for me..lol..this is only what I get to meet r Sag men..they’re very nice but so handful!
I met a sag gentleman on line. We have the most amazing first date .. Second date was nice I tough ..and he disappear. After several mont I have the opportunity to talk to him again,and when let him know that I was thinking of him hi stop texting me…. Help me is hi afraid of me? Me being an scorpio woman I like to let my man know how I feel a out him. Because I am onset !!!
Omg! This is so true. I’m a leo woman and I’ve dated a sag in the past and surprisingly met another recently:) They are very good honest men but its best to give them they’re space. If you get to clingy they’ll run but for some odd reason always come back o_O
I am a sag. I am looking for a sag woman or a Leo woman.
They’re truly the one who able to understand a sag man.
I love to be free, yet I love to love.
Most women love to control and I really heat it.
I guess I will be single.
hey, im a sagitarius and i love my sagitarius man. we are in a serious relationship right now and we provide each other with care and the freedom we need. we undestand each other and our adventures are amazing. i just love him <333
I’m a Sag/Gemini woman and my fiance is a Sag/Gemini man, we are unconditionally perfect for each other. We complete the foundation of a relationship with ease. Our communication is spectacular, we are very open and understanding with our feelings and we always try and run the extra mile just to satisfy each other’s hearts. The beginning of our relationship was tough because of culture/religion however our bond and love is so strong that we fought through it and stayed strong. I guess I got lucky because mine is more then dedicated to be in a faithful commitment, he does not run like the others. They are harshly honest and highly genuine. Our relationship is always fun and full of excitement and life. We have the same thought pattern and get along smoothly. There is no feelings of being uncomfortable etc. He is sweet, charming, caring, and he is my ride or die. I love him and always will. He has intertwined within the threads of my life and I feel so lucky and blessed to have such a character in my life!!!!!!!!!
The relationship with my Sag is quite interesting to say the very least. I met him through the local craigslist personals ads seeking a nerdy girl who loves to laugh. I fit into that category so I hit him up. We emailed back and forth nearly every day for a month before we exchanged numbers and started texting. Then shortly after that we met and had crazy amazing sex. He made it very clear to me that he was not looking for a relationship, but that didn’t keep me from falling head over heels for him. He is aware of my feelings for him. We are excellent friends and he is constantly making me laugh and just fall for him more. I get weak in the knees when I see him. We are still having sex even though we are supposed to be just friends. Could he have feelings for me if at all? I don’t mind giving him the space and time he needs I just fear him getting bored of me.
This is funny! I am confident Leo, and had one sag who was very nice but emotionally restricted and boring, and incredibly stingy. Stayed with him nevertheless for 4.5 years because we had a nice time but NO fireworks, just comfortable.. I did love his family and his friends but unfortunately our relationship ended ‘cos I am so much more hot and fiery than he was, I found him so set in his ways and incredibly boring, and he was younger than me, bless him.. Just now started seeing another Sag.. soooooo cute.. seems like he’s very passionate underneath, quite secure in himself as he’s gone for me relentlessly for ages even though I had a boyfriend!!(a dangerous gemini he was, too..) I have great hopes for this one surely, and yes he is very honest indeed, which I love.
I am a Cancer woman and I’m married to a wonderful Sag. Although Cancers and Sags are quite opposite, we are happily married. We’ve been happily married for 13 years. Both my son and my husband are Sags. My Sags are indeed quite a complex men yet Cancer’s sensitivity compliments their complexity. You do need to be patient with them. Sometimes they are too straightforward that they don’t seem to be sensitive to what their partner is feeling. You just have to tell him exactly what you are feeling (not in defensive way) & he will understand. They don’t like to play mind games and tries to avoid “dramas” as much as they can. They are very easy go lucky and does love to live life to the fullest. They love to travel and adventure. They are however very family oriented. They are loyal men although they are flirty. You have to show them that you trust them and that you are not threatened by other women. Showing a little jealousy doesn’t hurt either as it makes them feel wanted. Making a relationship work with Sags men takes a lot of patience, understanding and much love. I am very much inlove with my Sag…he is worth all the efforts and the wait.
