Bringing back someone who left you is not an easy task. It’s not even an easy decision. So you don’t only think of ideas on how to get your Sagittarius partner back, you also have to figure out why they left in the first place and how to make them stay after.
Reasons. If your Sagittarius partner decided to end your relationship, chances are, they are feeling caged in. Sagittarians value their freedom. Once they feel the walls are closing in on them they will head for the door and won’t look back. Not saying this is the only thing that would make them walk. But it’s the biggest factor. Generally, Sagittarians can be impatient, wild, and are afraid of commitment. They are playful and flirtatious and if you voice out your concerns and let them know you feel insecure or jealous they will lose their interest. You have to have fun with them because all those flirting are just that, flirting. If a Sagittarius wants to end a relationship, they will tell you. If they don’t do that, there’s nothing to worry about.
This is the same as being clingy. Sagittarians are independent. Naturally, they will want their partners to be independent. Just like them. They will start feeling nervous and might even panic if all your decisions depend on what they want or what they need. If you think you should do this because you want to make them feel or to know they are important to you … STOP. If you’re deciding on something, whether it be big or small, just either make a decision first, tell them, and ask: “what do you think?” or “hey I’d like to get your opinion on this”. For them, getting their opinion is better than making them decide themselves. Also, since Sagittarius people are carefree, and yes sometimes careless, making them feel things rely on their decisions will be scary for them. They are independent people but looking after others can be strenuous if they’re not ready to do that.
Getting A Sagittarius Partner Back. Stalking your Sagittarius ex and sending them countless of messages and gifts won’t bring them back. You can’t make it happen right away. So don’t push it. Be patient in planning and executing the things you should do. For one, act nonchalant about it. You don’t have to act like you don’t care. Just say you’re okay with it if he thinks it is best (even if you’re not). Offer to be friends with him/her. That way you won’t lose touch and will still know what’s going on even if you’re not together.
Now one of the most important things to do is to love yourself. It may sound cheesy but it’s the truth. Sagittarius people will not give importance to people who do not think of themselves as important. Be selfish if you must. It’s not always that bad. People in a relationship generally makes does things to please their partner. Just take time off to pamper yourself and do the things that you want and don’t think about what he wants or what he may think about it. You’re not in a relationship anymore so what he thinks should not matter, really.
Build up your confidence again. Chances are, you broke up because you were feeling insecure and he knows it. Sagittarius people are very attracted to confident women. He wants someone he can take with him anywhere and not worry that she might not fit it.
All of these boil down to defining yourself. Boost your self-worth, feel important and be important. Respect yourself. If you don’t do that no one will. Make them feel like it’s their loss and not yours. If you take care of your own needs, stop being clingy and start feeling attractive they will find you attractive again, they will look at you again and who knows, they might want a second change again. If it’s meant to be it will happen.
Steffan – that sounds great!
The sag would argue re money as they very rarely any (earth signs usually come in handy for that!) – missing u already is she?! 😉 lol lol
Great news re yr gym and sister’s friend! Just take it easy with yr sisters friend. If she is yr type of woman, give yourself time to get over yr feelings you hv for the sag and get to know this girl slowly. You don’t want her to become the ‘rebound’ girl !! Enjoy!
Hi yes I know, I guess I still have strong feelings for the sag but i’m going through a stage of real resentment and breaking free from her, ive not felt this strong since we split.
My sisters friend seems really nice and yes I am fully aware of not jumping in to anything too soon, she is girlfriend material no doubt but I’d rather be mentally right before engaging in anything with her if it happens.
It was just nice to have something positive happen.
Bless you Steffan!
It is nice to hv something positive happen and get your confidence back. Please don’t let that ‘resentment’ ‘eat you up’ and spoil who you are though ok?!
I am so glad you are feeling strong again and strong enough to ‘break free’ from her ‘clutch’! It must feel very empowering!! Glad you are in a good place! 😀
Eileen you have been a great support to me too, I’m very lucky to have stumbled across you on this site, you got me through some tough days.
Picking the kids up later and taking them to the park, she said I could stay in the house if I wanted and put them to bed at 8, I said no I will bring them back at 7.20 so she has to be there, I’m not doing anything more to help her lifestyle.
Steffan
Only too glad to help another ‘earthling’ from getting ‘squashed’ by ‘fire’!!! 😉 lol lol
Nice one – you put yr foot down and let her see who is in control here!! Lol lol! I am sure she is already feeling the affects of yr absence !! Lol lol. Keep it up! Relationships are a two way street not one way!! Now She is feeling the affects of being a one way street!! That’s her punishment! She thought she had u ‘sussed’ but now she can see that ‘earthlings’ can ‘switch it up’ when they want to as well!!! Lol lol lol lol
I bet she is seeing the ‘switch’ in you!!!
Put yourself first and your kids will be fine! Its about you and your kids now.
My sag and I are still bonding and getting closer by the minute! It’s a world record but my sag and I hv been able to communicate consistently for 5 weeks without ‘bitchin’ and ‘fallouts’ lol lol lol. He has even uses the term ‘we will….’ in one sentence!!! I can even now refer to him and i in plural form as in ‘us’ without the ‘cold disappearing act’!! Lol lol
He was right to let the time pass from 5 months to 13 months plus because if he had returned to us living together as a coupe after only 5 months … We would hv split up. This way because of time I hv earnt his trust and and he has perhaps understood the meaning of ‘loyalty’. It’s amazing but we are able to communicate so well (easily our mercuries (communication) trine ie mines in Aries and his is in sag). Even though he is Italian it’s like talking to an old school English man ;).
But I do not take these things for granted Steffan and am ‘cautious’ how I word things and do a lot of reading on the sag personality ! Fire changes in many directions at any time so I can’t afford to take my foot of the gas – EVER!! Ehehehehehehehe 😉
Glad we hv managed to be of support to each other – lets keep each other posted.
Ps. I qualified as a nail technician in 2012 but never worked as one so being unemployed as a legal sec I thought I would find around local nail bars and was given the number of a nail bar owner who will be opening up a nail bar in Didcot and I hv an interview on Monday!!! wish me luck!
Hv good evening Steffan.
Glad things are good with your sag, as long as there are comprimises it works, me and my sag would have been together forever but for my mistake, cant go back now.
