It can be difficult to live with a Sagittarius though they can be very loyal and devoted spouses or friends. The key is learning how to deal with their sudden outbursts of anger and frustration or their tendency to put their careers before family and friends. It’s one of the traits that often make them very difficult to live with, especially for those who are opposite in nature. The Sagittarius is also very adventurous and finds it difficult to stay put, so he or she has the need to do something that is active. You don’t want to confine a Sagittarian—this sign has the need to be free in order to be happy.
Do the traits of a Sagittarius mean they are destined to live alone and not be married? No, not at all—in fact, they will be faithful and loyal partners to the person who is fortunate enough to find the right combination of strength and endurance to tame this active breed. Remember, you will need to be able to find things to keep a Sagittarius interested—they do not like the feeling of being confined or tied down even in a relationship. Their need to have some freedom can sometimes be seen as restlessness and in a way perhaps it is just that. However, those who are willing to overlook the restlessness of this astrological sign can go a long way toward finding a good relationship within marriage and family life.
The Sagittarius does have a tendency to be prone to anger and can fly on the handle over little things. This can sometimes cause problems for those who have the same nature, but if you are willing to work through it having a Sagittarius as a partner or friend can be a rewarding and fulfilling experience. Those who are also adventurous are the best choices for the Sagittarius though you can certainly find ways around the problem as long as you are willing to share in some of the adventure or allow your mate the freedom to exercise his adventurous nature.
When it comes to loyalty you will not find anyone better than a Sagittarius. However, they are also very indulgent parents, so there may be a need for the other parent to learn to lay down some ground rules for the children. Their homes and families may suffer because of their need to be adventurous and in some cases perhaps they show a tendency to be married to their careers rather than their spouses. Even the Sagittarius wife who does not have a job outside the home can find it hard to express affection thus making it appear she is frigid.
The key to living happily with a Sagittarius is learning to accept them for what they are and being willing to compromise with them so they do not feel confined. If the Sagittarius feels constrained in the relationship he or she is likely to become frustrated and maybe even begin look for other ways to express the adventurous nature that is native to this sign.
LOL…..this is so funny to read i am a sagittarius and this blog is so fitting iy describes me to the T i love being a sagittarius and people have noticed all the above traits in me and love me for it espessilly the optimism they dont understand how i can stay so possitive in the worst of times dont get me wrong i have feelings i do get sad and worry but it dosnt uswelly last long at all also i wanted to comment on the confined thing i am very well known for just taking off ill get borefd or restless or a little to stressed and i take off and uswelly wont tell anyone whare i went till i return in about a week or so lol im so known for that my friends feel the need to warn my boyfriend or prospective boyfriend about this trait and even when i agree they still dont get it till it actully happens lol
So true! Im a Saggitarius as well and my babydaddy is a Saggitarius. We lived 2gether for 6 yrs. I was so loyal and on da other hand he wasnt. Even though he was unfaithful throughout I was still loyal. The outburst of angry did occur plenty of times over petty stuff. It was like a child that need to have that attention and there way. We both felt to be right and for the blunt part- we are to damn blunt! Eventually we couldn’t do it no more and split in 08. We still have a great relationship but with the Saggitarius ways, we can tend to explode on each other still. The life of a Saggitian, I LOVE IT!
I have 3 sagittarius around me, My boyfriend is a sagi, my sister Brittany is a sagi then there is morgan she also is a sagi. I am a pisces and i love them all but it is so hard they are all like this and it does make it hard to be around them. but i do have to say no matter what im always having a good time around them.
Hello.i was really astonished by the true description…,but i am proud to be a sagittarius…i get angry easily..i am sometimes optimistic and the other wise pestemistic.i am loved by many,and love all.. I dont hate people even those who hurt me…i love life,but when things go wrong with me,i hate life and hope to die…
haha his is soo funny….this is soo me its actttuaallyyyy quite freaky haha
i do get angry easily and have crazy outbursts rlly quick…and it seems im so outgoing some people cant deal with it . and everyone tends to try to hold me down and not give me any freedom and then i get angry and depressed…wow a saggitarius is a HARD life lol!
i am also a sagittarian, but surprisingly ive learned to curb my anger and give the best to those around me but the sad thing is they take it for granted, if i dont show my anger they thing its alright to go about doing a certain thing..
im always optimistic just like all of you say that people find it hard to digest..
uh! Roro o Roro! that is so true..cant help but yeah when things go wrong it breaks the whole world down to pieces..coz you always give your best and be so optimistic and later just one thing ruins it all
i desperately need a solution..im still hopeful ..gosh! this optimism..it just never ends..
