The astrological symbol of the Sagittarius is that of the Archer. Half horse and half man, the centaur archer is a fire symbol- feisty and free willed. They love their freedom more than anything else; and are mostly ruled by their desire for freedom. Centaurs, according to Roman and Greek myth, are considered to be great intellectuals and scholars, but they are also aggressive and temperamental. Sagittarians are typically upfront and candid about their personality and in the manner in which they deal with people, even their partners. While some are likely to find their frankness attractive; some might not since they leave no mystic aura about themselves. They are very generous in nature; this is because they are incapable of showing their love for their partners. Instead, they veil their care and love in the gifts they make to their partners and they do like to splurge.
When it comes to committing to one person; Sagittarians are a little apprehensive. Categorized as flirtatious, Sagittarians have it difficult since they fear they would be missing out on something if they settled down with someone. They are, presumably, more comfortable with open relationships. As already mentioned, they love their freedom and can be viciously protective of it, even in terms of the relationship they have. More often than not, Sagittarians like to chase down a prospective partner, and is unlikely to hide their attractions towards another person. They unabashedly make their feeling known. This frankness continues in the relationship as well, which helps avoid unnecessary arguments and complications.
Also, Sagittarius being a fire sign sheds light on their need to express themselves through the physical. They seem to be able to get their point across better if they are able to articulate their emotions through their actions; and actions do in fact speak louder than words. Like the Aquarius, the Sagittarius is also believed to able to stray and refuse to accept being tied down. However, their fleeting nature does not result from a need to cheat. It lies in their desire to take risks and this risk-taking side of their personality can even challenge the foundations of their relationship with another person. However, through and through they are honest about their dealings with other people, to their partner.
A typical Sagittarian wishes to keep the freshness in his or her relationship alive; which is why their partners have to be very patient and thoughtful. They seem to be always on the need to discover something new. It, therefore, becomes necessary to grab their attention and once that is achieved, there is the more magnanimous task of keeping their attention. They are born to flirt and enjoy it, but they are not dishonest. They wear their hearts on their sleeves, and even though they take some time to open up, they are keepers provided the other individual is ready to make the effort.
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Wow! This is so trippy! Perfectly detailed even! I can honestly say as a very proud and dedicated 21 year old Sagittarius female(tipical Sag pride), that being a Sag can be very confusing and difficult when it comes to the love life. The easiest and quickest way to scear me off is when people(esp in relationships) try to tie me down or expect me to sacrifice some of my freedom. My biggest issue in the love life seems to be the fact that I have a massive phobia of commitment. And its not because we can’t be faithful to one person. It’s all about freedom, honor and respect to the core! I don’t normaly comment on these articals. I would much rather learn and absorb whatever helpful information I can get from those who know the Sag traits and behaviour best. But I was completely amazed at how accurate and presise those explenations were that I simply could not resist. I always end up spending most of my time searching the internet for Asrology sites, Sagittarius horoscopes or even just read through comments other Archers share in order to try and put together some sort of idea of what’s considered as “normal” Sagittarius behaviour, and this article defenitely nails it. I couldn’t have explained it any better myself. Thank you Paula. Your insight is very much appreciated, no doubt.
I aprecciate your work and i am grateful for it Also i would like to see an article on how a sag deals with rejection or forced friendliness, for instance i can’t stand fake smiles,
Hi I’m an old school sag and i was suffering the internet to make sure if I was ok. I’m 40 years old and I am going through I would say open relationship to, but I am with my sugar daddy for seven years and he is a 71 year old Leo (which we are compatible in bed) but that’s it and they too are flirts. But it leads me to say y I’m old school because we have rules and you can flirt but u can’t flirt with someone that’s close to a sag a best friend and wen my best friend told me it broke to revenge is going to painful for u ol boy . And I hate to be mean but I’m very territorial wen it comes to relationships and friendships. And to know u betrayed me I will gets mines back. I’m not leaving him right away cause of financial reasons but how dare you when I’m tryn to finish my goals this year I have to meet and I d be damned you come and throw me a left curve and his reaction to all of is it’s my game not even I’m so livid talking about that it broke me and I hate to be broken I dint want to see that cause he has coo coo for cocos puffs and I still hold my own. But he has my heart but how dare you fuck with my life like this and it means nothing to you how dare you act like that with me. Not today . Snd do with not doing something to him scares me cause im crazy I will act on things later from early situations and sometimes the out come is not so good. Lol so there u have it.
okay I am willing to give you Sags a space but for God’s sake that freedom does not mean having another relationship. Come on guys, you wouldn’t want a player to be your life partner. I am willing to give my Sag male freedom to make new friends and do other activities but my Sag male wants the freedom to date, chase and have romantic sex with others. How can I allow that? How can he ask for that? I thought I was his someone special.
Pretty on point I would say… I’m a 28 year old Sag female and I spent my whole life setting up the possibility to have an open relationship. My Leo husband spent 7 years getting to know me as someone who needed the freedom to date/experience life with a variety of people before he popped the question. Before we got married I promised to give monogamy a try and I did… but with that I became self-destructive. He felt I wasn’t being true to myself and told me that throughout our relationship he always knew who I was and loved me for it. He also said that’s why he didn’t include comments about ‘fidelity/infidelity’ in our vows. Recently we are back in the swing of things and he says that I am so much happier. I even feel like my old self again, free, fun, and full of life/possibility. It took a lot of time, beating my brain, hashing out emotion, and really some soul searching to realize that when I was attempting to be unlike who I was my world felt so small and insignificant. Now that we are ‘open’ and have built a foundation of trust and honesty my world seems like an adventure again. I’m less ‘closed’ in all aspects of my life. I can even stop being so fearful and let go some of that anxiety I accumulated from previous relationships that didn’t work out. The best part is my husband and I grow stronger as a couple each day. We are constantly evolving and we are building a happy marriage for us that works. I never knew that during the duration of our whole relationship he knew who I really was and what I wanted in my life to be happy. He just needed to wait for me to arrive there and stop denying it.
I sacrificed my freedom on my first official relationship because I made a promise to make them my world. And what did I get in return? An emotionally unavailable partner.
I already knew Sagittarians would often use gifts to show love, but I did my best to read my partner’s vibe. I did my best to bite my tongue when I was angry. I wish I’d read my partner’s cusp before I let myself fall into one of the worst pairings.