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Getting a Sagittarius Man to Forgive You

If you’re wondering whether a Sagittarius can forgive, the straight up answer is yes. What you need to determine is the level of forgiveness the Sag is willing to give you. The question now becomes, there are levels of forgiveness? To which I answer, yes. The mighty archer is known to be very nonchalant and happy go lucky that most people thing they would just let things slide, whatever that is. But everyone has a boiling point.

I ran across a forum thread where this is a teenage girl’s dilemma. She tried to play games with a Sag guy she’s crushing on and although most people would find it off, the guy just laughed and said he found it funny and even cute. Her scheme worked because she got his attention and they even became friends. The second time she did this she turned the notch up that our Sag subject actually found it offensive but said “it’s ok, it’s done, let’s just forget about it” and they remained friends. The girl then, tried a prank again a third time, thinking it was okay but this time turned it up and tried to involve Sag guy’s new gf. He then got mad and started calling her out on her prank and asked her to leave him alone then eventually stopped talking to her or responding to her apologies.

There’s no real need to look at the situation to understand where things went wrong. The girl already established a connection the first time she tried this approach so there was no need to do it a second time but let’s humor her. Yes, Sagittarius is known to love puzzles so a brain boggling prank (or mind games, if you must) might be very appealing to him. The second time the girl tried a prank on him is where the “letting things slide” trait of the Sag comes in. He did get offended but there was no harm done so he just shrugged it off. The third time, though, was obviously a whole different level because one, it includes someone aside from himself and two, the prank could be something that could ruin his relationship with another girl he started dating.

A Sag can be a nice person yes but, again, he has limits. In general, he will forgive as long as there is no lasting (negative) effect from the incident. If there is he will also forgive in time but maybe not because he wants to. The mighty archer can be a righteous person and he knows that the right thing to do is to forgive so he will grant this pardon but he will continue sitting on his high horse. He will not forget.

If you want to ask forgiveness from a Sagittarius you need to be ready to argue your point much like a defense attorney does in a courtroom in front of the jury. Choose your words carefully and make sure your arguments are valid. The Sag will use his intellect to prove his point so you should be able to do the same. Trying to appeal to his righteous side might help a lot. Make him feel (forgiving) it’s the right thing to do and he will grant you that. If all else fails walk away with this experience and learn from it.

The Kinky Sagittarius

Sags doesn’t have any problem saying what they want since they believe things should always be laid down on the table to be analyzed. They are often seen as callous and sometimes even insensitive because when it’s sex they want from you, they’ll say it plainly and clearly. This sign doesn’t have a problem trying to tell lust from love so one night stands and fuck buddies are common for them. As a matter of fact, they prefer it that way. A Sag will mainly look for people who think the way they do. Someone who doesn’t have issues separating sex from emotional attachments. This way things are less complicated.

Now, Scorpio may be the ruled by the house that makes them the most sexual sign among all zodiacs but Sagittarius usually ends up having more fun. Why? Because they know how to get the most of everything and that includes activities inside the bedroom (or wherever they feel like doing “it”). It may seem like Sags lives doesn’t have much direction because they like having fun more than anything but they always know what they want in bed. Each sign has some sort of kink; a fetish that is their own and makes them distinct. So what does a Sagittarius have that sorts them out from the others.

Actually, nothing in specific … because they want it all! They are impulsive and like to push their limits making them try almost anything. They don’t like labeling themselves either cause that limits them to a specific class and Sags hate being boxed in. If a Sagittarius guy says, “I’m an ass man” he could be saying that to flatter you. Not that he doesn’t mean it. He may really be biased to women with fine asses but they won’t focus on that alone. Surely, a nice bottom will always look better if paired with an equally nice bosom. Today they may be obsessed with cuffs and latex but tomorrow they might want to use delicate laces and petals on satin sheets. Sags like to explore the unexplored and enrich what they already have. There are times they will have a fixation about something specific but unlike other signs who are consistent with their “preferences,” it will fade away. They value spontaneity and adventure so they are also inclined to be in open relationships or have some sort of agreement that gives them the type of lifestyle (that is to say, sexual activity) that suits them. Many Sagittarius can also be classified as pansexual which means someone who does not go with the traditional sexual attractions. They can be attracted to both men and women and even gays and bisexuals.

If a spontaneous, adventurous and even impulsive lover is what you look for, you will be happy to meet a Sag counterpart but beware of letting things get cold after the long run. Even when the Archer is devoted to you, they may wander if they find their current situation boring so make sure you try to keep up with them.

