A typical Sag is known to breeze through awkward and even stressful events. They are one of the most happy and fun loving people. They won’t sweat the small stuff because normally for them, it’s not worth it. Not that they don’t ever take things seriously. They do. But only when they feel it’s necessary. In relationships they don’t hold back. It may take a while before they commit but they go all out when trying to charm someone. It is said they can charm a stripes off a tiger. They can be very sweet and will know how to make you feel special and one of a kind. If you can keep a Sag then you’re one of the lucky ones. Not all relationships with the sweet Sag works out, though. How do Sagittarius handle exes? They don’t.
Your “relationship” after the relationship will depend on the reason you broke up. Most break ups with a Sagittarius is caused by their need for independence. They will want to spend time with you but they need their “me time” every once in a while. Not to be alone and think but to hang out with friends and meet new people. Once they feel fenced in they would be uncomfortable and may start thinking twice about the position they are in. Normally, in these situations, it will be the Sag who wants out. They like to talk, socialize and flirt in a harmless way so if you don’t like that you need to tell them, otherwise it will all build up inside you and before you know it you will be the one who wants out. There is little to no room for jealousy with a Sag. This can be suffocating for them. Again, once they feel cornered they look for the easiest way out. If the other party initiates the breakup the only thing a Sag will ask is an explanation. That is if they really don’t have a clue. Sometimes, as intellectual as a Sag is, he can be dense. He may not know his words are harsh. For the Sag, the things that comes out of their mouths are just opinions or facts. They may already be hurting you and they still don’t know it. If they understand the reason why you want to end up things then they can rest.
If you part with a Sagittarius in good terms there will be no problem staying friends with them. But most of the times, ending a relationship with a Sag means it’s really over. Don’t expect to hear from them or even see them. They will move on with their lives and choose to leave all the negative things behind. If your breakup is bad the Sag will just try to go forward so don’t expect to see them distraught or depressed. They will mostly party the bad experience away. In case you run across them they may acknowledge you as an acquaintance and nothing else. It may seem harsh but that is kind of the way for them to cope with it.
future????
I love this this is so true and is exactly how I feel! All your stuff seems to be pretty much on the dot….. Wish you guys had more on Sag women though….
Its gud to know we possess these qualities.
Excellent article . So much true that I felt as though I was writing my own biography
xactly.. so much truth in your article about us sag….
you guys,where do you get this from seems like you know almost everything about us,my god
accurate.
Ok but what does it mean if a Sagittarius left you because he needed space, but then came back around, said you were great, and wanted to apologize and try and be friends again??? We were always just friends before but intimate and we promised not to have sex with anyone else if we were sleeping with each other. But when he apologized I told him I couldn’t be friends with him anymore, I’m a Scorpio, but I have been talking to him occasionally and he’s been on my mind. What does this sag really want and why is he really back???? Please help!!!
So True! When I saw the title, the first thing that popped into my mind is “They don’t” and that is exactly what you said! My last breakup does have me out of sorts because I still have to communicate with him on a regular basis and that is not typically how I would deal with an ex. I feel so out of my element having to deal with an ex all the time.
@Mark. He meant just that…he needed space. He was starting to have that trapped feeling that we get sometimes. We don’t usually have a hidden agenda when we say that, it’s just how we feel at the time. You have to decide for yourself if you still want to be friends with him or not.
omg hit the nail on the head with this one, wow!
damn gal u hit the bulls eye
Freedom, truth, justice, and keep smiling… yep that bout sums it up; am I right? Why would you do anything else?
Silly Scorpions; hidden agendas are for kids.
If we say we want space, we’ll come back, we just feel cramped a little bit an want to stretch those hooves (freedom baby; its an exciting world full of new things to see). If we like you, and your fair (that whole justice thing) we’ll come back. Anything we say to you, you can take at face value for fact (that would be the truth thing). Take those three things and it makes for a pretty easy lighthearted life (so smile).
