While all of the astrological signs have specific traits that set them apart from others, Sagittarius has some that can be rather difficult to handle for many people. This is especially true when the Sagittarius links up with either another Sagittarius or another sign that has similar personality traits to some of those that encompass Sagittarius. Even though another person may not possess all of the same traits as the Sagittarius, there may be conflicts handling actions that occur with those traits that are similar. It’s important to understand what Sagittarius expects in a mate before you allow yourself to become actively involved with this sign.

One of the first things Sagittarius expects from a mate is acceptance for what they are. Do not attempt to make Sagittarius in someone else or attempt to change them in any way. Instead of trying to execute change, you must be willing to compromise with them in order to prevent them from feeling confined. The Sagittarius mate will quickly become frustrated if he feels he is being constrained in the relationship and may even begin to entertain thoughts about finding other ways to express his naturally adventurous nature. You will immensely please your Sagittarius mate if you make the effort to engage in some of the adventures he enjoys. Certainly you are not going to enjoy everything, and he will not expect you to follow him everywhere he goes, but if you can compromise with him on some things and allow him to go about alone on others you will be well on the way to making him a much happier person to be around.

If you want to make your Sagittarius happy it is important for you to develop an understanding of how they work and what they expect from you in return. It’s important to understand the way the mind of a Sagittarius works. A couple of things you also need to know is their minds have a wide range of emotions inside that can cause the Sagittarius to fly on the handle with no warning whatsoever. You must learn not to take these outbursts personally because if you have done nothing to provoke them, you can be sure it is nothing you did. The problem is the Sagittarius has such an active mind that he may actually be thinking of something in his past that he feels he
could have done a different way and will actually become angry at himself for not knowing that at the time.

The Sagittarius is also a big talker and can keep talking for hours without even thinking about asking for your input. You want to avoid allowing them to continue in this manner no matter how interested you may be in what they are saying. Not only is the Sagittarius a wonderful conversationalist, they are also extremely brilliant and intellectual, but if you allow them to monopolize the conversation they may see you as witless and unintelligent both traits they would fine extremely boring. Sagittarius needs a mate that is on their level intellectually and with whom they can hold an intelligent conversation. They want your input and need to know that you have
something interesting and intelligent to add to the conversation.

and be idle. It’s important for them to be doing something, and if you want to be able to spend time with your mate, you must learn to accommodate that need. Even if you take a trip into the mountains and there is no one else around, it will be necessary for the Sagittarius to find something to do whether it means finding a way to make the cabin cozier or researching the surroundings to find out how others may have lived—he may even be tempted to research and think about what may have caused someone to build the cabin in which you are staying and why they chose the specific indoor and outdoor design.

Sagittarians are very curious individuals and have a need to find answers to every single question that enters their minds. When you buy a gift for your Sagittarius mate, stay away from simple every day gifts such as jewelry, clothing or music CDs. Instead choose gifts that will allow them to challenge their minds. A giant crossword puzzle or a book on a topic that interests them will be one they appreciate. Sagittarians need to stimulate their minds at all times, so you need to use that to your advantage when you choose gifts for a Sagittarius.

When you are with a Sagittarius mate you do not want to make any attempt to keep him on a leash. Sagittarians are not clingy individuals and do not find it necessary to depend on other people. Because they are so fiercely independent they will not tolerate restrictions very well at all. The Sagittarius must always be in control, so you must avoid attempting to dominate them. This action will cause them to walk away from the relationship—even if you are married. They will not hesitate to tell other people about the kind of person you were which could have a negative affect on any future relationships you might attempt to develop.

The most important thing to remember is Sagittarians expect you to accept them just the way you are without making any attempts to change them. Any attempt to try to change a Sagittarius will cause you to lose sight of not only your mate but also the relationship. These quick thinkers are always quite upbeat and happy and prefer to be around others who are the same way. Unfortunately they also can come across as rather conceited though not in an outward way. They tend to subconsciously brag to themselves about how great they are, thoughts that can sometimes project themselves into actions. You also must understand their need to dig deeper to find logical reasons for various thoughts that come into their minds while at the same time understand their obsessive quest for knowledge and love of life in general.

