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What Turns On A Sagittarius Man

Sagittarius men likes to meet new friends and flirt around. They are probably one of the easiest people to approach and be friends with considering their fun loving personality. They are seen as callous as they are playful to that extent but they are very affectionate people and sometimes even wear their hearts on their sleeves. That doesn’t mean it’s easy for them to get turned on or much more, fall in love. But why worry about that when you can have fun with them in the mean time? That question is something the Sag will actually ask. These people aren’t in a hurry to get tied up and want to have as much action and fun while they can. But what really turns a Sagittarius man on? How do you seduce them to your bed and make them want you more than they want any other women they meet?

Intellect. Smart is the new sexy. So feed your brain regularly and sharpen your wits before you go on some some sort of exchange of wisdom with the Archer. They love reasoning. That is one of their strengths. For that reason they become one of the best on their careers and what does powerful men want? Women who can look them in the eye and meet them on the same intellectual level they possess. Women who are as powerful as they are. As much as they are alpha males and like to be in charge they can’t resist women who keeps them on their toes whether it be in the board room or on top of the bed.

Confidence. Of course it’s not enough that you’re smart, you need to be able to project all those knowledge you possess without sounding like a dork.

Nice Legs In Flirty Dresses. It’s a dead giveaway. Yes tight jeans show the shape of your hips and legs but flirty dresses can do the same. You don’t have to dress like you ran out of cloth but just show the right amount of legs. You can wear either a knee length flowy, Sunday dress and simple strapped sandals for casual weekend lunch or picnics or those mid thigh dresses paired up with pumps or boots for dinner or a night at the clubs.

A Healthy Sexual Appetite. Well this is what the point of this article is, right? He would want to experiment and it would be nice if you could come up with something new once in a while. Or more often :p

A Fun-Loving Attitude. Again, he would want someone who is at the same level as he is. Someone who could catch up with him or possibly someone who he needs to try and catch up with. It will keep him entertained and we all know Sags can get bored easy. If you’re not paying attention, he might have to look somewhere else for some entertaining.

What you need to do is keep the Sagittarius man on his toes. Think brain puzzles- exciting stuff he can figure out and not mind games, lingerie and a lot of imagination and you’ll have this elusive guy wrapped around your pretty fingers.

Sagittarius – Virgo Lesbian Relationship

It is said that this Fire and Earth sign has very little to no chances of working out but a Sagittarius – Virgo lesbian relationship can always work out although, of course, it all depends on how much the two individuals want it to. A Sagittarius likes a lot of fun and parties whereas a Virgo is more practical and reserved. They may find some things in common but it’s the differences they need to work on.

The centaur, which represents Sag, is half human – half horse. No, Sag lesbians may may not be hung like horses but they are in a lot of ways as alpha as any other male there is. They have balls, so to speak. Now even though they often shun away from responsibilities they like taking over in relationships. This may pose a problem for the Virgo also likes to take over in this department. The virgin would hold their ground to get what they want if they think what they want is the right thing but luckily for the fun loving Sag, Virgos also wouldn’t mind hearing the other side’s explanation to make things work out. They would settle if it works for both of them.

People with zodiacs ruled by the element Earth can be reserved but among all Earth signs the Virgo can be the sweetest. It is the only zodiac on the wheel that is represented by a female. They can be very much in touch with their feminine side but are tough and can go through . Virgo lesbians can weather any storm once they set their minds to it. Among the two zodiacs, Virgo thinks more long term. This will help the Sag partner walk on a straight line, no pun intended. The Sag is intelligent but can be easily distracted. Virgo will set Sag’s perspective straight.

Intellectually, these two are great together. Sexually, the Virgo might want to stop being virginal and loosen up a bit. Sag can be very experimental and it wouldn’t do you harm to try some things too.

The biggest difference between these two may be found in the commitment department. The ever grounded and practical Virgo may be reserved and calculating but they won’t be scared of committing when the time is right. The Sag on the other hand, can be skeptical even if they know they are in love and that this is what they want. This could be because of other factors around them. A Virgo knows what they want and aren’t scared of trying whatever measure to get it whereas a Sag would like to take the easiest way and if they can’t may just want to go to the next prospect. Case in point, a Sagittarius-Virgo lesbian couple friend of mine broke up because the Virgo’s family couldn’t accept the relationship and although she was willing to fight for it, Sag got scared and made excuses to get away from the stressful relationship even though, through her own admission, she was still very much in love with the Virgo. Bottom line, whether the relationship will work or not depends on how much these two want to stay together.