Her anger is off the scale right now, she is vicious, when i was with the kids last night the daughter asked if i was putting her to bed and I said no I had to see a friend so she burst in to tears aying i’m never home anymore, I broke my heart and cuddled her so hard, so when i dropped them off I thought right, drop your issue with the house and go in and tuck her up to sooth her, when i got to the door i was asked what was wrong with her and I said she is upset i’m not in the house much, she looked in disgust at me and slammed the door, I text her saying i’m willing to tuck her up to make her feel better? she replied with what the hell have you said to her? you caused this, I hope your proud!
I had this 3 more times, anyway phoned sag’s mother about 20 mins later about something different and who answers the phone but my daughter, I asked her what she was doing there and she said mummy took us to nanny’s for the night!!
So daughter is upset and needs comforting, so she ships the 3 to her mothers so she can have a night with this guy!! I was absolutely fuming, my poor kids are secondary to this bloke she has, she has no remorse or guilt, to be honest this is what she was like with me when we started seeing eachother, she drops everything and committs 100% to this bloke, she is going to get burned by this guy and I feel sorry for my babies, really do.
Its a messy situation and I’m trying my best to be grounded and stable for the kids sake, its hard though………… Ive never met such an infuriating stubborn mule in all my life.
Hi Steffan
Sorry to hear your news.
So when you met her did she finish with the guy and went straight to having a relationship with you?
Yes we were both married, confided in each other and ended up together so yes she went straight in to a relationship with me, she has had 2 men in 16 years and 2 men in 4 months! so she is definately having a mid life crisis and trying to relive her youth but I know this girl deep down and I know she isnt happy inside, its a front and it will come spilling out of her sometime soon and i will be the guy she will probably confide in, I am the stability and the rock she craved on.
Hi Steffan
You are a braver person than I!! I am not courageous when it comes to relationships.
You just need to look out for yourself. I’m not ‘out of the woods yet either’! Just know that life is too short for people to play gamed and mess each other around and play with people’s emotions ….
Well we were good mates for 12 years prior and always had chemistry between us, it was inevatable we would be together so we took the plunge.
Its been civil so far this evening, my daughter has a concert so we will be there together, texts are just civil, maybe she is calming herself, me being the laid back virgo does that, those damn flames are retreating!!
Steffan
Enjoy tonight!! You what they say – “play” with fire and you get “burned” make sure you know what you are playing with!!! 😉 lol lol
I’m treading lightly but the Taurus /sag horoscopses does not give any hope for a happy ending!!!
Hv a nice time.
To be honest virgo and sag have mixed reviews too but we would have lasted because we made compromises with eachother, she was wild and free and I learned to love that, whereas she loved my stability and a rock to her, but i struggled with her timekeeping!!!!ha!!
It was pleasant last night, we sat next to each other but she was on the edge of her seat ha! she was in a strange mood I have to say, couldnt look at me and seemed apprehensive, I was a happy boy and playing with the kids.
I went out on my own after!! never done it before, decided to hit the city centre to watch some live music, enjoyed myself to be honest but it was a bit lonely coming home where I was used to chatting to someone, jumping in to bed with someone to cuddle etc.
we spoke this mornig via text and its pleasant and better between us, I just want to get to a stage where were not fighting anymore, I got to be honest I think last night she sees me and realises what a massive decision she has made and chosen the difficult road and not the easy safe road with me. I could sense the apprehension and nervous nature, Clearly this guy only calls when he wants something and I noticed she has taken down all the photos in the house of the kids etc, really sad she has gone to these lengths to hide the fact she has 3 kids, he know for christ sake dont be embarrassed of them!! I felt like saying if she doesnt want the photos i’ll take them and hang them up proudly!!
Its going to be a difficult day for my dear sag when she is alone and nowhere to turn to for comfort, I care about her and still feel a piece of my heart will always be hers but my respect has gone and I cant come back from that now, but being the earthy virgo I would always be there to help her in need and it annoys me my nature is like that because she knows this and has used it to her advantage for 4 months now.
Steffan
You are right in that we can’t judge a relationship via horoscopes it is about compromise as you say and two people wanting to work things out. And at the end of the day ‘people are people’!
Yes! Sags are crap at time keeping which is best not to give time a time! I am crap myself but my sister who is a sag makes me look good when it comes to this area!!
You mention ‘difficult road’ – sags like challenges so this difficult road from her point of view may not be difficult as she was already a single parent with two kids when she met you and even risked having another!! Very risky are sags – not me! Cautious Tauus!
That’s crazy ! Why would anyone take down photos of their kids! Is the kids home!!!! She is a parent – she won’t be able to hide it no matter how hard she tries!!! I don’t understand some people!!
I’m gad you had a good time! It was good that you decided to venture out on yr own! I’ve travelled abroad on my own many times. It’s a great achievement even doing something small on ones own especially if you have not done so before. Keep doing this…. It will be your life for a while. It has been mine for 10 years!! I’m beginning to think I may be even more independent and single minded than my sag!
You will always be there for her (she is also the mother of your child).
Ps. Steffan, that is very much a Virgo trait ‘helping’ people even after acrimonious break ups! My mother is a perfect example!
HI Eileen, hope you had a good weekend?
I was working but got to spend some time yesterday with my boy on fathers day, got my gifts which I was a little dissapointed in considering I went to such an effort for her mothers day, including this year where I got her something really thoughtful, I got a mug and a keyring!! I made the point she went out of her way for my gifts and she replied that I messed up one mothers day 4 years ago (i was drunk the night before so was very hungover, not my proudest moment) She even holds on to that kind of resentment!!!
I’m not sure she is a full blown sag you know, it seems she has a scorpio sting in her because looking over the relationship we were happy but every now and again I would be reminded of my mistakes in the relationship and made to feel pretty bad about it, hence my guilt would mean I would go out of my way to make sure she was happy, she went out with her friends, didnt, I would always offer to stay with the kids and her rather than go out, I was super insecure, she is beautiful and attracts attention which was difficult for me as she loved it and flirted along with it, but if I did the same thing! wow, I would be chastised for months and reminded of my bad behaviour!
I learned to compromise with her but I was doing the compromising, when we were alone we were amazing and she was sweet to me and loved me like no other, but there was 2 sides to her, a selfish side.