Sagittarius is possibly one of the most difficult of all the astrological signs when it comes to living harmoniously. While they are certainly very loyal and devoted as both friends and lovers, they are also prone to sudden outbursts of anger and frustration. While this is not something you should take personally, it may indeed be something you have difficulty understanding and tolerating. After all, not everyone can continue a relationship of any kind with someone who has the tendency to fly off the handle, sometimes for no apparent reason. In order to maintain any kind of relationship with a Sagittarius—friend or lover—you need to be prepared for these sudden angry outbursts and understand it is during these times you are better off to just sit and be quiet or walk away until the anger subsides.

Another problem many people have when it comes to having any kind of a relationship with a Sagittarius is their tendency to place their careers above everything else. This means there may be times when you make plans to go out, and something at work comes up preventing you from going through with your plans. It may be something that appears unimportant to you, but to the Sagittarius anything that involves his or her career is more important than anything else. They are very driven individuals by nature, a trait than is very difficult for those who are not committed to their careers to the same intensity to understand and tolerate. This can cause a great deal of disappointment and even animosity when both individuals are headstrong and unwilling to compromise.

Sagittarians are also adventurous individuals who find it almost impossible to stay still. They must also be doing something, and if you tempt to confine them you will make them unhappy. They need to have freedom to do the things they enjoy doing, and if you are unable or unwilling to join them in their quests for adventure, you must allow them to pursue those adventures on their own or with another friend. While it is easy to believe these traits might make the Sagittarius an unsuitable—or unwilling—partner for marriage that is certainly not the case. However, it does mean the person who is fortunate enough to get Sagittarius to commit to marriage will also need to have a great deal of strength and endurance to handle this adventurous individual.

Because of the adventurous nature of the Sagittarius, it is essential to keep him or her interested. Remember, they do not like to feel confined or tied down even if they are in a romantic relationship or marriage. Some people may see this need for freedom as a sign of restlessness, and while that may be partly true, this does not mean that the Sagittarius is unable to achieve a lasting relationship that includes marriage and devotion to family. One of the things you want to do if you are involved with a Sagittarius either as a friend or partner is take the time to engage in some of the activities he or she enjoys. While someone who has the same adventurous nature is the perfect match for a Sagittarius, you can build a good relationship by sharing some of the activities that are important to your friend or partner. Of course, if you have a total aversion to some of those activities (for instance, you won’t go hunting because you don’t believe in killing animals for sport or you won’t skydive because you have a fear of heights), you can still get around the problem by allowing your friend or mate to engage in those activities alone or with a friend who enjoys the same activities.

In terms of family life there are two problems that are likely to create a less than harmonious situation unless the couple is willing to work together and develop a compromise. One of the first problems is their tendency to be very indulgent parents. In order to overcome this problem there is a need for the other parent in the home to be responsible for setting down the ground rules for the children. Another problem that may occur in the home of Sagittarius is their need to invest heavily into their careers. This can cause both their spouses and children to feel neglected. It often appears they are married to their careers rather than their spouses, and this can cause friction within the household if you are not careful.

You never want to attempt to change a Sagittarius in order to fit your mold. You must accept them for what they are and work diligently at compromise in order to prevent them from feeling confined or restrained in the relationship. They have the need to feed their adventurous natures and they will resent any attempt by anyone to restrain them from expressing this part of their personalities. If your Sagittarius mate thinks for a moment you are attempting to restrain him or prevent him from engaging in those activities that are part of his adventurous nature, he is likely to become very frustrated and may even look for other ways to engage in some adventure.

It’s important to remember that in spite of some of the faults Sagittarius may seem to have, you cannot find a more loyal friend or devoted spouse or partner. While they are adventurous and unable to sit still, it is difficult to find anyone who would be more on your side and willing to stay with you through thick and thin. While they are high achievers and very driven individuals, they also believe in carrying their own weight. You won’t find a Sagittarius who is willing to sit back and let someone else take care of him or her—he needs to be active and being active also means he must be actively pursuing his career and working to get ahead. His ambitions will help
him find ways to pursue his love of adventure.

It is a difficult task at best to succeed in capturing the heart of a Sagittarius and getting him to commit to a one on one relationship. However, if you are fortunate enough to accomplish that, you also want to be very careful not to do anything to doom the relationship. There are five things you can do that would doom your relationship with a Sagittarius.

1.Try to control your Sagittarius.
Sagittarians do not like to be controlled. They are content to go about their own business and do not need anyone in their lives. They must always be in control, and if you attempt to take control, you will lose.