How Do Sagittarius Handle Exes?

A typical Sag is known to breeze through awkward and even stressful events. They are one of the most happy and fun loving people. They won’t sweat the small stuff because normally for them, it’s not worth it. Not that they don’t ever take things seriously. They do. But only when they feel it’s necessary. In relationships they don’t hold back. It may take a while before they commit but they go all out when trying to charm someone. It is said they can charm a stripes off a tiger. They can be very sweet and will know how to make you feel special and one of a kind. If you can keep a Sag then you’re one of the lucky ones. Not all relationships with the sweet Sag works out, though. How do Sagittarius handle exes? They don’t.

Your “relationship” after the relationship will depend on the reason you broke up. Most break ups with a Sagittarius is caused by their need for independence. They will want to spend time with you but they need their “me time” every once in a while. Not to be alone and think but to hang out with friends and meet new people. Once they feel fenced in they would be uncomfortable and may start thinking twice about the position they are in. Normally, in these situations, it will be the Sag who wants out. They like to talk, socialize and flirt in a harmless way so if you don’t like that you need to tell them, otherwise it will all build up inside you and before you know it you will be the one who wants out. There is little to no room for jealousy with a Sag. This can be suffocating for them. Again, once they feel cornered they look for the easiest way out. If the other party initiates the breakup the only thing a Sag will ask is an explanation. That is if they really don’t have a clue. Sometimes, as intellectual as a Sag is, he can be dense. He may not know his words are harsh. For the Sag, the things that comes out of their mouths are just opinions or facts. They may already be hurting you and they still don’t know it. If they understand the reason why you want to end up things then they can rest.

If you part with a Sagittarius in good terms there will be no problem staying friends with them. But most of the times, ending a relationship with a Sag means it’s really over. Don’t expect to hear from them or even see them. They will move on with their lives and choose to leave all the negative things behind.┬áIf your breakup is bad the Sag will just try to go forward so don’t expect to see them distraught or depressed. They will mostly party the bad experience away. In case you run across them they may acknowledge you as an acquaintance and nothing else. It may seem harsh but that is kind of the way for them to cope with it.

Getting a Sagittarius Man to Forgive You

If you’re wondering whether a Sagittarius can forgive, the straight up answer is yes. What you need to determine is the level of forgiveness the Sag is willing to give you. The question now becomes, there are levels of forgiveness? To which I answer, yes. The mighty archer is known to be very nonchalant and happy go lucky that most people thing they would just let things slide, whatever that is. But everyone has a boiling point.

I ran across a forum thread where this is a teenage girl’s dilemma. She tried to play games with a Sag guy she’s crushing on and although most people would find it off, the guy just laughed and said he found it funny and even cute. Her scheme worked because she got his attention and they even became friends. The second time she did this she turned the notch up that our Sag subject actually found it offensive but said “it’s ok, it’s done, let’s just forget about it” and they remained friends. The girl then, tried a prank again a third time, thinking it was okay but this time turned it up and tried to involve Sag guy’s new gf. He then got mad and started calling her out on her prank and asked her to leave him alone then eventually stopped talking to her or responding to her apologies.

There’s no real need to look at the situation to understand where things went wrong. The girl already established a connection the first time she tried this approach so there was no need to do it a second time but let’s humor her. Yes, Sagittarius is known to love puzzles so a brain boggling prank (or mind games, if you must) might be very appealing to him. The second time the girl tried a prank on him is where the “letting things slide” trait of the Sag comes in. He did get offended but there was no harm done so he just shrugged it off. The third time, though, was obviously a whole different level because one, it includes someone aside from himself and two, the prank could be something that could ruin his relationship with another girl he started dating.

A Sag can be a nice person yes but, again, he has limits. In general, he will forgive as long as there is no lasting (negative) effect from the incident. If there is he will also forgive in time but maybe not because he wants to. The mighty archer can be a righteous person and he knows that the right thing to do is to forgive so he will grant this pardon but he will continue sitting on his high horse. He will not forget.

If you want to ask forgiveness from a Sagittarius you need to be ready to argue your point much like a defense attorney does in a courtroom in front of the jury. Choose your words carefully and make sure your arguments are valid. The Sag will use his intellect to prove his point so you should be able to do the same. Trying to appeal to his righteous side might help a lot. Make him feel (forgiving) it’s the right thing to do and he will grant you that. If all else fails walk away with this experience and learn from it.