I am a Sagi. This is me to the T. I find it hard to settle. I am very dynamic, direct and outgoing. I think relationships slow me down bc it stresses me out trying to make folks understand me. I love to be free. I love to help people, don’t like to be controlled
I guess this shit dont lie
Im a sag. I love being free. And I think I have a deep insight on life. I’m always in deep thought. I cant stay in one place for long. At this time in my Life I cant be tied down
yes my husband sagi he also very loyal
Wow everything i read above is so me. Now if any who’s never met me want’s me to discribe the the way i’am or wat are my likes & all im gonna tell them is get on the internet and look up saggitaruis and there they’er i’am. If ur a sagg then u knw how i feel wen i say that i have a pises boyfreind that try’s not yo let me go N-E where i have to ask if i can go to the store. Hell tell me stuff like dont start maybe later or sumtimes wont even answer me at all. So u knw wat i do? I wait till he falls asleep and im out im like gud by, remember i tried ask’n. Lol
OMG!! I thought something was seriously wrong with me until i read this article and all of the responses. From my anger outbursts, to the loyalty even when he cheats deal, to the “just wanna be free” feeling all the time, and overall not being able to stay in one place for too long ( jobs, homes, cars, etc…) I thought I was insane but the answer is really that, the world just does’nt understand a true sag !! I cant even express how good it feels to read this and know there are so many other sag’s like myself! it’s great!
Omg this is so true this is totally me especially the fee/loyal part I love beinging a sagi!!!<3
YES, I am a sagi,all of what have been said up here it is ME, I am oppotimistic, love travelling and honest and many of the characters mentioned above. Above all, I love been in the company of women, they make me feel GREAT!!!
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MAN! DIS! IS SO TRUE! IMMA! SAG! IM SO INDEPENDENT! MY THOUGHTS ARE DEEP! IT!SEEMS AS THO! IN THIS WHOLE BY MYSELF! I FEEL AS THO IM NOT UNDERSTAND! IM ALWAYS HELPING FOLKS! I HAV A TEMPER OUT DIS WORLD! I SOMETIMES WONDER WILL I BE BY MYSELF! PEOPLE LUV ME DEARLY UNCONDITIONALLY! I JUST FEEL ALONG! I CAN TALK YOUR SOCKS OFF! IM VERY WISE! I CANT DEALT WIT A MAN TIEING ME DOWN BEING IN CONTROLLED! ITS HAS 2 BE 50/50.. AS IM READING ELSEONE COMMENTS I CAN RELATE. SO SAG! IS TRUE! LAST BUT NOT LEASE! I LOVE THE LORD!!!
I think my “out bursts of anger” Come from me not feeling appriciated for the things i do for my moody cancer friend. She litterally lives with me on and off so often and i do EVERYTHING for her! And its starting to wear me out. It used to be an honor but now she just makes it hard to be around her. Help?
I am a true Sagittarius and married to a Virgo,I am full of anger and I feel trapped in my own mine, and after reading about myself it’s sooo true and deep. This Sag needs help…. Peace
I agree with all of the characteristics. I have always felt like a black panther trapped in a cage pacing back-in-forth yearning to be freed. I never have thought of myself as a commitment phobe, please give me my space and I will be the most loyal and giving person you have ever met.
i agree with everyone, i don’t know if i should be happy be to be such an outgoing, optimisic fun loving sag ; or if i’m a joke because i always wanna run. i hate to feel trapped, can’t stand to feel unapperciated. i sometimes for like i’m cursed to be alone cause no one can truly understand me. don’t get me wrong, i attrach a ton of males, but i feel like they only see me as a good time or else i’m not interested in me. i love to be the center of attention, alot of time that is mistaken as slutty-ness. i feel trapped in my job, i am the manger of a damn tanning bed? who complains about that? i just feel overwhelemed by responsiblity. ahhh, someone help me cope with my sag self! haha
WE ARE JUST THE GREATEST PEOPLE EVER….JUST ASK ANY SAGITTARIUS !
wunderschöne tratt mit hrerschwa und allich heing, sehr brert und cksstalls. dsahl schon scherahlt hat zungela, dersung und schla mit pintie.