2.Be boring
Sagittarius has a very active mind and cannot tolerate people who are boring. He needs to have challenges, things that will allow him to use his superior intelligence to explain and understand the things in his life. It doesn’t matter whether it is things that happen every day or in an exotic location. The Sagittarius would be happy visiting a third world country and during his travels would need to discover why the people don’t have enough money and food to support their families.

3.Fail to accept him as he is
It is important to accept your Sagittarius as he is. There are specific traits that are common to the Sagittarius including his refusal to be controlled, and you have to be willing to accept these things or your relationship will not work out. You cannot try to change him into the person you want him to be or think he should be.

4.Try to keep him on a leash
The Sagittarius is not a homebody, he enjoys adventure. If you attempt to keep him in one place he will walk away. That doesn’t mean he will never want to stay home if you get him to commit to a relationship, but he will always have the need for adventure even if it is close to home. He would much rather go on a camping trip or the beach than spending his vacation sitting and talking with relatives you see only once a year.

5.Try to make him do something he isn’t ready to do
While this holds true of many things, it is especially true of commitment. It is very difficult for a Sagittarius to make a commitment, and the more you pressure him, the less likely he will be of giving in. Even if he falls in love with you it will be very difficult for him to make a permanent commitment, so you need to let him go along at his own pace. When he is ready for something long-term he will let you know. Just because he loves you does not mean he is ready to give up his freedom. In fact, many Sagittarians believe it is their goal in life to be with several women rather than committing to just one.

If you want to live peacefully with a Sagittarius, it is important to understand how they work and what they expect from you as a mate or dating partner. One of the first things to understand about a Sagittarius is they their minds have a wide range and could burst without you even expecting it. They also possess the gift of gab and can talk for hours without even taking into account any of your input in the conversation. At the same time you want to avoid allowing them to just overtake the conversation because at same point their need to converse combined with their overwhelming brilliance could cause you to appear witless, a trait that the Sagittarius would find rather boring.

No matter where you are with a Sagittarius, keep in mind they do not like being idle and want to spend every moment of their life doing SOMETHING. Even if you become stuck on a deserted island, the Sagittarius must be busy doing something, even if it means searching out everything on the island to attempt to come up with a way to get back to civilization. They have a keen sense of curiosity and will use it to find answers to all the questions that enter their restless minds. When you buy a gift for a Sagittarius, consider something that will allow them to challenge their minds such as a giant crossword puzzle. You might even find them interested in some bungee jumping—it challenges their mind as well as their sense of adventure. They will find the invitation even more attractive if you are fearful of heights and still make the offer.

You never want to attempt to keep a Sagittarius on a leash. They are not clingy and do not have the need to depend on anyone other than themselves. Their independent nature does not allow them to have any tolerance for restrictions. If you are in a relationship with a Sagittarius and attempt to dominate them, they will not hesitate to walk away from you and even tell other people the kind of person you were. What it really comes down to is that Sagittarians must be in control and will not be happy in any relationship where they feel they are losing control or when you attempt to control them.
You must accept a Sagittarius the way he or she is. Do not attempt to change them in any way or you will lose sight of the person and even the relationship. They are quick thinkers and very upbeat and happy sometimes with a tendency to brag subconsciously about how great they think they are. You can’t take this personally but must accept it as part of the personality of a Sagittarius. They will always want to dig deeper in order to find a logical reason for anything that comes into their minds. It’s important for you to understand their quest for knowledge and enthusiasm for life in general.

The Sagittarius is one that loves adventure and exotic places. They are not content to vacation at home and just hang around the house, and the farther they are from home the better they like it. Not only do they enjoy exotic places, but they also have a fondness for different cultures. This is due in part to the fact that Sagittarius is in the 9th house which is known as the House of Long Distance Journeys. This means in short they see traveling as not only an adventure but also as a way to learn things they will not encounter on their daily journey through life.

Some of the places Sagittarians enjoy going include beaches, camping, hiking in the hills and fishing. Their love is anything they are able to do outdoors, but they will not stop at these places and prefer to travel to exotic places and even third world countries. They see any kind of travel as an experience and adventure. The one thing to remember is while most people who plan for vacation reserve an island resort, a hotel in the mountains or a large city that is not very different from where they live, Sagittarius likes something out of the ordinary. Rather than seeing things completely planned out in advance, they like to do things on the spur of the moment—nothing would suit them better than going to an unusual place or even to one of the usual places and just have fun.

