Wherever there’s a crowd, expect a Sagittarius (or a bunch of ’em) hanging around. Sagittarius people like being in the loop and up to date with whatever’s happening, yes, but most of the times, they ARE what’s happening. People actually like being with those ruled by the sign of the archer. They can have more friends imaginable (sometimes even more than they can handle). It’s normal to get envious of so much attention so some may want to take a leaf off the Sagittarius’ book and figure out how they’re so popular. So how do Sagittarius attract people?
Obviously, by attract we don’t just mean a date or towards the opposite sex. Now, if you ask a Sag they probably can’t give you a straight answer. Most of the times they’re not even aware they’re being such crowd magnets. But that may be one of the biggest reasons they’re so successful at doing it.
If anything, a Sagittarius is always true to himself. They never put on a mask for one crowd, a different one for the other and then take them all off when they get home. They’re generally comfortable in their own skins that even though they aim to please anyone, they still don’t have to put on a show. Of course they expect no less from the people around them. They’re never afraid to say what they think and feel and they like to know how others do. It’s easier to gain other’s trust when you are trustworthy too. People, in general, tend to admire those that are truthful and like to stick to them.
The archers also have a very positive, the-glass-is-half-full attitude and it’s human nature for positive to attract positive. Other positive people wouldn’t want the negative ones to rain on their parade. Not that they never bother about problems and downsides. They may have the happy-go-lucky brand but Sagittarius works through any obstacle they come across. They can be hard workers especially when working towards something they really want.
Now, with positive thinking also comes open mindedness. There are things and situations that will come your way that aren’t black or white but in various shades of grey. If you’re a Sag (or you want to be like a Sag) you’ll know that you need to analyze these things and accept it the way it is or work a way to make it acceptable by your standards. Sagittarius people can be firm in what they believe in but they are also acquainted with the word compromise. You can’t get everything you want in life is a popular phrase and that popular phrase is true. It doesn’t mean, however, that you’re going to stop there. There are other things in life that, you may not realize now, are way better than what you have dreamed of.
It may all sound so simple and easy to say (and it is) but some of these things are actually hard to do. It’s not always easy to attract people you can connect with but don’t let that stop you and bring you down. A real Sagittarius won’t.