This description is 100% my Sag wife!!! I love her so much!
Ugh…the article is 100% accurate. Living with a sag who sometimes drives me up the wall. Being an aqua with a sag moon I can be just a tempermental but atleast I get angry about big things…..him on the other hand totally flips out if I walk too slowly past the television. Ugh…can’t wait til we get a bigger space so I can be away from his ass like us aquas like…in the bedroom infront of the tv until I get bored and come bother you.
I am a pisces with a Sagi boyfriend. We have been living together for 1year and some months now. OMG the anger outburst is on point. I went so far and purchased some books on dealing with anger for him. Pisces can take so much but it will affect us when these outburst are taken personally. I have learned to not take these anger outburst that he has personal. I’m very emotional, sensitive, a flip lip, and have this saving the world attitude that can be a crutch for a sagi, so don’t let them lean on you to much because they will take full advantage, especially if they are at a low state in life. He is into his job, and I support a working man! So It gives me freedom to know that he is busy doing his thing? We had a few baby momma dramas and suspect cheating situations, however I have not caught him red handed in any physical situation, its all flirting bull!!!!! My Sagi is very very affectionate, and I love that as a Pisces, but I want more sex!!! lol. So when your involved with a Sagi, beware of sneaky, affection, flirty, wants attention, makes you laugh, and blunt with the force of anger (complaining). But you will feel loved and and they are very generous on a good day!!!!!
Being a sag is tough.to the rest of the world we are just crazy and a source of amusement to the people around us at least that’s what it seems. I find it extremely hard to avoid conflict with the purple around me sometimes.and my out burst are volcanic. Any sag out there should read more into it there are three types of sag, and two cusps. I am a titan born Dec.11-18. I feel like I will never grow up and most of my anger just comes from frustration of not understanding a situation. Sum say I have anger issues but it’s literally nothing I can do about it, sort of like you can’t change the color of your skin or suck up all the water out of the ocean.I just have to grow Out of it and only associate with people that don’t feel threatene by med cuz deep down inside I’m as nice as a person can be it just takes a person deserving enough to be able to reach that part of me. I feel like even when im ready to hang myself i still come off to the world as optomistic so when im down i still come off as up. I don’t get.it tho. Sum ppl say I’m slow some say I’m a good Guy others say I’m a savage. But to me I just feel like a nomad trapped in a society that constantly tells you to climb a mountain that has no peak….
all I read about sagittarius most same with my boyfriend..im Leo girl this compatibility ith sagittarius man.. im always bepatient with sagittarius and im always care him, my relathionship is very happy . I love him so much , his also love me very much.
all I read about sagittarius most same with my boyfriend..im Leo girl this compatibility ith sagittarius man.. im always bepatient with sagittarius and im always care him, each other always understanding each othet honest,faithful, each other always in trust,my relathionship is very happy . I love him so much , his also love me very much.. many people say we are match, ideal cople.
I am a sag and some of this describes me. I can be be moody and certainly do get angry at times, but I tend to not show this side very often….although those who are unlucky enough to see it are rather surprised. But about the freedom part…so true. My freedom and independance are extremely important. I love to travel and can never feel confined. I need to be able to hit the road whenever I please. To confine me would be to kill me
Yes. I’m a Sagittarius too and I anger easily, can be quite blunt, have lots of friends and yaddah yaddah yah. My teen son is a Sagittarius too and it is the same but we are very close. My Pisces husband and I get along most of the time but we can clash big time!