You are likely to find your Sagittarius mate would enjoy going to the Rockies, Yellow Stone Park or the Grand Canyon. Unlike the ordinary vacation spots that attract most people, Sagittarius enjoys these types of spots because they can camp out or stay with friends or family and just enjoy those things nature provides without any pressure to go sightseeing or do the things that people usually do when they go on vacation.

Sagittarians also enjoy third world countries to live or visit and would even enjoy traveling to Morocco, Cuba or the Philippines. While these countries do not appeal to everyone, Sagittarius sees them as adventures to be enjoyed. The have an extreme sense of curiosity and need to discover how all things work out in these places. Things such as how the people live, how far a hundred dollars will take them, and a look at the beaches and shopping arenas appeal to the Archer.

They also enjoy religious and historical places such as Egypt, Jordan, Israel and the like. There is no need to be on any kind of pilgrimage to visit these places nor do you need to be a religious person. They just have the need to see how it feels to visit the famous churches and other buildings and monuments that are part of the Bible. They might also enjoy swimming in the Dead Sea just to gain the feeling of floating without any effort. It is important for them to view old architecture and try to reconstruct in their minds how people used to live.

While compromise is a necessary part of any relationship, it is especially important for Sagittarius. This is true in part to the fact that the Sagittarius is quite capable of taking care of himself and doesn’t need someone in order to meet his daily needs. He is quite content to fend for himself and go about his daily business alone. In fact, it is very difficult for the Sagittarius to make a commitment to a long-term relationship or marriage, so if you are fortunate enough to get him to make the commitment, you will discover the necessity for compromising.

One of the first things you need to learn is you cannot control or dominate a Sagittarius. The Archer must always be in control of his own life and will not allow anyone else to attempt to have a hold over him. No matter how much he may love his partner, if she attempts to put him on a leash he will quickly walk away and not even think twice about looking back. It is very difficult for him to commit to a long-term relationship as it is, so anyone who attempts to control him will be left standing in the cold.

It is also important to allow the Sagittarius to explore his mind and those things that surround him. He is a very intelligent human being and has a deep need for not just adventure but for finding answers to everything that surrounds him. If you are not the adventurous type, you will have a very difficult time meeting the needs of your Sagittarius mate. On the other hand if you are willing to join him in the things he enjoys even if you don’t really enjoy it, you will find he greatly appreciates you and your company. Instead of refusing to join in those activities he enjoys, swallow your pride and join in—at least some of the time.

One thing the Sagittarius doesn’t like is people who are boring. Because their minds are so active they must always be doing things that provide challenges. You might make them very happy if you give them a gift of a large crossword puzzle or engage in a game that challenges them to think such as some type of trivia game. If you travel with them to a deserted island, they will still want to find out everything about their surroundings; they will not be content with just those things that are in their immediate view. They always need to know what, how and why for everything in life.
The Sagittarius is also a very upbeat personality and likes the people around him to be the same way. If you are sad being around a Sagittarius will quickly change your mood, and that is just the way he likes it. You also must accept him for what he is—never try to change the Archer into something other than what he is or you will displease him immensely.

One of the worst parts of any relationship is conflict, and when you are dating a Sagittarius it is important to learn how to avoid any type of confrontations. One of the first things you need to learn is that you cannot control a Sagittarius, and if you attempt to try, you will find yourself on the outside looking in; in other words, your relationship with a Sagittarius will be over! Even worse, you may find your Sagittarius will discuss the type of person you were during the relationship even after it is over.

Sagittarians are very inquisitive and curious people; they need to find out everything about life and how they fit into the scheme of things. Even if you put a Sagittarius on a deserted island, he or she will find a way to investigate the circumstances and maybe attempt to find a way back to civilization. They are very brilliant and intelligent people and must always be thinking or doing something in order to remain happy. They are not content to sit on the sidelines and allow someone else to think things out for them nor are they content unless they are busy doing something.

