Comments on: Relationship with a Sagittarius Work if Your Signs Are Incompatible

By: kittykat

kittykat — Tue, 27 Apr 2010 22:50:53 +0000

I’m a scorpio and my gf of 7 years is a Sag; one of the most incompatible matches out there! I’m jealous, sensitive, demanding, and in need of commitment, and she is blunt, honest, a partier, and the life of the party. After being told so many times that our signs will never work I almost gave up. But this advice is right…stand your ground, be open-minded and understanding…know that a Sag will be a Sag forever and there’s nothing you can do about it except love them for who they are.

By: saptami

saptami — Tue, 27 Apr 2010 22:06:36 +0000

A VERY WELL-WRITTEN ARTICLE. It does make certain points hard to ignore..Will keep it bookmarked as a reminder .Thanks

By: Michael

Michael — Tue, 13 Apr 2010 05:55:33 +0000

I am a virgo male and have been seeing a female saggitarius. Both of us had previous marriages and have had children that are grown. We have both learned from those marriages that ended. While each of us has our own tendencies each has also learned to overcome the negative characteristics of each sign and we connect intellectually, emotionally and sexually–all at a great level. It is inspiring to both of us how we relate and cannot see or have enough of each other. She does not have a quick temper. Is a responsible mom as she was a single mother for 7 years raising 3 children. I feel like a king when with her and am constantly charmed by her wit and observations and remarks. She is refreshingly open, honest and I trust her completely and never doubt what she says. Why would I. I adore her. She treats me as I have never been treated. Our lovemaking is out of this world as both of us are athletic and in excellent physical health–we can go hours. It is amazing.

By: Deanna

Deanna — Mon, 29 Mar 2010 16:45:13 +0000

My current boyfriend is a Sag. The above article is EXACTLY like him. He is currently away for the military and we were great when he was away.. but now we can only talk online and we constantly fight.. i cant tell you how many times iv taken his words and twisted them around. He doesnt mean what he says in a bad way but it seems that way to me. Im an Aries but on the edge of aries and taurus. (April 19th) He has recently told me that he thinks i hold him down. Hes not feeling the love that we had before and he hates that we constantly bicker all the time. I feel as tho he cares about work more than me. When hes home i had to almost beg him to make time for me. He also told me when we are not together he barely thinks about me because he gets so into his work and whatever else hes doing. its just not fair.. he never shows his emotions and its so hard to tell what hes feeling! Hes like a stone sometimes.. and when he comes back he says we will see how things go and he will choose if we need to take a break or break up

By: Ms. Flying Peacock

Ms. Flying Peacock — Tue, 16 Mar 2010 15:29:42 +0000

I am a sag, and my sister is a cancer. She is the most annoying, sensitive, dagger-throwing, smothering, depressing individual EVER! Constructive criticism is an act of love in my eyes, but in her eyes, they’re ‘fightin words’. Spend too much time with these folks, and jail doesn’t seem nearly as bad. They are loving, responsible, and nurturing, but they are just not for us. PARTY POOPERS!

By: erica

erica — Mon, 15 Mar 2010 00:59:12 +0000

I liked the article…but then again, I’m a Sag P.S. Cancer sign people are TOO SENSITIVE and TOO SMOTHERING . No offense but you probably DID keep him in a box… my ex (also a cancer) unsuccessfully tried to keep me in one for years. I hope you can find another water sign to be on the same page as you…I found another fire sign…MUCH BETTER

By: Donald

Donald — Sun, 28 Feb 2010 08:59:42 +0000

Ex-wife was a Sag and I’m a Cancer. I can totally relate to what Carley wrote. But I’m happier than ever with a non-Sag… not to difficult an accomplishment. My marriage had drained me too.

By: P.G.

P.G. — Tue, 02 Feb 2010 14:50:19 +0000

Hi Carla,

I too am a cancer and my husband is a sagi. We had an arranged marriage a year ago with all the horoscope matching et al. I don know how we could be matched atall when over the year we found out our substantial differences.Being a cancer emotions are my second nature and i cry quiet easily.He abhors it. My sagi is very very close to the description. He is very caring and responsible but finds fault in almost everything i do and essentially in my way of life.he says it is his constant try to make us better as a couple.So he essentially never accepted me as I am.I am sorry your relationship did not work out but i am not giving up on him. With perseverance and endless discussions(fights) i finally have managed to see through this devious sign. Should you meet a Sagi again, let your mind rule you all the time.Don get hurt by his frank comments cause they are mostly just and true.My husband says people should be happy always and that he is not emotionally dependent on me. Heart has very little place if you want a good life with a sagi.Good luck.

By: Palindrome

Palindrome — Thu, 14 Jan 2010 09:48:09 +0000

Sag’s often speak bluntly, but truthfully. The way I read it is that you were trying to contain him, perhaps even jealous of his freedom…which I’m sure that is not why you fell in love. Most are attracted to our free spirit, then spend the relationship accusing and pulling. As for the happy before part, that is harsh, but I imagine those words came from the frustration he had built up trying to figure out why you are so miserable and moody. My mother is a Cancer and my current boyfriend is a Cancer. I feel drained dealing with the both of them..but if you ask them, even though they are busy being selfish, it’s always everyone else’s fault. Kudo’s to your ex for escaping!

By: Carley_loves

Carley_loves — Sat, 26 Dec 2009 17:20:16 +0000

The whole of the above is true but it seems slightly unfair for the other person making all the sacrifices just to please their sag. My Sagittarius ex eventually finished with me (a cancer) 10 months ago after 8 years together, he said in an email, “it feels like you’re trying to keep me in a box” also “I was happy before you I’ll be happy after you”

I feel drained after that relationship.