Hello, I would appreciate your opinion about something. I am Libra, my (ex) boyfriend is Sag. We dont live in the same country, and there are many miles between us. Our story started accidentaly, we were so surprised how it started! it all happened in a way as someone else put us together, knowing that we are a match. we spend a lots of our time txting to each other, travelling around. he is a proper Sag and i honestly dont mind his adventerous nature with other girls, it would be stupid because we are so far from each other. I told him i was hurt in past, and i have a big issue with trust. I dont trust people. alhough i am 28, i never had a date, i never spend night with someone (i had sex but without waking up in the morning), never been kissed in public and noone hold my hand in public too. he knew all that. i know he was interested because i was his ‘student” and he literally raised me, build me. i didnt care about other peoples rules, i wanted our own. i also told him i will never ask him to love me or like me, but i will always demand a respect. he agreed. after 8 months of living the dream, i noticed that he started to take me for granted. didnt reply to my msgs, ignored my questions or if he answered it was ‘you are being too girly”. so i stopped txting, i didnt want to push. but i felt worse by every day. so i send him msg saying i love him a lot, but i feel like i lost my own pride. loving him became more important that loving myself and i wont allow that to anyone. i told him i dont want to hear any news from him for a while. his answer was – OK. my heart was broken but i didnt regret. suddenly, he sent msg for my bday (it surprised me cuz he doesnt do this things once when he deletes someone). we started to txt each other again. then he stopped again.now im waiting…i dont know for what! do you know? what do you think? last week when he txted me he asked me what happened, i tried to explain in short, but he changed the subject right after….i ask you kindly to bright my brain, i am becoming more ‘stupid’ every day…thank you!
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True though, ambition is really sexy for sags . i’m piscean, I have been with my sag bf for a year now. He has been fun to be with, always hanging out except I despise us hardly having privacy of our own. The sex has been the best I have ever had and possibly ever have. He thinks more of people than for himself, loyal and charming.
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I have recently started dating a Sagittarius man and I am a Pisces woman. We both need our freedom but he is possessive and I don’t care for that part. I’ve been on a whirlwind of emotions probably because I’m so giving and love not only physically, but mentally, and with my whole soul. I’m faithful but he keeps on insinuating that I might be screwing someone else, can anyone tell me is there anyway at all I can reassure him he’s my one and only love? Thanks!
(I’m a Libra) I’ve been interested in a Sag guy for a little over a year now, and when we first met I was very shy and my feelings were made obvious to him. He didn’t show much interest in me but was still awfully kind and funny towards me.
But, I just met up with him again (with a several month gap in between) and wow, did he seem interested! It seemed the tables had turned, I was the one starting up conversation and he was the shy one. Granted, I did change within the months we didn’t see each other, I became more confident with my body/appearance and personality, and became even more independent and light-hearted. Little did I know that’s just what Sag men love!!
I’ll be seeing him again in less than a week, and I just know that this’ll be the start of something promising.
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I’m a cancerian,n he’s a sagi.. Even though we are a big unmatch..It doesnt matter..We love each other!! He loves freedom,n i give him that,i like security,he gives me that..He’s flirty,he flirts infrnot of me only..Bt he’s faithful to me…A sagi’s love is always true from the heart..
I keep reading about how Sags and Scorps aren’t a good combination. I met a Sag a few weeks ago. We’ve been on a few dates. The first date was at a very nice restaurant and he cut up our appetizer and fed me from across the table. We took a long walk on the beach after and had so many things in common. The next two dates were more of the same. I’m a scorpio woman, I’m very sensual and sexual but I have to say..the sex was crazy good ( he actually said that…I agreed). I like him a lot. I’m assuming his early behavior is an indication that he is digging me. Any Sags have any suggestions to keep this on the right track… afterall, I am a Scorpio woman. I’m in my mid 40’s , he’s in his early 50’s.Thanks!
Hi am a capricon lady I met a sag guy two months ago he told me he had a girl friend but I did not border cos I taught I can win his heart. And we started spending nite togeda and some times I stay over at his place for 3 to 4 days, but after a while he started acting strang like if I forget my pant and shoe in his place he will hide it and dat piss me off I tot we were making progress bcos he started using words like I love u and I can’t hut you. .pls I need help cos am confuse
I am dating and hanging out with a Sag. I noticed that he loves outdoor activities that is why I tried my best to be like him. And because of that, we had a lot of fun. My Sag. partner/buddy do not like doing the same things or be in the same place. So, ever since we had a variety of activities. We may repeat the same activities but it is after a month.
Sag doesn’t like to be interview with much personal life. I think just let him be the one to open it. Because if you do, he gives silence or frowning look. I never repeat that, it is hard to let the track back.
I love my Sag. partner/buddy. . .we never had any problem ever since. Just do what he likes doing and for sure you will always stick together.
do you have a website for Aquarius?
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to drive the message home a little bit, but other than that, this is excellent blog.
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I’m a sag man and all that’s written above is true….. and my gf is a cancerian, so we’re perfectly matched even though the signs are total opposites, and also, we broke up twice but I got back to her, so the sayin that the sag guy never goes back, well, I’m an exception who did. and I’m happy……