For those who believe in weighing the astrological signs before entering into a relationship, you might consider some of the highly strung and strong personality traits that affect the Sagittarius. While some of the traits are admirable, it’s important to weigh them as a whole in order to know whether you are a good match. One thing to remember is not to attempt to combine conflicting personalities or your relationship will end before it begins. You want to make the right choice relying not only on the stars for your answers but also the distinct personality of the person in whom you are interested.

Sagittarians are loyal and committed friends and lovers. They love strongly and deeply and are completely faithful to their loved ones. In addition they will also be very good husbands/wives and parents if they marry. The key is in the “if” because many Sagittarians do not marry because of their active nature. They are unable to remain in one place for very long which doesn’t make for a good potential marriage partner. That doesn’t mean that all Sagittarians exhibit this trait, so you will need to look at each individual in order to ascertain whether a potential partner has the same ideals you do.

Sagittarians are also very active and adventurous. They will not be happy in a relationship with someone who is content to be sedentary or whose idea of a great date is dinner and the movies. While there is no reason to think this would not be enjoyable on certain occasions, do not think it is something you can do all the time. Dancing, hiking, swimming, horseback riding and sports activities are more in line with the lifestyle of a Sagittarian. He is content to have many projects going on at the same time but you want to make sure he doesn’t leave one to begin another just because there is something delaying the completion.

This sign is also very career-oriented even to the point of losing the love or family in the process. This may cause them potential health issues as they struggle to work harder in order to achieve the success they desire. Even if it involves a woman who does not have a career she may tend to be unable to provide affection and may be seen as frigid, a trait that doesn’t combine well with a happy relationship or marriage. They also tend to be very religious though they do not believe in God as much as they believe in his teachings. These of course go together on one hand and are separate on another—belief in God depends on beliefs in His teachings.

The traits of a Sagittarius are very strong and most are not open to compromise. That leaves friends, family and potential partners having to make concessions for the things they cannot change. You can expect to make compromises yourself rather than expecting a Sagittarius to do so.

Reasons. If your Sagittarius partner decided to end your relationship, chances are, they are feeling caged in. Sagittarians value their freedom. Once they feel the walls are closing in on them they will head for the door and won’t look back. Not saying this is the only thing that would make them walk. But it’s the biggest factor. Generally, Sagittarians can be impatient, wild, and are afraid of commitment. They are playful and flirtatious and if you voice out your concerns and let them know you feel insecure or jealous they will lose their interest. You have to have fun with them because all those flirting are just that, flirting. If a Sagittarius wants to end a relationship, they will tell you. If they don’t do that, there’s nothing to worry about.

This is the same as being clingy. Sagittarians are independent. Naturally, they will want their partners to be independent. Just like them. They will start feeling nervous and might even panic if all your decisions depend on what they want or what they need. If you think you should do this because you want to make them feel or to know they are important to you … STOP. If you’re deciding on something, whether it be big or small, just either make a decision first, tell them, and ask: “what do you think?” or “hey I’d like to get your opinion on this”. For them, getting their opinion is better than making them decide themselves. Also, since Sagittarius people are carefree, and yes sometimes careless, making them feel things rely on their decisions will be scary for them. They are independent people but looking after others can be strenuous if they’re not ready to do that.

Getting A Sagittarius Partner Back. Stalking your Sagittarius ex and sending them countless of messages and gifts won’t bring them back. You can’t make it happen right away. So don’t push it. Be patient in planning and executing the things you should do. For one, act nonchalant about it. You don’t have to act like you don’t care. Just say you’re okay with it if he thinks it is best (even if you’re not). Offer to be friends with him/her. That way you won’t lose touch and will still know what’s going on even if you’re not together.

Now one of the most important things to do is to love yourself. It may sound cheesy but it’s the truth. Sagittarius people will not give importance to people who do not think of themselves as important. Be selfish if you must. It’s not always that bad. People in a relationship generally makes does things to please their partner. Just take time off to pamper yourself and do the things that you want and don’t think about what he wants or what he may think about it. You’re not in a relationship anymore so what he thinks should not matter, really.

Build up your confidence again. Chances are, you broke up because you were feeling insecure and he knows it. Sagittarius people are very attracted to confident women. He wants someone he can take with him anywhere and not worry that she might not fit it.

All of these boil down to defining yourself. Boost your self-worth, feel important and be important. Respect yourself. If you don’t do that no one will. Make them feel like it’s their loss and not yours. If you take care of your own needs, stop being clingy and start feeling attractive they will find you attractive again, they will look at you again and who knows, they might want a second change again. If it’s meant to be it will happen.