Hi,
I am an aquarius and my boyfriend is a Sag. I see him having a lot of Sag qualities. He dreams of travel, he is moody, he is sensitive, he is analyzing you all the time, he dislikes dishonesty, he flirts (and cheats on me all the time), he often gets very angry. He doesn’t want any committed relationship with me now. We have struck some “deal” where he will be intimate with me when he is in a mood, I have to give him lots of space, I can’t bound him to sending me messages everyday and above all, he wants me to “go with the flow”. This is a long distance relationship.
Tell me what to do to make him happy. I have told him that we will “go with the flow”. I am now trusting him 100% (he has told him that he is trying to be faithful and control his urges to cheat but it will take him some time. I believe that he will himself get out of this).
He doesn’t want me to use “love” words for him because it feels fake. I am guilty of being flaky, in the sense that in one minute I want him and in the other minute, I feel that he is not a good choice. He doesn’t like this habit of mine. So How can I be more trusting and reliable for him?
Thanks
Sam
Hi,
I am a leo married to a saggi for 9 years. Its been a tough road throughout. They love to escape any arguments and fights for days, months …and me being a leo, or may b myself, i love solving things and moving on at that very moment..but my saggi husband can make the relationship suffer by running away, that sometimes i feel that may be the love never existed. then out of the blue , he wiill come and showcase his love for me..and again if things go wrong or even a silly argument will make him escape …i have tried to make him understand ti stay and not run , but he never does the same. so now, I keep everything inside me , i dont let arguments or fights even prop up and somewhere i do feel frustrated and now i feel like running away , escaping.. he is a great person though, u should see him the way he deals with ppl but having an indepth meaningful relationship is very difficult with this sagi..
Dts true what they say abt sag man,my sag man is the best thing ever happened to me.loving,optimistic,loyal,adventourus and ofcourse love his space
.I love him so much
I happy sagi because we are adventurous and are life party.
they are mad .very difficult to live them.not flexible and very fool.not survive in married life
After Reading This It Really Does Describe Who I Really Am I Also A Sag An It Can Be Really Fraustrating On Being One Because It Seems Most People Dont Really Understand Me Im Real Cool, And Fun Easy Person To Get Along With Til u Cross That Button. My Attitude Goes From Zero To 100 Real Qiick An My Mood Swing Change So Quick I Can Be Sad Then Smile Like Its A New Day Lol. Im Wierd But I LoVe Being A Sagittarius..
I understand what the lady above goes through. Sagittarius are very proud of all their positives but refuse to even acknowledge their failings, their inability to stop flirting when they’re in a relationship for one. They feel its their right to flirt or even be unfaithful! I dont think they grasp what a committed relationship means. Oh yes they are honest (when it suits them) when it comes to their opinion on you, no matter how unnecessary and cruel but yet if you’re honest back about their failings watch out, they explode, I wont even get started on their dark moods. They are also proud of their free spirit but abuse peoples trust in letting them have it. Cheaters, they see nothing wrong with it nut dont you ever ever cheat on them! They have all these double standards, hypocritical. They will analyse you to death but never take a look at themselves in the mirror, unless of course its to admire how gorgeous they look. They flirt and cheat because they feel the need to share their sexiness with the world. I stuck around so long because I loved him because of the positives but in the end after the honeymoon I over and he’s bored by you now he knows you, the negatives far outweigh the positives. Positives…initially while they’re chasing you (n.b. They only like the chase, get bored when they’ve caught you) they make you feel special, make you happy, their happiness infectious, they make you laugh, make you feel great and oh my god the sex is out of this world but don’t fall in love with them as you will get hurt, mark my words. I gave him his freedom and now he he’s chasing me again but I’m not stupid, to him its just a game. But be aware Sagittarius you’re playing games with peoples hearts. Never never again.
The most Accurate I have ever read and also I have became very spiritual and I just thrive on knowledge.. I love learning new things and talking to people It makes me feel better Brighting peoples no negative positive vibes only, when u find yourself then there is peace within your heart and mind live to the max and find out what u truly want to do in life and go for it!! The sky is the limit.
Peace, Love, Happiness -yours truly, Quez
I am a sag and I love to be in love . but when I have it I don’t want it any more.i start to fill depression by the person I am with because they no longer any fun to be with.but I want my soul mate so still looking. so much me to a t.