On the other hand, if your a pain in the booty and are always whining and complaining, lying, or demanding all of our time with your own insecurities…. That would be the whole ( – we dont – ) conversation.
saggitarians are a waste of flesh water and air. egoism started with them. nothing good can be received from these kind of individuals. I propose a holocaust but instead of jews, these trash should be exterminated. the world if too full of people who care of themselves. thats why we dont care about others anymore. we emulate examples of such deficits. good day.
I agree with Reality! I have been dating a sag and he is selfish, cheap, and a total bone-head! I’m a libra and I am all about partnership but not with this Self-centered ego-maniacal creep. He has been a bad omen. That I wish I never met. He and I are still together and I try to run from him, but he does like to chase me.
So true,I don’t even want to see my ex again,cheater :@.
Very true. It depends on what happens though. If they feel they were taken for granted, then, you will be ‘unknown’ after the breakup. I actually delete the person’s telephone number. There is no longer a need to communicate. Not harsh, it just removes temptation to call.
Hilarious! Y’all must of had a bad apple if the bunch. Of course everyone could be a little self centered… idle much about the Sag male… but their different from the women. I do love freedom truth and justice. But if the right on come around I will mist definitely work it out with em and become timid and loyal had love him and adore him but I can’t stand being forced or pushed. I believe Stag’s comes around eventually to people who are Worth it for you zodiac haters up there! Much Love
This is so true. I broke up with my sagittarian boyfriend just under a month ago. He was so sweet, but he lied to me about so many things. I gave him so much space, never limited him, to the point where we had an open relationship, and he went to New Zealand for 4 months last summer and I never tried to stop him. But after 2 years there comes a point when you have to wonder where it’s going, and anything more serious scared him. So we broke up, and he’s doing the classic sag response of pushing everything, including me, out of his mind. It hurts so much that he won’t speak to me. As sagittarians, I can see how you see it as simply a mechanism for moving on, getting on with living life. But as someone on the receiving end of this behaviour, who hurts as much as I do right now and is having a hard time not coming apart at the seams, it just feels cruel. It lacks any compassion which one would expect a former lover to feel towards you. I want him to be ok. Why can’t he care just a little bit that I’m ok too? I’m all for self-preservation, but I’m also hoping this might get other sags out there to realise what the flip side of their behaviour is like.
This sounds like a profile of a player: a very selfish guy who only thinks of himself. Don’t be so proud. It is actually a big turn off, specially, if you are looking to settle with a sag.
I fell in love with a Sag male. He was so damn charming that he just started flowing through my every vein. I love him so much and miss those beautiful days we spend together. He would shower me with care, love, and admire me etc. Then he started to change and acting weirdly to make me disinterested in him. He decided to break the relationship and didn’t inform me until after 3 months of “flirting” with me. Then one day he ended and left me devastated ever since. He lead me on. He made me believe that he was with me for the long haul and that we will live together, do things together, travel together, buy our Lamborghini together and live happily every after
At that point all I know about Sag males that they were fantastic until when my sag male took 180 degrees turn and boy what a rude awakening was that. He found the new love so fast that my attempts to save my relationship become more difficult. With my constant attempts, he is now willing to continue our relationship. I had told him, he can have all the freedom he wants but will have to make some commitments with me. We will discuss those commitments today, hopefully.
I have noticed that even though he says he is back, he is not the same anymore.
I think sags are the worst ppl to b with in a relationship. Everything is always about them and what they want. I dated one for 2 years And hated every minute of it. Even all her friends and family used to tell her I was a such a great guy to her but nothing’s ever good enough for the sag. They have no emotions or feelings if it doesn’t involve them and there secret disires. There not even human I think. My advise is to run as far as u can.
i m also a sag male,i m honest and wont breakup with my partner until i have a good reason for it and if i dont have a reason i wont leave her.
So sad to hear your bad experiences with sags. It is better to see the individual for who they are, than to 100% focus on their zodiac sign. Yes, it is definitely interesting to read, but really, every person is unique- different. If a relationship did not work out, that means that you have not yet found your one. Just learn, move on, and become a better person from it. Everything happens for a reason. Have a great day.
I feel like some is true like we cope with it by partying and thinking positive but if we werent the one to end it than its harder for us.