If you are the type of person who is content to sit around and do nothing, you will not be happy with a Sagittarius. The same holds true if you are content with the status quo because Sagittarians are always looking to learn new things and challenge their minds. They do not like being idle either physically or emotionally. While even a child might throw a big crossword puzzle book at you, a Sagittarius is likely to find this type of gift very challenging and may even see you as a best friend forever for your thoughtfulness.

You should never attempt to hold a Sagittarius on a leash—they are not clingy and can make out perfectly well on their own. They do not need a relationship or someone to depend upon in order to feel their lives are complete. This does not mean they are unable to care about other people but rather that they are extremely independent and can live with or without another person in their life. They must always feel they are in control of their lives and their own destinies and do not like those who would attempt to control them.

You must accept your Sagittarius mate for the person he or she is. There are specific traits that are common to Sagittarians, and you must understand the way these traits affect the personality of the Sagittarius you are dating. They may even project an unconscious message that shows they know they are extremely awesome, but you don’t want to take this personally—it’s just the way they are, and they may not even realize they are doing it. They always have the need to find a logical explanation for everything, and you must accept this in order to maintain a sense of peace within your relationship with a Sagittarius.

So he’s fun, passionate, sensitive, and loves everything that you like. It seems like he is genuinely interested in you; but be careful. The Archer is a master of playing the field. If you find it odd that he wears the same perfume that you love, or that he cooks your scrambled eggs just right, every single time, don’t think that this is because you are “meant to be”.

The truth is, the Sagittarian will do everything in his power to seem attractive to you. It is not impossible that he has done some research about every facet of your life. The good news is your Sag lover may be doing this out of genuine interest. The bad news is he will stay interested just as long as you keep him guessing. Yes, mystery is a gay-Sag’s version of Viagra. The problem is, it is easy to let the gregarious Sag know everything about you because, let’s face it, once you fall in love, verbal diarrhea is in session and you feel the urge to divulge all your little secrets. Bad move.

Mystery is what keeps the archer going, and inspires him to actually get to know you more. Once he feels like he knows you like the back of his hand, get ready to be dumped like a gay hot potato. Once he knows everything about you, you seem uninteresting, unexciting, and soo not worth all the wooing. So does this mean that a Sag lover is a bad lover? Well, it’s not like he falls out of love intentionally. But then again, there are some unintentional mistakes that are still unforgivable. And yes, we are referring to Bret Michaels’ unintentionally sexual remarks at the latest Miss Universe pageant.

The truth is, he can’t help but fall out of love (or interest) for you once the excitement of the chase is gone. So if you really want a lasting relationship with a Sag, get ready to keep him guessing. Mood swings, a diva attitude, and an uncontrollable temper all seem attractive to the drama-thirsty Sagittarian.

However, you are in luck if you do not actually wish to have a long relationship with the Archer. Why? Because they make the best lovers in the world. They are strongly passionate, willing to experiment, and since they get bored quite easily, get ready for a thousand and one positions in the sack. Yes, the truth is, the Sagittarian’s worst trait (his love of variety) in the emotional arena is also his greatest trait in the sack.

So how do you attract an Archer? Be witty, be sarcastic, seem uninterested but remain interesting. Spend some time alone with each other, but do not actually call it a date. Once he feels comfortable with you, he would want to get to know you more. Be kind to him, as flattery seems to be the best way to his heart. Then, play him, as he would most likely do you. That will keep him guessing, and in your pocket (and your bed) for a longer time than most of his relationships last. And if you’re in luck your relationship might last a whole week.

The parenting skills of those born under the sign of the Archer may be influenced by a slight reluctance to acknowledge fatherhood or motherhood at first. Their love of freedom, independence,and adventure might make them balk at the thought of being tied down by children and all their accompanying responsibilities.

But once the reality of parenting sets in, Sagittarius mommies and daddies can make quite good parents. Even better, their vast store of energy and sense of adventure can spell out enthusiastic rearing techniques, which means plenty of outdoor sessions with their beloved offspring. Camping, biking, sports meets, picnics at the park, dog-walking, etc., are just some of the expected childhood activities of those with Sagittarian parents.

A child’s stages of development can also prove to be a big adventure in itself for a Sagittarius mama or papa. Watching them grow up, start talking, walking, and developing psycho-motor skills at their own pace can cause great pride and anxiety. Their own sense of independence could be their yardstick for their kids’ achievements and aspirations. It’s understandable for a Sagittarius to want to get their kids involved in as many activities as is humanly possible, which is great. However, a Sagittarius mom or dad should take care not to push their children into doing physical activities they might not be ready for, or are enthusiastic about. Doing so could cause frustration and ill-will for both parent and child.