The Kinky Sagittarius

Sags doesn’t have any problem saying what they want since they believe things should always be laid down on the table to be analyzed. They are often seen as callous and sometimes even insensitive because when it’s sex they want from you, they’ll say it plainly and clearly. This sign doesn’t have a problem trying to tell lust from love so one night stands and fuck buddies are common for them. As a matter of fact, they prefer it that way. A Sag will mainly look for people who think the way they do. Someone who doesn’t have issues separating sex from emotional attachments. This way things are less complicated.

Now, Scorpio may be the ruled by the house that makes them the most sexual sign among all zodiacs but Sagittarius usually ends up having more fun. Why? Because they know how to get the most of everything and that includes activities inside the bedroom (or wherever they feel like doing “it”). It may seem like Sags lives doesn’t have much direction because they like having fun more than anything but they always know what they want in bed. Each sign has some sort of kink; a fetish that is their own and makes them distinct. So what does a Sagittarius have that sorts them out from the others.

Actually, nothing in specific … because they want it all! They are impulsive and like to push their limits making them try almost anything. They don’t like labeling themselves either cause that limits them to a specific class and Sags hate being boxed in. If a Sagittarius guy says, “I’m an ass man” he could be saying that to flatter you. Not that he doesn’t mean it. He may really be biased to women with fine asses but they won’t focus on that alone. Surely, a nice bottom will always look better if paired with an equally nice bosom. Today they may be obsessed with cuffs and latex but tomorrow they might want to use delicate laces and petals on satin sheets. Sags like to explore the unexplored and enrich what they already have. There are times they will have a fixation about something specific but unlike other signs who are consistent with their “preferences,” it will fade away. They value spontaneity and adventure so they are also inclined to be in open relationships or have some sort of agreement that gives them the type of lifestyle (that is to say, sexual activity) that suits them. Many Sagittarius can also be classified as pansexual which means someone who does not go with the traditional sexual attractions. They can be attracted to both men and women and even gays and bisexuals.

If a spontaneous, adventurous and even impulsive lover is what you look for, you will be happy to meet a Sag counterpart but beware of letting things get cold after the long run. Even when the Archer is devoted to you, they may wander if they find their current situation boring so make sure you try to keep up with them.

What Happens When You Hurt A Sagittarius

Those under the Sagittarius sign are probably the easiest to get along with because they don’t like to pretend they’re somebody else to please the people around them. Yes they take pleasure at making people laugh (and who doesn’t) and sometimes they may go out of the way to accommodate friends but only if the favors doesn’t clash with their principles and, more importantly, their schedule.

First off, Sagittarius people are hard to piss off. They have a pretty good sense of humor which can be dry and sarcastic so they know how to handle a joke when it’s thrown at them. They can also be callous without intending to be and as intelligent as they are, they can be dense when it comes to other people’s feelings so you need to spell it out for them. A Sag is usually seen as a very happy-go-lucky and come-what-may person but they also know how to get serious in life. They just don’t like getting stressed all the time. All that said, it doesn’t mean they don’t know how to get angry or sad. It just takes a lot for them to get hurt because they’re not very sensitive like the water signs for example. They like to live life and doesn’t sweat the small stuff.

Now, you know what they say about what could happen when the other shoe drops? It’s not that true with most Sags. They are mutable signs and learn how to adapt easily. They get hurt but they have the sense not to dwell on the negative things that happen to them or around them. This is one of the strengths of the Archer. They learn to shun out the negative people and things in their lives and charge it to experience so, although they are seen as careless when they’re young, they mature to be strong and wise individuals. They are good at learning from experiences and they only use it to make their next actions better. Now, whether they forgive you or not depends on the level of the damage you made. Telling them their dress looks awful probably won’t affect them too much. She’ll ponder on it for a couple hours but will also either immediately try to think of a way to remedy the situation or think of a nice come back to make the conversation lighter and funny instead of insulting. However, it could take a Sag relatively longer to get over things if you cheat on them. They may even make a scene upon finding out but they will learn to let go eventually and even sooner than you would expect but don’t think they’d readily take you back. When Sags let go, they let go completely. They’re not the most patient person when it comes to fixing broken things. They’d much rather look for something new to replace the last one. It’s just too messy and too much trouble for them. Although they are very forgiving and probably let the things you do slide most of the times, they are still human and there will come a time they’re going to say enough is enough.

Jupiter in Sagittarius

Being the ruling planet of the zodiac, Jupiter has great effect on Sagittarius people. Every decision and move they make may not be based on their Sag characteristic but the effects may vary depending on the planet’s position. Jupiter is huge and it represents growth and changes. This is a huge reason why Sags are big risk takers. They embrace change and presume things to expand according to their expectations.

