We’ll take their cases for example. Both of them are parents now and showed everyone they’re good at it. The baseball fan, of course, did as he said. He may sound very much like a kid at the age of 38 but this proved to be a good thing. He spends a lot of his time playing with his son. A Sag dad is the type of dad who wants to spend as much time as he can with his children. They know how to show their kids a good time and they will be loved for that. They know when to take things seriously too and although they aren’t the disciplinarian type, they know how to instill good values to their kids by spending time with them and showing them how the world works. Sags believe that quality time together with their kids will mean a lot because that is what they want from their parents too.

On the case of the 35 year old guy, he did get his wish of having the baby before his sister but lo and behold, he couldn’t even keep his hands off his little bundle of joy to have his parents fuss over her. He was so overwhelmed and fell in love at the first sight that he’s the one who would stay up all night to change her diapers and make her a bottle of milk. Now, seeing him like that makes one think he’s the spoiler not the grandparents. But a Sagittarius’ sense of independence and intellect gives him the sense to raise the girl properly, not giving in too much to her demands and making her discover things on her own. Sags grew up like that. They liked exploring and trying to figure out things without others help. They may be impatient at times but take joy and pride at learning new things on their own.

They may seem a lot of work, these Sagittarius men. That’s because they are. But that doesn’t mean they stay the way they are forever. It takes different circumstances to see how mature (or not) they can act out. As carefree as they are because that’s how most people see them, they do wisen up once another person’s future is at stake.

1) Cut Back on Party Juice. It’s obvious, right? We all know Sags looooove to party. That’s good because a happy life leads to a long life. But being happy doesn’t always have to involve booze and cigarettes and staying up late every weekend. Try to cut back on alcohol. Just take a good amount of it to give you the right buzz to make crazy dance moves on the floor. Or consider something more tame. Sometimes, a quiet dinner out with a select number of friends have its own rewards.

2) Live a Healthy Lifestyle. Don’t tell me you didn’t see that coming. This automatically follows the first resolution. Instead of staying out late every weekend why not sleep early on a Saturday night so you could get up early the next day and jog or take a walk at the park with your dog. Instead of steak, grill some fish and pair it up with some greens. Instead of vodka, have a glass or two of red wine. You know the drill.

3) Travel Abroad. This will make you hit a few birds with one stone. Planning to go out of the country involves the need to save up for it. You’ll learn to appreciate the value of money if you’re trying to save up for something big and a trip out of the country with a different money value will help loads! Also, they say Sags are a happy-go-lucky bunch that needs a lot of maturing. Traveling is one way to learn how to act like an adult. You will see and experience new cultures and can compare it with yours. Meet new people and try to live their lives. See how they go by their daily grind in a country that lacks food and medicine and appreciate how lucky you are for having what you have. By the time you come back you may be looking for charities and causes that you can participate in left and right.

4) Be sensitive. Sags aren’t known to be the most sensitive signs in the zodiac wheel. You don’t have to cry at the drop of a hat but try to read between lines or, at the least, make sure you put a filter between your brain and your mouth.  Just because you thought one thing is funny doesn’t mean everyone else will find it funny too. You may have a different sense of humor than theirs and if your humor is dry unlike the person you’re talking to then you might be in for a little trouble. :p

5) Have a Happy New Year! Push away bad vibes and try to attract only the good ones. If you can’t help it, use the bad things to make yourself a better person.

Intellect. Smart is the new sexy. So feed your brain regularly and sharpen your wits before you go on some some sort of exchange of wisdom with the Archer. They love reasoning. That is one of their strengths. For that reason they become one of the best on their careers and what does powerful men want? Women who can look them in the eye and meet them on the same intellectual level they possess. Women who are as powerful as they are. As much as they are alpha makes and like to be in charge they can’t resist women who keeps them on their toes whether it be in the board room or on top of the bed.

Confidence. Of course it’s not enough that you’re smart, you need to be able to project all those knowledge you possess without sounding like a dork.

Nice Legs In Flirty Dresses. It’s a dead giveaway. Yes tight jeans show the shape of your hips and legs but flirty dresses can do the same. You don’t have to dress like you ran out of cloth but just show the right amount of legs. You can wear either a knee length flowy, Sunday dress and simple strapped sandals for casual weekend lunch or picnics or those mid thigh dresses paired up with pumps or boots for dinner or a night at the clubs.