What Happens When You Hurt A Sagittarius

Those under the Sagittarius sign are probably the easiest to get along with because they don’t like to pretend they’re somebody else to please the people around them. Yes they take pleasure at making people laugh (and who doesn’t) and sometimes they may go out of the way to accommodate friends but only if the favors doesn’t clash with their principles and, more importantly, their schedule.

First off, Sagittarius people are hard to piss off. They have a pretty good sense of humor which can be dry and sarcastic so they know how to handle a joke when it’s thrown at them. They can also be callous without intending to be and as intelligent as they are, they can be dense when it comes to other people’s feelings so you need to spell it out for them. A Sag is usually seen as a very happy-go-lucky and come-what-may person but they also know how to get serious in life. They just don’t like getting stressed all the time. All that said, it doesn’t mean they don’t know how to get angry or sad. It just takes a lot for them to get hurt because they’re not very sensitive like the water signs for example. They like to live life and doesn’t sweat the small stuff.

Now, you know what they say about what could happen when the other shoe drops? It’s not that true with most Sags. They are mutable signs and learn how to adapt easily. They get hurt but they have the sense not to dwell on the negative things that happen to them or around them. This is one of the strengths of the Archer. They learn to shun out the negative people and things in their lives and charge it to experience so, although they are seen as careless when they’re young, they mature to be strong and wise individuals. They are good at learning from experiences and they only use it to make their next actions better. Now, whether they forgive you or not depends on the level of the damage you made. Telling them their dress looks awful probably won’t affect them too much. She’ll ponder on it for a couple hours but will also either immediately try to think of a way to remedy the situation or think of a nice come back to make the conversation lighter and funny instead of insulting. However, it could take a Sag relatively longer to get over things if you cheat on them. They may even make a scene upon finding out but they will learn to let go eventually and even sooner than you would expect but don’t think they’d readily take you back. When Sags let go, they let go completely. They’re not the most patient person when it comes to fixing broken things. They’d much rather look for something new to replace the last one. It’s just too messy and too much trouble for them. Although they are very forgiving and probably let the things you do slide most of the times, they are still human and there will come a time they’re going to say enough is enough.

Jupiter in Sagittarius

Being the ruling planet of the zodiac, Jupiter has great effect on Sagittarius people. Every decision and move they make may not be based on their Sag characteristic but the effects may vary depending on the planet’s position. Jupiter is huge and it represents growth and changes. This is a huge reason why Sags are big risk takers. They embrace change and presume things to expand according to their expectations.

When Jupiter enters its home sign, the results are even bigger. It is when the planet is completely powerful. During this time Sags will have so many ideas that they want to put into action. Their energies will be raw and high so it would be hard to stop them. They feel a great urge to take a leap towards “greener pastures.” They will be restless if they don’t put their concepts into action. Sags can be great people cause they have what it takes to achieve things. What they need to figure out is what way to go. Jupiter usually represents philosophy, travel, truth and also luck.

The Archer likes to learn continuously and they try to absorb what they can from people around them. Moreover, they like to try to understand different cultures so they like going on holidays to travel to far off places. The more exotic, the better. These are one of the most non-judgmental people around. They are genuinely interested to meet people so they will want to go on parties and social gatherings more (yes, more than the usual) when the Jupiter hovers over their sign. They make friends fast even when in foreign place. They also try to find reason for everything. They constantly try to figure out if the meaning of their (or people in general’s) existence. They strive to improve themselves thinking they have a greater purpose in life. They like to exchange ideas and give their point but they don’t mind getting proven wrong either. This means they learned something new so they take it in a good way. A Sag can expect a lot of big things during this time but it doesn’t necessarily come in the way they want it to happen. Sags has a lot of soul searching and growing up to do before they finally realize what they want in life. Sometimes they get sucked in by shiny things only to realize it’s only a facade. This can be true in relationships and career but they will learn to realize what they really need eventually. When Jupiter is in Sagittarius, the Archer feels lucky. Luck makes them feel that they can attract good fortune in whatever they enter. As far as finances go, you might feel like working on a new investment. It could be a new business or stocks to buy or even gambling. You may try to get that new job you’ve always wanted or go on an adventure.

When Sags do something they go big because they want all of the good things in life. Jupiter signifies growth and expansion but when you are ready for these two make sure you keep things balanced and try not to take whatever you already have for granted because most great things come from something small.

A Sagittarius Mother-In-Law

Face it. Oftentimes marrying someone means marrying the family too. Especially the parents. The only thing to do is wish you end with people you can actually be in the same room with. A Sagittarius woman might be one of the easiest person to get along with as far as in-laws are concerned but it’s still a make it or break it thing. She is often regarded as the “mad woman” which could be a good or a bad thing depending on what you make of it. So what’s a Sagittarius mother-in-law like?