I am a scorpio woman and i have been in a relation with a sagi n he hs been lyk the only reason behind me going towards death.i am in a relation with hm for over two years and it seems like am forced to gulp down poison evry day evry second. But he is so charming that it’s hard to let him go.i love him too much.He cheated on me and lied to me about almost everything and still never bats n eyelid about how much it hurts me. Very rarely have i came across such a heartless individual.i have given him lots of space under the impression that he would appreciate it and instead he always used it up to hs own advantage. He knws that he hs hurt me beyond d limit,cheating on me with another girl,flirting with almost anyone he comes across but still comes back to me to look into my eyes n say “i love u”.possibly the lowest man on the pyramid.
I’m a cancer and my Saggitarius male broke up with me after 3 months. His exuses were “We argue too much” and “I’m changing you.” I proved both of those wrong with logic, we never argued, he was moody and I was moody. Whenever one of us was moody, so was the other and we’d blame each other. He didn’t change me, he just didn’t like me seeing my friends so I stopped. He then came up with “You flirt with everyone” when he had me all to himself all the time, I never saw anyone besides him. His friends, my friends and myself proved him wrong and he still refuses to admit it. He then lost his temper, said he wanted nothing to do with me and I’m a bitch. He literally stood there watching me ball my eyes out, begging for him to give it another try. He wanted me to be committed as much as he “was” so I was. I never held him down, he had more freedom than he even gave me. We joked like best friends and we both wanted to travel and experience everything together. He said he wanted to be with me forever and suddenly it’s all down the drain. What do I do? Why is he doing this?
Hi I was dating a guy for about 2 years he’s a sagittarius long story short I pissed him off and wished I did not mean to he told me that I was annoying b because he feels that I was getting on his nerves about texting me back fast enough he told me to stop that shit with my smart replies anyways I didn’t reply back because I wanted him to calm down but I accidentally sent the thumb up button and he sent me a picture with a people in it waving bye at me smh that shit was hurtful but he still my friend on social media I try calling and texting him and letting him know I feel let him know he hurt my feels etc still no reply so what I did what unfriend from of social media and completely deleted his number out of my phone I did that so he could be off my mind and just focus on my self also I still want him back I Mena the situation is not that serious I mean will he ever text me again or no but I could tell he was watching what I was doing on snapchat like why if he’s so called done with me I don’t get it do think me unfriend him will make him mad or he doesn’t care it been like 3 weeks already I tried reaching out like a week ago still no response so I just stop hitting him up right I’m just going to focus on me and do me and move on he giving me the silent treatment should I do the same for right now ? What should I do or what can I do to get him back ? And he always have problem with the clothes that I wear I sent him a picture his response was and I quote I’m always looking good men like really
I’m a Scorpio, and I dated a Sag male for about 5 months. As soon as I met him, I knew I wanted him. He was funny, smart, charming and excellent sex. I MEAN EXCELLENT. We did things I’ve never done in my life, and never thought I would do. He got into a major injury a few months back, and even though we were freshly dating, I was with him every night at the hospital for about two weeks. I fell deeply in love quick, because the connection we had I never felt that way with anyone else. After he recovered, he started trying to talk to girls and get their numbers, once I found that out, I broke up with him . I felt betrayed. After taking a trip back to my hometown I realized I wanted to work it out, so I took him back. Still hurt, I started texting guys and one day I got caught up. My sag man was understanding (or was still dealing with other females) and decided to work through it. About a week in a half went by & a random guy text me. But I swear I wasn’t sneaking around after the first time I got caught. Of course my sag man doesn’t believe me & broke up with me. He’s now saying he wants to be friends, and when I asked him were we going to be strictly friends he stated then that he thinks it would be best if we didn’t talk anymore. I’m absolutely heart broken, and I don’t know what to do moving forward. I just want him back. HELP
Yeah… I’m a cancer female, I was seeing a Sagittarius guy for 9 months, we never committed, and I didn’t want to in the beginning, and he tried SO hard for me, it was ridiculous.. Over time I grew strong emotions for him and we were always outdoors together and took a strong interest in fitness, hiking, fishing, travel, intellectual conversations, and weaponry, ect.. Well he was pretty jealous and j was extremely jealous, but I loved him so much I knew he craved freedom, so i gave it to him.. He never abused the freedom I gave him… Fast forward through the incredible sex, the feelings, the sacrifices, and everything we’ve worked for.. We got into an intense fight, and things changed. He realized there were way too many feelings, and we needed to back off each other. This literally happened a week ago, and boy has he backed off, we saw each other and things weren’t the same, and we even had sex and damn was it amazing, but he’s just so adamant about us backing off how much we hang out, because he really wants to still be friends, but he was decent enough to be stern about not wanting commitment. I’m sad, because I was willing to let him do what ever he pleased hoping maybe someday he would settle for me. I guess I should get out of my dream world. I often sit and hope he will come back and try to make it work, but based off of everyone’s words they don’t come back lmfao. What a joke.