A Healthy Sexual Appetite. Well this is what the point of this article is, right? He would want to experiment and it would be nice if you could come up with something new once in a while. Or more often :p

A Fun-Loving Attitude. Again, he would want someone who is at the same level as he is. Someone who could catch up with him or possibly someone who he needs to try and catch up with. It will keep him entertained and we all know Sags can get bored easy. If you’re not paying attention, he might have to look somewhere else for some entertaining.

What you need to do is keep the Sagittarius man on his toes. Think brain puzzles- exciting stuff he can figure out and not mind games, lingerie and a lot of imagination and you’ll have this elusive guy wrapped around your pretty fingers.

Your “relationship” after the relationship will depend on the reason you broke up. Most break ups with a Sagittarius is caused by their need for independence. They will want to spend time with you but they need their “me time” every once in a while. Not to be alone and think but to hang out with friends and meet new people. Once they feel fenced in they be uncomfortable and may start thinking twice about the position they are in. Normally, in this situations, it will be the Sag who wants out. They like to talk, socialize and flirt in a harmless way so if you don’t like that you need to tell them, otherwise it will all build up inside you and before you know it you will be the one who wants out. There is little to no room for jealousy with a Sag. This can be suffocating for them. Again, once they feel cornered they look for the easiest way out. If the other party initiates the breakup the only thing a Sag will ask is an explanation. That is if they really don’t have a clue. Sometimes, as intellectual as a Sag is, he can be dense. He may not know his words are harsh. For the Sag, the things that comes out of their mouths are just opinions or facts. They may already be hurting you and they still don’t know it. If they understand the reason why you want to end up things then they can rest.

If you part with a Sagittarius in good terms there will be no problem staying friends with them. But most of the times, ending a relationship with a Sag means it’s really over. Don’t expect to hear from them or even see them. They will move on with their lives and choose to leave all the negative things behind. If your breakup is bad the Sag will just try to go forward so don’t expect to see them distraught or depressed. They will mostly party the bad experience away. In case you run across them they may acknowledge you as an acquaintance and nothing else. It may seem harsh but that is kind of the way for them to cope with it.

Now, Scorpio may be the ruled by the house that makes them the most sexual sign among all zodiacs but Sagittarius usually ends up having more fun. Why? Because they know how to get the most of everything and that includes activities inside the bedroom (or wherever they feel like doing “it”). It may seem like Sags lives doesn’t have much direction because they like having fun more than anything but they always know what they want in bed. Each sign has some sort of kink; a fetish that is their own and makes them distinct. So what does a Sagittarius have that sorts them out from the others.

Actually, nothing in specific … because they want it all! They are impulsive and like to push their limits making them try almost anything. They don’t like labeling themselves either cause that limits them to a specific class and Sags hate being boxed in. If a Sagittarius guy says, “I’m an ass man” he could be saying that to flatter you. Not that he doesn’t mean it. He may really be biased to women with fine asses but they won’t focus on that alone. Surely, a nice bottom will always look better if paired with an equally nice bosom. Today they may be obsessed with cuffs and latex but tomorrow they might want to use delicate laces and petals on satin sheets. Sags like to explore the unexplored and enrich what they already have. There are times they will have a fixation about something specific but unlike other signs who are consistent with their “preferences,” it will fade away. They value spontaneity and adventure so they are also inclined to be in open relationships or have some sort of agreement that gives them the type of lifestyle (that is to say, sexual activity) that suits them. Many Sagittarius can also be classified as pansexual which means someone who does not go with the traditional sexual attractions. They can be attracted to both men and women and even gays and bisexuals.

If a spontaneous, adventurous and even impulsive lover is what you look for, you will be happy to meet a Sag counterpart but beware of letting things get cold after the long run. Even when the Archer is devoted to you, they may wander if they find their current situation boring so make sure you try to keep up with them.

First off, Sagittarius people are hard to piss off. They have a pretty good sense of humor which can be dry and sarcastic so they know how to handle a joke when it’s thrown at them. They can also be callous without intending to be and as intelligent as they are, they can be dense when it comes to other people’s feelings so you need to spell it out for them. A Sag is usually seen as a very happy-go-lucky and come-what-may person but they also know how to get serious in life. They just don’t like getting stressed all the time. All that said, it doesn’t mean they don’t know how to get angry or sad. It just takes a lot for them to get hurt because they’re not very sensitive like the water signs for example. They like to live life and doesn’t sweat the small stuff.