She will be very accepting as Sags are not the judgmental type. She likes people and likes being with people in general and she will make the best out of your company so you should too. She finds people interesting so don’t think that her questions are part of an interview session if you’re good enough for their son / daughter. She is fun to be with and not as traditional as most in-laws are. She likes being spontaneous so relax and try not to act like every single move you make is numbered. If she sees you act naturally she will feel more at ease and believe she’s passing on her child in good hands. It’s also hard to turn these people off so you have to do something really bad to make them dislike you or something about you.

She tends to like to crack jokes and is always ready for a laugh. She doesn’t get offended easily but you might so be careful not to be too personal because she can throw something back at you without thinking about it and you may not like it. Sags sometimes speak without thinking so you might also want to learn to make your skin a bit thicker. She can be callous but she’s just the type who speaks her mind and that is better than talking behind your back.

They aren’t the traditional type of grandparents, either. They may duck out of baby sitting once in a while or skip a birthday celebration but she means no harm or disrespect. She may have a valid reason so don’t jump into conclusions. She’s not the type to sabotage anything so stop reading between the lines. There will be times she just have other social obligations since she is one social butterfly.

The good thing about Sag mother-in-laws is that they are independent so they will respect you and her child’s decisions and independent life. Most in-laws meddle with everything especially at the earlier parts of the married life. When she says something, she usually means well so don’t think she does it because she thinks she’s better than you are. She is a parent, first and foremost, so she wants their child to be taken care of the way they do or even better than they can. She’s not much into drama and may just see things in black and white.

Remember, she was once in your shoes too as a daughter-in-law so you might be feeling the same way she did a while back. Relax and try to enjoy her company.

Sagittarius-Pisces Compatibility: Ideal, Bad or Good Enough?

The fact that in the real sense water can put out flame makes this couple an interesting or even an unusual one. On the front, it might seem their differences are worlds apart because of their elements but the stars have proven to give a stronger pull that can make it work out. It’s true that they’re not like other couples that will have an instant attraction like fire to air but the thing that can make them a good couple is if they can see through the differences and work their way towards a good ending by using what similarities they have. For people who wants a fairy tale affair this is something they might call settling for the good enough, but is it really just that?

Pisces ruling planet is Neptune but Jupiter also plays a big part on their sign. This makes them share a lot of similarities with the Sag. They have the same goals in life although the approach may be different. Jupiter is perceived to be larger than life. Its influence makes the Sag want to get more of anything they put their hands on. They’re not the type to work on a project half heartedly. For them it’s all or nothing. Pisces goals are the same as the Archer’s but not necessarily in the same scale. They are a bit more practical and grounded than the fiery sign. Sag is much more optimistic and determined whereas the fish has some things that draw them back. The good thing about this is that as a couple, they could get what they need from each other. A Sag can tell the Pisces things that they need to hear to boost their confidence; the Fish can be a good and honest critique for whatever the Archer is working on. Unlike the fire element who just takes things head-on, water governed signs are a bit too sensitive so they must keep things in check especially if Sag is just trying to help by being honest. Jupiter is also associated with philosophy. Both Sag and Pisces are intellectual so they will have a lot of things to talk about. They may or may not agree with each other’s opinion but the exchange of ideas or even the debate itself will be very much enjoyed.

Sagittarius loves figuring out puzzles and they will enjoy getting to know the somewhat mysterious Pisces. The fish may not take the trophy for being the most mysterious sign but their water level have a certain depth of their own that is quite intriguing and that is something to begin with for the Sag. They are both romantic and loving but the Sagittarius might find Pisces a bit boring (don’t tell them that bluntly) when the initial attraction wears off. The Pisces, on the other hand, may find them too harsh or sort of unattached to be with in a long term relationship. Sagittarius wants never ending excitement in their lives. They look for adventure every day and most Pisces are content with just staying home and spending time with family or friends. They are quiet and keep to themselves. Sexually they can be very compatible as a Pisces usually has some tricks up their sleeves. However, there are more pressing matters to secure.

There is going to be a lot of adjustments if this couple want to make things work out. This is the make it or break it type. There are just things they need to let go if they want to stay together. This is not a bad relationship but it’s not for those who wants to stick to what is “ideal.” Rather, this is something for people who doesn’t mind working to get their happily ever after.