We argued again yesterday but we were on speaking terms again last night and this morning I saw her but she looked and seemed troubled, I dont ask anymore if she is ok but its not the sag i know, i think now and again when she sees me it stirs up emotions and she is too stubborn to tell me this, I think she seems to be bending over backwards for this young pup she is with and its not making her happy, I can see it in her now, she wants committment already and he wont give it to her, I know this girl better than anyone and I can read her so well, I offered her committment when we started to gether and she loved that because she is wild and free but needs that rock to bring her stability, I’m proud to say I gave her that.
I’m off to my new gym tonight hoping to meet new people and make new friends there, I havent mentioned this to the sag just that I wont be available for the kids mon, wed and fri which annoyed her yesterday!
We have a family holiday to London booked for August, I guess I’m just going to take the kids as I cant see her going and i’m not sure if it is a good idea for her to go.
Ive been speaking to a few girls online but nothing that grabs me like the sag did, I guess i’m quite fussy and I have a type and I know a lot of my types will be down this gym!!
HI Eileen, hope you had a good weekend?
I was working but got to spend some time yesterday with my boy on fathers day, got my gifts which I was a little dissapointed in considering I went to such an effort for her mothers day, including this year where I got her something really thoughtful, I got a mug and a keyring!! I made the point she went out of her way for my gifts and she replied that I messed up one mothers day 4 years ago (i was drunk the night before so was very hungover, not my proudest moment) She even holds on to that kind of resentment!!!
I’m not sure she is a full blown sag you know, it seems she has a scorpio sting in her because looking over the relationship we were happy but every now and again I would be reminded of my mistakes in the relationship and made to feel pretty bad about it, hence my guilt would mean I would go out of my way to make sure she was happy, she went out with her friends, didnt, I would always offer to stay with the kids and her rather than go out, I was super insecure, she is beautiful and attracts attention which was difficult for me as she loved it and flirted along with it, but if I did the same thing! wow, I would be chastised for months and reminded of my bad behaviour!
I learned to compromise with her but I was doing the compromising, when we were alone we were amazing and she was sweet to me and loved me like no other, but there was 2 sides to her, a selfish side.
We argued again yesterday but we were on speaking terms again last night and this morning I saw her but she looked and seemed troubled, I dont ask anymore if she is ok but its not the sag i know, i think now and again when she sees me it stirs up emotions and she is too stubborn to tell me this, I think she seems to be bending over backwards for this young pup she is with and its not making her happy, I can see it in her now, she wants committment already and he wont give it to her, I know this girl better than anyone and I can read her so well, I offered her committment when we started to gether and she loved that because she is wild and free but needs that rock to bring her stability, I’m proud to say I gave her that.
I’m off to my new gym tonight hoping to meet new people and make new friends there, I havent mentioned this to the sag just that I wont be available for the kids mon, wed and fri which annoyed her yesterday!
We have a family holiday to London booked for August, I guess I’m just going to take the kids as I cant see her going and i’m not sure if it is a good idea for her to go.
Ive been speaking to a few girls online but nothing that grabs me like the sag did, I guess i’m quite fussy and I have a type and I know a lot of my types will be down this gym!!
Hi Steffan.
Glad you are ok.
She probably has a lot of Scorpio in her re resentment. Do her chart! She has a Venus in Scorpio may hv Scorpio placements! So look for her moon which is emotions. Sags don’t hold resentment and bring up later !! Taurus and Scorpio does so she may hv a Taurus and Scorpio moon!
Ignore her moodiness as now you no longer hv to impress her !! 😉 lol
Yes spend time with your child and do things that make you happy and boost yourself esteem and yr ego!
I’m good and I got the nail tech job! A week trial at first (start on Sat)! Chuffed !
E
Hey well done on the job, really pleased for you!!
Here is her chart:
Rising Sign is in 02 Degrees Aquarius
You like new ideas and concepts, but you prefer to discover them by yourself — it is not easy for others to convert you to anything. You form your own opinions, but once you do form them, you then want to convince everyone else that they are correct. Try to be more tolerant of the opinions of others. You have a deep and abiding interest in science, mathematics, and the great social problems of the day. Very sympathetic toward the downtrodden, equality is your battle cry! You demand that those in authority be fair to all. You are an intellectual — emotions and emotional people are difficult for you to understand. You are known for being calm, cool, detached and objective.
Sun is in 03 Degrees Sagittarius.
Very fun-loving, spirited and energetic, you have a huge reservoir of physical energy within you that needs to be released. As such, exercise or sports are very important to you. Quite gregarious, you enjoy being with other people, but you tend to avoid emotionally restrictive or intimate relationships. Constantly curious about the broader issues of life, you may at times be quite careless and sloppy about details — you tend to leap to conclusions before all the facts are in. An avid reader, you are totally enthusiastic about any given subject should it interest you. You are known for being idealistic, generous, sociable, cheerful and very positive!
Moon is in 00 Degrees Gemini.
Restless in the extreme, you are easily bored because of your short attention span. Your emotions change rapidly and you love to talk about your feelings. Generally, you have good judgment — your intellect controls your emotions and you do not overreact emotionally to things. A good jack-of-all-trades, you have many- sided interests and enjoy reasoning things through. With your mental agility and need for physical mobility, you are attracted to traveling and learning about other peoples and cultures. You have vivid powers of emotional self-expression – – you can be a nonstop talker. You love to share your ideas with anyone who will listen.
Mercury is in 22 Degrees Sagittarius.
Your mind is very curious and inquisitive, always seeking information on a wide variety of topics. The broader the subject matter (philosophy, science, religion, metaphysics), the more it will appeal to you. You prefer to deal with abstractions — the small but important details associated with any subject tend to slip your grasp. You are known for being blunt, honest and truthful.
Venus is in 19 Degrees Scorpio.
Your feelings about others are deep, powerful, intense and complex. When you like someone, you do so totally and obsessively if you do not like someone, they do not exist. Your faithfulness and loyalty to your lover is unquestioned, indeed at times it is too much so — you get so possessive that you almost smother your partner. At times, your feelings are kept deep within you and, because they are so complex and intense, they frighten you — this is the way that you try to ignore them. But the more you try to do this, the more explosive things get when you eventually do express them.
Mars is in 09 Degrees Leo.
You are a very proud person. Strong, bold, courageous and self-possessed, you love to be the one to initiate significant actions. When people expect a lot of you, you respond positively and will work hard in order to maintain their respect. But when your dignity or pride is threatened, you tend to become sarcastic, arrogant and domineering. Try not to take any challenge or resistance that you meet as a personal affront. You are very stubborn about your right to live your life according to your own principles.