Now, you know what they say about what could happen when the other shoe drops? It’s not that true with most Sags. They are mutable signs and learn how to adapt easily. They get hurt but they have the sense not to dwell on the negative things that happen to them or around them. This is one of the strengths of the Archer. They learn to shun out the negative people and things in their lives and charge it to experience so, although they are seen as careless when they’re young, they mature to be strong and wise individuals. They are good at learning from experiences and they only use it to make their next actions better. Now, whether they forgive you or not depends on the level of the damage you made. Telling them their dress looks awful probably won’t affect them too much. She’ll ponder on it for a couple hours but will also either immediately try to think of a way to remedy the situation or think of a nice come back to make the conversation lighter and funny instead of insulting. However, it could take a Sag relatively longer to get over things if you cheat on them. They may even make a scene upon finding out but they will learn to let go eventually and even sooner than you would expect but don’t think they’d readily take you back. When Sags let go, they let go completely. They’re not the most patient person when it comes to fixing broken things. They’d much rather look for something new to replace the last one. It’s just too messy and too much trouble for them. Although they are very forgiving and probably let the things you do slide most of the times, they are still human and there will come a time they’re going to say enough is enough.

When Jupiter enters its home sign, the results are even bigger. It is when the planet is completely powerful. During this time Sags will have so many ideas that they want to put into action. Their energies will be raw and high so it would be hard to stop them. They feel a great urge to take a leap towards “greener pastures.” They will be restless if they don’t put their concepts into action. Sags can be great people cause they have what it takes to achieve things. What they need to figure out is what way to go. Jupiter usually represents philosophy, travel, truth and also luck.

The Archer likes to learn continuously and they try to absorb what they can from people around them. Moreover, they like to try to understand different cultures so they like going on holidays to travel to far off places. The more exotic, the better. These are one of the most non-judgmental people around. They are genuinely interested to meet people so they will want to go on parties and social gatherings more (yes, more than the usual) when the Jupiter hovers over their sign. They make friends fast even when in foreign place. They also try to find reason for everything. They constantly try to figure out if the meaning of their (or people in general’s) existence. They strive to improve themselves thinking they have a greater purpose in life. They like to exchange ideas and give their point but they don’t mind getting proven wrong either. This means they learned something new so they take it in a good way. A Sag can expect a lot of big things during this time but it doesn’t necessarily come in the way they want it to happen. Sags has a lot of soul searching and growing up to do before they finally realize what they want in life. Sometimes they get sucked in by shiny things only to realize it’s only a facade. This can be true in relationships and career but they will learn to realize what they really need eventually. When Jupiter is in Sagittarius, the Archer feels lucky. Luck makes them feel that they can attract good fortune in whatever they enter. As far as finances go, you might feel like working on a new investment. It could be a new business or stocks to buy or even gambling. You may try to get that new job you’ve always wanted or go on an adventure.

When Sags do something they go big because they want all of the good things in life. Jupiter signifies growth and expansion but when you are ready for these two make sure you keep things balanced and try not to take whatever you already have for granted because most great things come from something small.

You’re a head turner. It could be because your charisma is naturally strong and you exude confidence and positive aura wherever you go. You may not be very secretive or mysterious but you have that hypnotizing glance that you, at times, aren’t even aware of. You need to read body language and know if the opposite sex is already giving the come-on. This shouldn’t be a problem since, naturally, you like to read between the lines.

You are very passionate, enthusiastic and energetic. You give everything you have in any project you get associated with … until you get bored. Your enthusiasm is contagious. Everyone around you wants a piece of it so don’t be surprised if you get swarmed with admirers at a party or an event. Just make sure whoever you go home with

You like to go big. All pun unabashedly intended but let’s not stick to those details. You may be seen as callous at times or even indifferent but when you want to seduce someone you go all out. Candles, home cooked dinner (yes, even the male sags will do that, romantic huh?), massages and stolen kisses. You are also generous which is a big plus. Just don’t overdo it and before you know it, the lucky one you made dinner for would be eating (dessert?) out of your hands.