When Jupiter enters its home sign, the results are even bigger. It is when the planet is completely powerful. During this time Sags will have so many ideas that they want to put into action. Their energies will be raw and high so it would be hard to stop them. They feel a great urge to take a leap towards “greener pastures.” They will be restless if they don’t put their concepts into action. Sags can be great people cause they have what it takes to achieve things. What they need to figure out is what way to go. Jupiter usually represents philosophy, travel, truth and also luck.

The Archer likes to learn continuously and they try to absorb what they can from people around them. Moreover, they like to try to understand different cultures so they like going on holidays to travel to far off places. The more exotic, the better. These are one of the most non-judgmental people around. They are genuinely interested to meet people so they will want to go on parties and social gatherings more (yes, more than the usual) when the Jupiter hovers over their sign. They make friends fast even when in foreign place. They also try to find reason for everything. They constantly try to figure out if the meaning of their (or people in general’s) existence. They strive to improve themselves thinking they have a greater purpose in life. They like to exchange ideas and give their point but they don’t mind getting proven wrong either. This means they learned something new so they take it in a good way. A Sag can expect a lot of big things during this time but it doesn’t necessarily come in the way they want it to happen. Sags has a lot of soul searching and growing up to do before they finally realize what they want in life. Sometimes they get sucked in by shiny things only to realize it’s only a facade. This can be true in relationships and career but they will learn to realize what they really need eventually. When Jupiter is in Sagittarius, the Archer feels lucky. Luck makes them feel that they can attract good fortune in whatever they enter. As far as finances go, you might feel like working on a new investment. It could be a new business or stocks to buy or even gambling. You may try to get that new job you’ve always wanted or go on an adventure.

When Sags do something they go big because they want all of the good things in life. Jupiter signifies growth and expansion but when you are ready for these two make sure you keep things balanced and try not to take whatever you already have for granted because most great things come from something small.

A Sagittarius Mother-In-Law

Face it. Oftentimes marrying someone means marrying the family too. Especially the parents. The only thing to do is wish you end with people you can actually be in the same room with. A Sagittarius woman might be one of the easiest person to get along with as far as in-laws are concerned but it’s still a make it or break it thing. She is often regarded as the “mad woman” which could be a good or a bad thing depending on what you make of it. So what’s a Sagittarius mother-in-law like?

She will be very accepting as Sags are not the judgmental type. She likes people and likes being with people in general and she will make the best out of your company so you should too. She finds people interesting so don’t think that her questions are part of an interview session if you’re good enough for their son / daughter. She is fun to be with and not as traditional as most in-laws are. She likes being spontaneous so relax and try not to act like every single move you make is numbered. If she sees you act naturally she will feel more at ease and believe she’s passing on her child in good hands. It’s also hard to turn these people off so you have to do something really bad to make them dislike you or something about you.

She tends to like to crack jokes and is always ready for a laugh. She doesn’t get offended easily but you might so be careful not to be too personal because she can throw something back at you without thinking about it and you may not like it. Sags sometimes speak without thinking so you might also want to learn to make your skin a bit thicker. She can be callous but she’s just the type who speaks her mind and that is better than talking behind your back.

They aren’t the traditional type of grandparents, either. They may duck out of baby sitting once in a while or skip a birthday celebration but she means no harm or disrespect. She may have a valid reason so don’t jump into conclusions. She’s not the type to sabotage anything so stop reading between the lines. There will be times she just have other social obligations since she is one social butterfly.

The good thing about Sag mother-in-laws is that they are independent so they will respect you and her child’s decisions and independent life. Most in-laws meddle with everything especially at the earlier parts of the married life. When she says something, she usually means well so don’t think she does it because she thinks she’s better than you are. She is a parent, first and foremost, so she wants their child to be taken care of the way they do or even better than they can. She’s not much into drama and may just see things in black and white.

Remember, she was once in your shoes too as a daughter-in-law so you might be feeling the same way she did a while back. Relax and try to enjoy her company.

Sagittarius-Pisces Compatibility: Ideal, Bad or Good Enough?

The fact that in the real sense water can put out flame makes this couple an interesting or even an unusual one. On the front, it might seem their differences are worlds apart because of their elements but the stars have proven to give a stronger pull that can make it work out. It’s true that they’re not like other couples that will have an instant attraction like fire to air but the thing that can make them a good couple is if they can see through the differences and work their way towards a good ending by using what similarities they have. For people who wants a fairy tale affair this is something they might call settling for the good enough, but is it really just that?