Jupiter is in 04 Degrees Cancer.
You must be emotionally secure in order to grow and develop. You are happiest when your family and community support and nourish you and boost your morale. Whether your childhood experiences of love and emotional dependability were positive or negative will set the tone for your emotional growth and stability as an adult. When you feel at ease with yourself, you are able to offer assistance to those who need a helping hand.
Saturn is in 00 Degrees Virgo.
Your life must be orderly and practical and full of known and familiar routines in order for you to feel comfortable with yourself. Be careful, however, not to let “order” become the be-all and end-all of your life, or you may become cold, crass and unfeeling. Doing useful, practical things boosts your self- esteem. Abstract concepts and reasoning seem frivolous and a waste of time to you. You are very critical of yourself (and others), indeed at times quite self-deprecating. Try to relax a bit and allow yourself the freedom to fail once in a while. However, you probably won’t fail very often because you are such a perfectionist.
Uranus is in 13 Degrees Scorpio.
You, and your peer group, demand to confront life at its deepest and most meaningful levels. Very compulsive and obsessive in your approach to everything, you will avoid anything that is casual or superficial, especially when it comes to relationships. You will seek out and explore new methods of healing as well as different ways to deal with deep-seated emotional problems.
Neptune is in 15 Degrees Sagittarius.
You, and your entire generation, are heavily involved in investigating and idealizing foreign and exotic intellectual systems and religious philosophies. The most extreme ideals will be pursued with gusto. You will be at the forefront of humanitarian attempts to improve the lot of those who are in need of assistance. You will be comfortable with the concept of the “global village.”
Pluto is in 15 Degrees Libra.
For your entire generation, this is a time of radical changes in society’s attitude toward marriage and interpersonal relationships. There is a general fear and awe at the power inherent in making emotional or contractual commitments — they will not be entered into lightly.
N. Node is in 14 Degrees Libra.
You find it very difficult to be comfortable being alone — you would much prefer to be in an environment where many people are working together toward common goals. Your charming and sincere approach to others assures your popularity — you have the gift of being able to ease tensions just by your mere presence. You’re the perfect “team player” willing to sacrifice your own importance so that the group goal can be accomplished. Be careful, however, not to become overly dependent on your interactions with others — you have personal private needs that should not be neglected.
I’m talking online to a Libra at the moment and getting on really well, I also went to my new gym last night and they were great, really enjoyed myself.
Interesting her moon is Gemini?
Hi Steffan
Thanks! I’m really excited to now use my creative skills and new challenges in this arena! I eventually want to hv my own salon and this is a step in the right direction !! My sag is really happy and he is even says ‘lets do this’!! Lol lol!! So he is very supportive and is behind me 100% and will support me in my endeavours when he arrives!! I’m happy!
My sag has 4 water signs 3 earth sign (Taurus moon) which is great so he is more grounded and very emotional whereas your sag has a horrid ‘rising in Aquarius (aquarius can never have enough space !!! Very distant unemotional people!) and Gemini moon not good !! Too ‘light hearted’ not at all emotional either ! In fact your sag has too many signs in air ie Gemini, Aquarius and libra!! Not enough earth or fire ( earth Is stable and fire is passionate) and they are not ‘fixed’ signs! Whereas my sag has three fire placements in leo which is fixed and I hv two fire placements in Leo and earth signs are fixed so he is easier to stay one place ie fixed whereas you sag will always be ‘on the move because of Gemini and acquarius placements. She only seems to have two water placements (in Scorpio) which makes her not very emotional even though Scorpio is a fixed sign. My sag also has a Venus in Scorpio (this sign loves very deeply with great intensity and is fixed). He also has two other water signs in Pisces which is a very understanding and gentle sign which makes him quite vulnerable and therefore easier to keep stable once you hv earned his trust …
Your sag has too much air in her chart and even her fire placement is in sag which is unstable anyway !! God help anyone who can ‘hold her down’!!
What are your placements ? Glad you are socialising !
E
Staffan
My sag shares his sun/Venus/mars and mercury as your sag.
E
Hi Eileen, I’m learning loads here!! Here is mine::
Rising Sign is in 27 Degrees Taurus
Calm and deliberate, you hate to move quickly or act hastily. Very practical, every effort must count or you can’t be bothered. Patient, persistent and steady, but very stubborn — you can’t be pushed or pressured into anything. You seem outwardly self-assured because you tend to repress your inner tension and turmoil. You exude an earthy warmth, friendliness and charm. You demand comfortable surroundings and appreciate the good life. Be careful of a tendency to be overly self-indulgent. At times, you are lazy and difficult to motivate. Overcoming inertia is a problem for you and, because you are not by nature a self-starter, it is often necessary for you to receive stimuli from others in order to get moving.
Sun is in 16 Degrees Virgo.
Extremely careful and cautious by nature, you value neatness and order above all else. You rigorously practice very high standards of living and conduct and you demand the same of everyone with whom you come into contact. At times, you are so supercritical that you are merely nit-picky. You are very good at practical skills and quite handy with tools of all kinds. You are also greatly concerned with hygiene, cleanliness and personal health problems. Very likely your health is much better than you think it is — don’t worry so much! Extremely methodical and analytical, you are a perfectionist — this makes you the perfect person to carry out highly detailed, precise operations. But, at times, you pay so much attention to details that you lose sight of the larger issues.
Moon is in 22 Degrees Cancer.
For the most part, you are very strong and secure emotionally. You intuitively know what to do to make others feel comfortable, loved, accepted and needed. You naturally enjoy feeding and taking care of others. Be careful that your mothering does not turn into smothering. At times, you tend to feel that those to whom you are attached can never do anything without your assistance and support. Extremely sensitive by nature, it hurts you deeply whenever anyone criticizes you. You have an almost desperate need to be loved and wanted and needed by everyone with whom you come into contact, and you go out of your way to be accommodating to them.
Mercury is in 09 Degrees Virgo.
Very thorough and efficient, you pay attention to the minor but important details of any project. You are a careful thinker who can learn complicated, intricate techniques. You are attracted to practical, useful skills and are probably good at working with your hands. You are very critical of yourself and others, sometimes too much so, and you get the reputation of being a nag or of being nit-picky. Your first reaction to any situation is to try to organize, classify and analyze everything!
Venus is in 13 Degrees Leo.