This is so I always want to know why not pleading but just because I’m clueless but I prepare a clean break up then dragging it along my ex just cleared things up for me today I told him to be sure what he’s doing he replied I’m always sure what I say he’s a cancer he acts off emotions but he said so I’m gone for good I always wanted to hear him say it now I know I’m free and I’m never looking back I wish him the best??????
I’m a sag and that’s lookin for ture love and lie I want my ex back so much I pray every night for her to come back but she’s still not her but sense I’m a real dude imma say this I love you diasia come home
I’m a sag and that’s lookin for ture love and I can’t lie I want my ex back so much I pray every night for her to come back but she’s still not her but sense I’m a real dude imma say this I love you diasia come home
Wow I’am sag , this just how I’m once I’m done I’m done if the breakup was bad… If we decided to go our own ways for different reasons then yes we could remain friends. Mean what we say and say what we mean that would be the Sagittarius.
This completely discribes me. I just got out of a relationship with I which she dumped me for someone else. I found out that while she was saying “I love you” to me she was posting pictures with a naked guy in her bed on Instagram so I kept it short and sweet and I told her not to speak to me because I need to get over her. I haven’t spoken to her in months. I shut her out. She always comments on photos or send me I love you and I miss you messages but she doesn’t get that she is a part of my past now and when a persons leaves, whether by force of by choice, their part in your story is over.
He only like young, juicy, rich and married women. He is sick person.
Hi, I am sag male.I just had a bad break up with my ex who is a Leo.She just decided to leave me as she said she was hurt.But this could mean anything.I tried a lot get her back but in vain.But it’s yesterday when I went to meet her and she was so rude.I was done there and then only. It was over as hell nd though I m hurt I need to bloody move on.We rock as we know our value.There is nothing bad in that.
What if I’m caring a Sag’s babies? He said I stressed him out kuz I’d tell him how I’m feeling (pregnancy symptems) and first he said We’re done!” then said “I just need space, I’ll keep in touch”. I want him back. What can I do???
Please Help!
Gemini man here. Key is don’t try to understand them cause nothing you say are do will make them happy. If they are unhappy just know that you may not be the problem. Saggis don’t even understand themselves. If they break it off let that bird fly because they will mislead you and say things to keep you around only when they want you. Have respect for yourself, be polite, and know when a relationship is not healthy just let it go. Protect your mind, heart, and spirit. My case she broke it off. I’m 30 and she’s 22 and I get the “I need space or me time” I’m the same way but there’s a limit. If you want to act single then BE SINGLE. Just yesterday she said she wants to hang out. Uuuuh….. no thanks schizo!
For a Sag not to b firm with thier words means they don’t really want out , don’t worry he soon will be back for his child and don’t bombard him with phone calls , you got him
Dude my sag allmost killed me and still stalks me and loves me all day
I do not know what to say to this. I have never held a grudge in my life. We will see how I feel after all sinks in. I was in a relationship with a sag for 15 years. Her words: “Thank you for bringing me up”. I will cherish everything, you are a good man, and I always saw you as a friend. Mind you she is the one that escalated the friendship to something more in the beginning and continued to push for commitment throughout. She found a new infatuation. She cheated: we are done. I fought for her for years. She took me for granted in the end. No remorse for cheating. Having an ego is one thing. Being a Narcissist is another. I hold no ill will towards anyone. I am just glad she is out of my life for good. Selfish people are not the kind I keep in my close circles.