The key is not to make too many demands on the child, and always communicate on how they feel about doing certain things. As a rule, Sagittarius parents are generally permissive folks and do not feel the need to hem their children in with strict rules and regulations. In fact, they prize individuality in their kids in pretty much the same way they prize theirs. Knowing the value of learning from personal experience means having kids who end up making their own decisions and not being too sheltered or spoiled.

Travel is another thing that’s sure to be part and parcel of a Sagittarius parent’s method of child-rearing. Beyond acknowledging one’s wanderlust, travel means soaking up other cultures and learning beyond classroom walls. Whether it’s a new language, tradition, cuisine, or just about anything involving the customs of another group of people, a Sagittarian is sure to introduce their child to it by way of tours, trips, and journeys. Very young kids of Sagittarius mommies and daddies could already be exposed to books that speak of other cultures and exotic places, and eventually, maps, atlases and travel and guide books that could inspire in them a sense of adventure and exploration, as well.

Sagittarius people are highly capable of becoming great parents because it is a job they will not take half-heartedly. Just like the next great adventure, parenting is something they would want to thoroughly explore and learn from.

When picking out a present for that special Sagittarius person in your life, always think of the bottom line with them: they like their freedom and independence. With that bit of knowledge, you’ll be able to narrow down possible items in a gift list before finally deciding on the perfect one to buy, wrap, and give to them.

To make things easier, we’ve come up with top five best gift ideas for your favorite Sagittarian, male or female.

1. Travelling gear.

Since Sagittarius people are one of the most-travelled lot in the Zodiac, why not get them something practical that they will appreciate? Your best bets would be a classy travelling kit containing all the essentials: grooming tools, small bottles of shampoo, an aftershave or cologne spritzer, a tube of toothpaste, and a tiny toothbrush. Make sure everything’s compact and lightweight because your Sagittarian’s travelling bag is sure to be filled to the brim with stuff!

On that note, why not get them travelling gear such as a backpack or drip-dry clothing? Anything that can mean convenience and lessen the hassle of travelling, they’ll be sure to appreciate. This could also include a ticket to a package tour in an exotic locale, guide books, a compass, flashlight, Swiss Army knife, and other things an explorer might find essential.

2. A cuddly pet.

Sagittarians are crazy over cute pets. They’re the types to spoil their darling domesticated creatures rotten with treats and much attention. So why not pick out a kitten, puppy, or bunny from a pet store to give to your special Sagittarius? Even better, go to an animal shelter and pick out a lonely abandoned pet. This will appeal to Sagittarius’ deep sense of animal welfare.

3. Books, books, and more books.

Reading takes a huge chunk of a Sagittarian’s life. They do it when they travel, when they’re at home, and just about everywhere they have a moment to sit and browse through pages. You can be quite sure they almost always have a book in their bags, or filling up a shelf in their dwelling.

Here’s a huge hint though, if you’re going to get a Sagittarius person a book, make sure it’s about philosophy or travel. Coffee table books of exotic locales complete with glossy, high-resolution photos should hit the spot just right with your favorite Sagittarian.

4. Sports equipment.

Being constantly on the go is a must for a Sagittarius. Take your cue from this when shopping for presents for them. Pick out sporty stuff: gym clothes or equipment, camping gear, athletic accessories—or a mountain bike, if you’re feeling generous. Anything that spells out “a-c-t-i-v-e” is a sure bet.

5. Something that will tickle their funny bone.

Those born under the sign of The Archer usually have a good sense of humor. Chances are, they’re always the ones telling jokes and inventing gags. So pick out something that will encourage their constant state of amusement. Get them a gag set (ones that usually include whoopee cushions, squirting lapel flowers, exploding gum packs, etc.), a joke book, or entrance tickets to a stand-up comedy show or movie. Make your Sagittarius laugh with the gift you give, and they will surely love you for it.

6. A birthday party.

What best way to celebrate the beginning of another year in a Sagittarian’s life than inviting his friends and family over to have fun, fun, fun. You don’t need an elaborate one, just some food and cocktails where you can talk and even dance. The best part is, you can do this at the comforts of your own home.