You have a striking, regal appearance and demeanor that attracts others to you. Your friendship is highly sought and you tend to take friendships quite seriously — you remain loyal and true to those to whom you are attached. For you, love is mixed with pride and respect. Relationships are over when you lose respect for your partner. Be careful of a tendency to relate only to those who make you look good — the powerful, important and influential. This can lead to arrogance and selfishness, and neither of these qualities becomes you.
Mars is in 04 Degrees Cancer.
Your moods are very important to your overall well-being. You are confident and self-assertive when you are feeling upbeat, and you are retiring, irritable and grumpy when you get depressed about anything. Very sensitive, you wear your heart on your sleeve. You are easily angered whenever you think someone has slighted you. It is best for you to show your anger immediately and let it all out, rather than to try to hold it in or to hold grudges for a long time. You’re extremely loyal and defensive of your family, neighborhood, community and culture.
Jupiter is in 02 Degrees Cancer.
You must be emotionally secure in order to grow and develop. You are happiest when your family and community support and nourish you and boost your morale. Whether your childhood experiences of love and emotional dependability were positive or negative will set the tone for your emotional growth and stability as an adult. When you feel at ease with yourself, you are able to offer assistance to those who need a helping hand.
Saturn is in 23 Degrees Leo.
Extremely self-reliant, you set very high standards of conduct and decorum for yourself, and you expect others with whom you associate to be that way, too. It is important that you had a strong father figure or role model early in life to mold your life course and direction. When you feel that those around you are unworthy or behaving badly, you withdraw, preferring solitude rather than associating with those who might besmirch your reputation.
Uranus is in 08 Degrees Scorpio.
You, and your peer group, demand to confront life at its deepest and most meaningful levels. Very compulsive and obsessive in your approach to everything, you will avoid anything that is casual or superficial, especially when it comes to relationships. You will seek out and explore new methods of healing as well as different ways to deal with deep-seated emotional problems.
Neptune is in 13 Degrees Sagittarius.
You, and your entire generation, are heavily involved in investigating and idealizing foreign and exotic intellectual systems and religious philosophies. The most extreme ideals will be pursued with gusto. You will be at the forefront of humanitarian attempts to improve the lot of those who are in need of assistance. You will be comfortable with the concept of the “global village.”
Pluto is in 12 Degrees Libra.
For your entire generation, this is a time of radical changes in society’s attitude toward marriage and interpersonal relationships. There is a general fear and awe at the power inherent in making emotional or contractual commitments — they will not be entered into lightly.
N. Node is in 15 Degrees Libra.
You find it very difficult to be comfortable being alone — you would much prefer to be in an environment where many people are working together toward common goals. Your charming and sincere approach to others assures your popularity — you have the gift of being able to ease tensions just by your mere presence. You’re the perfect “team player” willing to sacrifice your own importance so that the group goal can be accomplished. Be careful, however, not to become overly dependent on your interactions with others — you have personal private needs that should not be neglected.
Hey Steffan
I’m surprised you both lasted 6 years!!! You probably had to do ‘heaps’ of compromising to make this work according to your chart! No one wonder you felt you had to be someone else to keep her interested! Your main areas of compatibilty do not (trine – which means eg my sag and my mercuries trine ie his is in sag and mine is in aries. Different planets but both in fire = trine!). Square is eg fire and earth. Opposities eg Taurus and Scorpio.
You and your sags planets square on the most important areas of making a relationship work. See below:
Her rising – aquarius squares your rising in Taurus
Sun in sag squares your sun in virgo
Moon in Gemini squares your moon in (emotionally sensitive) cancer
Mercury in sag squares your mercury in virgo
Venus in Scorpio squares yr Venus in Leo (with s Venus in water they love deeply so usually fare better with another water sign or an earth sign like sensual Taurus)
Mars in Leo squares your mars in cancer
As you can see all those placements square each making it very difficult to relate.
My chart for my sag and I
His rising is Pisces – mine is Leo – square
Sun in sag squares my sun in Taurus
Moon in Taurus squares my moon in Leo
Mercury in sag trines my mercury in Aries
Venus in scropio trines my Venus in Pisces
Mars in Leo squares my mars in taurus
If you look at my sags and my chart we have four placements that square each other so it may not look good on paper but if you break it down his rising is in Pisces my Venus is in Pisces (I can relate to this placement); his sag sun squares my Taurus sun but his moon is in Taurus (moon is the emotions – so because I am a Taurus sun I know how to feed his emotions ;)) and a Leo moon placement is the best fire placement to put with an earth moon like Taurus especially if this Leo moon placement is in a female; his mars is in Leo which squares my Taurus moon but because I have a Leo rising AND a moon in Leo I know how to keep him sweet ie Leos like lots of praise and attention so I know how to keep sweet if he does anything for (mars is how you act – action).
So as you can see if you compare our charts to you and your sag it is easier for me to be me and ‘win him over’ as We have trine signs and his square signs I have in my chart and can relate to. He also has 4 signs in water whereas I only have 3 in water which makes him emotional and sensitive. I also hv 3 fire signs one of which is in communication which he also has in a fire sign.
You and your sag square on all these important planets. The one sign placement you share is Leo but unfortunately for you it is in yr Venus (love) and in her Mars (action) which is not very helpful!!
In those main areas she has mainly air and fire and you have mainly earth and water!! So one one you must have had to do a lot of ‘bending’, ‘compromising’ and not being totally true to yourself in order to make this relationship work in the long run. I think this was you as you had stated you were “not totally honest with your sag and she heard stuff through other people things that you did not tell her….’
Can you see this?
E
Wow, really doesnt look good eh?! I’m gutted to be honest, I guess I was compromising a lot, I’m still so attached to her and I cant shake it off. I have this horrible hole in my gut right now, miss her badly and i’m really worried about life without her, mad considering the chart!!
Eileen your very talented and I have learnt a lot, I think you would make a great astrological relationship therapist, you have really helped me and guide me.
I’m having my boy tonight so i’m going to cuddle him to bits, need him right now.
Hi Steffan
Glad to be of help!! Unfortunately for you, you have too much cancer in you ! Sorry but horrid placement for a man! Cancers are weak.. Smotherly, motherly emotional… You have three placements this sign and also one in Scorpio! So basically 4 water placements which makes you too emotional and one 3 in cancer ! Not good – especially your moon. Your emotions too weak! Her moon in Gemini makes her indifferent, light hearted emotionally ! Your moon is EXTREMELY dependent whereas her moon in extremely independent! Cancers are very clingy!!! They need a lot of ‘tea and sympathy’!! Your mars and Jupiter both masculine planets are also in cancer – which is not at all dominant or masculine. That’s why she is able to have this effect on you. I understand how you feel right now but if your Jupiter, moon and Mars were in fire signs of mars (Leo) moon or with air placements (sag or Gemini) you would hv been in more control.