Adding to the post above: It is worth noting that we were each others first relationships. Not sure how much of a difference that makes. I had told her that if she does not see us working out we can respect one another and walk our separate ways but she lied and had a 6 month affair with someone else instead of showing me the respect I deserved for being by her side for 15 years. This sagg always thought her problems were bigger meaner and more debilitating that anyone else’s. Not sure if that is the case with all Sagg but she definitely was very self centered.
Run for your life! Crazy, heartless, and cruel! I don’t believe these people are human. Just assholes.
I was friends with a Sag. male (I’m a Cancer female) for a little over a year. When we saw each other or talked on the phone we laughed and laughed. We went canoeing, to baseball games, Christmas outings, many dinner out to great restaurants. etc., etc. We were never intimate, but he would always say ‘you are gorgeous’ and he said that he has told all his friends about me. I am 18 years older than him, but we seem to really click. I had several things I wanted to do this summer and fall. We talked about going to a log cabin (two bedrooms) at a resort back in May. I put a deposit down and told him that I had reserved the cabin. We had talked about getting together going for motorcycle ride (he owns a motorcycle) I hadn’t heard from him so I sent him an e-mail. He wrote back to say he won’t be able to go with me to the log cabin since he has to work. He also asked me to go bike riding on the next Tuesday. I wrote back saying I was very disappointed, especially since we had talked about this in May and he said that he could take the time off work – the reservation was for the end of September and first week of October (three nights). I also said that I can’t believe a company would not grant time off four months down the road. I then responded to his invitation for a bike and I said I was unavailable to go for a bike ride and I signed it ‘take care’. Normally I would sign TTYL. He then wrote back that he has been struggling with this relationship of ours and he was severing all ties with me and said ‘don’t bother contacting me because I will not respond’. He said it’s best if we just go our separate ways. He used to always say that I am so way above him, educationally and financially, that he wondered why I was interested in being friends. He told his friends this and they said, as I said, that I’m friends with him because he is a lot of fun. He has had two failed marriages. The writing was on the wall and I should have stopped the friendship before it really got off the ground. I felt that his e-mail terminating our relationship was very hurtful. I tried to explain that I have had a lot of ‘stuff’ on my plat and I overreacted to his cancellation. It would have been nice if he had the decency to talk to me in person or on the phone. I think, in retrospect, that he is a coward. I still miss the fun and the laughter, but I’ve resigned myself to the distinct possibility that he will never change his mind. I think he terminated the friendship because of me wanting to spend time with him. He doesn’t plan, but sometimes you have to plan such as making a reservation. He’s limited in his activities – hockey, sailing (in a boat for one), canoing, bike rides with a meetup, and Starbucks. I, on the other hand, enjoy Mirvish Theatre productions, Symphony, educational seminars, dinners out with friends, Farmer’s Market, fall fairs, Muskoka, reading. (He hasn’t read a book in years). Does anybody have a suggestion? Do you think he will give it one more shot? We were so compatible, but as a Cancer (me) I think he felt a bit smothered because I always wanted to have a confirmation on a plan I was initiating. When he wrote his termination e-mail, he said ‘my “plan is to end all communications with you”. He used the word ‘plan’ to make a point that he does make plans sometimes. I would welcome suggestions on where or not he will give me a second chance.