Pisces ruling planet is Neptune but Jupiter also plays a big part on their sign. This makes them share a lot of similarities with the Sag. They have the same goals in life although the approach may be different. Jupiter is perceived to be larger than life. Its influence makes the Sag want to get more of anything they put their hands on. They’re not the type to work on a project half heartedly. For them it’s all or nothing. Pisces goals are the same as the Archer’s but not necessarily in the same scale. They are a bit more practical and grounded than the fiery sign. Sag is much more optimistic and determined whereas the fish has some things that draw them back. The good thing about this is that as a couple, they could get what they need from each other. A Sag can tell the Pisces things that they need to hear to boost their confidence; the Fish can be a good and honest critique for whatever the Archer is working on. Unlike the fire element who just takes things head-on, water governed signs are a bit too sensitive so they must keep things in check especially if Sag is just trying to help by being honest. Jupiter is also associated with philosophy. Both Sag and Pisces are intellectual so they will have a lot of things to talk about. They may or may not agree with each other’s opinion but the exchange of ideas or even the debate itself will be very much enjoyed.

Sagittarius loves figuring out puzzles and they will enjoy getting to know the somewhat mysterious Pisces. The fish may not take the trophy for being the most mysterious sign but their water level have a certain depth of their own that is quite intriguing and that is something to begin with for the Sag. They are both romantic and loving but the Sagittarius might find Pisces a bit boring (don’t tell them that bluntly) when the initial attraction wears off. The Pisces, on the other hand, may find them too harsh or sort of unattached to be with in a long term relationship. Sagittarius wants never ending excitement in their lives. They look for adventure every day and most Pisces are content with just staying home and spending time with family or friends. They are quiet and keep to themselves. Sexually they can be very compatible as a Pisces usually has some tricks up their sleeves. However, there are more pressing matters to secure.

There is going to be a lot of adjustments if this couple want to make things work out. This is the make it or break it type. There are just things they need to let go if they want to stay together. This is not a bad relationship but it’s not for those who wants to stick to what is “ideal.” Rather, this is something for people who doesn’t mind working to get their happily ever after.

The Sensual Sagittarius: Understanding Yourself

The Sagittarius might be the ultimate alpha male, being represented by the Centaur or Archer, but that doesn’t mean he wants to have everything his way. He’s always willing to try something new, especially in bed, meaning he can be the student anytime if promised a good time. You’re ultimate satisfaction shouldn’t rely only on your partner, though. A Sag must understand not just his partner but also himself to be able to satiate both their needs. It is a two-way process, anyway. As a Sag, you should know you are one of the more sensual sign on the zodiac wheel so live up to it! More importantly, use it to your own advantage.

You’re a head turner. It could be because your charisma is naturally strong and you exude confidence and positive aura wherever you go. You may not be very secretive or mysterious but you have that hypnotizing glance that you, at times, aren’t even aware of. You need to read body language and know if the opposite sex is already giving the come-on. This shouldn’t be a problem since, naturally, you like to read between the lines.

You are very passionate, enthusiastic and energetic. You give everything you have in any project you get associated with … until you get bored. Your enthusiasm is contagious. Everyone around you wants a piece of it so don’t be surprised if you get swarmed with admirers at a party or an event. Just make sure whoever you go home with

You like to go big. All pun unabashedly intended but let’s not stick to those details. You may be seen as callous at times or even indifferent but when you want to seduce someone you go all out. Candles, home cooked dinner (yes, even the male sags will do that, romantic huh?), massages and stolen kisses. You are also generous which is a big plus. Just don’t overdo it and before you know it, the lucky one you made dinner for would be eating (dessert?) out of your hands.

You don’t like to just “get by”. Meaning you don’t settle for just enough. You want it all! Even if you’re very generous you secretly want to dominate your partner and see how it feels to have total control. You’re not shy but you’re sometimes scared you might turn them off. Don’t be. You won’t know until you asked … well until they tell you first what they want. But be open and ask them what they want and don’t want. Don’t just do whatever it is that you already know. You love the attention so you’d want to end up playing with someone who doesn’t mind being submissive once in a while, anyway. Don’t waste your time trying to please people if you want to be the one to be pleased.

You enjoy being teased but like to tease too! You’re one of the most teasing individual of all signs that’s why you like those stolen kisses which leaves your partner wanting for more. If you’re in the mood to be dominated keep on doing that and your partner will not be able to hold on for long. He or she will be all over you in no time.