Don’t look forward (i am guilty of this too!! – planning – always planning). Only look forward or plan things you can control. When it comes to relationships and the situation u are in at present, for your own well being and so as not to cause yourself unnecessary anxiety take one day at a time in the “present” format.
I have always taken people as they are unconditionally without trying to change them (my Venus in Pisces) and have never changed myself for anyone (Leo rising, Leo moon – strong Leo elements). But I had to find out more about the behavior of my sag and what makes him tick and his emotions etc and did a lot of research and this helped me deal with his emotions and behavior and I also studied my charts and found similarities. He is the only relationship I hv done this for as I was determined to understand him and our elements of earth and fire and try and make it work. He is not into astrology and many people do not believe in it. I only do to a certain extent but found that doing both our charts individually and comparing them with the time available to me (as we are not yet living together) i could look for our positives and our “pitfalls’ and ‘silently’ ‘guide’ things.
So my advice, for your next relationship. Do your charts and compare research. Even if not compatible you will be one step ahead! 😉
E
Steffan
Ps. Enjoy yr time with yr boy !
E
Steffan
Do the Chinese horoscope!
I am horse (in fact a fire horse as I was born in 1966) so I am very much like a horse in action as so is a sag! So I can relate to a sag on that level (minus their need for flirting of course – I put that down to insecurity !! Lol). And my sag is a tiger in Chinese horoscopes and apparently for chinese horoscopes we are the perfect match.
Check out yours and your sags!
E
Were both snakes!!! is that good!??
your spot on, I’m so emotional its bizarre, she hates me being emotional and it was bordering her taking the mick out of me, I felt she was cold emotionally when we split but red hot emotionally when we were together so going from that red hot to cold in a short space of time messed my head up.
I’m still confused after we had sex 2 weeks ago because she was sending messages to me all night which were insinuating we would, she doesnt like to talk about that night and its left me reeling but I cant do no more but as little as 2 weeks ago she let down her barrier and showed a glimpse of what she felt for me.
I’m chatting to a libra and she is cool, I was with a Libra for 4 yrs until she left me for someone else!! so not sure! I’m also chatting to a Sag!! I know!! but this sag has some qualities of my ex but not as impulsive as my ex, its nice i’m enjoying the chats and it keeps my mind off the ex.
Gym again tonight, i’m determined to build up a new network of friends, I have my friends from school but they dont live nearby so new start, back to the confident steff that attracted the sag in the first place instead of the weak, emotional wreck she see’s now. I want to take my time finding a woman and I want it to be right, dont think the Libra or the sag i’m talking to fit the bill for me personally but its nice to be chatting and socialising, i’m meeting the Libra on friday.
Hey Steffan
What you need to do is ‘feel’ the connection with the person. Because you have so much water in you it makes you emotionally intuitive as well as ’emotional’. I don’t date. A had a few last year before the sag and hey never get past date two. If I can’t feel a deep connection then it is too light and superficial for me. When I met the sag I feel a connection which was so deep I felt I had known him before in a past life. I can still feel his presence now when I first felt it strongly when he was cooking in my kitchen last year… Being with him ‘felt right’ and a curiosity about him.
Go my your emotional intuition not by just beauty. Your sag may hv been beautiful and you knew her before you got together which is probably why you did not ‘feel’ her out! You are too emotional to be with a ‘lighthearted’ person. You need someone who has the same emotional depth as you who can appreciate as well as understand your emotional side and needs and who will not laugh at it or gain the upper hand out of it (it seems as though your sag enjoyed having the upper hand). Because of this your sag was able to use it against you and I think “secretly” she did.
Your cancer planets are really delicate which makes you delicate at sensitive. You need someone who is also like this
Glad you are getting out and about and getting your confidence back.
Steffan
Snake
In the Chinese zodiac, the Snake is listed after the Dragon, but its place and its significance as a symbol of worship is far less than that of the Dragon. it carries the meanings of malevolence, cattiness and mystery, as well as acumen, divination and the ability to distinguish herbs. In some places, people believe that a snake found in their court can bring delight. During Spring Festival, people like to paste onto their doors and windows the paper-cut ‘Fu’ character (happiness), combined with a snake twisting around a rabbit onto their doors and windows as a popular pattern indicating wealth.
Strengths
They often have a good temper and a skill at communicating but say little. They possess gracious morality and great wisdom. They are usually financially secure and do not have to worry about money. They have tremendous sympathy for others and would like to take actions to help ther fellow human beings. They are determined to accomplished their goals hate to fail. Although they look calm on the surface, they are intense and passionate. They have a rich source of inspiration and understand themselves well. They are people of great perception. Women under the sign of the snake do well in housework but are irritable.
Weaknesses
They are likely to be jealous and suspicious. They should be cautious about what they discuss with others, as it might cause them to lose friendship and opportunities. They tend to overdo things. They prefer to rely on themselves and have doubts about other people’s judgment. They are courteous with polite manners, but they can be headstrong. They are fickle and usually have problems in relationships or marriage problems.
Hi Eileen, thats interesting about the snake, the weaknesses are very accurate!!
Ive grown in strength this week, felt good going to the gym and me and the sag sat in the garden on friday afternoon and spoke about general things, she is taking note of my extra activities, I also made a point of saying I wasnt available next saturday night because I was out, she is inquisitive to say the least, she seemed quite drained too not her usual self, anyway I went to the gym but when I got out I had a text from her with a picture of our baby boy, she said “look at this!” so we ended up exchanging a few texts saying how well we have done etc and we were bantering back and forth, I stopped as I was going on this date (went well but dont think its anything long term) so she is obviously reminiscing and thinking of me at this point? is it because I’m getting on with life, i’m laid back, dare I say it starting to be confident Steff again??
we had a nice exchange this morning about what she was up to today and organising my boy to stay with me tonight, we both have hinted about taking the kids away to france this summer but were both not sure for obvious reasons and we both agreed to see where we are at that point in time.
