I’ve come to realize that their patience and perseverance pays off for them. They are content to enjoy what they have and stay with it regardless what lies on the other side of the mountain. Which is a very endearing trait and one that intrigues me I could never figure that one out. Whereas a Sag is never content to sit in any one place for very long. Always wanting to climb the mountain to get a better look around and see whats next for we always enjoy a good adventure.

I must say though she was & is very caring, thoughtful, and not very possessive, but a homebody which worked out cause she allowed me to roam around freely, not to worry to much about my carefree attitude and flirtatious ways as she quickly found out that I am loyal and devoted to those I love and care about. With me its always the what if or I could if I wanted to ways. She kept me in check and grounded to the world while always taking care of our 4 children who are now all grown. Not to say that I neglected or didn’t help but she seemed to be more stable than me unless there was bloody mess involved.

Emotionally is where we differed. I’m very emotionally detached. Emotions just do not fit in a logical sense or order of things for I have a lack of water signs in any of the houses or planets when I was born basically all Fire, Air, & Earth, only 1 Water sign which makes me hard to handle at times due to I have a tough time making any sense of them, and when I do get emotional I’m so intense that I burn as bright as the sun and hot to the touch until I burn myself out. The main problem about that is, it is always those I care about that get burned the worst. The good thing is that I am always willing to apologize for those out burst that come out. Which is why I usually walked away when I feel those bursts coming.

Never the less, Relationships deal with emotions which are a form of water and water tends to put out the fire and it tends to cling to ya. Which is why I think Sag’s do not do well in a relationship’s with water signs. I say learn to know one’s self from the inside out. Cause as a fire sign we tend to consume everything around us unless kept in check. It’s just in our nature. Have fun and enjoy the ones around you with as much compassion as possible everyday for you never know what tomorrow will bring.

Sighnes that I would date: Aries, Sagittarius, Scorpio, Gemini (MAYBE), Libra, Pisces.

I’m a sagittarius girl, who is also a younge female.

Many guys I go out with are very boring, dull and they don’t seem to care about me much (so they make me fall in love with them for nothing, BORINGGGGGG!!!!! Guys like that are called, JERKS!!!! M*&^%@#F&CKERS!!??)

So..I haven’t dated a Gemini yet, or a Capricorn, or a Taurus, but I did marry a Libra and eventually divorced him. He was a combination of the psycho Pisces, the control freak Scorpio, and the moody, “I’m so much more intelligent than you” Cancer. I haven’t given up on men yet and will still be open to any of the signs despite my past experiences as I do believe everyone of us are unique and as the moon moves from one sign to the next, so do the characteristics of each sign change. Life is what you make it. Give out what you expect to receive and you will not be disappointed if you give it with your whole heart and if someone lets you down and things don’t work out, then thank the universe for allowing you to have the experience anyway and bless it and let it go. All of my experiences with these men have helped me to clarify what it is I want and need in a relationship and when I do fall in love again, I will be very sure that both of us are enriched by the relationship. I don’t mind sharing the limelight with someone who is just as fun and up-beat as I am but I sure don’t want to be dragged down into the hole they’re coming from if they are negative, pessimistic, controlling, or otherwise mentally or emotionally deflating.

My best advice for anyone looking to love a Sagittarius…give them a long leash and they’ll always be happy to come home. If you are a Cancer male…do the lady a favour and stay away. If you are a Cancer female…you could have a wonderful and loving relationship with your Sagittarius man if you control your moodiness and quietly accept his sometimes lack of tact or expression. He might not always choose his words carefully enough for your sensitive nature but please…don’t use tears to try to make him change and for Heaven’s Sake, don’t be clingy! He won’t understand why you’re always throwing water on his fire and will eventually leave and head for the sunny side of the street. Your naturally loving and nurturing manner can cause him to adore you so don’t use coersion or whining to get what you want from him and don’t smother him with love or you’ll be as annoying as a gnat.

Above all…don’t be a doormat, no matter what sign the other person is. Be true to yourself and be open to improving whomever that true self is. We are all here in Earth School and relationships of every kind are what makes us grow and evolve whether it’s a relationship with a lover, a friend, a spouse, a parent, a boss, a child, a neighbour, a teacher, a sibling, etc. It is our experience with these people who shape us and we are all constantly changing and making new choices. Choose Joy. Everything else will fall into place if you, yourself, are happy within your own being. Cheers!