The Sensual Sagittarius: Understanding Yourself

The Sagittarius might be the ultimate alpha male, being represented by the Centaur or Archer, but that doesn’t mean he wants to have everything his way. He’s always willing to try something new, especially in bed, meaning he can be the student anytime if promised a good time. You’re ultimate satisfaction shouldn’t rely only on your partner, though. A Sag must understand not just his partner but also himself to be able to satiate both their needs. It is a two-way process, anyway. As a Sag, you should know you are one of the more sensual sign on the zodiac wheel so live up to it! More importantly, use it to your own advantage.

You’re a head turner. It could be because your charisma is naturally strong and you exude confidence and positive aura wherever you go. You may not be very secretive or mysterious but you have that hypnotizing glance that you, at times, aren’t even aware of. You need to read body language and know if the opposite sex is already giving the come-on. This shouldn’t be a problem since, naturally, you like to read between the lines.

You are very passionate, enthusiastic and energetic. You give everything you have in any project you get associated with … until you get bored. Your enthusiasm is contagious. Everyone around you wants a piece of it so don’t be surprised if you get swarmed with admirers at a party or an event. Just make sure whoever you go home with

You like to go big. All pun unabashedly intended but let’s not stick to those details. You may be seen as callous at times or even indifferent but when you want to seduce someone you go all out. Candles, home cooked dinner (yes, even the male sags will do that, romantic huh?), massages and stolen kisses. You are also generous which is a big plus. Just don’t overdo it and before you know it, the lucky one you made dinner for would be eating (dessert?) out of your hands.

You don’t like to just “get by”. Meaning you don’t settle for just enough. You want it all! Even if you’re very generous you secretly want to dominate your partner and see how it feels to have total control. You’re not shy but you’re sometimes scared you might turn them off. Don’t be. You won’t know until you asked … well until they tell you first what they want. But be open and ask them what they want and don’t want. Don’t just do whatever it is that you already know. You love the attention so you’d want to end up playing with someone who doesn’t mind being submissive once in a while, anyway. Don’t waste your time trying to please people if you want to be the one to be pleased.

You enjoy being teased but like to tease too! You’re one of the most teasing individual of all signs that’s why you like those stolen kisses which leaves your partner wanting for more. If you’re in the mood to be dominated keep on doing that and your partner will not be able to hold on for long. He or she will be all over you in no time.

The Scorpio-Sagittarius Cusp: The Cusp of Revolution

November 19 to 24 marks the transition of one zodiac to another and in this month’s case it’s Scorpio going to Sagittarius. The Scorpio – Sagittarius cusp is known to be the Cusp of Revolution because people born under this sign tend to go against the norm. They can also be very powerful individuals depending on how they use their traits.

It’s not that they like to be rebels. Both signs are very independent and like to do things their way especially if they think they can accomplish it more efficiently than the usual method. They try to follow rules and have great respect with what other people could come up with but they are also people who like to think out of the box. They can be employees and even better managers but usually, these cuspers are better off pursuing their own endeavors than seeking employment from other people or firms. This helps them avoid having arguments with authority since they will themselves will become the authority. They are opinionated and won’t mind saying what they think of something although they are good at checking themselves so as not to be tactless or even remotely, politically incorrect. In the end, though, they still feel they can make it on their own and they usually can so it is advised that they do go and start their own venture. They can be very dedicated when it comes to projects they’re working on and won’t stop until everything is working and in order. It doesn’t matter if people have already given up on it. This sign have the determination to finish things once they started it. These highly competitive people are involved in a lot of sports and activities. Not only because they find certain things interesting but it’s actually a way for them to sharpen their minds and exercise their physical reflexes.

All that being said, they aren’t actually the most sophisticated or even organized people. The dominant Sagittarius part of them makes them not very fond of long term plans. They like to live and learn things by the day and see what happens. How it affects their life whether personal or in general. Their curiosity gives them even more ideas. They are known to be fun, good-natured and generous.

Scorpio rules the 8th House which deals with rebirth and regeneration. Sagittarius rules the 9th house which has something to do with philosophy and theology. Scorpios are deep thinkers and Sags are just naturally intellectual. Together these two houses will look (or question) the meaning and purpose of life. Scorpio-Sagittarius cuspers like to go on vacations to soul search and find the truth not only within themselves but also in whatever it is that surrounds them. These people aren’t always serious of course. They tend to be a bit wild on their younger years; they just mature very well as years go by. They  are far from boring. They can lead a normal and conventional life but they come up with things that makes their never ending search for truth more fun.

The Sagittarius-Capricorn Cusp

The Cusp of Prophecy is probably one of the most beautiful and successful cusps on the zodiac. The overlapping or transition of one sign to the other is called a cusp. People under the Sagittarius – Capricorn cusp are those born on December 19 to 23.