Anyway in the meantime I love this gym and the people there so i’m going to make full use of that, her jealous snake side has come out I guess!!!!
steffan
You have come so far that you can “read” her “ploys” straight away! Touché! Your thoughts same as mine ie she can see you getting your confidence back and ‘getting on with your singular life’ and she does not like it one little bit. Thank her politely for the pics, but please do not let her fool you. She will be ‘spinning webs’ like there is no tomorrow just to get you back where she wants you.
Steffan, until she ‘makes you can offer you can’t refuse’ ie sits you down and has an adult conversation about yr relationship with each other and lays all her cards on the table and is willing to serious go to counseling etc to try and repair your relationships in the terms of COMPLETE forgiveness for you … You carry on your life as a single young man and enjoy yr life. Life is too short… “There’s a big world out there and you want to explore it….” – this quote is not just for irresponsible Peter pan and thumbelina sags who don’t want to grow up and face the real world and take care of their adult responsibilities.
She made her decision (it was not all her fault) she found she could not forgive and therefore decided to struggle along as a single parent of three very young children – her choice. She made her bed and she can now lie in it. Fire people are ‘hasty’ in their decisions. There is a saying that goes ‘…. in haste repent at leisure..’. There may come a time when she realizes that perhaps she made a wrong judgment by that time you would hv moved on and she will be left to repent in her own time…..
Sometimes sags are just a little tooooooo optimistic which is a thing I don’t always like about them. They always think that life and people are always gonna be on their side and that they will always have what they want when they want…. Not always…
As I said above Steffan, please be cautious – do not get hoodwinked by her. Sags can be secretly sly in getting what they want. You are still in a very very vulnerable stage – only arrange things with her ie holiday in France when you are totally over her and in a strong position or until she ‘makes you an offer you can’t refuse’ as I said above.
It is hard, but you are gaining strength day by day please do not let her destroy or influence that. When she ask you about your personal life reveal very little… Sags like the challenge of puzzles, figuring things out. A lot of relationships with sags end because for them the puzzle has been solved there is nothing more for them to find out about that person they get bored and move on greener exciting pastures and the same scenario repeats itself over and over and over again. Now you are no longer with her you have a chance to take up new hobbies friendships go to places you never been before and never been with her. Reinvent yourself ie ALWAYS be true to you as a person (your inner core, your being, your personality) but change up things ie new hair cut a couple new outfits, new hobbies. Widen your circle of friends ie different cultures learn a language. When she ask you things about what you been doing (as she will) tell her you hv been doing new things but don’t reveal everything. Short and sweet. Basically, if she wants to know about what you do these days she needs to be in it right?! 😉 do you get where I am coming from. ALWAYS have a few secrets of your own. ALWAYS keep sag guessing.
This is your chance to ‘shed’ the old skin of the last 6 years you were with her. Be like the snake.. Slowly shed that skin and become a new YOU because you are important and you owe it to YOU to do this.
I shed and reinvent myself every new year!! I always have new ideas new goals learning new things… It’s good for the soul.
Shed your old skin Steffan and get a brand new shiny fresh one!! 😀
Hey Eileen, thanks for that, yeah I can see the fishing rod trying to reel me in!
I’m really making a conscious effort to not be interested in her life and making a new life for myself, I feel a lot more empowered than before, it just caught me off guard sending me that pic especially as the night before we argued badly and it sunk to new depths and we were both pretty horrid to each other, I apologised later and left it at that.
She is far from over me and she is holding on but I can’t wait like a lemon, I’m really getting stuck in to the gym and this will really get her jealous because she is a fitness fanatic plus the women here are her equals in fitness terms so it’s going to be hard for her to see something of “hers” socialising and spending as much time as I can with them, I’m already feeling my body change for the better, I’ve lost 2 stone during this split so in seeing it go back on and I’m getting confident because of it, she sees this too hence I think the France thing came up.
I may have mentioned this before but she completely cut out her ex when she split with him but with me she wants me around, that is the hope I’ll carry but in the meantime I’m going to have fun like she is doing.
Steffan
Glad to see you are getting your life back.
Try not to ‘second guess’ how YOU think she feels. She broke up with you and there does not seem to be any signs (so far) that she will change… Only time can tell.
I am not friends with any of my exes and I found that there is a very thin line between love and hate and the deeper you love someone you can also hate them with the same deep passion. I find that relationships that stir the well of emotions are the hArdest to be friends with once the relationship is over. There may hv been deep reasons why she did not stay in touch with him ie physical abuse? But sags like an eze life, so keeping in touch with exes instead of ‘cutting the ambilical cord and reserving this exes as ‘fwb’ when they have a ‘dry spell’ also comes in handy!!! Plus you have a child with her.
So basically anything you do do it for YOU and not think of what she is doing or how anything you do will affect her
Hey Eileen, She just fell out of love with her ex husband (I knew her whilst she was with him and she confided in me) but I have to say since our horrific blow out on thursday we have been really good with each other, i think we both needed to scream at each other and get things off our chest, since then its pleasant and friendly with no issues. I have my own thing I get on with and so does she, I said I had started to put weight on and she said with a smile “I thought you looked fat” so I said “I noticed your still as bitchy” so we are bantering.
I’m not looking too much in to it as its down to her now if she wants this again, I cant change her mind, thats all I can do is love myself, get confident again and show her that i’m back to being the old steff, She is a fantastic woman and i’m ashamed that I let her down, she only wanted an honest boyfriend and I didnt provide that.
hopefully the door is open to 2nd chances and she will see that in time……. yes TIME, time is the key here so i’ll take advantage of the free time I have and maybe this will intrigue her. I’m really not in to anyone at the moment because i’m very much still sag consumed! but I control it better than I used to.
We even text eachother goodnight last night……….
Hi Steff
That is good news. Glad to see that you and yr sag are getting along much better. Yes, honesty, truth and loyalty are very important parts of a relationship. Although i do think that sags are hard work in that they expect an awful lot from their partners and not so forthcoming themselves ! You hv to show SOLID trust keep yr word loyalty to get a sag to open up and trust a person. But this takes an awful lot of time…. They Are very emotional unsure insecure people who need an awful amount of unconditional love and understanding.
My sag called me last night. He wants to come ‘home’ asap. So i am expecting him in next 4-6 weeks !! I asked him to be 110% true to his own heart that he is certain that I am the woman he wants to be with and he replied “yes I am certain”. I told him it will be an upheaval at first and he said ‘Angel. We will upheaval then’… Sag optimism …lol lol you gotta love em huh????!