You don’t like to just “get by”. Meaning you don’t settle for just enough. You want it all! Even if you’re very generous you secretly want to dominate your partner and see how it feels to have total control. You’re not shy but you’re sometimes scared you might turn them off. Don’t be. You won’t know until you asked … well until they tell you first what they want. But be open and ask them what they want and don’t want. Don’t just do whatever it is that you already know. You love the attention so you’d want to end up playing with someone who doesn’t mind being submissive once in a while, anyway. Don’t waste your time trying to please people if you want to be the one to be pleased.

You enjoy being teased but like to tease too! You’re one of the most teasing individual of all signs that’s why you like those stolen kisses which leaves your partner wanting for more. If you’re in the mood to be dominated keep on doing that and your partner will not be able to hold on for long. He or she will be all over you in no time.

Counting calories is going to be hard mostly because Sags are party people. The lowest calorie you can get from one cocktail drink is 85 to 100 which is from a Bloody Mary. Margaritas have 180 to 200 calories per serving and you know pretty well it’s not fun to drink just one of those. Beer calories range from 90 up to 300 calories per bottle depending on the brand. Try to limit your alcohol intake not just for weight loss but also for health reasons. Your best bet would be wines which ranges from 80 to 200 calories a glass and having a couple should be enough.

The biggest problem a Sag female faces when they’re trying to loose weight is that they tend to take a lot of stuff at the same time that it’s hard to keep up with the schedule especially if it’s a strict weight loss program. Sagittarius, by nature, likes to do one thing after another to keep them entertained. They get bored easy so it’s only rational for them to think of things to do even if they’re not done with the first task yet. Being idle is not an option. If you’re a Sag female try to clear your schedule a little bit. Don’t start your dance lessons the same day you’re supposed to run errands or enroll on a weight loss program the day you’re starting a new job. It’s either you won’t know how tiring one thing can be or how much time one thing will take. play it safe and don’t hog all the activities. There is a right time for everything so organize, organize, organize!

In choosing activities you might want to steer clear from hardcore work out programs since, again, it might not go well with your hectic and social schedule. Sags also find routines boring so there’s a tendency you’ll get tired one day and just walk away from it completely. Pick a physical activity that interests you. Take dance lessons. Street dance and pole dancing are in fashion these days. They’re also sure to make you sweat and shape and tone your bodies in the right places. If you like the outdoors, swimming is a good sport to take. It helps exercise not just your arms and legs but also your lungs. Biking, tennis, golf and of course there’s good old jogging at the park.

The good thing about Sagittarius women is that they are very enthusiastic and are positive thinkers and when they tell themselves they want to achieve something, they go for it. There’s tons of fun physical activities to choose from. All you need to do is be creative about it and make it suit your moods.

Since Sags are very physical and usually always on the go, a nice start to a healthy routine is good exercise. You don’t have to plan a 5-hour daily work out program and get bored inside the gym (unless there’s a hot number you like to watch in there while working out). The problem with a Sag is that they lack commitment, not just in relationships. If it’s a regular work out program then 8 out of 10 times, a Sag will miss their  session. Sagittarius male likes going with the flow. They fail to follow routines either because they forget it or just too stubborn to be part of a system. They like to feel free, that they can do whatever they want, whenever and wherever they want so keeping them tied up to a plan won’t work. Like everything else, a Sagittarius guy likes to have fun while working out so the solution here is to make his work out fun. Sags like exploring and going out so jogging in the morning or late afternoon can be a good alternative. It beats a treadmill anytime. Taking a walk or hiking on weekends can also be fun but if you’re after something that you want to enjoy to the fullest then pick a sport you’re really into. It could be golf or tennis but if you believe in what they say that more is merrier then go look for basketball or baseball buddies. I’m sure it won’t be hard because Sags have a ton of acquaintances if not friends. They are very approachable and fun loving that people just love being with them. Extreme sports are on the list too. Mountain or rock climbing is something a Sag will try if only for the adrenaline.

Same goes with their diet. Don’t make them try to loose weight or stay fit by making them count calories or measure the portion of food they take. It just won’t work out that way. Try giving them new food to try instead. Consult a nutritionist and ask for interesting dishes to include in the diet. Something good for the liver since Sags have a tendency to drink a lot.

A good thing about Sags is that they are very determined people and if they set their minds on to something they actually achieve it. They are positive thinkers so it only takes a bit of encouragement and challenging (since they love to take risks) and they’d be back on track to a healthy lifestyle.