Dated Sagittarius for 4,5 years. He broke up with me 4 times… he broke up with me always when his life was going well but then he always comes back… he is adventurous and makes the best out of life! He is very selfish though, did not show me much affection… told me that he loves me only twice over 4,5 years… I could not count on him too much… if I needed anything he was rarely available… commitment phobe. I think it is not the right match for people that want to be in loving, supportive relationship and make future plans together…
Me Aries just going through a breakup with a Sagittarius, it’s had been the hardest relationship 9 months I have ever been in, how much space can they want we might as well be casual. He kept saying throughout it that I am his lady his woman but he was mostly unavailable. I have a very high sex drive and seeing him sporadically was not doing it for me so I started communicating more which he did not like. It was/is the loneliest relationship I have ever been in, the bad thing is that when I had my concerns he played the card that we have different lifestyles dude please like I have never been with a paperchaser before, feeling all important like what he is doing is unique. I don’t get it as he said he want someone who supports and understands him,but how can I be that person if I don’t hardly see him. I did catch feelings cos when we are together we have a blast but I never knew when I was next going to see him. I really feel sorry for this star sign as they do want to be loved yet have no clue to how. He is away again but this time to think about whether he wants to be with me or not but he doesn’t realise that whatever he decides it was my decision. I puppet him along to take action to get angry so he could stop wasting my time as I never leave anything without a fight. I am kinda old fashion and believe relationships should be physical not digital. Will I lose out if he leaves not at all, will I be happy he stays yeah I will but there has to be communication. The other thing is that he lies about things which are not necessary at all to lie about. It’s my first ever Sagittarius and not pleased I am so happy I am not a Sagittarius cos constantly being fun and free is ridiculously unrealistic, I meet loads of them who are at an old age, who have similar life as my soon to be ex and they wish they gave love a chance now they watched all their friends and siblings starting a family and they are sitting there alone pretending that they were happy cos they had their freedom. Sagittarius freedom without love or no one to share it with is a prison of your own delusion, you are in denial. I honestly love my boyfriend but there is only so much you can give until you break. Apparently he has stuff to tell me that happened to him which he is excited about like we are going to be friends after we breakup, I never stay friends with exes definitely not going to start with this headache.
Hi, I’m A Sagittarius female and I would like to let you guys know that after a break up it is over we distance ourselves , party are talk to other as a distraction, and put on a face that says idc but deep down we are hurt we just don’t show it to the world but best believe the pain of heartbreak does hit us either when we laying in bed at the end of the night . At least I do
i m a sag woman in love with a gem man for more than 2 years… we had great love for each other…. I took care of him very well which he used to appreciate before…. fights do arise between us when he spends too much time with other girls… he suddenly broke up with me saying he is in love with another girl (capricon) who had been in a relationship for 4 years with a man(cancer) and broke up with him for my man.. the fact is I need him sooo much and I love u soo badly … what should I do now ?? pls advice me… will he come back to me ?? what should I do to get him back ??
So how do you expect to ever be in a relationship. With this type of behavior
LOOK, IM A LEO WOMAN AND I LOVE MY SAG MAN. SAGITTARIANS ARE NOT BAD PEOPLE, THEY JUST HAVE A LOVE FOR FREEDOM, I ENDED IT RECENTLY BECAUSE MY FATHER HATES HIM AND HIS FAMILY IS AFRAID FOR HIM AND DOES NOT WANT ME WITH HIM, IT HAS GOTTEN LEGAL. HIS FAMILY WANTS TO KICK HIM OUT IF HE KEEPS SEEING ME BUT HE SAID HE THINKS HE LOVES ME AND KEPT ON.I HAD TO END IT FOR HIS SAFETY. I LOVE HIM TOO AND NEVER WANT TO HARM HIM, THEREFORE I TOLD HIM I ENDED TO PRESERVE HIS FAMILY RELSATIONSHIPS AND TO NOT CAUSE HARM IN HIS LIFE. HE DID NOT WANT TO TALK ABOUT IT, BUT HE AT LEAST LISTENED AND HE REALLY WANTS TO BE FRIENDS. HE IS TURNING 18 IN A LITTLE BIT AND I HAVE ALL THE WAY UNTIL JULY 30TH OF NEXT YEAR. HE SAID WE WILL CERTAINLY BE FRIENDS AND WE MAY PICK IT UP AGAIN DEPENDING ON WHERE WE ARE IN OUR LIVES ONCE I TURN 18. BUT HE IS GOING TO BE TRAVELLING LONG BEFORE THEN IT SEEMS. WE ALWAYS HOPED TO MOVE TO ALASKA TOGETHER,BUT HE TOLD ME HE IS GOING TO MOVE THERE AND HOPES I WILL BE WILLING TO FOLLOW HIM ONCE IM 18 AND COME FIND HIM.WHAT! HELP ME UNDERSTAND!