Keep me posted Steffan.
Ps. Steffan enjoy yr single life but as you say do not force yourself to date or go for another relationship. I hv not dated or been near another man since my sag went abroad in May 2013. I only hv eyes and heart for him and he knows that. It’s gonna take a long long time to get that sag out of yr system also never forget there is always room for second chances. Always keep in mind that the door is only “shut”- not “locked”! 😉
Hi Eileen, thats great news, I do love the sag optimism and it made me a better man being with my sag, I fed off her energy and active, optimistic nature, I guess we complemented each other with my grounded nature and I guess you will be the same with your sag.
I got upset with her this morning she said to me that we should organise set times for contact, I asked why she wont tell the kids about us and she said that she hopes they get used to me not being around, i’m gobsmacked at her lack of compassion on this, she could see I was visibly upset.
She text me after to say “sorry, dont want to upset you” clearly she is brushing negativity aside whilst her love life has taken a turn for the better.
I dont think I can take the responsibility of telling the kids without her say so or involvement? Why is she holding off?? this new relationship wont last and she must know that in the back of her mind?
Hey Steffan
With regards to the kids, the last thing you want Is for yr kids to grow up thinking that you ‘slowly distanced’ yourself from them without due care or reason and that is what will happen if u leave it to her.
You are the MAN not her. YOU need to sit her down and tell her that you do not want kids to feel that you distanced yourself from them and for them to feel that you did care about them so you both tell the children together or you will… Your reputation with your children is on the line her. What’s more important her or your kids? You hv nothing to lose?
Yeah I know, the fact she apologised afterwards is her way of saying she is in the wrong, in 6 years I have learnt that she does not like admitting she is wrong so she does it in other ways!!
I’m seeing the kids later so i’ll see how it is with her.
steffan
Cool. I know – sags have a hard time admitting they are wrong and even apologizing when they are in the wrong!!! Hard work!!
Hey Eileen, How was your weekend? I had my first night out in months and it was ok, I enjoyed, she text me to ask how it was so we exchanged a couple of texts, just chit chat and that was it, quite proud of myself, she asked me in the morning how i got home etc.
I wore her favourite shirt of mine, she said I look super handsome in it just 3 weeks ago so I wore knowing she would see me out in it having fun via fb through my sisters photos, she hasnt said anything but no doubt she saw it, she seems a bit strange at the moment, very unhappy, I dont think this 25yr old is living up to her expectations and she seems to be talking to other guys too because I was visiting the kids and her phone went off twice in front of me and they were 2 guys, so I dont know what she is playing at.
but I have stepped back, she hasnt spoken to me since yesterday apart from a text asking what time im seeing the kids tonight.
I went out with a Libra last night, 2nd date but I told her everything and she was really appreciative I told her, she fancies me but she can see i’m still hung up about my ex, she gave me great advice and wants to be friends with me, so were off to the cinema this week, its really nice to speak to a female face to face.
Hi Steffan
I’m fine. Really bze with new job as a nail tech! Really bze and physically exhausting but enjoying it! I cld not work in an office again!
My sag and I had a bit on a ‘to do’ last week Fri. So I did not contact him (held my ground). He would usually delete my numbers block me etc. But none of that … He contacted me today (6 days later) and we had a good conversation. Which was great! So now I truly know that he has changed so much and he is proving to me that he is certain I am the woman for him. Now I know that we can have a disagreement and I can voice my opinion (as I always hv done whether he like it or not) in knowledge that he will not ‘reject’ me or ‘block’ me and that our relationship is solid and we are on the same page. All I hv to do is give him His space; not contact him, carry on with my life and the rest I leave to him….
I am hoping we will be together at end July beg Aug.
Glad that you are getting on with life and meeting néw people. Good – get out, meet new people, feel attractive again to new people and you will start to feel even better about yourself. Everything will slot into place. Hope the kids are well.
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@Eileen
not to be disrespectful, Two words ‘Self Love’. Stop waiting on this guy hands and feet, no guy wants a girl that does not have their own life, live for you, go out with friends enjoy life post of pictures of your adventures show him that you don’t need him. Stop waiting on this guy. You are only hurting yourself. Women don’t know the power they have, majority just don’t know how to use it. You are a Queen. Find a way to build you confidence, every guy loves a confident woman, and sometimes are intimidated by them, but at the end of the day it all boils down to self love, you can’t love someone else until you love you!. If it’s been 12months and he has not changed well hunny he never will and that’s the cold truth, it aint gonna happen. If you love yourself you wouldnt be doing this .. all i’m hearing is be patient .. No! sometimes we need to be selfish and start living for us .. Dont allow on person to hve so much control over you. Take back your power.
OMG this is so nonesense lol :))
You’re just USD wannabes.
I’ve become very close w a Sag lady, we are both exiting marriages but when I said I’d like to date her, she pulled back. I feel like she was putting me in the friend zone until I see her and she gives me those ‘please bear with me…I really want you’. Any suggestions? Thank you !
I’m very happy to read this. This is the kind of manual that needs to be given and not the random misinformation that’s at the other blogs. Appreciate your sharing this greatest doc.
Ladies, i am a Sag. Trust me on this, if you want your Sag man back, just follow every and each word in the article. That stuff would work with me big time. It will take time and sometimes it will not at all. I will add something on top of it; make jealous!! Yes, get him jealous but do not ever kiss a guy or do anything stupid with another guy infront of him!! He will get so angry at you and disappear. We Sag. whenever we feel that our ex. is still in love with us, that makes her look weak in our eyes. So, if there is a party, make sure that you come late so he sees you walking in with another man. Make sure you give your attention to that man. Your Sag will be having his eyes all over you without showing you that. He will sure call you later to take you out on “friendly dinner/lunch or coffee”. He will be asking couple of questions about that guy. Act confident and say we are hanging out as friends. He won’t like the idea even if he’s a friend. Look classy/sexy to when you meet him (TRUST ME ON THIS)!! Wear them tight skirts /dresses with heels. Look sharp and intelligent. What would drives him wild and wanting you like crazy is that always have that class/ secretary office sexy outfit. He will be running after you like you never knew him before 😉
And always, make sure to tease him even by words! Just give him that small dirty idea and he will create a whole essay out of it in his head 😉
Get your Sags back because we can be the most faithful ever if you know how to deal with us
All the best ladies :*