This is a blend between an optimist and a pragmatist; traits that could take a person a long way once he figures out how to use them to his advantage. Amazing ideas tend to just roll out of people under this sign so they are usually successful in the fields that they choose. The Capricorn’s bright mind and the Sag’s thirst for adventure can be the start of great things. If they learn to use their positive traits they will find out how to come up with plans for the future without getting in over their heads. One of the best workers you can come across with are these cuspers. They always give out their best in projects and everything else they put their minds on. They are also reliable so they are usually assigned (if they don’t volunteer for it first) as leaders. They are direct to the point and believes the best way to reach a goal is to start NOW. Although the Sag is known to be a partier he knows when he should be serious and that attitude, when partnered with the Capricorn’s being industrious makes this individual an achiever. The dominant side of the Capricorn blended with the people-person trait of the Sagittarius makes them one of the best leaders a group can come across with. All that being said, some Sag-Cap cuspers doesn’t really have a set of plans or rules on how to do things. They usually deal with stuff as they come by. They like to learn new things by first hand experience which is both adventurous and practical.

Many people like the Sag and Capricorn cuspers because they are very friendly, humorous and loyal. They are known to be responsible, practical, aggressive, self-reliant and quick tempered but also fun, enthusiastic and romantic. They tend to give out so much but they do expect to be treated the same way. The Sag is very approachable and while the Capricorn is usually aloof, they can keep friends by showing their loyalty and giving great advice.  They have a wide set of friends but falling in love is not very easy for them. A Capricorn needs security and loyalty first and foremost, whereas the Sag needs his freedom and adventure and these two combined could mean that they need time to meet people that will fit their standards. Often times this is also viewed as selfishness. When they do fall in love it’s hard to fall out of it; they start to get very serious and think long term so someone who snags a Sagittarius – Capricorn cusper would be very lucky.

They can be very different in a lot of ways and these two signs might not work out if they are owned by two separate bodies but one person having both traits is a totally different thing. A Sagittarius’ disposition usually clashes with a Capricorn’s but amazingly, when both qualities are combined, better circumstances arise.

Weight Loss Tips For Sagittarius Women

Unlike Sagittarius men, the female archer are more vain and want to look their best all the time.  That doesn’t make them anymore committed than the men of their sign, though. Yes they go long ways to pick a dress and take time doing their make up. Physical appearance is a big deal for them so they make sure they are, at the very least, presentable. In return, they like their men and other people around them to be in shape. It’s the long term physical and emotional commitment to staying healthy can be boring for the ever adventurous Sag.

Counting calories is going to be hard mostly because Sags are party people. The lowest calorie you can get from one cocktail drink is 85 to 100 which is from a Bloody Mary. Margaritas have 180 to 200 calories per serving and you know pretty well it’s not fun to drink just one of those. Beer calories range from 90 up to 300 calories per bottle depending on the brand. Try to limit your alcohol intake not just for weight loss but also for health reasons. Your best bet would be wines which ranges from 80 to 200 calories a glass and having a couple should be enough.

The biggest problem a Sag female faces when they’re trying to loose weight is that they tend to take a lot of stuff at the same time that it’s hard to keep up with the schedule especially if it’s a strict weight loss program. Sagittarius, by nature, likes to do one thing after another to keep them entertained. They get bored easy so it’s only rational for them to think of things to do even if they’re not done with the first task yet. Being idle is not an option. If you’re a Sag female try to clear your schedule a little bit. Don’t start your dance lessons the same day you’re supposed to run errands or enroll on a weight loss program the day you’re starting a new job. It’s either you won’t know how tiring one thing can be or how much time one thing will take. play it safe and don’t hog all the activities. There is a right time for everything so organize, organize, organize!

In choosing activities you might want to steer clear from hardcore work out programs since, again, it might not go well with your hectic and social schedule. Sags also find routines boring so there’s a tendency you’ll get tired one day and just walk away from it completely. Pick a physical activity that interests you. Take dance lessons. Street dance and pole dancing are in fashion these days. They’re also sure to make you sweat and shape and tone your bodies in the right places. If you like the outdoors, swimming is a good sport to take. It helps exercise not just your arms and legs but also your lungs. Biking, tennis, golf and of course there’s good old jogging at the park.

The good thing about Sagittarius women is that they are very enthusiastic and are positive thinkers and when they tell themselves they want to achieve something, they go for it. There’s tons of fun physical activities to choose from. All you need to do is be creative about it and make it suit your moods.